if you have a boyfriend/girlfiend would you let them meet your families who all hear?

serena1986 · 05-13-2009, 04:03 PM

i am doing to tell you the truth i would not do it.

sara1981 · 05-13-2009, 09:40 PM

my answer says yes!!

im been e-mailed my british boyfriend for 2 and half years but i would like meet him somedays when i return to England again.

i told my mom and my aunt about that man from London,England but im been e-mail James Windsor our boyfriend from London,England but he been busy man and also alcoholic works.

Babyface · 05-14-2009, 05:43 AM

yep

cmwlovessigning · 05-14-2009, 11:52 AM

yes i would.

moonflower · 05-14-2009, 12:29 PM

i think i will but i would be nervous anyway

Nessi · 05-15-2009, 10:01 AM

Well of course. My family is one of the most open minded families out there and they will do their best to communicate with any and everyone. I'm the only hoh/deaf person in the family.

AlleyCat · 05-15-2009, 10:25 AM

Of course.

deafbajagal · 05-15-2009, 02:44 PM

I hate my family. I never introduced them to anyone, LOL.

Brian · 05-15-2009, 04:12 PM

Why would I want to hide her in the closet the whole time?

My mother has told me this, many times.... that she would treat mine as if she is her own daughter. I hope this doesn't mean that my mother would give me up for adoption.

**shel90** · 05-15-2009, 04:41 PM

Well, I am married. Cant hide my hubby in the closet whenever my family come to visit. I think that would insult him.

**Bottesini** · 05-15-2009, 04:54 PM

I am married too. That is such a weird question, I can't imagine not meeting family unless it was a very casual relationship that is going nowhere.

deafbajagal · 05-15-2009, 06:15 PM

I'm hiding my husband in the closet. I like him too much.

If he met my family, he might divorce me.

2sweetsouls · 05-15-2009, 10:14 PM

Of course! If you really like this person, your family should make him/her feel welcome and try to get across that language barrier.

Mrs Bucket · 05-16-2009, 09:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by deafbajagal

I'm hiding my husband in the closet. I like him too much.

If he met my family, he might divorce me.

missywinks · 05-16-2009, 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by serena1986

i am doing to tell you the truth i would not do it.

Why not?

missywinks · 05-16-2009, 09:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mrs Bucket

missywinks · 05-16-2009, 10:03 AM

yeah i would. my family is important part of my life and i would want my loved one to be part of it.

~*Kaelei*~ · 05-18-2009, 10:50 PM

Of Course I will... after all my family is Hearing so it wouldn't be different to me. Family is important part of my life.

MoonDrifter · 05-20-2009, 06:07 AM

We are all human beings. I don't see a reason why individuals should exclude other people based on each other's hearing capabilities. In my opinion, that is human segregation and I'm against it. I'd let my girlfriend meet my family.

**Dixie** · 05-21-2009, 09:30 PM

What other choice would I (or he for that matter) have? My DD and I come as a package deal. Either he takes the both of us regardless of our hearing status, or he doesn't take us.

My parents are both hearing as well as my brother. I'm the only deaf one in the family. I would very much expect him to meet my family as well as my extended family and relatives.

Babyblue · 05-21-2009, 09:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by serena1986

i am doing to tell you the truth i would not do it.

Is he deaf?

and are you deaf?

Babyblue · 05-21-2009, 09:42 PM

My ex hubby is deaf. He met majority of my family. He got along with them very well for a while. Until he decide to act up.

My current hubby. Hearing has met majority of my family as well. I get jealous at times because they will sit back and laugh.

Mom, loves telling him stories of when I was little.

Babyblue · 05-21-2009, 09:44 PM

Also....

My Mother always told me to never bring a guy home, that I know she would not approve of.

She has told me that all my life.

**shel90** · 05-21-2009, 09:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Babyblue

Also....

My Mother always told me to never bring a guy home, that I know she would not approve of.

She has told me that all my life.

What if u truly had fell in love with someone she didnt approve of?

**Dixie** · 05-21-2009, 09:55 PM

Then its Romeo and Juliet part duex!

Babyblue · 05-21-2009, 10:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shel90

What if u truly had fell in love with someone she didnt approve of?

Guess that is where "hide him in the closet" plays in effect

05-22-2009, 06:16 PM

No because all the women in my life are casual flings.

Buttercup76 · 06-15-2009, 05:01 PM

Hey How feeling if someone person is very so spoiled mommy to listen without married important withchildren and family that true. Must be follow go to mommy not only girlfriend or boyfriend be date telling to people that true ? just wondering

Frisky Feline · 06-15-2009, 05:09 PM

LOL at several posters.

To your question, yes. obviously, i am married and have two kiddos. =)

AlleyCat · 06-15-2009, 08:25 PM

My SO is hearing and he has met all my immediate family. In fact, I think he gets along better with them than I do.

