Jealous? - Page 2

sweetstrawberry · 04-11-2003, 01:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SeXi ChIcK21
Strawberry, It happens to me rarely. I get worried what my boyfriend will do. I wouldnt want him to do anything harmful to the relationship. I always tell him " to think twice" I do sometimes get jealous when he hang out with the girls. you can't trust anyone. They will do something stupid that you can expect! I love my boyfriend and I trust him with all of my heart. Actually, Your best friend's Boyfriend need to earn your best friend's trust. That's all. * At least your best friend is not a cheater!?* If I'm wrong then SHOOT ME!

ohhh I think you are right, cuz she had alot bad experince in her life but she is improve in her life when she met her bf that she's happy. I didn't think about what you say. I understand and thank you for share with me about this.

Fly Free · 04-11-2003, 02:17 AM

Jealousy CAN be dangerous yes but does not always lead to a homicide -- granted true there have been some cases where jealousy has lead to attempted homicide or aggravated assaults or simple assault -- but if its kept under control and know how to handle it then its natural to have a lil jealousy that doesnt go overboard

prostock19 · 04-11-2003, 02:20 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by allisonjoy
everyone has jealousy- they just need to know how to control it

If you believe what you see on TV (Like Discovery or TLC), Jealousy is normal. And I believe with ally, you have to control it. Sometimes, I have a hard time.

Fly Free · 04-11-2003, 02:26 AM

yea Prostock19 -- same me ive had feelings of jealousy before but always kept it under control -- other times was HARD i agree but ahh *keeps it down*

javapride · 04-11-2003, 03:56 AM

i admit i have had my bouts of jealousy, its taken time and time again to control it it's the hardest thing to go thru and to know what u are doing! lost a few friends a time or two! BUT if u know why you are jealous and u can admit that to your friend then u will know ur being honest!

LezArtist · 04-11-2003, 11:01 PM

it's not worth to be jealous.

it can hurt urself and others! ppl can end up hurting u or rejecting u if u are jealous. it's not worth it. so just be urself. and u can find something else better than others if they have what u wanted but keep it low and not show that ur jealous. i got some ppl who are jealous of me sometimes bec i have someone that i love and they want her... i hate that!!! growling

eternity · 04-11-2003, 11:09 PM

Some people who were jealous of me.

I do not understand why should they think of NEGATIVE like that? They should be glad for who they are. And I dont give a damn if guys are going out with gals as friends.

Only you can just keep your FAITH for someone who you love. If you cant... it s not worh to keep someone because the relationship will be SHORT.

Beauty2Girls · 04-11-2003, 11:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by eternity
Some people who were jealous of me.

I do not understand why should they think of NEGATIVE like that? They should be glad for who they are. And I dont give a damn if guys are going out with gals as friends.

Only you can just keep your FAITH for someone who you love. If you cant... it s not worh to keep someone because the relationship will be SHORT.

RIGHT, also he may guilty something and paranoid his g/f would do to him back that how he is jealious

Fly Free · 04-11-2003, 11:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by eternity
Some people who were jealous of me.

I do not understand why should they think of NEGATIVE like that? They should be glad for who they are. And I dont give a damn if guys are going out with gals as friends.

Only you can just keep your FAITH for someone who you love. If you cant... it s not worh to keep someone because the relationship will be SHORT.

eternity -- i agree! gotta keep the faith!

Beauty2Girls · 04-11-2003, 11:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TommyGirl
RIGHT, also he may guilty something and paranoid his g/f would do to him back that how he is jealious

how>why*

04-12-2003, 12:11 AM

"Jealousy rears its' ugly head!!"

"I'm seeing green and it's not Christmas!!!"

Jealousy can be a vicious trait and it's a trait not worth having because it reduces people to infantile levels of immaturity. In relationships, there are 3 words that couples should go by, love, trust and commitment. I strongly believe in boys/girls nights out because it allows movement for growth in relationships.

Lasza · 05-05-2003, 06:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Grumpy Kiki
jealousy could lends to murder.

Yes, that is true. I lost my fave cousin to stupid jealousy boyfriend. He think she have heavy affair cuz she work for that bar as waitress. Lead them into deeply arguement with his ultra jealousy. End up, he murdered my cousin.
Just advice u all, just control ur jealousy level for any situtation.

javapride · 05-08-2003, 08:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lasza
Yes, that is true. I lost my fave cousin to stupid jealousy boyfriend. He think she have heavy affair cuz she work for that bar as waitress. Lead them into deeply arguement with his ultra jealousy. End up, he murdered my cousin.
Just advice u all, just control ur jealousy level for any situtation.

agreeeeee sissy

prostock19 · 05-08-2003, 09:32 PM

I HATE GETTING JEALOUS!!!!

