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Old 07-25-2008, 04:48 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy why did some deaf women not to answer when men ask do she have job or what she do job

I have a question, I wonder why some deaf women refuse to answer when men ask do she have job or what she do job? It could make men feel not interesting or turn off on women anyways. Not only this happen, I'd seen some men leave their dating asian women because of not prove themselves about job. Ever some women scared to answer because they think men could reject them as dating.
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Old 07-25-2008, 02:57 PM   #2 (permalink)
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lol what?
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Old 07-25-2008, 03:31 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I have a question, I wonder why some deaf women refuse to answer when men ask do she have job or what she do job? It could make men feel not interesting or turn off on women anyways. Not only this happen, I'd seen some men leave their dating asian women because of not prove themselves about job. Ever some women scared to answer because they think men could reject them as dating.
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"I have a question: why do some deaf women refuse to answer the question of whether they have a job or not, especially if asked by men.

It could make men feel bad or they view it as a turn-off. Not only does this happen, I've seen some men break off their relationship with asian women because of not having proof they have a job.

Even some women are scared to answer because they think men could reject them as potentional dating/relationship material."

I hope that helps.
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Old 07-25-2008, 06:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
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"I have a question: why do some deaf women refuse to answer the question of whether they have a job or not, especially if asked by men.

It could make men feel bad or they view it as a turn-off. Not only does this happen, I've seen some men break off their relationship with asian women because of not having proof they have a job.

Even some women are scared to answer because they think men could reject them as potentional dating/relationship material."

I hope that helps.
Yep agree with you on that. Some men get upset if thew woman make more money on her job than the guy does and he breaks up. Seems it a very sentive situation for some men. Not only if they don t have a job. Some deaf women probably felt terrible if they have low income jobs and break it off. But put it this way, even deaf guys try to take advangte of deaf women working when deaf guy go no job. It can go the other way around. No one perfect.
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Old 07-25-2008, 08:52 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I don't know why we bother; this poster never comes back to the threads he/she commences......
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Old 07-25-2008, 08:53 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I don't know why we bother; this poster never comes back to the threads he/she commences......
I was thinking the same...
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Old 07-25-2008, 09:43 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Yep! We are no counselors here, sorry. lol
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Old 07-26-2008, 12:37 AM   #8 (permalink)
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I don't have anything against women making more money than men... or women even having a job.

If they have a job, that's great. In fact, it would make me like that woman more... cuz I know that we both can support each other and that she can also handle things on her own.
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Old 07-26-2008, 12:47 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Yep! We are no counselors here, sorry. lol
Actually that may be the most needed answer. All posts have a sad face and never anything positive.
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Old 07-26-2008, 08:08 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Actually that may be the most needed answer. All posts have a sad face and never anything positive.
and they are always about what deaf people did wrong. Make me wonder if the OP dislikes deaf people?
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Old 07-26-2008, 10:28 AM   #11 (permalink)
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and they are always about what deaf people did wrong. Make me wonder if the OP dislikes deaf people?
Well, as a counselor, I would have to agree.....poster gots some issues!
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Old 07-26-2008, 02:13 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Old 07-27-2008, 12:05 AM   #13 (permalink)
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There are few reasons are

*Making more money than men do

*Gold digger has no job

*job as a sex escort or a hooker

*never tell men what she is living for on the first date ( my brother's one of stupid rules)

*Men have no job so take advantage of dumb girls with plenty of money
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