how old when you move out first time? - Page 3

RedFox · 10-06-2008, 11:21 AM

I haven't been separated from my parents for more than 4 days for my whole life until I went to RIT. I spent breaks and summers at home. After I graduated, I stayed at my parents' to get a license and find a job. When I got the job, I moved to this state.

bebito831 · 10-07-2008, 12:28 AM

I moved out when I turned 18 and went to college. I got married at 22. I now live in the same town as my Mom and sisters but my husband and I have our own house.

Deedums · 10-13-2008, 07:31 PM

I turned 18 two weeks before I graduated high school, then left for college three months later and then just never went back. I would go back for holidays and stuff, but then my parents split up after my freshman year and sold the house and got their own respective apartments, so I really had no where to go. So I got my own apartment at college and never moved back in with either one of them.

LuciaDisturbed · 10-16-2008, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

I moved out when I was 18 to live with my boyfriend at the time. Our relationship went sour after 6 months, so I moved again. Made yet another move because my landlord raised the rent (which I could no longer afford) after 4 years. I've been here for 15 years and have no plans to move again until I graduate with my Bachelor's degree (only 3 more courses to go!). I'm planning to relocate to a much warmer climate because I've grown so tired of the cold, long winters we have here.

I hear you. I can't tolerate the cold long winters in Wisconsin, either. Where would you like to move to? If you don't want to say on here, PM me.

the_blah · 10-16-2008, 08:42 PM

wait i am turn 18.... move out in January 3rd 2010

Hear Again · 10-18-2008, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by LuciaDisturbed

I hear you. I can't tolerate the cold long winters in Wisconsin, either. Where would you like to move to? If you don't want to say on here, PM me.

Lucia,

I'm sorry I didn't see your post until now.

I'd like to move to Tempe, Mesa or Glendale, Arizona. Even though I know it gets extremely hot in Arizona, I can deal with temperatures of 100+ much better than I can temperatures of 30 degrees or below.

I also don't like icy sidewalks or climbing over snowbanks. While I love downhill skiing, I hate everything else about winter!

CrzyMeg · 10-19-2008, 04:26 PM

well guess what! I moving out sooner than I thought.

Pinky · 10-20-2008, 10:32 AM

I thought I already post a comment in other thread. Let me say repeat.

I moved out when I was 19. I made a bad decide myself. I wasn't happy with my step dad. I moved back with my mom when I was 20 for 3 months. I found a nice place to live. After my husband left to Texas for Basic Training and Tech School for 6 months. He wanted me moved back live with my mom because he didn't want my ex boyfriend to harass on me when he came to my apt. So i moved back with my mom for 8 months. When I was 22 to 23 years old.

LuciaDisturbed · 10-20-2008, 08:50 PM

I left home when I was 13 years old, went into foster care, and then moved into my very first own apartment when I was 18 years old. I never went back to live with my parents ever since I was 13. It's been 15 years since I left home. I am 28 now.

Koala · 10-21-2008, 05:47 PM

Firstly, I moved out when I was 16 yrs old to work in the city for a few months. Then I got put off the job and I returned back home to the country town where my parents lives. At 18, I moved out again returning to the city with another job. Then stayed onward for many years now with a few change jobs and a married life.

freckles · 10-21-2008, 10:12 PM

never lived with parents from age 4 - 12 then left parents at age 13. over ten years ago.

yagazn · 10-22-2008, 03:14 AM

are you serious? i'm sorry about that.

yagazn · 10-22-2008, 04:19 AM

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Originally Posted by LuciaDisturbed

I left home when I was 13 years old, went into foster care, and then moved into my very first own apartment when I was 18 years old. I never went back to live with my parents ever since I was 13. It's been 15 years since I left home. I am 28 now.

interesting. thanks lucia for sharing your story with us.

freckles · 10-22-2008, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by meyag2

are you serious? i'm sorry about that.

yeah. oh don't worry about it, it sucked but it made me smarter today!

yagazn · 10-22-2008, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by freckles

yeah. oh don't worry about it, it sucked but it made me smarter today!

oh okay, i see that

BradB08 · 10-23-2008, 11:00 PM

"Flew the coop" when I was 20. Haven't looked back since. Had a few trouble spots over the years in which my parents have helped. Within the past few years, their help has decreased and I've been able to maintain my life and support myself.