05-13-2009, 04:03 PM	#1 (permalink)
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sara1981 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: North Little Rock,Ar Posts: 7,049	my answer says yes!! im been e-mailed my british boyfriend for 2 and half years but i would like meet him somedays when i return to England again. i told my mom and my aunt about that man from London,England but im been e-mail James Windsor our boyfriend from London,England but he been busy man and also alcoholic works. __________________

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05-14-2009, 11:52 AM	#4 (permalink)
cmwlovessigning Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Location: glen allen va Posts: 1	yes i would.

05-14-2009, 12:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
moonflower Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 5,762	i think i will but i would be nervous anyway

05-15-2009, 10:01 AM	#6 (permalink)
Nessi Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 19	Well of course. My family is one of the most open minded families out there and they will do their best to communicate with any and everyone. I'm the only hoh/deaf person in the family.

05-15-2009, 10:25 AM	#7 (permalink)
AlleyCat Registered User Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: In my time zone Posts: 10,805	Of course.

05-15-2009, 02:44 PM	#8 (permalink)
deafbajagal Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 5,171	I hate my family. I never introduced them to anyone, LOL.

05-15-2009, 04:12 PM	#9 (permalink)
Brian Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 4,750	Why would I want to hide her in the closet the whole time? My mother has told me this, many times.... that she would treat mine as if she is her own daughter. I hope this doesn't mean that my mother would give me up for adoption.

05-15-2009, 06:15 PM	#12 (permalink)
deafbajagal Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 5,171	I'm hiding my husband in the closet. I like him too much. If he met my family, he might divorce me.

05-15-2009, 10:14 PM	#13 (permalink)
2sweetsouls Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Location: western ohio Posts: 3	Of course! If you really like this person, your family should make him/her feel welcome and try to get across that language barrier.

05-16-2009, 10:03 AM	#17 (permalink)
missywinks Registered User Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Canada and no, we do not live in igloos! Posts: 599	yeah i would. my family is important part of my life and i would want my loved one to be part of it.

05-18-2009, 10:50 PM	#18 (permalink)
~Kaelei~ Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Vancouver, Washington Posts: 1,571	Of Course I will... after all my family is Hearing so it wouldn't be different to me. Family is important part of my life. __________________

05-20-2009, 06:07 AM	#19 (permalink)
MoonDrifter Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Location: Hillsboro Posts: 1,140	We are all human beings. I don't see a reason why individuals should exclude other people based on each other's hearing capabilities. In my opinion, that is human segregation and I'm against it. I'd let my girlfriend meet my family.

05-21-2009, 09:30 PM	#20 (permalink)
Dixie May I be found in Him Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 13,266	What other choice would I (or he for that matter) have? My DD and I come as a package deal. Either he takes the both of us regardless of our hearing status, or he doesn't take us. My parents are both hearing as well as my brother. I'm the only deaf one in the family. I would very much expect him to meet my family as well as my extended family and relatives. __________________ Oh, you will. It is all a dream and since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, the dreams must be real in all their myriad forms. -Beowulf This Delicate Thing God Has Made *The world is measured in peasants; smaller than a unicorn but, bigger than a tidbit!*

05-21-2009, 09:42 PM	#22 (permalink)
Babyblue Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 12,001	My ex hubby is deaf. He met majority of my family. He got along with them very well for a while. Until he decide to act up. My current hubby. Hearing has met majority of my family as well. I get jealous at times because they will sit back and laugh. Mom, loves telling him stories of when I was little.

05-21-2009, 09:44 PM	#23 (permalink)
Babyblue Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 12,001	Also.... My Mother always told me to never bring a guy home, that I know she would not approve of. She has told me that all my life.

05-21-2009, 09:55 PM	#25 (permalink)
Dixie May I be found in Him Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 13,266	Then its Romeo and Juliet part duex! __________________ Oh, you will. It is all a dream and since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, the dreams must be real in all their myriad forms. -Beowulf This Delicate Thing God Has Made *The world is measured in peasants; smaller than a unicorn but, bigger than a tidbit!*

05-22-2009, 06:16 PM	#27 (permalink)
Edwin Guest Posts: n/a	No because all the women in my life are casual flings.

06-15-2009, 05:01 PM	#28 (permalink)
Buttercup76 Registered User Join Date: May 2009 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 9	Hey How feeling if someone person is very so spoiled mommy to listen without married important withchildren and family that true. Must be follow go to mommy not only girlfriend or boyfriend be date telling to people that true ? just wondering

06-15-2009, 05:09 PM	#29 (permalink)
Frisky Feline Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 20,239	LOL at several posters. To your question, yes. obviously, i am married and have two kiddos. =)

06-15-2009, 08:25 PM	#30 (permalink)
AlleyCat Registered User Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: In my time zone Posts: 10,805	My SO is hearing and he has met all my immediate family. In fact, I think he gets along better with them than I do.

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