NorCal20

best way to find a lady or guy: be yourself and be honest to share with. Nothing fancy.

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JClarke

being fancy and rich isn't important either

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VamPyroX

I agree.

I don't like it when women change themselves just so that I will like them. When they change back, then they try to use it against me trying to make me change for them when I never asked them to change for me.

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Maria

Care to caliborate ( sp ? ) ?

terpguy72

It's so scary!!! When I was first learning ASL, I had never met a Deaf person, and didn't know ANYTHING about ASL, not even the alphabet. My ASL teacher said the only way to learn the language was to see and use the langauge... so here we are, a small group of students at the bowling alley on Deaf League night, terrified to talk to anyone. It's very intimidating. Luckily, most of the Deaf folks were very patient and understanding that we sucked at ASL lol.

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Vampyrox

yea i have seen that happen before! oh man!

queenmanga

Nat84,
I know why many deaf single men had low of numbers who dont want to be steady themselves. That is why deaf women dont want any single men who have no work or unsoicalized with., and be SSDI for lifetime and no educational.
As 75% deaf women are afraid of deaf men for not working well with the jobs.
For Galludent University, there are very rare to be true to get a career. Like my brother does never get any true career from graduated in Gally.
Mostly in Southwestern of Virginia- there are about 10% men with jobs. 90% jobless with use of SSDI for lifetime because there are small business with discriminiations because they are Coal families in southwest of VA.
Honestly, Deaf Single Men has no excuses with no jobs. They never attracted the works. That is why Deaf Women dont want them.
Sometime Deaf Women are the fools....because they always falls in love with "hanssome looks" with no jobs.
any problems?

CrzyMeg

Jeez is that true?

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VamPyroX

Elaborate?

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VamPyroX

It's also a turn-off when I'm looking for women to date. I'd meet a woman and she would tell me about guys she prefers to date and guys she refuses to date. Later, she ends up dating the guy that fits the description of those she refuses to date regardless of how well-known that guy is as being the guy she shouldn't be dating. Something bad happens and she starts going around asking for pity because the guy she dated was evil. She does it again with another guy and another guy. After seeing that, I realize... she's not worth dating.

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Liza

Excellent point.

Wokamuka

Bowling? That's so midwestern! While I understand the plight of all ASL learners, my mind turns on screeching alarms saying "ASL student!" and I run until I cannot run no more.

Seriously, I hold language, as a tool, dearly. It's a very important tool. Go to the doctor or go to a class . . . without a solid use of language, you'd be lost. As an interpreter, I'm sure you'd understand. As a partner, your time is for loving and partnering . . . it shouldn't be dominated by teaching.

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cdaigle430

Yet another male bashing thread? There are just as many single women as there are men, as far as stastical numbers of deaf men vs deaf women, does anyone have those figures? There just might be alot more deaf men than deaf women-probably because women nagged them to deaf (oops, I just couldn't help saying that). Also it could be that hearing men love deaf women because of so little nagging and bitching which leaves fewer deaf women for deaf men (oh I'm on a role here)I'm kidding-no hate male please(get hate male). Seriously, it could just be the fact that deaf men are a little braver than deaf women at attending social events like Gallaudet, I don't know.

mx757

yea... taht's the truth... just be yourself....

mx757

I think you have a point there.....

Maria

Yes, thanks Vampy !

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Vampryox

oh yea.. yes excatly..
oh well

NorCal20

Maria,

High standards is what is suppose to be: be yourself with nothing fancy or being a rich. Just have a class and be a true gentleman. We have so many high standards in gentlemen's perferences, there is nothing wrong with that..Honest is one of greatest high standard to be share with include communicate. If there is a foundations to be builded along with pillars. For example, one pillar is cracked (communicate cracked), then others foundations have to covered it up and pulled the many supports to holds the foundations. If that pillar grew the cracks into broken, then foundations is whacked. Get the picture, ma'am? I hope its valid reasons to clear it up.

Feel free to disuss with :] Im open to opinions nor your pov.

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smiles

Said so well. Rather people like me for who i am than who i am not.

Gemma

If only all men think the way you do!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well said, NorCaL You are wise beyond your age Your lady is very lucky to have you

NorCal20

Thank you, ma'am. Unfortunely, there are not many gentlemen think the way as i do BUT thats RARE as i know.

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Maria

NorCal20,

Thanks, friend. I got it by your description of pillars. This is what my man and I are doing with each other. For instance: when he attempted to get a hold of me thru an email, his email went back to him....and that concerned him. It may give him a wrong or negative thought meaning that I will not come to meet him. When we finally chatted, he asked me if I am coming. I responded yes I am still coming. That will ease his " crack" or " doubt ". Right now, we both are building our foundation through our communicate with carefully words that we chose....that words show love. Our communication shows love for each other without thinking of our nationalities or how we dress or things that worldly people do nowdays. We think of " being there " for each other mentally and emotionally. And, yes honesty is very important in a relationship. My man is too transparent. We are " kooko " for each other.

Thanks for explaining what high standards means. Now, I know what you are talking about. Everything you said is true.

My man and I are committed to each other by biblical binding.

Byrdie714

What is biblical binding?

Maria

According to the bible what the bible teaches. No cheating or unfaithful and so forth. We don't follow what people are doing nowdays ( open relationship or threesome and so forth if, they agree. )

Byrdie714

I never heard anyone use that term of "biblical binding" before.....

Wokamuka

Is a relationship that has "biblical binding" or local religion-sanctioned affair any less or more than a loving relationship?

Do you love because religious texts told you so or do you love because you, truly, do?

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CrzyMeg

I agreed to that.

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AOFrozenCity

If you want to have more chance to have a woman then you shouldn't expect too much, don't think about yourself and your confidence, make sure that you are hygienic and charming guy, have good sense of humors, don't tell a woman if she will not like to know (for instance, if you know that your penis is 1 inch then silly you shouldn't let her to know.), and listen to what she wants and talks. That's my summary advice :]

jillio

Me, either. But it sounds similar to the concept that the ploygamist sect in the news recently used to justify their "spiritual unions" with several young wives.

jillio

The answer to the first question would be a "no".

The answer to the second is "If you claim to love for any reason other than the love itself, then you are not truly experiencing love, but learned behavior."