I don't want to go back there unless something catastrophic happens and I need to be closer to them.

Plus, it feels weird when I visit my parents and I am a "guest" in the same room that used to be mine. Just a strange, nearly creepy feeling.

David · 10-23-2008, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by BradB08

"Flew the coop" when I was 20. Haven't looked back since. Had a few trouble spots over the years in which my parents have helped. Within the past few years, their help has decreased and I've been able to maintain my life and support myself.

I don't want to go back there unless something catastrophic happens and I need to be closer to them.

Plus, it feels weird when I visit my parents and I am a "guest" in the same room that used to be mine. Just a strange, nearly creepy feeling.

Unfortunately, something "catastrophic" happened to me (actually, two catastrophic events in the last month, to be honest). So, as a result, I had to move back in with my parents. I hate the idea of me being 36 and living with my parents, but no one else would help, so I had to do it.

freckles · 10-24-2008, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by BradB08

Plus, it feels weird when I visit my parents and I am a "guest" in the same room that used to be mine. Just a strange, nearly creepy feeling.

I feelcha. just saw a picture of my old room (I painted) had became into my mother's office now. I wish I'd have that room back even though only lived there for a short time.

Casperman · 10-28-2008, 10:42 PM

I moved out of age of 18... but ofc go back to parents for short while and lived with friends, lived in a camper, my truck etc lol when i was younger... after seprated my ex.. lived with my parents and my friends then got my own place...

Ti-girl · 11-07-2008, 08:17 PM

I moved out when I was 14. Yes, fourteen. My parents kept guardienship for when I returned home, but for most of the time I lived with my coach to train.

Thing was, she was much stricter than my parents were.

I was only 2 hours away from home, but I still "moved out" at 14.

IndieVisible · 11-07-2008, 09:35 PM

I was 16. I moved back in 3 weeks! then moved out for good at 18. It was the 70's and I was a crazy young boy. Seeking adventure. I moved in to a house with about 6 other people and they had wild parties every day all nite! It was great the first 3 days but i got tired of it! No privacy! I had more privacy at home then lol.

web730 · 11-07-2008, 10:49 PM

Moved out of my mother's womb when I was 7 and half months old!

S.O.B. · 11-08-2008, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Jolie77

I moved out when I was 17 (I just had graduated from HS) and was staying with couple of friends and just turned 18 right before enrolling at Gallaudet in the fall. I've been basically on my own ever since....

Very similar circumstances for me, just right before HS graduation, then on to second place just prior to college. I'm just glad my parents gave me some serious pointers or I would have ended up doing the trial & error thing like most newly admitted kids.

frizzy33 · 11-09-2008, 12:49 AM

I moved out of my parents' house when I was 23 and shared apt with roomate and worked at a resturant for 5 years then quit that job to be a housekeeper since. The reason why I moved out is I want my own independence and don't want to fight more with my dad about stupid curfews which I hated it but right now I get along with him and I love him but don't want to see him to have a heart attack. That's all that matters to me. At first it was very hard for me to struggle with bills and everything for a while then finally everything went well for me. I have a hard time to find jobs around here right now since it's a small town though but it's not far for me to visit my family there. I hate it when anyone who ruin my opporunities for my future like going to college or trying to get a good pay job. It happened to me 3 times before. I don't want them to get in my way and go in the wrong time and wrong place but I prefer wait for the right time. I'm taking my own time to think it over. It won't hurt after all. Smile. I'm sure some of you guys feel that way too and some don't. It depends on what kind of reasons you have.

sequoias · 06-23-2009, 11:56 PM

JClarke · 06-24-2009, 12:13 AM

I moved out when I was 20 but now back at my parents.....will be there for a little while longer.

