What if a sexy girl/guy came up to you... - Page 2

RosesNY · 04-30-2003, 03:50 PM

I have no guts to do that too, one time i was at bar one man ask me if i wants to have a night stand with him i was like

he was

and left then other time he saw me he say he is sorry ,

Sydlie · 04-30-2003, 04:58 PM

I'm too picky about men. To quote Cher in the movie 'Clueless':

"You see how picky I am about my shoes and they only go on my feet"

Liza · 04-30-2003, 05:32 PM

*flashes my married finger*

Had a guy following me like a panting dog, even after I showed him my finger (the married one)..... sheesh! lol

I only find my hubby the sexiest in my heart and mind.

04-30-2003, 06:07 PM

I'd decline with a smile!!

*lusting after a certain ADv2 member, that's why!!!*

Fly Free · 04-30-2003, 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lasza
I would turn down on Sex offer. Rather to have sex with the person I truly love very much. Hmmm having sex with the person I don't love that make me feel dirty and cheap myself. Forgot it!!! Save sex for ur true love. That is worth advice.

i agree with u on this Lasza -- but what abt what if we get seduced by someone we have known for a long time and are a friend to u in the first place and/or have slept with them previously and they SEDUCE u qq

how that would be called -- i dont really technically perceive it as "one night stand" -- maybe the "taking care of eachother's needs" would be more appropriate qq

RosesNY · 04-30-2003, 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lasza
I would turn down on Sex offer. Rather to have sex with the person I truly love very much. Hmmm having sex with the person I don't love that make me feel dirty and cheap myself. Forgot it!!! Save sex for ur true love. That is worth advice.

Yeah I agree with you

Joker2003 · 04-30-2003, 10:05 PM

I rather not to do it because i am in relationship for a year and one month.. and also i think it is nasty to do it because i just having sex for no reason then next day i will relaized it that i made a mistake.. so no thanks..

I rather to

my girl period..

Lasza · 04-30-2003, 10:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fly Free
i agree with u on this Lasza -- but what abt what if we get seduced by someone we have known for a long time and are a friend to u in the first place and/or have slept with them previously and they SEDUCE u qq how that would be called -- i dont really technically perceive it as "one night stand" -- maybe the "taking care of eachother's needs" would be more appropriate qq

That is tough question. Each other's needs is more like exchange feeling each other with physically touching. Sound like hmmm.... Not exactly like "Sex Partner". YOu may seduce with ur friends who are ur exes. But what if never been ur exes. Feel different or so. I know some people tried seduce me for no reason that which I don't want. YOu have good point.

Fly Free · 04-30-2003, 11:17 PM

yea i wondered abt that too myself Lasza

ShEiLdTaLiSmAn · 05-01-2003, 01:49 AM

never had a guy asked. Well... over the internet but RL, nope.

I would say no. But I'm a teaser. (I aint detailing. Only ex's and the guys who will be in my life in the future would only know how bad teaser i am.

)

GoofyBoy3 · 05-02-2003, 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by deafgal01
NO it hasn't happened to me yet, but that's ok because I would only have ended up declining the offer because my goal/plan for life is to remain a virgin until marriage. Besides, I be taken by my boyfriend, so why would I want a one night stand with a cute guy when I've got a boyfriend that I could kiss anytime?

Exactly..That's the exactly thing I will do..

GoofyBoy3 · 05-02-2003, 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by deafgal01
NO it hasn't happened to me yet, but that's ok because I would only have ended up declining the offer because my goal/plan for life is to remain a virgin until marriage. Besides, I be taken by my boyfriend, so why would I want a one night stand with a cute guy when I've got a boyfriend that I could kiss anytime?

Exactly..That's the exactly thing I will do.. With my gf..(laughs)

Strawberry · 05-02-2003, 05:15 PM

Bad experience.

vphreak · 05-03-2003, 06:08 PM

that's all you can say? Strawberry?

WonderBum · 05-03-2003, 07:23 PM

I'd probably take it.... I'm FREE and SINGLE!!!! Who knows what it might turn into....

Amby · 05-04-2003, 10:17 AM

interesting perspectives y'all.

