your opinion on this?

Taurus · 07-07-2008, 08:10 PM

If someone say this to you, "Well, one of the reasons why I decided to break up with you because you was in first relationship.. You need to find another boyfriend."

I was soo

.. I mean I hasnt do anything wrong! He is the one who cause a lot of problems and wasnt in first relationship!

Honestly, who cares if I'm in first relationship with someone as long we can work these out and patience.. but my ex... wtf he was thinking?

Byrdie714 · 07-07-2008, 08:15 PM

I would say good riddance.

Besides who needs the jerk? Focus on yourself, your schooling, getting the diploma, getting your dream job, you dream house,etc, etc.

The "right man" will come along before you know it.

Bottesini · 07-07-2008, 08:15 PM

I think he was trying to find a way to break up and not hurt your feelings. That probably was not his real reason.

***~SG~*** · 07-07-2008, 08:22 PM

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Taurus · 07-07-2008, 08:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bottesini

I think he was trying to find a way to break up and not hurt your feelings. That probably was not his real reason.

hmm yea afraid to hurt my feeling cuz he knew that I was soo madly love with him..

u know how I found out that I broke up? here the story.. He called my mom to tell me to break up.. She texted me that my ex is done with me.. About one hour later, my ex came in the house to pick his stuff and leave to his "next partner."

ugh, why he have night stand the day before our break up.. he is soo idiot..

Bottesini · 07-07-2008, 08:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Taurus

hmm yea afraid to hurt my feeling cuz he knew that I was soo madly love with him..

u know how I found out that I broke up? here the story.. He called my mom to tell me to break up.. She texted me that my ex is done with me.. About one hour later, my ex came in the house to pick his stuff and leave to his "next partner."

ugh, why he have night stand the day before our break up.. he is soo idiot..

I am sorry. Maybe you will meet someone better and then you can thank him that he left.

jasin · 07-07-2008, 08:59 PM

I would say, seeeee ya.

CrzyMeg · 07-08-2008, 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Byrdie714

I would say good riddance.

Besides who needs the jerk? Focus on yourself, your schooling, getting the diploma, getting your dream job, you dream house,etc, etc.

The "right man" will come along before you know it.

Amen

Wokamuka · 07-08-2008, 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Taurus

He called my mom to tell me to break up.. She texted me that my ex is done with me..

Better you find out about his character now than later. Sorry it happened to you. I know you'll be stronger and wiser.

Freaky Cat · 07-08-2008, 05:22 PM

He probably made up excuse and wanted to end it so said that in an idiot way. I still think it was wrong of him to do that. ugh!

Dont worry about him. You are better off without him, ok. Focus on yourself and your life right now.. Dont worry about Love.. Let it come to you when you are READY.

I am sorry this happened to you. Just chin up and you got us to talk with. So have a faith and you will be ok in no time!

***Jolie77*** · 07-08-2008, 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Taurus

hmm yea afraid to hurt my feeling cuz he knew that I was soo madly love with him..

u know how I found out that I broke up? here the story.. He called my mom to tell me to break up.. She texted me that my ex is done with me.. About one hour later, my ex came in the house to pick his stuff and leave to his "next partner."

ugh, why he have night stand the day before our break up.. he is soo idiot..

Pardon, He called your mom to tell her that he wanted to break up with you? I'm sorry, that kind of guy isn't the one for you because he is a coward. If he wasn't a coward, he would and could have had the courage to come up to you face to face to end it with you. He could have the decency to face it up with you and in that way, it would have been better because you will be getting your answers, at least.

JClarke · 07-08-2008, 06:48 PM

Bother him, someone different and better than that guy will come to you, nothing to worry!

Matilda · 07-08-2008, 10:54 PM

[He called your mom to tell her that he wanted to break up with you?]

That's not on! ... to tell someone else to do the dirty work, let alone your mother, is a coward's way out!

inochi · 07-08-2008, 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jolie77

Pardon, He called your mom to tell her that he wanted to break up with you? I'm sorry, that kind of guy isn't the one for you because he is a coward. If he wasn't a coward, he would and could have had the courage to come up to you face to face to end it with you. He could have the decency to face it up with you and in that way, it would have been better because you will be getting your answers, at least.