JamieLynn · 06-24-2009, 01:15 AM

I moved out when my dad passed away in 2002. I was 25 years old back then.

PowerON · 06-24-2009, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by JClarke

I moved out when I was 20 but now back at my parents.....will be there for a little while longer.

Not work out, wasn't it?

Chie Seoung · 06-24-2009, 06:12 PM

I moved out when I was 17 and never looked back. It was hard surviving, but I made it. Nuff said.

Grummer · 06-24-2009, 08:20 PM

20 then back home for 1 year thern finally left for real at 22

10-07-2008, 12:28 AM	#62 (permalink)
bebito831 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Monterey County Ca. Posts: 206	I moved out when I turned 18 and went to college. I got married at 22. I now live in the same town as my Mom and sisters but my husband and I have our own house. __________________ Melissa

10-19-2008, 04:26 PM	#67 (permalink)
CrzyMeg Look Beyond Galaxy Join Date: May 2008 Location: Pensacola Florida or coming back to Pensacola Posts: 5,926 Blog Entries: 1	well guess what! I moving out sooner than I thought. __________________ I have returned

10-20-2008, 10:32 AM	#68 (permalink)
Pinky I'm proud to have CI!!!! Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 5,414	I thought I already post a comment in other thread. Let me say repeat. I moved out when I was 19. I made a bad decide myself. I wasn't happy with my step dad. I moved back with my mom when I was 20 for 3 months. I found a nice place to live. After my husband left to Texas for Basic Training and Tech School for 6 months. He wanted me moved back live with my mom because he didn't want my ex boyfriend to harass on me when he came to my apt. So i moved back with my mom for 8 months. When I was 22 to 23 years old. __________________ I'm going to be mommy!!! My baby's gender is unknown yet. LEFT: Implanted: 6/12/09 Activated: 7/7/09 Freedom

10-20-2008, 08:50 PM	#69 (permalink)
LuciaDisturbed Amateur Psychiatrist Join Date: May 2006 Location: San Antonio, Texas Posts: 6,648	I left home when I was 13 years old, went into foster care, and then moved into my very first own apartment when I was 18 years old. I never went back to live with my parents ever since I was 13. It's been 15 years since I left home. I am 28 now. __________________ "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." - Philosopher George Santayana. Implanted left ear 10/11/06, activated 10/16/06 - Nucleus Freedom My own CI experience, my views on CI and ASL and Deaf Culture and Society DeviantArt

10-21-2008, 05:47 PM	#70 (permalink)
Koala Cuddly bear Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 4,692	Firstly, I moved out when I was 16 yrs old to work in the city for a few months. Then I got put off the job and I returned back home to the country town where my parents lives. At 18, I moved out again returning to the city with another job. Then stayed onward for many years now with a few change jobs and a married life. __________________

10-06-2008, 11:21 AM	#61 (permalink)
RedFox Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Bellows Falls, VT Posts: 1,277	I haven't been separated from my parents for more than 4 days for my whole life until I went to RIT. I spent breaks and summers at home. After I graduated, I stayed at my parents' to get a license and find a job. When I got the job, I moved to this state.

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10-13-2008, 07:31 PM	#63 (permalink)
Deedums Registered User Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 6	I turned 18 two weeks before I graduated high school, then left for college three months later and then just never went back. I would go back for holidays and stuff, but then my parents split up after my freshman year and sold the house and got their own respective apartments, so I really had no where to go. So I got my own apartment at college and never moved back in with either one of them.

10-16-2008, 08:42 PM	#65 (permalink)
the_blah BLAH JASMINE <3 Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Canberra, Australia Posts: 69 Blog Entries: 1	wait i am turn 18.... move out in January 3rd 2010

10-21-2008, 10:12 PM	#71 (permalink)
freckles I post, therefore I am Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: in one of many freckes ... Posts: 964	never lived with parents from age 4 - 12 then left parents at age 13. over ten years ago.

