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05-18-2009, 06:25 PM
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if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheat on you? how would you react to the pain?
i will let my boyfriend go if he do not love me enough,that okay because we all must go though the pain to enjoy life.
 
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05-19-2009, 02:55 AM
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wouldnt bother me a bit its just my girlfriend there plenty of fish in the sea
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05-19-2009, 10:43 PM
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casterate him!....Super glue his balls to his legs....Call up Miss Bobbitt for advise....shave his eyebrows when he's sleeping....pour hot sauce in his underroos....wash all his clothes in bleach...dye his hair pink when he's sleeping.
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05-19-2009, 10:45 PM
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Last boyfriend I had cheated on me. Then I met my husband. He cheated on me. I left him. Done with that crap.
Now I'm with a great guy who wouldn't dream of doing this. And I'm totally happy with him. So I say .. dump the cheater. Teach him/her a lesson. |
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05-19-2009, 10:49 PM
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05-19-2009, 10:55 PM
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No matter how bad it hurts...
Dump 'em. Last one that did that to me. I think it killed him more than it did to me. Due to the fact he was trying to apologize and make excuses. To get me back. I said NO. Told him, if he felt like he wanted to try to seek something better than me.. to continue to do so. Keep seeking and move on. |
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05-20-2009, 12:22 PM
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05-20-2009, 09:24 PM
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05-20-2009, 09:31 PM
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Welllll..when I found out my ex hubby cheated on me, I attacked him with an empty beer bottle. Yep, I lost control of myself but luckily it happened at a party and my friends grabbed me and pulled me away. It was one of the worst nights of my life. The rage I felt completely blew me away cuz I am a mild mannered person who hates physical altercations.
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05-20-2009, 10:55 PM
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Well.....one ex-bf cheated, and I lost it, threw all his clothes into the dumpster, poured motor oil all over his carpets, furniture, bed....turned on all the faucets, even the bathtubs (while he was working) and flooded his house. Threw eggs all over his kitchen floor,,ahh, my anger knew no bounds!
He never bothered me again (he had been calling everyday before that). But, once a cheater, always a cheater. Never again will I let my anger get to that point again! |
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05-21-2009, 10:27 PM
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Been there done that. I found out that he had cheated on me multiple times with multiple women. OH, I was LIVID!! The first thing I did was punch a hole in the wall, the next thing I did was pack all his shit up and left everything at his grandparents house. I already had kicked him out for other reasons, but after that point he wasn't welcome around anymore. No more of that.
After that I just fell apart like how could I have been so oblivious? It was heartbreaking to know I had been duped the entire time. The whole relationship was meaningless. It hurt. I took our wedding pictures and cast them into the wind, on our anniversary I burned our wedding cake in a bonfire in the front yard. Good riddance. But I admit that for two years after that I just completely fell apart. I started drinking heavily to numb the pain, to avoid it, whichever you want to call it. My drinking got out of control and finally at the end of my rope, something just told me, go back to church. So I did, and from there things started coming together a little bit. But I still bear the scars from that emotional cut to my heart. You never fully get over it, and even to this day I have a desire to be with someone, but no desire for men, especially when during that two year period where I quite literally shut down and started dying on the inside, I dated some real rats. It really turned me off to marriage, let alone the idea of a successful relationship. That's just how I reacted to it. |
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05-21-2009, 11:34 PM
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05-22-2009, 12:46 PM
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Nope. I haven't been in a relationship in over a year. Like Robin, I just absolutely shut down. When you've been physically and emotionally abused then come to find out that he's cheated on you multiple times with multiple women, you just hit rock bottom and you become an emotional mess. You feel worthless, unlovable, undesireable, and every other negative word you can come up with. At that point, not just a piece of you dies, your entire spirit begins to die.
My parents don't understand why I don't go out much anymore, they don't understand why I have no desire for another man in my life. After a wreck like that you really do lose faith in humanity in general. And as a defense mechanism, you just don't get emotionally attached to people, the pain was so much in the first place that you fear to go through it again. |
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05-22-2009, 01:10 PM
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07-05-2009, 09:39 AM
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When you put your whole heart into a relationship and the person steps on your heart by cheating it is HARD to control the hurt and irrational thinking but if you don't it only causes more problems later....
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 Dump him, hope his next gf has an STD  and move on with life.
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