Do you need advices?

CrzyMeg · 06-15-2008, 07:39 PM

Do you need help?

hohDougRN · 06-15-2008, 09:37 PM

I need help; what kind of qualifications or degree do you have that could assist me.

see I really need help

CrzyMeg · 06-15-2008, 10:09 PM

I have no degree. I just volunteer to help. Anything in all. I know about relationship mostly.

deafbajagal · 06-15-2008, 10:21 PM

You need to get a picture of Lucy (from Charlie Brown) with her stand...she was always offering advice.

I'll give it shot. Hope you don't charge $100.00 an hour. Here's my question: My mother still calls my ex her "son." This bothers me. Should I tell her or just ignore it.

CrzyMeg · 06-15-2008, 10:25 PM

Well, that occurs me only once. Just ask her why she call him her son if you and him not together anymore. Or She just grown attach to him.

CrzyMeg · 06-15-2008, 10:26 PM

I am just a volunteer!

shel90 · 06-15-2008, 10:27 PM

My ex hubby and hubby are always putting me in the middle when it comes to my daughter. Like for example, my ex asked me if I can make an appt for my daughter to get a check-up and I told my hubby and he was like why cant he make the appt himself under his own health insurance instead of ours?

I am tired of being put in the middle between those two...what do I do?

CrzyMeg · 06-15-2008, 10:31 PM

What I would do? Hmmm....... I see. Ask him make own appt once awhile. Or get out of it.

Oceanbreeze · 06-15-2008, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

My ex hubby and hubby are always putting me in the middle when it comes to my daughter. Like for example, my ex asked me if I can make an appt for my daughter to get a check-up and I told my hubby and he was like why cant he make the appt himself under his own health insurance instead of ours?

I am tired of being put in the middle between those two...what do I do?

I'll jump in here....

If your ex is supposed to contribute to your daughter's care, the two of you need to come together and work out something. Your husband has a point. Her father has a duty to care for her until she's of age and I can understand your husband's gripe. I'm sure he wants to do what he can for her, but he shouldn't have to. It's your ex's responsibility!

I'm sorry you feel put in the middle, though.

shel90 · 06-15-2008, 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Oceanbreeze

I'll jump in here....

If your ex is supposed to contribute to your daughter's care, the two of you need to come together and work out something. Your husband has a point. Her father has a duty to care for her until she's of age and I can understand your husband's gripe. I'm sure he wants to do what he can for her, but he shouldn't have to. It's your ex's responsibility!

I'm sorry you feel put in the middle, though.

The thing is, I dont pay child support to my ex hubby. My daughter lives with him full time so...does that change things? LOL!

CrzyMeg · 06-15-2008, 10:46 PM

Then He should be responsible for your daughter's care. My opinion.

hohDougRN · 06-16-2008, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Meggie2

I have no degree. I just volunteer to help. Anything in all. I know about relationship mostly.

I am just teasing you

I know you had sweet intentions and just being nice.

Oceanbreeze · 06-16-2008, 01:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shel90

The thing is, I dont pay child support to my ex hubby. My daughter lives with him full time so...does that change things? LOL!

Just a tad! I assumed you had custody. *blush*

Sorry for the confusion, Shel.

DEAFBLUIEGURL33 · 06-17-2008, 01:14 AM

Hello,

What would you advise a married spouse on how to cope with his/her spouse with mental illness?

Thanks
DEAFBLUIEGURL33

CrzyMeg · 06-17-2008, 11:14 AM

How bad is the mental illness?

NEWIDME · 06-17-2008, 11:50 AM

How do I get over my hatred of men?

CrzyMeg · 06-17-2008, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by NEWIDME

How do I get over my hatred of men?

That one i know! LOL.... I used to hate men due to my past abused. What caused your hatred of men?

NEWIDME · 06-17-2008, 12:16 PM

My divorce. He was abusive every 6 mths. The last and final time was when Ellie was a few mths old. One and only time in front of my babies. All my past relationships have failed. Men suck, man.

CrzyMeg · 06-17-2008, 12:21 PM

I see. Well, when you get into relationship with men in future. Dont tell about your kids until later in relationship

NEWIDME · 06-17-2008, 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Meggie2

I see. Well, when you get into relationship with men in future. Dont tell about your kids until later in relationship

Sweetie you assume I will get into another relationship!

Anyway before anything can even bud, he'd have to love being w/ my children.....

