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View Poll Results: do you believe in sex before getting marriage?
yes 22 55.00%
no 12 30.00%
maybe 3 7.50%
i don't know 4 10.00%
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Old 06-04-2009, 05:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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yes i think we all shuld to get marriage first then have a families?
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Old 06-04-2009, 05:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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yes i think we all shuld to get marriage first then have a families?
Are you going to get married soon ?
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Old 06-04-2009, 05:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Just be yourself....I admit I had sex before marriage.... Some do believe wait till she/he get married. Everyone are different.
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Old 06-04-2009, 07:14 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I believe getting married First before attempting to have a child....but casual sex with a condom/birth control, is up to the couple....As for teen sex, NO WAY!...But it's happening anyway.
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Old 06-04-2009, 07:21 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Sex before marriage is a sin.
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Old 06-04-2009, 08:12 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I had sex before I was married. Lets just say I wanted to try out the product beforehand.
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Old 06-04-2009, 08:56 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I had sex before I was married. Lets just say I wanted to try out the product beforehand.
That explains why you married him. j/k
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Old 06-04-2009, 09:00 PM   #8 (permalink)
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That explains why you married him. j/k

One of the reasons.
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Old 06-05-2009, 01:43 AM   #9 (permalink)
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many million people got sex before marriages that not good choices!! and also teenagers not good choice have sex!!

i can wait have sex with my boyfriend
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Old 06-05-2009, 08:40 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I had sex before I got married. I suggested my daughter to be wait until first marriage then she will have sex and have children. I hope she listen to me.
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Almost everybody have kid before marriage.
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Old 06-05-2009, 04:24 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I had sex before marriage. No biggie.
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Old 06-05-2009, 07:00 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I had sex before marriage and I am so glad I did it because I did not want to getting married very young age. If I wanted to wait to get married to have sex then I would have married at 18. No thanks. I never got pregnant till after we got married.
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Old 06-05-2009, 07:03 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Almost everybody? Where is your proof? Not us and not my kids and many people I knew never got pregnant before they got married. U know some people never got married and are living together for many years.
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i told my mom about if she had sex with my dad longtimes ago before both got marriages and she says got it just few times when my parents very young that why my mom told me explain.
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Old 06-05-2009, 07:40 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I also used protection when I had sex before I was married.

Both of my kids were conceived and born, while I was married.
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Old 06-05-2009, 10:43 PM   #17 (permalink)
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you cant stop teenagers, they have sexual hormones firing on all cylinders, and half a century ago girls were getting married at 18, a further half century ago married at 15 or younger in some places as young as 12 (India still does it)
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that is true and i know it is sad.
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Yes I had sex before marriage and have babies after marriage.
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Old 06-06-2009, 01:49 AM   #20 (permalink)
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this is why i support pre-martial sex.

this would suck.

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Old 06-06-2009, 12:41 PM   #22 (permalink)
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yes and I think it should be mandatory!
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Old 06-06-2009, 05:14 PM   #23 (permalink)
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yes and I think it should be mandatory!
I tend to agree! Sexual relations is such a big part of relationships to me. I would hate to marry a man who had a different sex drive and level of kink than me. Being compatible in and out of the sack are equally important to me.
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i had sex once before marriage i don't care
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Old 06-06-2009, 11:36 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I say yes,got to try it out
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Old 06-07-2009, 01:23 AM   #26 (permalink)
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How would you know you actually had married a man, you could have married a woman for all you know if you wait until marriage. That's a risk I wouldn't take.
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Old 06-07-2009, 06:55 AM   #27 (permalink)
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How would you know you actually had married a man, you could have married a woman for all you know if you wait until marriage. That's a risk I wouldn't take.
That would be so mess up


I wonder if that ever happen to someone?

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Old 06-08-2009, 07:49 PM   #28 (permalink)
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How would you know you actually had married a man, you could have married a woman for all you know if you wait until marriage. That's a risk I wouldn't take.
Lol.
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yes and I think it should be mandatory!
Why? What if the spouse found out and not satsify then divorce him/her cuz they do not satsify each other. Must know if eachother is compatible or not before they are being married or stuck with no sex for rest of life. I happen to know many couples who have no sex for many years. I must know if a man is interest in me and my body not being ingornant. Thank god my husband is crazy and is in deep love with me after being together 30 years.
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That would be so mess up


I wonder if that ever happen to someone?
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