CatoCooper13 · 08-07-2003, 08:28 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Alex
and she/he wanted to kick it (have sex) with you. Would you go ahead and do it without having second thoughts? Has it ever happened to you before?

It has happened to me before, and I had to declined because:

1.) Don't have the balls, I'm shy.
2.) If they asked me for a one night stand, imagine how many other guys she's asked.
3.) No thanks.

Before I was married -- I did not mind having one night stands when an extremely CUTE and sexy bloke hit on me.

(used safe sex, of course, I ain't stupid!)

ChelEler · 08-07-2003, 11:06 AM

I haven't had anyone sexy and hot looking come up to me and ask me when I was single. I guess I was too ugly for them. HA!

Now I'm married, I have had few men coming up to me asking for a "good time." I flatly showed them my married finger immediately.

I love my husband so much.

DeafSCUBA98 · 08-07-2003, 01:43 PM

it has happened to me serveral times i just decline.. i only believe in sex for relationship or marriage. not just one night stand.

SilenceGold · 08-07-2003, 02:27 PM

Most of you can guess what my decision...and whose decision would overturn mine.

Soonersseth · 08-07-2003, 03:13 PM

never happened to me but I'f it did I would be like wtf?

I have no guts plus I have morals and sleeping around is against them. After I accept she will probly tell me her goin rate. And I'm not that lucky anyway.

RosesNY · 08-07-2003, 05:37 PM

one at time i went to the bar . i was talk to a man that i don;t know we talk about our life and being deaf. Then he ask me if i wants to have a night stand with me i was like

left

***VamPyroX*** · 08-17-2003, 12:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alex

and she/he wanted to kick it (have sex) with you. Would you go ahead and do it without having second thoughts? Has it ever happened to you before?

It has happened to me before, and I had to declined because:

1.) Don't have the balls, I'm shy.
2.) If they asked me for a one night stand, imagine how many other guys she's asked.
3.) No thanks.

I might go ahead and do it. Importantly, I'd have to know her enough and she would have to be a good friend of mine. I'd hate to do it with a stranger.

Tousi · 08-17-2003, 03:10 PM

LOL, Soonersfan, that was funny......her going rate!

javapride · 08-17-2003, 08:50 PM

I rather to GET to know the person before going for it, cuz todays STD is dangerous and i rather be safe than sorry

Saline Eyes · 08-19-2003, 02:11 PM

I'm currently with someone, but that has no bearing on my views on booty calls. Attached or unattached, I'd decline a one night stand.

burrito · 09-30-2003, 08:58 PM

I did it a few times. It is wierd. I never thought a girl would ask ME for sex, but it happened . . . I did it, but regret it. I wouldn't do it again. I finally learned my lesson after 4 times regretting it. Duh! What a Jackass!

Cheri · 12-27-2003, 05:21 PM

I would say no.. because I wouldnt know how many women he slept with knowing he asked me that question would make me think he have done it in the past with other women.. Wouldnt want to take that risk... I would rather to have someone to be with all the time not just one night stand... I have feelings involved ....I wouldnt want to be used like a pieces of trash.

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08-07-2003, 11:06 AM	#48 (permalink)
ChelEler Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5,558	I haven't had anyone sexy and hot looking come up to me and ask me when I was single. I guess I was too ugly for them. HA! Now I'm married, I have had few men coming up to me asking for a "good time." I flatly showed them my married finger immediately. I love my husband so much. __________________ -ChelEler- =^.~=

08-07-2003, 01:43 PM	#49 (permalink)
DeafSCUBA98 my cute fish of the year! Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: land of 10,000 lakes and living by one of them Posts: 4,640	it has happened to me serveral times i just decline.. i only believe in sex for relationship or marriage. not just one night stand. __________________ Nucleus Freedom 04/18/05 activiated 05/16/05

12-27-2003, 05:21 PM	#58 (permalink)
Cheri Prayers for my dad. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 22,625	I would say no.. because I wouldnt know how many women he slept with knowing he asked me that question would make me think he have done it in the past with other women.. Wouldnt want to take that risk... I would rather to have someone to be with all the time not just one night stand... I have feelings involved ....I wouldnt want to be used like a pieces of trash. __________________ God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow and sun without rain, But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

