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Old 09-25-2008, 11:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Marry or Maiden?

I got a question for women that have been divorce. Did you keep your marry name or did you go back to using your maiden name?
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Old 09-25-2008, 11:24 PM   #2 (permalink)
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most of the time, I recall some people rather better off going back to its maiden names after the divorce.
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Old 09-25-2008, 11:29 PM   #3 (permalink)
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After the divorce I kept my married name because of my children but now I have a different last name since I got married again ...
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Old 09-25-2008, 11:29 PM   #4 (permalink)
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My stepmother was a divorced woman before she married my father. She used her maiden name until she remarried.
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Old 09-25-2008, 11:34 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I've never been divorce, but whoever has or will get a divorce, I think it's up to them if they wish to change back their last name to their maiden name, or keep their ex husband's last name.
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Old 09-25-2008, 11:36 PM   #6 (permalink)
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My parents have been married almost over 30 yrs but they got divorced recently. They decided to keep their last names same because its expensive to change their last names after the divorce.

If you want to change the last name, its expensive to get it back on with madien last name. If you dont want to change it, nothing to pay for.
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Old 09-25-2008, 11:53 PM   #7 (permalink)
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well i keep my last name anyway
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:07 AM   #8 (permalink)
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My parents in the law got divorced. She was still same last name as married. Then she got married to other man.

My old staff told me about change the last name after divorced and back to maiden. It's expensive to change the last name to maiden. If you can't afford to change your last name back to maiden and still same as married's last name.
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:18 AM   #9 (permalink)
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well i keep my last name anyway
You never had been married yet.

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Old 09-26-2008, 12:22 AM   #10 (permalink)
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You never had been married yet.

lol well i am going to back
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:26 AM   #12 (permalink)
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LMAO at Cheri and moonflower
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:27 AM   #13 (permalink)
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heheh pepsi
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yeah my parents had a divorce in 1994 i said think my parents was too young my mum and older my dad us crazy it. i don't know long time with my dad's surname say need to my middle Saensarn. she don't have a not married to man. she was new a husband is Craig. when she was go a out nightclub in Chiang Mai,Thailand.
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:29 AM   #15 (permalink)
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I never been married.

If I ever get married and take what ever is my husband's last name. If I got divorce I'll keep my ex last name rather than going thru hassles to change everything.
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:30 AM   #16 (permalink)
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OOOO Cheri and Moonflower getting slappy-happy eh? LOL kidding ladies...
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Old 09-26-2008, 01:00 AM   #17 (permalink)
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lol lol sharky does it turn you on lmaoo

sorry Pepsi for going off topic *tsk tsk* at sharky lol
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I am married and join my Husband his last name, oh hard to voice *cough* whatever, i am happy to keep my first name LOL
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i never married but i would get married somedays and i would join my future husband's last name.

when my late grandfather dies in 1976 and my grandmother kept her maiden last names when my grandma got remarried again but i know my family's maiden names and also my mom's

but i will still known my last name as maiden last name till i got married but i will known as
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Old 09-26-2008, 08:02 AM   #20 (permalink)
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Never changed my surname when I got married. Now I don't have to when I'm getting divorced. Haha
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Old 09-26-2008, 08:21 AM   #21 (permalink)
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I would keep my last name and will not go back to my Maiden last name. It would cost too much money. Nah! Even though I like my new last name
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Old 09-26-2008, 12:40 PM   #22 (permalink)
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LOL Moonflower.. lol funny..

anyways... I wonder if a guy could give his bride the option to have her last name stay the same or add a - to the other name beside her maiden name? or this odd thing where the groom did take the bride's last name (I know I read that in a mag somewhere but cant remmy for my life what the mag's name was.. so ehhh) but that really interesting..
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LOL Moonflower.. lol funny..

anyways... I wonder if a guy could give his bride the option to have her last name stay the same or add a - to the other name beside her maiden name? or this odd thing where the groom did take the bride's last name (I know I read that in a mag somewhere but cant remmy for my life what the mag's name was.. so ehhh) but that really interesting..
I take it you will accept donkeyboy's lastname


Is going to get nailed for this , I am kidding LOL


Ok, back to the topic my parents are divorced and my mom kept her married lastname.
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my friend did keep her last name after she got divorce
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Old 09-26-2008, 09:19 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I was married before. After I got married for the second time to my other husband, I used two names (my ex-husband's name and my present husband's name) for the bank business and other businesses that is associate with the bank. When it is not business or not serious not associate with the bank, I use my present husband's last name only. I will keep my both names if my husband pass away or divorce me. Right now we are still tight and have been married for 11 years so far. I am praying that he remain alive for as long as he lives.
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I take it you will accept donkeyboy's lastname


Is going to get nailed for this , I am kidding LOL


Ok, back to the topic my parents are divorced and my mom kept her married lastname.
Ocean.. sorry.. I aint gonna get married to that rotten donkey.. hahah nice try... he can marry jo.. lol......
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Old 09-26-2008, 11:59 PM   #27 (permalink)
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I was married before. After I got married for the second time to my other husband, I used two names (my ex-husband's name and my present husband's name) for the bank business and other businesses that is associate with the bank. When it is not business or not serious not associate with the bank, I use my present husband's last name only. I will keep my both names if my husband pass away or divorce me. Right now we are still tight and have been married for 11 years so far. I am praying that he remain alive for as long as he lives.
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Old 09-27-2008, 12:05 AM   #28 (permalink)
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Sometimes, women keep their maiden name along with their new name for family line purposes.

For instance, a guy may leave a will stating that only the oldest living family member carrying his last name may take over his business and keep it going. So, his son takes over the business. However, if his son only has one kid and it's a girl... then that girl can get married and still take over the business since she kept her last name along with her new name.
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Old 09-27-2008, 12:26 AM   #29 (permalink)
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I kept mine. Too much paperwork and headache to change it.
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