CrzyMeg · 06-17-2008, 12:45 PM

ok. just my opinion that all. or can go other way around

Nightblade08 · 06-21-2008, 05:38 PM

I really need an advices...I wonder what will I do with Meggie when I come back? Perhaps give her a special surprises, or something else like that. All I want is make Meggie happy to be with me...I just want to know her feeling that's all. Just curious that make sure if I'm good boyfriend to her.

August · 06-21-2008, 06:13 PM

my mom and dad keep trying to smooch my bone

WHAT DO I DO!?

Tousi · 06-21-2008, 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NEWIDME

Sweetie you assume I will get into another relationship!

Anyway before anything can even bud, he'd have to love being w/ my children.....

Sorry to hear about your problems with guys. Do you suppose you unconsciously gravitate toward men who are the kind of which you speak? I know that doesn't seem to make sense but just think about it for a sec....

CrzyMeg · 06-21-2008, 10:29 PM

Okay, I may have anwers but I do have issues on my own. I have to those fix before I mess my head again.

dead money · 06-22-2008, 03:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by August

my mom and dad keep trying to smooch my bone

WHAT DO I DO!?

kill them with a machete and dump them into the nearest river.

NEWIDME · 06-23-2008, 10:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tousi

Sorry to hear about your problems with guys. Do you suppose you unconsciously gravitate toward men who are the kind of which you speak? I know that doesn't seem to make sense but just think about it for a sec....

I think I do unconsciously gravitate towards losers. And they to me. This is why I want God to pick the next one. I have stopped looking. I feel so much better alone. Thanks for your post.

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deafbajagal Jasmine's Tiger "Lilly" Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 2,107	You need to get a picture of Lucy (from Charlie Brown) with her stand...she was always offering advice. I'll give it shot. Hope you don't charge $100.00 an hour. Here's my question: My mother still calls my ex her "son." This bothers me. Should I tell her or just ignore it.

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shel90 Sun Whorshipper Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: A Desert Rat that has found herself in Maryland Posts: 16,119 Blog Entries: 1	My ex hubby and hubby are always putting me in the middle when it comes to my daughter. Like for example, my ex asked me if I can make an appt for my daughter to get a check-up and I told my hubby and he was like why cant he make the appt himself under his own health insurance instead of ours? I am tired of being put in the middle between those two...what do I do? __________________ ~Shel~ "A child educated only at school is an uneducated child." -George Santayana

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CrzyMeg I love Toby Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 5,499 Blog Entries: 1	What I would do? Hmmm....... I see. Ask him make own appt once awhile. Or get out of it. __________________ "Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart." Anne Frank GO PIRATES! Pensacola Junior College

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CrzyMeg I love Toby Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 5,499 Blog Entries: 1	Then He should be responsible for your daughter's care. My opinion. __________________ "Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart." Anne Frank GO PIRATES! Pensacola Junior College

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CrzyMeg I love Toby Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 5,499 Blog Entries: 1	How bad is the mental illness? __________________ "Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart." Anne Frank GO PIRATES! Pensacola Junior College

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NEWIDME Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Location: Detroit Posts: 447	How do I get over my hatred of men?

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NEWIDME Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Location: Detroit Posts: 447	My divorce. He was abusive every 6 mths. The last and final time was when Ellie was a few mths old. One and only time in front of my babies. All my past relationships have failed. Men suck, man.

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CrzyMeg I love Toby Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 5,499 Blog Entries: 1	I see. Well, when you get into relationship with men in future. Dont tell about your kids until later in relationship __________________ "Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart." Anne Frank GO PIRATES! Pensacola Junior College

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CrzyMeg I love Toby Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 5,499 Blog Entries: 1	ok. just my opinion that all. or can go other way around __________________ "Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart." Anne Frank GO PIRATES! Pensacola Junior College

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Nightblade08 Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 545 Blog Entries: 2	I really need an advices...I wonder what will I do with Meggie when I come back? Perhaps give her a special surprises, or something else like that. All I want is make Meggie happy to be with me...I just want to know her feeling that's all. Just curious that make sure if I'm good boyfriend to her.

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August Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 930	my mom and dad keep trying to smooch my bone WHAT DO I DO!?

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CrzyMeg I love Toby Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 5,499 Blog Entries: 1	Okay, I may have anwers but I do have issues on my own. I have to those fix before I mess my head again. __________________ "Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart." Anne Frank GO PIRATES! Pensacola Junior College

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