10-22-2008, 03:14 AM	#72 (permalink)
yagazn taking a break from AD Join Date: May 2008 Location: Yag in Neverland Posts: 2,493	are you serious? i'm sorry about that. __________________ Mummy: I'm watching you because you spend too time on AD...Nah, It's a joke

10-23-2008, 11:00 PM	#76 (permalink)
BradB08 You can do anything Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Vermont Posts: 2,553 Blog Entries: 1	"Flew the coop" when I was 20. Haven't looked back since. Had a few trouble spots over the years in which my parents have helped. Within the past few years, their help has decreased and I've been able to maintain my life and support myself. I don't want to go back there unless something catastrophic happens and I need to be closer to them. Plus, it feels weird when I visit my parents and I am a "guest" in the same room that used to be mine. Just a strange, nearly creepy feeling.

10-28-2008, 10:42 PM	#79 (permalink)
Casperman Proud Dada of an Autistic Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: state of fast horses, fast ladies and hillbilly drunkards Posts: 433	I moved out of age of 18... but ofc go back to parents for short while and lived with friends, lived in a camper, my truck etc lol when i was younger... after seprated my ex.. lived with my parents and my friends then got my own place... __________________

11-07-2008, 08:17 PM	#80 (permalink)
Ti-girl Registered User Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 11	I moved out when I was 14. Yes, fourteen. My parents kept guardienship for when I returned home, but for most of the time I lived with my coach to train. Thing was, she was much stricter than my parents were. I was only 2 hours away from home, but I still "moved out" at 14.

11-07-2008, 09:35 PM	#81 (permalink)
IndieVisible Registered User Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 323	I was 16. I moved back in 3 weeks! then moved out for good at 18. It was the 70's and I was a crazy young boy. Seeking adventure. I moved in to a house with about 6 other people and they had wild parties every day all nite! It was great the first 3 days but i got tired of it! No privacy! I had more privacy at home then lol.

11-07-2008, 10:49 PM	#82 (permalink)
web730 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 2,163	Moved out of my mother's womb when I was 7 and half months old! __________________

11-09-2008, 12:49 AM	#84 (permalink)
frizzy33 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8	Moving out... I moved out of my parents' house when I was 23 and shared apt with roomate and worked at a resturant for 5 years then quit that job to be a housekeeper since. The reason why I moved out is I want my own independence and don't want to fight more with my dad about stupid curfews which I hated it but right now I get along with him and I love him but don't want to see him to have a heart attack. That's all that matters to me. At first it was very hard for me to struggle with bills and everything for a while then finally everything went well for me. I have a hard time to find jobs around here right now since it's a small town though but it's not far for me to visit my family there. I hate it when anyone who ruin my opporunities for my future like going to college or trying to get a good pay job. It happened to me 3 times before. I don't want them to get in my way and go in the wrong time and wrong place but I prefer wait for the right time. I'm taking my own time to think it over. It won't hurt after all. Smile. I'm sure some of you guys feel that way too and some don't. It depends on what kind of reasons you have.

06-23-2009, 11:56 PM	#85 (permalink)
sequoias Premium Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: A little trip to the extraordinary. Posts: 16,204

06-24-2009, 12:13 AM	#86 (permalink)
JClarke Good times, good times. Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Packing bags for U.S.A Posts: 19,563 Blog Entries: 5	I moved out when I was 20 but now back at my parents.....will be there for a little while longer.

06-24-2009, 01:15 AM	#87 (permalink)
JamieLynn Registered User Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 2,654	I moved out when my dad passed away in 2002. I was 25 years old back then.

06-24-2009, 06:12 PM	#89 (permalink)
Chie Seoung Registered User Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 17	I moved out when I was 17 and never looked back. It was hard surviving, but I made it. Nuff said.

06-24-2009, 08:20 PM	#90 (permalink)
Grummer Burn fat off your soul Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: North Island in the South Posts: 3,226	20 then back home for 1 year thern finally left for real at 22 __________________ Some people will tell you that slow is good - and it may be, on some days - but I am here to tell you that fast is better. I've always believed this, in spite of the trouble it's caused me. Being shot out of a cannon will always be better than being squeezed out of a tube. That is why God made fast motorcycles. Hunter S Thompson

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