Fly Free · 05-08-2003, 10:35 PM

Jealousy is a dangerous thing -- ive seen situations where it became out of control due to a partner's jealousy over their gf -- that definately needs to be kept under tight control

Teekie · 05-17-2003, 09:19 AM

I've gone through that before..my ex friend has this boyfriend who MUST be with her everywhere she go.. or if he doesn't feel like going anywhere and she planned to go somewhere with me, he'd go "Oh you're going to leave me out?" So she'd stay with him.. that gets me so mad

I warned her not to let him do that to her.. and not to take advantage of her.. he talks shit to her and I told her not to let him ruin our good friendship but she did.. blinded by her love for him..

So we dont contact with each other anymore even though she broke up with him but still living in the same apartment, which I'm confused about.. Oh well..Shit happens, I guess. Lose friends, Gain some. Guess that's part of life but I'll never find a friend like her though.

AmericanChopper · 06-04-2003, 12:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by kevbo
Jealousy is good because it protects a relationship from harm.

I agree with you.

but depends on how bad or good jealously.

SilenceGold · 06-04-2003, 05:00 AM

Lisa and I share jealousy along each other. As long as we communicate..it's great. :p

Kalista · 06-04-2003, 07:38 AM

Jealously sometime links you into depression and no motivation anything in your life. It influences your esteem-self go down the hill. It can link you to suidtiue which is bad idea. If you become really jealous of someone to find something to do like hobby, involve other activities, go to shopping to buy new clothes or make-up or do your nails. It will make you feel good about yourself. Go to club or socialize to meet new people or find a new guy. Do not look past what they did hurt you for being not honest. It is important focus on yourself and children.

I would not let things bother me. Focus on kids and myself… I was jealous of someone who likes another woman. It was too painful for me for many months. I realized, I would not let things bother me due to depression and no energy. It was not fair for my children who look up at their mother’s face sad and depress.

We must avoid jealous to prevent link into our life destroy end up at the mental hospital!

I did not want to reliable anti-depress medication. Stay in strong and positive!

PeaceRainbowGal · 06-12-2003, 08:17 AM

I HATE JEALOUS !!

AS I HAVE CAREFULLY MYSELF

~HUG~

lfreed · 06-23-2003, 06:09 PM

jealous, that's right jelaous again for the time i let you in. don't you think i want to don't you think i could, don't you i'd tell ya baby if i only could, am i acting crazy or just plain shy, that's right i'm jealous again." Chris Robinson

KingDragon · 06-28-2003, 12:11 PM

yea that is not the reason mean jealous because it depend on their feeling whenever if my gf is go out with friend girl's group but this time i was visit to see her 7 hrs from here. I coming to see her right after she is leave me go out night with girls group. i throught it was suppoused to be together for spend time. it is good to be jealous cuz i am prove show her that i really love and cherish more than that. umm yes it is true. if i dont not.. i should dont give a fuck but i am not kind that person.

SunFaceMan · 07-21-2003, 11:16 PM

I do jealous with my girlfriend a little in every time when she hang out with her friends meet other of her friends single guys. I admit it. She loves talk with new people. She's a good to people. It's hard for me. Its just a strange feeling. I know its okay and normal to be jealous. I feel 'Jealousy' is like kind of a diease game which that trickys part of human's mind. I hate it. I all do is just thinks positive and trust with my girlfriend. If she lost my trust. She can hit her knees on floor and kiss my ass good-bye. Thats it. My advices for all jealousy men. If you feel jealous from your girlfriend. Just be cool. Don't say any words. Remember, its just diease game. Don't let it tricky your mind. Be a man. Truths will come out in one day!

kristy · 09-19-2003, 03:00 PM

everyone must be a jealous but a person who is very strong jealous and can be hurt another people s feeling and it is not good

lets example..... when a person already bought a new car and show off his or her new car and give another person become a jealous because a person already bought a new car.... thats is normal.....

if a person has more jealous and get mad at another person when a person dont like what another person show off or nasty mouth and a person can give them hurt real bad and it is not good !

sometime i do jealous of person who show off with lots of friends but i dont like when i have a lots of friend because i cant stand when i have lots of friends .... i like to become a normal people like a average people

i dont like when a person buy a new clothes.. new car ... everything and make me turn offf....

