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View Poll Results: The most unattractive qualities
Bad Hygiene 8 19.51%
Smokers 5 12.20%
Fat/Obesity 7 17.07%
Lazy/Unmotivated 7 17.07%
Controlling 6 14.63%
Clingy 0 0%
Others - Explain 8 19.51%
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Old 09-13-2008, 04:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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What do you find to be the most unattractive quality in opposite sex?

Vote away.

I vote Bad Hygiene. Being clean and germ free are impt to me.
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Old 09-14-2008, 07:37 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 09-14-2008, 11:41 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I cant stand it when a man becomes demanding and react with a "You left me" if I need to do something for myeslf. I dont need their guilt trips if I want some space Making me feel guilty never makes me want to stay with a man so that trick NEVER works!
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Old 09-14-2008, 11:49 AM   #4 (permalink)
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dang... there's no "ALL OF ABOVE" ?
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Old 09-14-2008, 12:38 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Several would bother me, but I voted bad hygiene as I think it is the worst problem if spending extended amounts of time with someone.
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Old 09-14-2008, 08:07 PM   #6 (permalink)
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dang... there's no "ALL OF ABOVE" ?
You can vote "Others"

Hard to believe that you wld have a sex with opposite sex if she have all of these qualities unless you re very desperate.
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Old 09-14-2008, 08:19 PM   #7 (permalink)
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The funky chunky monkeys will make me say "NEXT!"
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The funky chunky monkeys will make me say "NEXT!"
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Old 09-14-2008, 08:33 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Old 09-14-2008, 09:18 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Lumby where do you find these hilarious images? You always make me crack up with your silly responses - creative visual answers.

Now I cannot get that monkey out of my head tonight!
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Old 09-14-2008, 10:12 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Lumby where do you find these hilarious images? You always make me crack up with your silly responses - creative visual answers.

Now I cannot get that monkey out of my head tonight!
So I take it that you despite fatso people?
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Old 09-14-2008, 10:51 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Controlling is first and bad hygeine. If a guy who is hot, sexy and keeps himself clean is controlling..no thanks. However, I am anal about personal hygiene so I tell my husband that he cant get near me if he stinks.

Another reason to feel sorry for my hubby, yep.
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Ahem. Fat.

All the rest I can help fix, easy.

But not fat.
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Old 09-16-2008, 05:22 AM   #14 (permalink)
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dang... there's no "ALL OF ABOVE" ?

no kidding.
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Old 09-16-2008, 07:16 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Lazy and a snob is very unattractive, just because a man works doesn't mean he can't help around the house and pick up after themselves.. I work; I come home-- clean, do laundry and cook. If I can do it, men can do it too.

I applause to those men who do house-work.
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Lazy and a snob is very unattractive, just because a man works doesn't mean he can't help around the house and pick up after themselves.. I work; I come home-- clean, do laundry and cook. If I can do it, men can do it too.

I applause to those men who do house-work.
I agree, there is no excuse because I work and my wife works. we both share the duties around the house. It is the right thing to do.
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Old 09-16-2008, 11:30 AM   #17 (permalink)
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BAD Hygiene

If I had a choice from 1 to 3...

I choose bad hygiene first, laziness second and overweight third. I don't mind a big guy, just hate it when they said "I'm gonna lose weight" and nothing happens for 6 months.

Haven't been in a relationship that is controlling... but if I get a hint - I run for the hills!
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Old 09-16-2008, 11:36 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Lazy and a snob is very unattractive, just because a man works doesn't mean he can't help around the house and pick up after themselves.. I work; I come home-- clean, do laundry and cook. If I can do it, men can do it too.

I applause to those men who do house-work.
That is the arrangement I have with my significant other. Sometimes we will trade whole jobs, she will wash my underwear, I cook a hell of a dinner for 2!
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I agree, there is no excuse because I work and my wife works. we both share the duties around the house. It is the right thing to do.
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That is the arrangement I have with my significant other. Sometimes we will trade whole jobs, she will wash my underwear, I cook a hell of a dinner for 2!
That's great! I like you guys already--I wish more men would do the way you two do it.
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That's great! I like you guys already--I wish more men would do the way you two do it.
hey! I do that too....... not by choice
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So I take it that you despite fatso people?
No I dont - dont put words in my mouth
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Ahem. Fat.

All the rest I can help fix, easy.

But not fat.
Fat is a problem for you? an overweight person can lose weight, You'll be a sorry if the woman that you turned down on for a date had decide to lose weight, became gorgeous and fit. You'll be a sucker for turning her down in the first place, and she'll remember that you didn't want her when she was fat. Women wouldn't like men choosing them just because they're gorgeous and fit.
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Fat is a problem for you? an overweight person can lose weight, You'll be a sorry if the woman that you turned down on for a date had decide to lose weight, became gorgeous and fit. You'll be a sucker for turning her down in the first place, and she'll remember that you didn't want her when she was fat. Women wouldn't like men choosing them just because they're gorgeous and fit.
haha! true that. I hate to say but I did make that judgment back in high school. There were a few girls who were ugly because of weird hair, fat/skinny, etc. several years later............. I saw the facebook pictures of their current version and damn.....
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The most unattractive qualities
Bad Hygiene
Smokers
Fat/Obesity
Lazy/Unmotivated
Controlling
Clingy
Others - Explain

All of the above
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Old 09-16-2008, 12:39 PM   #25 (permalink)
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Fat is a problem for you? an overweight person can lose weight, You'll be a sorry if the woman that you turned down on for a date had decide to lose weight, became gorgeous and fit. You'll be a sucker for turning her down in the first place, and she'll remember that you didn't want her when she was fat. Women wouldn't like men choosing them just because they're gorgeous and fit.
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haha! true that. I hate to say but I did make that judgment back in high school. There were a few girls who were ugly because of weird hair, fat/skinny, etc. several years later............. I saw the facebook pictures of their current version and damn.....
Lol same thing happened to me too, Back in HS.. I turned a boy down on a prom date because he was... not gonna say it, then I bumped into him at Starbuck coffee chat, and he looks soo fine... He had to bring up the prom, and said sooo remember back then you didn't want to take me to the prom?, big mistake big mistake!! I'm like.. damn are you gonna hold that over my head?
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