if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheat on you? how would you react to the pain? - Page 2

MoonDrifter · 07-06-2009, 07:59 PM

If it happened to me I'd die inside and wouldn't know what to do. I would never cheat on my gf, ever.

ricky_rick77 · 07-07-2009, 10:20 AM

if i done nothing to deserve what she has done and she was not woman enough to come tell me that she did not want to be with me and she wanted another man, then we got a problem once I find out she was cheating on me. I would not make life easy for her AT ALL! but one thing I refuse to do is go to jail or die over a woman because there are to many out there to waist your self over one of them.

Babyblue · 07-07-2009, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ricky_rick77

if i done nothing to deserve what she has done and she was not woman enough to come tell me that she did not want to be with me and she wanted another man, then we got a problem once I find out she was cheating on me. I would not make life easy for her AT ALL! but one thing I refuse to do is go to jail or die over a woman because there are to many out there to waist your self over one of them.

I would not even make their life a living hell. I would just move on and never look back. Just by doing that, shows you are the stronger person.

~*Kaelei*~ · 07-07-2009, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ricky_rick77

I would not make life easy for her AT ALL!

Isn't that a bit harsh?

Me, I would simply just dump him and never look back... just keep on moving and forget about him that has cheated on me.

xspinningisfun · 07-07-2009, 06:14 PM

This is my point of view on cheating.
If someone cheated on you, they do not love you. THAT, my friend, is not true love. Love is HONEST, compassion, TRUSTWORTHY, caring, kindness. Love isn't cheating, lying, abusive, etc.

If someone has cheated on you in the past, as much as they have apologized and tell you that it didn't mean anything, it's NOT LOVE.

And I get sad when I see girls going back to guys, and guys going back to girls, who have cheated. They cheated on you once, they'd do it again. Trust me. Just like the proverb, a dog will always return to his vomit. Therefore, a CHEATER will always return to cheating. Unless he or she is fully changed from inside and out.

People can change. I know this. And forgiveness is a big thing. We should forgive the ones that have hurt us.

If a guy cheated on me, I'd end the relationship. And as much as he says he didn't mean to and it didn't mean anything, I wouldn't get back with him. Because actions speak louder than words. He says he didn't mean it and it didn't mean anything, then why did he cheat?

One of my guy friends, his gf cheated on him, and they got back together. She cheated on him again, they got back together. It's so frustrating!

Know what love is. You deserve to be cherished, not to be stepped on and abuse. You deserve to know that you matter in this world. And when someone decides to cheat, that's not showing you that you matter.

***Brian*** · 07-07-2009, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by xspinningisfun

This is my point of view on cheating.
If someone cheated on you, they do not love you. THAT, my friend, is not true love. Love is HONEST, compassion, TRUSTWORTHY, caring, kindness. Love isn't cheating, lying, abusive, etc.

If someone has cheated on you in the past, as much as they have apologized and tell you that it didn't mean anything, it's NOT LOVE.

And I get sad when I see girls going back to guys, and guys going back to girls, who have cheated. They cheated on you once, they'd do it again. Trust me. Just like the proverb, a dog will always return to his vomit. Therefore, a CHEATER will always return to cheating. Unless he or she is fully changed from inside and out.

People can change. I know this. And forgiveness is a big thing. We should forgive the ones that have hurt us.

If a guy cheated on me, I'd end the relationship. And as much as he says he didn't mean to and it didn't mean anything, I wouldn't get back with him. Because actions speak louder than words. He says he didn't mean it and it didn't mean anything, then why did he cheat?

One of my guy friends, his gf cheated on him, and they got back together. She cheated on him again, they got back together. It's so frustrating!

Know what love is. You deserve to be cherished, not to be stepped on and abuse. You deserve to know that you matter in this world. And when someone decides to cheat, that's not showing you that you matter.

Well said, xspinningisfun. I agree with you completely.

JClarke · 07-07-2009, 07:00 PM

X2 with Brian, well said. and that guy friend of yours, pretty stupid to go together and it has occured the same to my sister who went back with the bf twice, but finally learnt the lesson and never got back. She's back to single again. Life is always upside down for people like these.

xspinningisfun · 07-07-2009, 09:28 PM

Yeah, and I just don't understand why people GO BACK. I was in love with this guy, and he decided to cheat at the end of our relationship and he broke up with me. That was a year ago. Of course, I'm a bit broken hearted, but as I start to think about it, I shouldn't be. I don't need that.