i do beleive in my heart because i would like to normal and have a lots of fun

i dont like when a person is big mouth and stupid make up the stories and make me turn off real quickly .....

lots of peoples loves to gossips and add up the stupid stories and it is not trues....
some people have to reason to become a lies for protect themself.....i dont blame on them tooo

jealous can become a rage , revenage, sad, depression, out of the control.....

i have to be careful with another people who has problem with jealous and possible kill another people......

i dont belevie about the rich people because they are so dumb and know everything but it is not true and they have lots of missing their lifes.....
some people become a rich because they are hard working and earn more money for family only than anyone ! thats true

i dont understand why a person who jealous at another people and what is for ???? they need to avoid a jealous and cheer up and dont look at any thing about more worse a jealous !

butterflygal · 09-20-2003, 09:06 AM

I think a little jealousy is normal. If there is too much jealousy, there is a red flag there. Speaking from experience too much jealousy usually leads into something bad.

CatoCooper13 · 09-21-2003, 06:17 AM

I agree...jealousy can be a dangerous weapon -- sometimes it's healthy and other times it can be unhealthy having jealousy within the relationship. It really depends on what kind of jealousy..and how people handle it and so forth. I've been through a few jealousy issues...and it's no easy feat!

At least, the majority of us -- for the time being, are all managing in keeping our jealousy at bay and keeping peace, etc.

Cheri · 12-28-2003, 12:29 PM

Jealous is not good in a relationship... Its important to have faith and trust in a relationship.. if he cheats let him go.. once a cheater will always be a cheater... U do not need to be in a relationship with someone being jealous and controling... like u cant have freedom to do what u want.. u cant touch but u can look... I know that i have a guy coming home to me... he can look but he cant touch.. (smile).. That is why jealously always end up with a fight.. in a relationship... I Know that if u keep be jealous then u will not have a good realtionship that would not lasted forever.. I like it when a guy is alittle jealous It does kinda felt like u getting the attention by him.. but being really jealous and controling is Not a good feeling at all.

Liza · 12-29-2003, 11:12 AM

All things are best taken in moderation, and this is true for jealousy. Anger FROM jealousy can destroy a perfectly good relationship and that sucks. I think jealousy is an addiction that you can allow it to run your life or not.

Whenever you find yourself getting jealous, consider yourself in the other person's shoes. You might feel a bit different. Just a thought!

12-29-2003, 03:02 PM

I agree with Liza and some people here. Jealousy is very human, and a valid feeling. I had a great bf who would tell me he was jealous because I was spending my time with my friends outside, because he wanted to just snuggle up with me and sleep. We laughed about it. I think that kind of thing is harmless.

But if a boyfriend was so jealous to a point where he would forbid me from going out, doing things with friends, etc... then of course RED ALERT!!! Time to communicate with him about his feelings and try to resolve it.

04-11-2003, 02:17 AM	#32 (permalink)
Fly Free Living Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: In the loving arms of my butchboi! Posts: 9,101	Jealousy CAN be dangerous yes but does not always lead to a homicide -- granted true there have been some cases where jealousy has lead to attempted homicide or aggravated assaults or simple assault -- but if its kept under control and know how to handle it then its natural to have a lil jealousy that doesnt go overboard __________________ Enjoying life!

04-11-2003, 02:26 AM	#34 (permalink)
Fly Free Living Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: In the loving arms of my butchboi! Posts: 9,101	yea Prostock19 -- same me ive had feelings of jealousy before but always kept it under control -- other times was HARD i agree but ahh keeps it down __________________ Enjoying life!

05-08-2003, 09:32 PM	#44 (permalink)
prostock19 BAH HUMBUG!!! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Formerly RI, Now Albany, NY Area Posts: 3,308	I HATE GETTING JEALOUS!!!! __________________

05-08-2003, 10:35 PM	#45 (permalink)
Fly Free Living Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: In the loving arms of my butchboi! Posts: 9,101	Jealousy is a dangerous thing -- ive seen situations where it became out of control due to a partner's jealousy over their gf -- that definately needs to be kept under tight control __________________ Enjoying life!

