How long do u get to know that person before become boyfriend or girlfriend....

meyag2 · 07-05-2008, 06:46 PM

Let's say for example, "I want you to become my boyfriend". And he was like "Whoa, wait a min, that's too fast, I barely know you for like a month now, I want to get to know you more for one year and see what happens".

Some people who date for like one week or so. Then quickly become boyfriend or girlfriend but you don't know her or him that well yet.

As for me, I'd rather to get to know that person first for like 6 month or 1 yrs. It depends and see how that goes. I'd rather be friend first then date then boyfriend. and importantly is communicate and develop feeling, If you know what I mean.

How long have you known that person before become boyfriend or girlfriend.

Peace

CrzyMeg · 07-05-2008, 06:59 PM

I rather wait and get to know the person first before dating.

Bottesini · 07-05-2008, 07:38 PM

I think it is smarter and safer to know the person for a while before starting to date.

KarissaMann05 · 07-05-2008, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Bottesini

I think it is smarter and safer to know the person for a while before starting to date.

I heartily agreed! My opinion, it's actually so importance for having a date when you know so much enough about this person you are interested.

shel90 · 07-05-2008, 08:49 PM

20 years!

Pepsi · 07-05-2008, 08:51 PM

Most of the men I been with I had know for a longtime before becoming a couple

Everlucent · 07-05-2008, 09:09 PM

That depends, does your tagging as boyfriend girlfriend required to do certain things??

CrzyMeg · 07-05-2008, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Bottesini

I think it is smarter and safer to know the person for a while before starting to date.

That I agreed to.

Jiro · 07-05-2008, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Everlucent

That depends, does your tagging as boyfriend girlfriend required to do certain things??

of course... aka "obligation"

Everlucent · 07-05-2008, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by jiro123

of course... aka "obligation"

well in that case i would say 5 maybe 7 minutes

inochi · 07-05-2008, 11:09 PM

It depends on the level of seriousness in becoming a "boyfriend/girlfriend" Some people will instantly labeled themselves as boyfriend/girlfriend after 1 date but nothing serious. Some people would rather wait a bit more longer before they will give themselves that label.

Maria · 07-06-2008, 12:28 AM

Well, that depends in between 2 persons. If, there's a chemistry, an understanding & maturity levels, same commons, same interests, same feelings for each other and all, then you will know the answer. Most of all is trust and honesty.

My significant other already said " I love you " after getting to know each other for 2 months. We get along great and move on to the next level....the next level is that we are going to meet each other for the first time in a couple weeks. Of course, I am very anxious. That day is drawing near for me to fly...... *gulp* Lol

sara1981 · 07-06-2008, 12:49 AM

i got e-mail from that man name is James Windsor but im quiet unexpecting to receive that e-mail messages from James Windsor so he and me been friend for while they he asked me be his girlfriend i would honour but he and me been e-mail they im exchange e-mail of my own.Since he found me on my own e-mail messages when im member of Royals forums and he very polite and handsome.

James our boyfriend and me been dating for one years but he and me been e-mail lots everyday because he very busyman i always kept touch him on e-mail lots.

he and me not getting rushed to married like my parents DID that but i wanted wait whatevers ages to getting married in future when im ready or James ready if he and me says time for married.

I told James on e-mail messages that i would like meet him somedays when im going back to London,England for second times meet James and he cant wait see me very much i would be so damn meet him one days!!!!!!

when im been e-mail message to James our boyfriend and i tell him says "i love you" and he says "i love you" also

dead money · 07-06-2008, 01:22 AM

most successful relationships are built on the foundation that 2 people underlying romance and sex have a strong friendship with one another before anything. Theres no real time table on that kind of thing but obviously it cant happen overnight. My last long term relationship, it only took like 3 weeks. Another it took closer to 5 months. Just depends.

deafbajagal · 07-06-2008, 03:33 PM

So no one here believes in the "love at first sight concept?"

IslandBreeze07 · 07-06-2008, 06:34 PM

8 months

Pepsi · 07-06-2008, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

So no one here believes in the "love at first sight concept?"

It happen to me a longtime ago and I ended up with a broken heart

Jiro · 07-06-2008, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

So no one here believes in the "love at first sight concept?"

not anymore. that was a simpler life back then... now we're much more complicated with complicated social issues.

Tousi · 07-06-2008, 09:50 PM

How about a club and a loincloth?

