Marry or Maiden?

Pepsi · 09-25-2008, 11:22 PM

I got a question for women that have been divorce. Did you keep your marry name or did you go back to using your maiden name?

JClarke · 09-25-2008, 11:24 PM

most of the time, I recall some people rather better off going back to its maiden names after the divorce.

Angel · 09-25-2008, 11:29 PM

After the divorce I kept my married name because of my children but now I have a different last name since I got married again ...

Bottesini · 09-25-2008, 11:29 PM

My stepmother was a divorced woman before she married my father. She used her maiden name until she remarried.

Cheri · 09-25-2008, 11:34 PM

I've never been divorce, but whoever has or will get a divorce, I think it's up to them if they wish to change back their last name to their maiden name, or keep their ex husband's last name.

Tinkerbell · 09-25-2008, 11:36 PM

My parents have been married almost over 30 yrs but they got divorced recently. They decided to keep their last names same because its expensive to change their last names after the divorce.

If you want to change the last name, its expensive to get it back on with madien last name. If you dont want to change it, nothing to pay for.

moonflower · 09-25-2008, 11:53 PM

well i keep my last name anyway

~♥~Pinky~♥~ · 09-26-2008, 12:07 AM

My parents in the law got divorced. She was still same last name as married. Then she got married to other man.

My old staff told me about change the last name after divorced and back to maiden. It's expensive to change the last name to maiden. If you can't afford to change your last name back to maiden and still same as married's last name.

Cheri · 09-26-2008, 12:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by moonflower

well i keep my last name anyway

You never had been married yet.

moonflower · 09-26-2008, 12:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cheri

You never had been married yet.

lol well i am going to

back

JClarke · 09-26-2008, 12:23 AM

Pepsi · 09-26-2008, 12:26 AM

LMAO at Cheri and moonflower

moonflower · 09-26-2008, 12:27 AM

heheh pepsi

the_blah · 09-26-2008, 12:27 AM

yeah my parents had a divorce in 1994 i said think my parents was too young my mum and older my dad us crazy it. i don't know long time with my dad's surname say need to my middle Saensarn. she don't have a not married to man. she was new a husband is Craig. when she was go a out nightclub in Chiang Mai,Thailand.

***~SG~*** · 09-26-2008, 12:29 AM

I never been married.

If I ever get married and take what ever is my husband's last name. If I got divorce I'll keep my ex last name rather than going thru hassles to change everything.

Sharky99 · 09-26-2008, 12:30 AM

OOOO Cheri and Moonflower getting slappy-happy eh? LOL kidding ladies...

moonflower · 09-26-2008, 01:00 AM

lol lol sharky does it turn you on lmaoo

sorry Pepsi for going off topic *tsk tsk* at sharky lol

Sunshinelady · 09-26-2008, 01:22 AM

I am married and join my Husband his last name, oh hard to voice *cough* whatever, i am happy to keep my first name LOL

sara1981 · 09-26-2008, 03:10 AM

i never married but i would get married somedays and i would join my future husband's last name.

when my late grandfather dies in 1976 and my grandmother kept her maiden last names when my grandma got remarried again but i know my family's maiden names and also my mom's

but i will still known my last name as maiden last name till i got married but i will known as

Liza · 09-26-2008, 08:02 AM

Never changed my surname when I got married. Now I don't have to when I'm getting divorced. Haha

LakeTahoe · 09-26-2008, 08:21 AM

I would keep my last name and will not go back to my Maiden last name. It would cost too much money. Nah! Even though I like my new last name

Sharky99 · 09-26-2008, 12:40 PM

LOL Moonflower.. lol funny..

anyways... I wonder if a guy could give his bride the option to have her last name stay the same or add a - to the other name beside her maiden name? or this odd thing where the groom did take the bride's last name (I know I read that in a mag somewhere but cant remmy for my life what the mag's name was.. so ehhh) but that really interesting..

Oceanblue7 · 09-26-2008, 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sharky99

LOL Moonflower.. lol funny..

anyways... I wonder if a guy could give his bride the option to have her last name stay the same or add a - to the other name beside her maiden name? or this odd thing where the groom did take the bride's last name (I know I read that in a mag somewhere but cant remmy for my life what the mag's name was.. so ehhh) but that really interesting..