05-17-2003, 09:19 AM	#46 (permalink)
Teekie ~Mommie Teekie~ Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,929	I've gone through that before..my ex friend has this boyfriend who MUST be with her everywhere she go.. or if he doesn't feel like going anywhere and she planned to go somewhere with me, he'd go "Oh you're going to leave me out?" So she'd stay with him.. that gets me so mad I warned her not to let him do that to her.. and not to take advantage of her.. he talks shit to her and I told her not to let him ruin our good friendship but she did.. blinded by her love for him.. So we dont contact with each other anymore even though she broke up with him but still living in the same apartment, which I'm confused about.. Oh well..Shit happens, I guess. Lose friends, Gain some. Guess that's part of life but I'll never find a friend like her though. __________________ Proud Momma to: ~Austin- 5/11/00 ~Kieran- 2/6/03 ~Sean- 9/23/04 Last edited by Teekie; 05-17-2003 at 09:22 AM.

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04-11-2003, 03:56 AM	#35 (permalink)
javapride Java's Big Island Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: hawaii Posts: 6,509	i admit i have had my bouts of jealousy, its taken time and time again to control it it's the hardest thing to go thru and to know what u are doing! lost a few friends a time or two! BUT if u know why you are jealous and u can admit that to your friend then u will know ur being honest!

04-11-2003, 11:01 PM	#36 (permalink)
LezArtist Me n My Baby! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Missouri Posts: 355	it's not worth to be jealous. it can hurt urself and others! ppl can end up hurting u or rejecting u if u are jealous. it's not worth it. so just be urself. and u can find something else better than others if they have what u wanted but keep it low and not show that ur jealous. i got some ppl who are jealous of me sometimes bec i have someone that i love and they want her... i hate that!!! growling

04-11-2003, 11:09 PM	#37 (permalink)
eternity :naughty: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,623	Some people who were jealous of me. I do not understand why should they think of NEGATIVE like that? They should be glad for who they are. And I dont give a damn if guys are going out with gals as friends. Only you can just keep your FAITH for someone who you love. If you cant... it s not worh to keep someone because the relationship will be SHORT.

04-12-2003, 12:11 AM	#41 (permalink)
Freaky Guest Posts: n/a	"Jealousy rears its' ugly head!!" "I'm seeing green and it's not Christmas!!!" Jealousy can be a vicious trait and it's a trait not worth having because it reduces people to infantile levels of immaturity. In relationships, there are 3 words that couples should go by, love, trust and commitment. I strongly believe in boys/girls nights out because it allows movement for growth in relationships.

06-04-2003, 05:00 AM	#48 (permalink)
SilenceGold Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 3,484	Lisa and I share jealousy along each other. As long as we communicate..it's great. :p

06-04-2003, 07:38 AM	#49 (permalink)
Kalista Premium Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 7,794	Jealously sometime links you into depression and no motivation anything in your life. It influences your esteem-self go down the hill. It can link you to suidtiue which is bad idea. If you become really jealous of someone to find something to do like hobby, involve other activities, go to shopping to buy new clothes or make-up or do your nails. It will make you feel good about yourself. Go to club or socialize to meet new people or find a new guy. Do not look past what they did hurt you for being not honest. It is important focus on yourself and children. I would not let things bother me. Focus on kids and myself… I was jealous of someone who likes another woman. It was too painful for me for many months. I realized, I would not let things bother me due to depression and no energy. It was not fair for my children who look up at their mother’s face sad and depress. We must avoid jealous to prevent link into our life destroy end up at the mental hospital! I did not want to reliable anti-depress medication. Stay in strong and positive! __________________

06-12-2003, 08:17 AM	#50 (permalink)
PeaceRainbowGal Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 106	I HATE JEALOUS !! AS I HAVE CAREFULLY MYSELF ~HUG~

06-23-2003, 06:09 PM	#51 (permalink)
lfreed Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 35	jealous, that's right jelaous again for the time i let you in. don't you think i want to don't you think i could, don't you i'd tell ya baby if i only could, am i acting crazy or just plain shy, that's right i'm jealous again." Chris Robinson

06-28-2003, 12:11 PM	#52 (permalink)
KingDragon Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 507	yea that is not the reason mean jealous because it depend on their feeling whenever if my gf is go out with friend girl's group but this time i was visit to see her 7 hrs from here. I coming to see her right after she is leave me go out night with girls group. i throught it was suppoused to be together for spend time. it is good to be jealous cuz i am prove show her that i really love and cherish more than that. umm yes it is true. if i dont not.. i should dont give a fuck but i am not kind that person.

