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Unread 05-18-2009, 05:25 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Thumbs up if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheat on you? how would you react to the pain?

i will let my boyfriend go if he do not love me enough,that okay because we all must go though the pain to enjoy life.
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Unread 05-18-2009, 06:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Rifle. Or steak knife. His choice.
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Unread 05-18-2009, 07:19 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Unread 05-18-2009, 08:56 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Rifle. Or steak knife. His choice.
seems awfully drastic, don'tcha think?

I'd just dump her. Sure the betrayal would hurt, but i'm better off alone.
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Unread 05-18-2009, 09:10 PM   #5 (permalink)
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oh yeah just dump him he is not worthy to keep as he not be loyal to you
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ha, ha, nah. i'd just dump him and move on.
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Unread 05-18-2009, 10:43 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Simple, Dump him
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dump him for sure. Wouldn't want a cheating bf at all!!!!
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wouldnt bother me a bit its just my girlfriend there plenty of fish in the sea
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Dump him been there and done that. Not worth it.
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Unread 05-19-2009, 08:57 AM   #11 (permalink)
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cheating cause for vary reason that someone didn't except for. We're just a human being, not robot relationship. Work out or get out.
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casterate him!....Super glue his balls to his legs....Call up Miss Bobbitt for advise....shave his eyebrows when he's sleeping....pour hot sauce in his underroos....wash all his clothes in bleach...dye his hair pink when he's sleeping.
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Last boyfriend I had cheated on me. Then I met my husband. He cheated on me. I left him. Done with that crap.

Now I'm with a great guy who wouldn't dream of doing this. And I'm totally happy with him.

So I say .. dump the cheater. Teach him/her a lesson.
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casterate him!....Super glue his balls to his legs....Call up Miss Bobbitt for advise....shave his eyebrows when he's sleeping....pour hot sauce in his underroos....wash all his clothes in bleach...dye his hair pink when he's sleeping.
Yes, but that's not going to solve the problem. Its best to dump him and move on. Not worth your time to go that extreme.
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No matter how bad it hurts...

Dump 'em.

Last one that did that to me. I think it killed him more than it did to me. Due to the fact he was trying to apologize and make excuses. To get me back. I said NO. Told him, if he felt like he wanted to try to seek something better than me.. to continue to do so. Keep seeking and move on.
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Unread 05-20-2009, 10:52 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Because my man and I have chosen to have a closed relationship (no others allowed), I would say good bye to him if he cheated on me. And try hard to be good and not curse him and his dick. Ha ha!
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Unread 05-20-2009, 11:22 AM   #17 (permalink)
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ha, ha, nah. i'd just dump him and move on.
HAHA! Love the car!...Reminds me of my sister...her hubby cheated on her and she went looking for him. Found his car at another woman's house. Good Lord! She went absolutely bonkers! She spray-painted his car, and some of the words are unprintable! She also spray-painted all his clothes and threw them out on the street. Hung his underwear in the trees! You can only guess what people were saying when they drove by.
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HAHA! Love the car!...Reminds me of my sister...her hubby cheated on her and she went looking for him. Found his car at another woman's house. Good Lord! She went absolutely bonkers! She spray-painted his car, and some of the words are unprintable! She also spray-painted all his clothes and threw them out on the street. Hung his underwear in the trees! You can only guess what people were saying when they drove by.
no wonder he cheated on her she is nuts
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Unread 05-20-2009, 08:31 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Welllll..when I found out my ex hubby cheated on me, I attacked him with an empty beer bottle. Yep, I lost control of myself but luckily it happened at a party and my friends grabbed me and pulled me away. It was one of the worst nights of my life. The rage I felt completely blew me away cuz I am a mild mannered person who hates physical altercations.
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Well.....one ex-bf cheated, and I lost it, threw all his clothes into the dumpster, poured motor oil all over his carpets, furniture, bed....turned on all the faucets, even the bathtubs (while he was working) and flooded his house. Threw eggs all over his kitchen floor,,ahh, my anger knew no bounds!

He never bothered me again (he had been calling everyday before that). But, once a cheater, always a cheater. Never again will I let my anger get to that point again!
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Unread 05-21-2009, 09:27 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Been there done that. I found out that he had cheated on me multiple times with multiple women. OH, I was LIVID!! The first thing I did was punch a hole in the wall, the next thing I did was pack all his shit up and left everything at his grandparents house. I already had kicked him out for other reasons, but after that point he wasn't welcome around anymore. No more of that.

After that I just fell apart like how could I have been so oblivious? It was heartbreaking to know I had been duped the entire time. The whole relationship was meaningless. It hurt.