I take it you will accept donkeyboy's lastname

Is going to get nailed for this , I am kidding LOL

Ok, back to the topic my parents are divorced and my mom kept her married lastname.

moonflower · 09-26-2008, 08:17 PM

my friend did keep her last name after she got divorce

Bebonang · 09-26-2008, 09:19 PM

I was married before. After I got married for the second time to my other husband, I used two names (my ex-husband's name and my present husband's name) for the bank business and other businesses that is associate with the bank. When it is not business or not serious not associate with the bank, I use my present husband's last name only. I will keep my both names if my husband pass away or divorce me. Right now we are still tight and have been married for 11 years so far. I am praying that he remain alive for as long as he lives.

Sharky99 · 09-26-2008, 11:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oceanblue7

I take it you will accept donkeyboy's lastname

Is going to get nailed for this , I am kidding LOL

Ok, back to the topic my parents are divorced and my mom kept her married lastname.

Ocean.. sorry.. I aint gonna get married to that rotten donkey.. hahah nice try... he can marry jo.. lol......

Angel · 09-26-2008, 11:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bebonang

I was married before. After I got married for the second time to my other husband, I used two names (my ex-husband's name and my present husband's name) for the bank business and other businesses that is associate with the bank. When it is not business or not serious not associate with the bank, I use my present husband's last name only. I will keep my both names if my husband pass away or divorce me. Right now we are still tight and have been married for 11 years so far. I am praying that he remain alive for as long as he lives.

Sweet! =)

***VamPyroX*** · 09-27-2008, 12:05 AM

Sometimes, women keep their maiden name along with their new name for family line purposes.

For instance, a guy may leave a will stating that only the oldest living family member carrying his last name may take over his business and keep it going. So, his son takes over the business. However, if his son only has one kid and it's a girl... then that girl can get married and still take over the business since she kept her last name along with her new name.

deafbajagal · 09-27-2008, 12:26 AM

I kept mine. Too much paperwork and headache to change it.

09-25-2008, 11:22 PM	#1 (permalink)
Pepsi The One and Only Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA Posts: 3,406	Marry or Maiden? I got a question for women that have been divorce. Did you keep your marry name or did you go back to using your maiden name?

09-25-2008, 11:24 PM	#2 (permalink)
JClarke AD addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 14,113 Blog Entries: 4	most of the time, I recall some people rather better off going back to its maiden names after the divorce. __________________ This is not a ASL version

09-25-2008, 11:29 PM	#4 (permalink)
Bottesini Elf Assassin Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Sneaking up behind you Posts: 5,859 Blog Entries: 2	My stepmother was a divorced woman before she married my father. She used her maiden name until she remarried. __________________ AllDeaf

09-25-2008, 11:34 PM	#5 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 21,025	I've never been divorce, but whoever has or will get a divorce, I think it's up to them if they wish to change back their last name to their maiden name, or keep their ex husband's last name. __________________

09-25-2008, 11:36 PM	#6 (permalink)
Tinkerbell Registered User Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Neverland Posts: 219	My parents have been married almost over 30 yrs but they got divorced recently. They decided to keep their last names same because its expensive to change their last names after the divorce. If you want to change the last name, its expensive to get it back on with madien last name. If you dont want to change it, nothing to pay for. __________________

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09-25-2008, 11:29 PM	#3 (permalink)
Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 19,088	After the divorce I kept my married name because of my children but now I have a different last name since I got married again ...

09-25-2008, 11:53 PM	#7 (permalink)
moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,875	well i keep my last name anyway __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08

09-26-2008, 12:07 AM	#8 (permalink)
~♥~Pinky~♥~ Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,679	My parents in the law got divorced. She was still same last name as married. Then she got married to other man. My old staff told me about change the last name after divorced and back to maiden. It's expensive to change the last name to maiden. If you can't afford to change your last name back to maiden and still same as married's last name. __________________

09-26-2008, 12:23 AM	#11 (permalink)
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09-26-2008, 12:26 AM	#12 (permalink)
Pepsi The One and Only Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA Posts: 3,406	LMAO at Cheri and moonflower