07-21-2003, 11:16 PM	#53 (permalink)
SunFaceMan Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Schaumburg, IL Posts: 15	I do jealous with my girlfriend a little in every time when she hang out with her friends meet other of her friends single guys. I admit it. She loves talk with new people. She's a good to people. It's hard for me. Its just a strange feeling. I know its okay and normal to be jealous. I feel 'Jealousy' is like kind of a diease game which that trickys part of human's mind. I hate it. I all do is just thinks positive and trust with my girlfriend. If she lost my trust. She can hit her knees on floor and kiss my ass good-bye. Thats it. My advices for all jealousy men. If you feel jealous from your girlfriend. Just be cool. Don't say any words. Remember, its just diease game. Don't let it tricky your mind. Be a man. Truths will come out in one day! Last edited by SunFaceMan; 07-21-2003 at 11:20 PM.

09-19-2003, 03:00 PM	#54 (permalink)
kristy Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 200	everyone must be a jealous but a person who is very strong jealous and can be hurt another people s feeling and it is not good lets example..... when a person already bought a new car and show off his or her new car and give another person become a jealous because a person already bought a new car.... thats is normal..... if a person has more jealous and get mad at another person when a person dont like what another person show off or nasty mouth and a person can give them hurt real bad and it is not good ! sometime i do jealous of person who show off with lots of friends but i dont like when i have a lots of friend because i cant stand when i have lots of friends .... i like to become a normal people like a average people i dont like when a person buy a new clothes.. new car ... everything and make me turn offf.... i do beleive in my heart because i would like to normal and have a lots of fun i dont like when a person is big mouth and stupid make up the stories and make me turn off real quickly ..... lots of peoples loves to gossips and add up the stupid stories and it is not trues.... some people have to reason to become a lies for protect themself.....i dont blame on them tooo jealous can become a rage , revenage, sad, depression, out of the control..... i have to be careful with another people who has problem with jealous and possible kill another people...... i dont belevie about the rich people because they are so dumb and know everything but it is not true and they have lots of missing their lifes..... some people become a rich because they are hard working and earn more money for family only than anyone ! thats true i dont understand why a person who jealous at another people and what is for ???? they need to avoid a jealous and cheer up and dont look at any thing about more worse a jealous !

09-20-2003, 09:06 AM	#55 (permalink)
butterflygal Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: In the great northern Ontario where in the winter, I freeze my ass off. Posts: 201	I think a little jealousy is normal. If there is too much jealousy, there is a red flag there. Speaking from experience too much jealousy usually leads into something bad.

09-21-2003, 06:17 AM	#56 (permalink)
CatoCooper13 Am attached and in LOVE! Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Sonoma County, California Posts: 6,421	I agree...jealousy can be a dangerous weapon -- sometimes it's healthy and other times it can be unhealthy having jealousy within the relationship. It really depends on what kind of jealousy..and how people handle it and so forth. I've been through a few jealousy issues...and it's no easy feat! At least, the majority of us -- for the time being, are all managing in keeping our jealousy at bay and keeping peace, etc. __________________

12-28-2003, 12:29 PM	#57 (permalink)
Cheri Prayers for my dad. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 22,615	Jealous is not good in a relationship... Its important to have faith and trust in a relationship.. if he cheats let him go.. once a cheater will always be a cheater... U do not need to be in a relationship with someone being jealous and controling... like u cant have freedom to do what u want.. u cant touch but u can look... I know that i have a guy coming home to me... he can look but he cant touch.. (smile).. That is why jealously always end up with a fight.. in a relationship... I Know that if u keep be jealous then u will not have a good realtionship that would not lasted forever.. I like it when a guy is alittle jealous It does kinda felt like u getting the attention by him.. but being really jealous and controling is Not a good feeling at all. __________________ God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow and sun without rain, But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

12-29-2003, 11:12 AM	#58 (permalink)
Liza Cranial protocologist Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Jacksonville Posts: 4,242 Blog Entries: 2	All things are best taken in moderation, and this is true for jealousy. Anger FROM jealousy can destroy a perfectly good relationship and that sucks. I think jealousy is an addiction that you can allow it to run your life or not. Whenever you find yourself getting jealous, consider yourself in the other person's shoes. You might feel a bit different. Just a thought!

12-29-2003, 03:02 PM	#59 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	I agree with Liza and some people here. Jealousy is very human, and a valid feeling. I had a great bf who would tell me he was jealous because I was spending my time with my friends outside, because he wanted to just snuggle up with me and sleep. We laughed about it. I think that kind of thing is harmless. But if a boyfriend was so jealous to a point where he would forbid me from going out, doing things with friends, etc... then of course RED ALERT!!! Time to communicate with him about his feelings and try to resolve it.

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