Taurus

If you are in love,

You tend to think of someone for almost 24/7

Or

You tend to dont think of someone for almost 24/7 but you like someone to keep you company

Or How you know if you are in love?

Love is very complicated to me -_-

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Byrdie714

Didn't you just get out of a relationship with a sexy Libra man?

Taurus

well it is complicated to answer it..

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Byrdie714

Love Compatibility by MSN Astrology

Maybe it's because the two of you like to be in Love but can't function in other domains of the relationship.

I suggest letting it go.

Taurus

LOL, I'm not depending on horoscope or Astrology..

You dont know my whole chart or his chart so its different story.. We dont depend on our sun signs (taurus and libra) for problem to solves..

I'm talking about general love..

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Byrdie714

If you are really in love--you would think of them 24/7 as well as being concerned about their well-being.

Taurus

I dont have much strong feeling of love like this libra guy love me so much.. before we were dating, I was crazy about him for like 24/7. After we were dating, I dont feel the same.. it just feel like I dont have strong feeling for him anymore. For him the libra guy, his feeling of love grow stronger and stronger. I did told him the truth about how I feel for him. He and I were crying a lot. he said if we arent in relationship then I'll wait for you till your feeling will be back. Libra guy also said that just let time flow and take it slow. I'm like fine with that. He is still giving me plenty of time for me to focus on education. A month later, I started to feel like it isnt fair for him to wait for me if I never fall in love with him again? I told him to go find other girls and I'll be fine with that.. I'll understand it but he insist to refuse to find other girls.. No matter what, he still refuse, he want me to be his last girl for rest of his life. I told him if I cheat on him on accident because of my reasons.. he said that he will understand it and forgive me but if this cheating happen again again again.. no excuse.. I was like fine.. but really I dont know what I'll do with him..

He is nice guy who 100% support with my education. He fixed my grammar for my writing courses (sorry I know, I sucks at English)
He cooked vegan dinners for me to eat, He dont care if I'll become vegan someday, he willing to support me.
He even did wait all day everyday for me to finish all the courses to spent about one hour with him.. I mean he arrived to my college campus around at 7am in morning till 4pm (my classes were done by 4pm) so he can have little chat with me till 5pm so he had to go to work till at night.
I know he have a good heart for me..
He is nice guy I ever met but sadly, I'm not sure if this is feeling of love with him or else..

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Byrdie714

There is your answer: You're not in love with him.

Taurus

I know but I'm not sure if my feeling will come back again?

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Byrdie714

How long have they been this way?

Taurus

one month.. we dont see each other a lot.. that's why libra guy said that I should focus on education first.. When I'm done with college then he will try his best to get my heart to feel for him again..

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jillio

Taurus, you are trying way too hard to be in love. It is not this much work.

Taurus

No i'm not trying too hard to be in love..

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jillio

According to your posts, it certainly appears that you are.

Taurus

He just came into my life, I told him that I wasnt ready for relationship.. He said that's fine with him, he will wait for me..

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jillio

Then you just answered your own question.

Gemma

You either know youre in love or not ...you are trying to convince yourself you love him because he is a great guy and treats you well............do him a favor if you really care for him - let him go so he can find someone else to love and be loved back equally.

You are young and you will find love when timing is right. No need to overanalyze it over and over to the point that you become too confused about it.

~SG~

Mod's Note:

Thread's moved to proper location from General Chat to Marriage, Dating & Single Life.

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Taurus

I did told him that like twice or third time, he still refuse to find other person who will love him equally..

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Zaicate

Taurus,

I honestly don't know how to answer your original inquiry because love is a different experience for everybody. Some people will think that love means you think about the person 24/7 ( obsess much?) and be concerned about the well-being.. but you can do that with your family, pets and good friends.. does that mean you are in love with them as well?

Love could be defined in so many different ways so there is NO right or wrong answer to the question of "How do you know you are in love?" because there is so many different ways to find that out.

I have discovered my soulmate so I know the true meaning of love and I have seen one friend who is fighting really hard to save his own marriage and is not going to give up.

How do I know that I am in love?
~ The warm and tingly feeling I get whenever I look or think about my boyfriend
~ The fact that he went the distance to keep me safe, warm and loved and me doing the same for him.
~ The fact that we had so much problems to the point where we literally got divorced, me moving back to Maryland repeatedly but we end up getting back together every single time
~ The fact that after I found my boyfriend (and ex-husband), all other guys' face becomes a blur (aka not cute, hot or appeals to me) and I only want to be with my boyfriend for rest of my life
~ The fact that I can sit in the silence with boyfriend for more than 10 minutes and feel really comfortable with that (with others, I usually feel the need to fill up the silence with chatter)

Brendan might annoy me on daily basis but most of those annoyance is mixed with amusement because Brendan do things WITH reason. He keeps things interesting and is constantly surprising me with things.

So I do know for sure that I am in love...

But Taurus, from reading your posts.. I do not think you are in love with the said Libra guy but who am I to judge your feelings? If you don't feel any passion or love for the Libra guy.. then I recommend that you let him go and tell him that you will not get into a relationship with him because it won't be fair to YOU and him both. If he persists, then just stand your ground and do not let him sway you UNLESS you feel like you DO love him but you just need some time to think things out

I hope you find the answer to your question

KarissaMann05

Screw up this relationship and be smart to gather some education for college needs!!

I personally do not think you are actually fall in love with this dude. I do think... you can befriend with this dude until your graduation and start to have a new relationship. What do you think?

Just saying.

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Steel X

Agreed. Dont beat yourself over this and just focus on what YOU need for yourself. Go have a life, be happy, do whatever u wanna do for your future.

Dont go trying to make him happy when you arent even sure of yourself cause otherwise you may hurt him eventually.

So just...take your time dont worry so much about it and focus on more important things.

Time will come when u really feel like your in love.

lsfoster

I think it depends on each person, but no matter who you are, when you know, you'll know. You won't need someone else to tell you, and I don't think there's a list of things that every single person can say "Yup, got all those, must be love." All I can say is that, to me, if you have to ask, then you're not in love.

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SFShawn13

In my opinion, if you have to ask "Am I in love with this person?" Constantly, then you are probably not in love.

Like others have said, love varies from individual to individual.

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Cookie Monster

Count the heartbeat when you approach a person, if it is high, then you are in love.

Dismal Shadow

Taurus, this is related in my blogs, check it up.

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Jolie77

A lot of people define "Love" in various ways.

I suppose, It is about how you know it for yourself. There is no words as to how to exactly to define it because it is something you have to experience for yourself.

I used to think I knew what "Love" was like but after experiencing it, it was an eye-opener. So, with that, It's just something that you have to see for yourself rather than forming it or basing it on anyone else's perspectives.

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sara1981

i do in love because my boyfriend says "i love you" on e-mail messages i trust him but i always e-mail messages to my boyfriend lots everyday and every weeks.

im hope he will visit me somedays when he visit USA but dont rushed!

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ClearSky

Maybe you are too busy with school that you just don't have time to unwind and have build a relationship?

~SG~

When you are really in Love, you will know what Love feels like. A Love is very deep that words cannot be described.

I do know what is Love feels like and it is a incredible experience.

If you are not in love, you don't have the love feelings for this person and it wouldn't be fair for this person who only love you where as you don't love him/her.

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