09-26-2008, 12:27 AM	#13 (permalink)
moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,875	heheh pepsi __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08

09-26-2008, 12:27 AM	#14 (permalink)
the_blah I am pretty -- :) Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Canberra, Australia Posts: 55 Blog Entries: 1	yeah my parents had a divorce in 1994 i said think my parents was too young my mum and older my dad us crazy it. i don't know long time with my dad's surname say need to my middle Saensarn. she don't have a not married to man. she was new a husband is Craig. when she was go a out nightclub in Chiang Mai,Thailand. __________________ MY UNCLE HER IS VICTOR GARBER FROM THE HOLLYWOOD IS ACTOR

09-26-2008, 12:29 AM	#15 (permalink)
*~SG~* Super Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Australia Posts: 3,979	I never been married. If I ever get married and take what ever is my husband's last name. If I got divorce I'll keep my ex last name rather than going thru hassles to change everything. __________________

09-26-2008, 12:30 AM	#16 (permalink)
Sharky99 aka NorthStar Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central Canada Posts: 3,530	OOOO Cheri and Moonflower getting slappy-happy eh? LOL kidding ladies...

09-26-2008, 01:00 AM	#17 (permalink)
moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,875	lol lol sharky does it turn you on lmaoo sorry Pepsi for going off topic tsk tsk at sharky lol __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08

09-26-2008, 01:22 AM	#18 (permalink)
Sunshinelady I am in area SF Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: California Posts: 1,992	I am married and join my Husband his last name, oh hard to voice cough whatever, i am happy to keep my first name LOL __________________ The laughter is the best medicine.

09-26-2008, 03:10 AM	#19 (permalink)
sara1981 Batista's fans Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: North Little Rock,Ar Posts: 3,282	i never married but i would get married somedays and i would join my future husband's last name. when my late grandfather dies in 1976 and my grandmother kept her maiden last names when my grandma got remarried again but i know my family's maiden names and also my mom's but i will still known my last name as maiden last name till i got married but i will known as __________________

09-26-2008, 08:02 AM	#20 (permalink)
Liza Cranial protocologist Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: St Augustine, FL Posts: 4,161 Blog Entries: 2	Never changed my surname when I got married. Now I don't have to when I'm getting divorced. Haha

09-26-2008, 08:21 AM	#21 (permalink)
LakeTahoe ~~JUST ME!!~~ Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Lost somewhere on the Earth! Posts: 12,293	I would keep my last name and will not go back to my Maiden last name. It would cost too much money. Nah! Even though I like my new last name __________________ HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

09-26-2008, 12:40 PM	#22 (permalink)
Sharky99 aka NorthStar Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central Canada Posts: 3,530	LOL Moonflower.. lol funny.. anyways... I wonder if a guy could give his bride the option to have her last name stay the same or add a - to the other name beside her maiden name? or this odd thing where the groom did take the bride's last name (I know I read that in a mag somewhere but cant remmy for my life what the mag's name was.. so ehhh) but that really interesting..

09-26-2008, 08:17 PM	#24 (permalink)
moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,875	my friend did keep her last name after she got divorce __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08

09-26-2008, 09:19 PM	#25 (permalink)
Bebonang Registered User Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Manitoulin Island on Lake Huron in Canada Posts: 1,567	I was married before. After I got married for the second time to my other husband, I used two names (my ex-husband's name and my present husband's name) for the bank business and other businesses that is associate with the bank. When it is not business or not serious not associate with the bank, I use my present husband's last name only. I will keep my both names if my husband pass away or divorce me. Right now we are still tight and have been married for 11 years so far. I am praying that he remain alive for as long as he lives.

09-27-2008, 12:05 AM	#28 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 27,844	Sometimes, women keep their maiden name along with their new name for family line purposes. For instance, a guy may leave a will stating that only the oldest living family member carrying his last name may take over his business and keep it going. So, his son takes over the business. However, if his son only has one kid and it's a girl... then that girl can get married and still take over the business since she kept her last name along with her new name. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

09-27-2008, 12:26 AM	#29 (permalink)
deafbajagal Jasmine's Tiger "Lilly" Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 2,107	I kept mine. Too much paperwork and headache to change it.