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04-30-2003, 03:50 PM	#31 (permalink)
RosesNY Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 975	I have no guts to do that too, one time i was at bar one man ask me if i wants to have a night stand with him i was like he was and left then other time he saw me he say he is sorry ,

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04-30-2003, 04:58 PM	#32 (permalink)
Sydlie Happier for it Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Columbus Posts: 445	I'm too picky about men. To quote Cher in the movie 'Clueless': "You see how picky I am about my shoes and they only go on my feet"

04-30-2003, 05:32 PM	#33 (permalink)
Liza Cranial protocologist Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Jacksonville Posts: 4,242 Blog Entries: 2	flashes my married finger Had a guy following me like a panting dog, even after I showed him my finger (the married one)..... sheesh! lol I only find my hubby the sexiest in my heart and mind.

04-30-2003, 06:07 PM	#34 (permalink)
Freaky Guest Posts: n/a	I'd decline with a smile!! lusting after a certain ADv2 member, that's why!!!

04-30-2003, 10:05 PM	#37 (permalink)
Joker2003 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Warrensburg NY Posts: 22	I rather not to do it because i am in relationship for a year and one month.. and also i think it is nasty to do it because i just having sex for no reason then next day i will relaized it that i made a mistake.. so no thanks.. I rather to my girl period..

05-01-2003, 01:49 AM	#40 (permalink)
ShEiLdTaLiSmAn Protector Of My Daughter Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Crazy Smallest State of USA Posts: 1,229	never had a guy asked. Well... over the internet but RL, nope. I would say no. But I'm a teaser. (I aint detailing. Only ex's and the guys who will be in my life in the future would only know how bad teaser i am. )

05-02-2003, 05:15 PM	#43 (permalink)
Strawberry ~Nixie~ Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Ol'ugly plains where Tornadoes like to lick! Posts: 823	Bad experience.

05-03-2003, 06:08 PM	#44 (permalink)
vphreak Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: California Posts: 55	that's all you can say? Strawberry?

05-03-2003, 07:23 PM	#45 (permalink)
WonderBum Lip Inspector Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: New Zealand Posts: 615	I'd probably take it.... I'm FREE and SINGLE!!!! Who knows what it might turn into....

05-04-2003, 10:17 AM	#46 (permalink)
Amby Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: New York Posts: 121	interesting perspectives y'all.

08-07-2003, 02:27 PM	#50 (permalink)
SilenceGold Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 3,484	Most of you can guess what my decision...and whose decision would overturn mine.

08-07-2003, 03:13 PM	#51 (permalink)
Soonersseth Boomer Sooner Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Tulsa, OK Posts: 1,391	never happened to me but I'f it did I would be like wtf? I have no guts plus I have morals and sleeping around is against them. After I accept she will probly tell me her goin rate. And I'm not that lucky anyway.

08-07-2003, 05:37 PM	#52 (permalink)
RosesNY Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 975	one at time i went to the bar . i was talk to a man that i don;t know we talk about our life and being deaf. Then he ask me if i wants to have a night stand with me i was like left

08-17-2003, 03:10 PM	#54 (permalink)
Tousi Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 9,577	LOL, Soonersfan, that was funny......her going rate!

08-17-2003, 08:50 PM	#55 (permalink)
javapride Java's Big Island Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: hawaii Posts: 6,509	I rather to GET to know the person before going for it, cuz todays STD is dangerous and i rather be safe than sorry

08-19-2003, 02:11 PM	#56 (permalink)
Saline Eyes Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: The Empire State Posts: 397	I'm currently with someone, but that has no bearing on my views on booty calls. Attached or unattached, I'd decline a one night stand.

09-30-2003, 08:58 PM	#57 (permalink)
burrito What a Jackass! Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Not the end of the world, but you can see it from there. UT Posts: 176	I did it a few times. It is wierd. I never thought a girl would ask ME for sex, but it happened . . . I did it, but regret it. I wouldn't do it again. I finally learned my lesson after 4 times regretting it. Duh! What a Jackass!