Kalista

You’ve got butterflies, good conversation, maybe even great sex, but sometimes it can be difficult to be sure if it’s love. How do you decipher whether the feeling in the pit of your stomach is the nervous quivering of anticipation or yesterday's lunch? Luckily, Lovingyou.com knows that “fools in love” are easy to spot. Here are some tell-tale signs that it just be might be love, love, love.

You are best friends. You laugh with them more than anyone else. The feelings of anticipation, passion, and connection are mutual. You remember little things about each other like their favorite foods, the places they want to visit and why, their views on everything from politics to fashion, and what they love about their closest buddies, but is it enough? Take a look at these signs to be sure.

What he’ll do:

* Put you on his “A” list (pay attention -- You'll know if you're not on it)
* Introduce you to his family
* Make plans for the future (near and far)
* Do things outside of his “box” with you
* Share his secrets and his dreams for the future with you
* Worry about impressing your friends
* Come right over when you ask him to
* Try to do things that comfort you or relieve some of your stress (like surprise you with dinner on a night you are working, rub your feet, or ask about your day)
* Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions like giving you a massage after he gets one from you, doing the dishes after dinner, or sending you a gift

What she’ll do:

* Share her embarrassing moments and fantasies with you
* Little things all throughout the day that let you know she’s thinking about you
* Fantasize about her life with you, getting married, having kids, growing old, traveling the world, etc.
* Tease you
* Hang out with your mother or talk to her on the phone
* Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions, like offering to pay for dinner, getting tickets to a game or event she knows you’ll love, or cooking for you
* Ask questions about your life -- past, present, and future
* Flirt with you

How you’ll feel:

* Excited, yet relaxed
* Vulnerable, yet strong
* Comfortable enough to be yourself in front of them
* Like you want to include them in everything (but you won't desert your usual crowd to be in a relationship with them)
* You’ll miss them when they’re not around
* You can’t wait to see them, talk to them, play with them, and kiss them
* You’ll find yourself wanting to make plans to have them all to yourself
* You’ll have urges to do romantic things (maybe on the verge of stalker-like things) that you never thought you’d never do

Signs that it’s not love:

* They blow you off or cancel dates
* Talking about commitment makes either of you uneasy or nervous
* Either of you are seeing other people
* Things are moving too quickly for one of you
* You find your partner lacking when compared to other people
* You watch a love scene in a movie or hear a love song and you feel a strong longing or desire for what you don’t have

Tips before you commit:
* Take the time to compare who you have with who you know deep down that you desire and deserve. Likewise, compare the relationship you have with the one you know you really want.
* Pay attention to how they treat their friends, family, business associates, and strangers. This is a good indication of how they will treat you over time and a big insight into their overall character.
* Ask yourself how well you know them and how well they know you.

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Mrs Bucket

Make sure that he/she understands you will always keep your commitments to your girlfriends as well because they are so important too as well.

Encourage him/her to understand & respect the commitments because they solidify the relationship as well.

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MoonDrifter

I am madly in love. It makes me heart beat faster every time I think about her.

Grummer

hmmmm i think love is more a loyality thing. Love is a made up concept not even 200 years old, from France where all the rich pricks go to watch "Plays" in their mansions.
Nice idea, but i dont believe in it. Its just a culturally known ploy to 'chase and keep' women in matrimony and that word is just a reflection of a fantasy, but also a law-bidding one, I'd be very careful with the use of such word.
'Love' is a young peoples' thing and also a thing that young use as a weapon against their parents to extract $$$ or even to reinforce some form of redressing of the loyality which in turn allows marriage to take place.

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Some people will tell you that slow is good - and it may be, on some days - but I am here to tell you that fast is better. I've always believed this, in spite of the trouble it's caused me. Being shot out of a cannon will always be better than being squeezed out of a tube. That is why God made fast motorcycles.
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serena1986

sex is not the key for the relationship.

dreamsfloatjoe

Then what is sex for the relationship? The lock?

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serena1986

no it is not the lock,it about going out to have fun.

Jolie77

It's kind of an oxymoron when we see different articles in such magazines or whatanot telling us that we should know what love is or what love isn't for.

To each own, Love is what comes to them and defines them differently.

You just have to experience it in order to understand how it feels.

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“Tough girls come from New York. Sweet girls, they're from Georgia. But us Kentucky girls, we have fire and ice in our blood. We can ride horses, be a debutante, throw left hooks, and drink with the boys, all the while making sweet tea, darlin'. And if we have an opinion, you know you're gonna hear it.” - Ashley Judd

serena1986

that right

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Originally Posted by Jolie77 It's kind of an oxymoron when we see different articles in such magazines or whatanot telling us that we should know what love is or what love isn't for. To each own, Love is what comes to them and defines them differently. You just have to experience it in order to understand how it feels.

MoonDrifter

Over the years, human nature has done a really good job of messing up our conceptions of what love means because of their selfish reasons. As a result, many of us needlessly suffer pain in broken relationships in the misguided search for love. It is very sad when that happens.

From what i know thus far, I believe love is about being open and bonding with another person.

AliMarMc

True that.
Love is not sex. That's a horrible misconception due to society. You love your mothers but you guys aren't going to have sex. Its a different love, marriage and dating is an intimate love.

Love is not a feeling, feelings come and go. Love is unconditional and will never fail.

If you can't live through your relationship with out sex, then its not love its just infatuation.

Babyface

heres how to tell

for men go your whole marriage without sex from your partner
for women allways prepare your partners favorite food dish

if you did that then its maddening love

might not make sense to you, but its speaking to me in spades

my two cents

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