I took our wedding pictures and cast them into the wind, on our anniversary I burned our wedding cake in a bonfire in the front yard. Good riddance.

But I admit that for two years after that I just completely fell apart. I started drinking heavily to numb the pain, to avoid it, whichever you want to call it. My drinking got out of control and finally at the end of my rope, something just told me, go back to church. So I did, and from there things started coming together a little bit.

But I still bear the scars from that emotional cut to my heart. You never fully get over it, and even to this day I have a desire to be with someone, but no desire for men, especially when during that two year period where I quite literally shut down and started dying on the inside, I dated some real rats. It really turned me off to marriage, let alone the idea of a successful relationship.

That's just how I reacted to it.
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Unread 05-21-2009, 10:34 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Been there done that. I found out that he had cheated on me multiple times with multiple women. OH, I was LIVID!! The first thing I did was punch a hole in the wall, the next thing I did was pack all his shit up and left everything at his grandparents house. I already had kicked him out for other reasons, but after that point he wasn't welcome around anymore. No more of that.

After that I just fell apart like how could I have been so oblivious? It was heartbreaking to know I had been duped the entire time. The whole relationship was meaningless. It hurt.

I took our wedding pictures and cast them into the wind, on our anniversary I burned our wedding cake in a bonfire in the front yard. Good riddance.

But I admit that for two years after that I just completely fell apart. I started drinking heavily to numb the pain, to avoid it, whichever you want to call it. My drinking got out of control and finally at the end of my rope, something just told me, go back to church. So I did, and from there things started coming together a little bit.

But I still bear the scars from that emotional cut to my heart. You never fully get over it, and even to this day I have a desire to be with someone, but no desire for men, especially when during that two year period where I quite literally shut down and started dying on the inside, I dated some real rats. It really turned me off to marriage, let alone the idea of a successful relationship.

That's just how I reacted to it.
Oh, Dixie! Been there too. I didn't turn to drinking, tho, I just completely "shut down". In and out of the hospitals with nervous breakdowns. Just couldn't handle anything it seemed. I became a "cutter" and have the scars to show for it.....It's been 13 years now, I'm over it, but never again would let myself get close to anyone......I've "wised up" (I think), went back to school for awhile, and have found that "inner peace" that I so longed for so many years. A lot of my friends can't and don't understand why I don't go out, and meet someone.....But Never again!...I'm done with it all. I may have "given up" on a successful marriage/relationship, but I haven't given up on Life.....It's what you make it, and mine is just fine!
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do yall still get boyfriends? thats frigging evil lol
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Unread 05-22-2009, 11:46 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Nope. I haven't been in a relationship in over a year. Like Robin, I just absolutely shut down. When you've been physically and emotionally abused then come to find out that he's cheated on you multiple times with multiple women, you just hit rock bottom and you become an emotional mess. You feel worthless, unlovable, undesireable, and every other negative word you can come up with. At that point, not just a piece of you dies, your entire spirit begins to die.

My parents don't understand why I don't go out much anymore, they don't understand why I have no desire for another man in my life.

After a wreck like that you really do lose faith in humanity in general. And as a defense mechanism, you just don't get emotionally attached to people, the pain was so much in the first place that you fear to go through it again.
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Nope. I haven't been in a relationship in over a year. Like Robin, I just absolutely shut down. When you've been physically and emotionally abused then come to find out that he's cheated on you multiple times with multiple women, you just hit rock bottom and you become an emotional mess. You feel worthless, unlovable, undesireable, and every other negative word you can come up with. At that point, not just a piece of you dies, your entire spirit begins to die.

My parents don't understand why I don't go out much anymore, they don't understand why I have no desire for another man in my life.

After a wreck like that you really do lose faith in humanity in general. And as a defense mechanism, you just don't get emotionally attached to people, the pain was so much in the first place that you fear to go through it again.
You go girl! Said it the best.
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my boyfriend did, i just dumped him.
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Dump him immediately.

I don't want to deal any drama, all load of craps...
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Dump him immediately.

I don't want to deal any drama, all load of craps...
I would not happy with exboyfriend did cheat on me with affriar someone! He is GRUMPY MAN SICK IN HEAD!!!
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When you put your whole heart into a relationship and the person steps on your heart by cheating it is HARD to control the hurt and irrational thinking but if you don't it only causes more problems later....

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This for example, he takes this to court and asks the judge to make you pay for repainting the car. Ouch, sounds like he got the final laugh.

Dump him, hope his next gf has an STD and move on with life.
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I would cheat on him them dump him!
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