Jiro · 07-06-2008, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Tousi

How about a club and a loincloth?

sara1981 · 07-06-2008, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by jiro123

that funny pics

Everlucent · 07-06-2008, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

So no one here believes in the "love at first sight concept?"

I do, did you not read my post?

CrzyMeg · 07-06-2008, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

So no one here believes in the "love at first sight concept?"

I don't believe that.

***VamPyroX*** · 07-07-2008, 12:07 AM

I would rather get to know them for at least a month (after dating frequently) before deciding whether we want to get serious.

I've seen some people who suddenly become boyfriend/girlfriend after one or two dates altogether. I even know some people who suddenly become boyfriend/girlfriend after one drives halfway across the state to see the other for the first time.

Freaky Cat · 07-07-2008, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by VamPyroX

I would rather get to know them for at least a month (after dating frequently) before deciding whether we want to get serious.

I've seen some people who suddenly become boyfriend/girlfriend after one or two dates altogether. I even know some people who suddenly become boyfriend/girlfriend after one drives halfway across the state to see the other for the first time.

and noticed that several said he/she is my new boyfriend/girlfriend after meeting each other like 2 weeks or whatever via internet but never meet in person??

so it is their business and i wish them best!

coolgirlspyer90 · 07-14-2008, 02:12 AM

I would get to know them for maybe a year or a couple of months. More like 7 or 8 months. I known my crush from our 8th grade summer band camp last year for a few weeks, and then i got to know him through Honor band for about 3 months now and we're keeping in touch by IM. :-)

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meyag2 *********** Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,744	How long do u get to know that person before become boyfriend or girlfriend.... Let's say for example, "I want you to become my boyfriend". And he was like "Whoa, wait a min, that's too fast, I barely know you for like a month now, I want to get to know you more for one year and see what happens". Some people who date for like one week or so. Then quickly become boyfriend or girlfriend but you don't know her or him that well yet. As for me, I'd rather to get to know that person first for like 6 month or 1 yrs. It depends and see how that goes. I'd rather be friend first then date then boyfriend. and importantly is communicate and develop feeling, If you know what I mean. How long have you known that person before become boyfriend or girlfriend. Peace __________________ Last edited by meyag2; 07-06-2008 at 02:50 AM. Reason: double check

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inochi Eternal Life Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 515	It depends on the level of seriousness in becoming a "boyfriend/girlfriend" Some people will instantly labeled themselves as boyfriend/girlfriend after 1 date but nothing serious. Some people would rather wait a bit more longer before they will give themselves that label.

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Maria My love and I Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 8,725	Well, that depends in between 2 persons. If, there's a chemistry, an understanding & maturity levels, same commons, same interests, same feelings for each other and all, then you will know the answer. Most of all is trust and honesty. My significant other already said " I love you " after getting to know each other for 2 months. We get along great and move on to the next level....the next level is that we are going to meet each other for the first time in a couple weeks. Of course, I am very anxious. That day is drawing near for me to fly...... gulp Lol

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sara1981 Batista's fans Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: North Little Rock,Ar Posts: 3,282	i got e-mail from that man name is James Windsor but im quiet unexpecting to receive that e-mail messages from James Windsor so he and me been friend for while they he asked me be his girlfriend i would honour but he and me been e-mail they im exchange e-mail of my own.Since he found me on my own e-mail messages when im member of Royals forums and he very polite and handsome. James our boyfriend and me been dating for one years but he and me been e-mail lots everyday because he very busyman i always kept touch him on e-mail lots. he and me not getting rushed to married like my parents DID that but i wanted wait whatevers ages to getting married in future when im ready or James ready if he and me says time for married. I told James on e-mail messages that i would like meet him somedays when im going back to London,England for second times meet James and he cant wait see me very much i would be so damn meet him one days!!!!!! when im been e-mail message to James our boyfriend and i tell him says "i love you" and he says "i love you" also __________________

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dead money Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,267	most successful relationships are built on the foundation that 2 people underlying romance and sex have a strong friendship with one another before anything. Theres no real time table on that kind of thing but obviously it cant happen overnight. My last long term relationship, it only took like 3 weeks. Another it took closer to 5 months. Just depends. __________________ mike matusow...or god for short.

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coolgirlspyer90 Music is my life. Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 516	I would get to know them for maybe a year or a couple of months. More like 7 or 8 months. I known my crush from our 8th grade summer band camp last year for a few weeks, and then i got to know him through Honor band for about 3 months now and we're keeping in touch by IM. :-)