MY thoughts exactly. Therefore he is not the right person for you. Then you will know what kind of a person he is if you stay with him long-term.

***VamPyroX*** · 07-13-2008, 01:02 AM

I was in a similar situation. My ex-girlfriend was my first girlfriend. She would try to get me to do things her way by saying that I didn't know what is supposed to happen in a relationship because it was my first relationship.

Tousi · 07-13-2008, 01:06 AM

You don't need a Mommy's boy. Best wishes....

JClarke · 07-13-2008, 01:20 AM

Best luck in finding a better man than you used to have. He's a sook anyway.

Byrdie714 · 07-13-2008, 11:17 AM

JClarke is single.

Cheri · 07-13-2008, 11:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matilda

That's not on! ... to tell someone else to do the dirty work, let alone your mother, is a coward's way out!

ha ha ha I agree, He couldn't tell her to her face, instead he had to go to a 3rd party and leave a message, what a coward.

JClarke · 07-13-2008, 04:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Byrdie714

JClarke is single.

CrzyMeg · 07-13-2008, 09:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Freaky Cat

He probably made up excuse and wanted to end it so said that in an idiot way. I still think it was wrong of him to do that. ugh!

Dont worry about him. You are better off without him, ok. Focus on yourself and your life right now.. Dont worry about Love.. Let it come to you when you are READY.

I am sorry this happened to you. Just chin up and you got us to talk with. So have a faith and you will be ok in no time!

That I would agree to.

Liza · 07-13-2008, 11:27 PM

Be glad you made a narrow escape if that's how he plays it.

coolgirlspyer90 · 07-14-2008, 01:39 AM

wow wat a jerk! i would be pissed at him too...and its pretty stupid too for your boyfriend to call your mom and your mom tells you that your ex is breaking up with you. I rather break up in person...its a better way i guess..

07-07-2008, 08:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
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Freaky Cat My cat Oreo :) Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,182	He probably made up excuse and wanted to end it so said that in an idiot way. I still think it was wrong of him to do that. ugh! Dont worry about him. You are better off without him, ok. Focus on yourself and your life right now.. Dont worry about Love.. Let it come to you when you are READY. I am sorry this happened to you. Just chin up and you got us to talk with. So have a faith and you will be ok in no time! __________________ When you miss me just look up to the night sky and remember, I'm like a star; sometimes you can't see me, but I'm always there! Freaky Cat's Blog

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07-07-2008, 08:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
Byrdie714 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Pacific County, Washington Posts: 5,116	I would say good riddance. Besides who needs the jerk? Focus on yourself, your schooling, getting the diploma, getting your dream job, you dream house,etc, etc. The "right man" will come along before you know it.

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jasin Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Puyallup, Washington Posts: 779	I would say, seeeee ya.

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Matilda Boxing Kangaroo "Jack" Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 2,176	[He called your mom to tell her that he wanted to break up with you?] That's not on! ... to tell someone else to do the dirty work, let alone your mother, is a coward's way out!

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*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 27,844	I was in a similar situation. My ex-girlfriend was my first girlfriend. She would try to get me to do things her way by saying that I didn't know what is supposed to happen in a relationship because it was my first relationship. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

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Tousi Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 8,240	You don't need a Mommy's boy. Best wishes....

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JClarke AD addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 14,112 Blog Entries: 4	Best luck in finding a better man than you used to have. He's a sook anyway. __________________ This is not a ASL version

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Byrdie714 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Pacific County, Washington Posts: 5,116	JClarke is single.

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Liza Cranial protocologist Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: St Augustine, FL Posts: 4,161 Blog Entries: 2	Be glad you made a narrow escape if that's how he plays it.

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coolgirlspyer90 Music is my life. Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 516	wow wat a jerk! i would be pissed at him too...and its pretty stupid too for your boyfriend to call your mom and your mom tells you that your ex is breaking up with you. I rather break up in person...its a better way i guess..

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