wildzerica06

in my situation.. I met a deaf guy and he and I met and started to hang out every day and he said i'm his girlfriend but somehow down the road i started to realize he became controlling and telling me i should be with him every day and I felt overwheled with everything and I hate to admit but I got tired of seeing him every day so today was good day to be on my own I think some deaf people doesn't understand when need a break to do stuff on their own... blah oh well I'll see what happens next

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Jolie77

Well.....

It varies from couples to couples. Some might take 6 months, some might take it up to a year to decide to move on to the next level. It is all about taking it at their pace, if they wish to do so. The best thing to do that is to go with the flow and see where the chips falls at.

As for me, I don't rush into anything quickly. I'd rather get to know the guy as long as it takes until I feel it is ready to see where it goes.

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Oceanblue7

It varies for each couple to determine when to take it to the next level. Six months sounds like good timing to take it to the level.

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VamPyroX

I've seen a lot of unusual relationships.

I knew a gal who met a guy online, then met him in person a few weeks later. They immediately become boyfriend/girlfriend during that first meeting. Of course, it didn't work out... a few years too late.

I knew a gal who talks about guys she prefers and guys she refuses to date. Then she meets a guy (who matches her no-no description) and goes in a relationship with him. She ends up getting abused and starts asking for pity when everyone knows that she knew about that guy's history in the first place.

I knew a few gals who knew about one guy's history of knocking women up. Yet, they go after him and get knocked up themselves. Who's to blame?

There are many more... just too sudden without thinking.

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imdeafsowhat

I suggest you to do a weekend getaway to see how serious the relationship.

It's a good way to get to know each other and see what each one is capable of.

I found out that I was capable of doing 10 different positions.

Jolie77

Yeah, That's the problem when it comes to some people. They are inclined to take things quickly (or rather, being "blind") not to see the whole package.

I, too, have seen some unusual relationships. I knew of a girl who was dating her boyfriend at the time. They were always breaking up and getting back together on and off constantly. The worst thing was, when they were in a bad quarrel, the boyfriend stabbed the puppy more than 20 times (of course the puppy was killed instantly) and stabbed her hand with a knife. To this day, they are still together and married. I just didn't get it when I learned the girl continue to remain with him.

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LovelyBlkGal

True i agree with you It's not easy to get know each this person before start trust person or not

Pinky

Me and my husband met each other 3 weeks before date. We both agreed to get a date. We likes each other and felt a true LOVE. We dated for 3 weeks later we went out together. We are still together for almost 5 years. We got married since 3 months ago. We are happy together and true LOVE! I am glad that I found a right man from God answered my pray. We have a great communicate, trusthworth and passion. We had a soulmate since we were kid. It's so funny! We both are in common and perfect match.

hohDougRN

Friction, Jo, friction!

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hohDougRN

I just tell her "ask me when I make it to the grave cave"

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Sunshinelady

Honest, depends on.. who does care about the relationship and can be wait for first a date, then... But, another want right NOW!!!
I rather first date and how is work with us as relationship.
you don't know rather you like it or not in next day.

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moonflower

i believe slow and take easy not soo fast
if go too fast can ruin the relationship and heartbeaking

Pepsi

My husband was a friend of my boyfriend at the time so I know him for a couple of years.When I broke up with his friend he ask me out and we went out on June 6th and got marry July 9th of that year.

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That's true. But I am lucky. My parent are lucky. When my parent met each other at restaurant. My mom know relative of my dad's cousin. They went out together in 1 month. Then My dad got her an engage in 1 month before go out together. My mom got mad at him. My dad felt hurt. She said just wait until she feel trust. In 6 month later. My dad got her an engagement on my mom's birthday. They got married next 6 months. They were married for 19 years. They were such happiness until my dad died when I was 15. My mom found a right man from GOD answered her pray. She taught me. I didn't look for man myself. I asked god to send my husband to meet me at work. It was amazing memories. God is the best for perfect relationship and marriage. My husband always want to have a perfect relationship and marriage. Because his parent got divorced at twice time and remarried. It's final divorced. He didn't want to be same as his parent. He is such happy with me.

Jolie77

Oh yeah, I'm sure friction is the way to go.

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KweenSasha

For me and in my society, all it takes is verbal agreement. You hung out with the person or had some sort of communication with each other for a while, both are feeling each other, all they have to do is let each other know how they feel and automatically they are boyfriend and girlfriend. It could be after 2 dates, a month or two, a week...whatever. Long as you and the other person have a mutal feelings and agreement.
During the relationship, you get to know the person more. If ya don't like how they are, u break up with them, no need to continue the relationship.
So 6 months to a year to decide if a couple is boyfriend/girlfriend is kinda extreme for me. It's dating...not an engagment or marriage!

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My husband and I were just friends for a month. We had a close personal relationship. It was obvious by the things we'll talk about that it was more than just friends. So one day he said I really like u, I see myself being with u for a long time, i told him that I felt the same way to. From that night he was my boyfriend and we shared a special bond. We dated 3 years before we got married. Next month will be our 1st anniversary.
While we were dating we went thru some rough patches like every other couple. It's the process u go through while getting to know each other. So if you get to know them first for months at a time, why are you wasting such a long time just to date...might as well get married since you will know them soo well. JMO

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moonflower

well my parents met in blind date as their friends match them up and start dating after that and 6 months later they got engaged and one year later they got married and recently celebrated their 45 years wedding anniversary and they had me and my 2 siblings

Jolie77

Indeed. Sometime we can get what we want but sometime we can't get what we want.

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HorseRace

jo, true enought what were you explain.. but i have seen some couples.. like you knew that girl who has that throught.. rme! yea .. oh well

right it is all about trust , faith, communicate, many more..

as for me, funny, one gal in austin where i live now... she works wiht me and talk to get know.. few years later, now i know her more.. i figure out if i would go out with her.. is she good for me ?? that is my question before.. now i know the answer.. she is not for me because of her attudute (sp) , she is not that smart.. and too much soft heart.. and if if i bark at her for her wrong thing, she will end up left me .. rme! that is how i can tell on her i knew her now.. thank god i dont go out with her at all! whew! she is nice but no way.. whew! now i am waiting another gal show up and let me see how it goes.. lol! who next! rme!

yagazn

funny

yagazn

that happened to me before. when I dated a guy for few weeks then after that he wasn't for me.

Reba

Hubby and I saw each other at work for about six months, just passing in the hallways and saying "hi". It was a big command, and we worked in different departments, so we rarely ran into each other. One day in January we went on a date. By March we were engaged. In May we married. That was over 33 years ago.

Sunshinelady

Yes, now you would learn more

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yagazn

in my experience for a date. oh, yeah i know what it's like to date a guy that you might not know his personality or how he act or how he is. after you find out then you don't want to date him. many people have different personality, not all the same but not always.

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Sunshinelady

yeaaaaah, Of course many PPL have different personality. I am not happy, if PPL have all the same personality, act and favorite. If true, I might be difficult to find a man LOL.

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yagazn

yep, it's not easy to find a man with different personality.