And besides, after him breaking up with me, I have heard stories about him since then. Nasty ones..and I'm thankful that we are no longer together!

JClarke · 07-07-2009, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by xspinningisfun

Yeah, and I just don't understand why people GO BACK. I was in love with this guy, and he decided to cheat at the end of our relationship and he broke up with me. That was a year ago. Of course, I'm a bit broken hearted, but as I start to think about it, I shouldn't be. I don't need that.

And besides, after him breaking up with me, I have heard stories about him since then. Nasty ones..and I'm thankful that we are no longer together!

ouch...ouch...ouch!

Cheri · 07-07-2009, 11:47 PM

Amen! xspinningisfun, You've nailed it beautifully!

As for me, the definition of cheating is a breaking of trust, I do not need to know why he did it either and if he did it once, he's very likely to do it again. It's not worth another roller coaster emotional ride.

07-06-2009, 07:59 PM	#31 (permalink)
MoonDrifter Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Location: Hillsboro Posts: 1,140 Blog Entries: 1	If it happened to me I'd die inside and wouldn't know what to do. I would never cheat on my gf, ever. __________________ ~You only have one shot at life. Either live it or waste it~

07-07-2009, 06:14 PM	#35 (permalink)
xspinningisfun Registered User Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 202	This is my point of view on cheating. If someone cheated on you, they do not love you. THAT, my friend, is not true love. Love is HONEST, compassion, TRUSTWORTHY, caring, kindness. Love isn't cheating, lying, abusive, etc. If someone has cheated on you in the past, as much as they have apologized and tell you that it didn't mean anything, it's NOT LOVE. And I get sad when I see girls going back to guys, and guys going back to girls, who have cheated. They cheated on you once, they'd do it again. Trust me. Just like the proverb, a dog will always return to his vomit. Therefore, a CHEATER will always return to cheating. Unless he or she is fully changed from inside and out. People can change. I know this. And forgiveness is a big thing. We should forgive the ones that have hurt us. If a guy cheated on me, I'd end the relationship. And as much as he says he didn't mean to and it didn't mean anything, I wouldn't get back with him. Because actions speak louder than words. He says he didn't mean it and it didn't mean anything, then why did he cheat? One of my guy friends, his gf cheated on him, and they got back together. She cheated on him again, they got back together. It's so frustrating! Know what love is. You deserve to be cherished, not to be stepped on and abuse. You deserve to know that you matter in this world. And when someone decides to cheat, that's not showing you that you matter. __________________ http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/pr...86&ref=profile xanga.com/shineyourlight_x

07-07-2009, 07:00 PM	#37 (permalink)
JClarke Good times, good times. Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Packing bags for U.S.A Posts: 20,207 Blog Entries: 5	X2 with Brian, well said. and that guy friend of yours, pretty stupid to go together and it has occured the same to my sister who went back with the bf twice, but finally learnt the lesson and never got back. She's back to single again. Life is always upside down for people like these. __________________

07-07-2009, 09:28 PM	#38 (permalink)
xspinningisfun Registered User Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 202	Yeah, and I just don't understand why people GO BACK. I was in love with this guy, and he decided to cheat at the end of our relationship and he broke up with me. That was a year ago. Of course, I'm a bit broken hearted, but as I start to think about it, I shouldn't be. I don't need that. And besides, after him breaking up with me, I have heard stories about him since then. Nasty ones..and I'm thankful that we are no longer together! __________________ http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/pr...86&ref=profile xanga.com/shineyourlight_x

07-07-2009, 11:47 PM	#40 (permalink)
Cheri Prayers for my dad. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 22,613	Amen! xspinningisfun, You've nailed it beautifully! As for me, the definition of cheating is a breaking of trust, I do not need to know why he did it either and if he did it once, he's very likely to do it again. It's not worth another roller coaster emotional ride. __________________ God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow and sun without rain, But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

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07-07-2009, 10:20 AM	#32 (permalink)
ricky_rick77 Everything Has A Reason! Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Little Rock, AR Posts: 21	if i done nothing to deserve what she has done and she was not woman enough to come tell me that she did not want to be with me and she wanted another man, then we got a problem once I find out she was cheating on me. I would not make life easy for her AT ALL! but one thing I refuse to do is go to jail or die over a woman because there are to many out there to waist your self over one of them.

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