how old when you move out first time? - Page 2

WhisperHorse · 09-24-2008, 02:15 PM

I moved out when I was 19 years old to living with my ex boyfriend then returned back to my parents due to him being not good boyfriend towards to me, then I moved out again when I was 21 years old but now, I moved back with my parents since I need their support me with my daughter.

ArkieGal · 09-24-2008, 03:44 PM

I moved out of my Mother's house when I was 28 years old because I got married and moved in with my husband.

Kelpies · 09-24-2008, 03:47 PM

I moved out of my parents when I was 11 years old, went to boarding school. Does it count?

mandy · 09-24-2008, 04:17 PM

My parents very old fashioned, they thought it only okay to leave parent home if getting married! I wanted to get own place at nineteen (was studying, working, paying for own studies etc) but mother thought it would look bad for her if I left home and not married - like maybe I was unhappy at home, or maybe I was on drugs or sleeping around or something. But truth was... I WAS unhappy at home, mother wanted me to still behave like I was 8-year old, couldn't accept she didn't rule every piece of my life. We had lots of fights, sometimes she right ( me use house like hotel) sometimes she wrong(me have curfew at 11pm but work only finish at 11pm, still have cash-up lock-up etc so she lock me out of house, me sleep in car and big fight in morning loys of times).
I move out age 20, had to move back in age 22 for 6 months (I started business, it failed) but then started new buisiness and move out for good. that was 20 years ago!

Sunshinelady · 09-25-2008, 12:23 AM

When i was 16 yrs old and moved out of my mom"s home. It was my wild time and live in Berlin "nightlife" *memory*

sara1981 · 09-25-2008, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by VamPyroX

I would say that it depends on the circumstances.

I lived with my parents until I was 20, then moved out when I got my own apartment. I was still in community college and worked full time. I eventually stopped going to community college.

After a few years on my own, I decided to go back to college... but for a bachelors degree instead. I applied for RIT, got accepted... then moved back in with my parents. My lease ended and there was no point in renewing it since I was going to go to RIT in a few months.

I just graduated last year and moved back here with my parents. I have school loans to pay off. My dad is a traveling businessman. So, I'm staying here to help my mom out while I'm paying off my loans. When I get a very good paying job, then I will move out and get my own apartment again.

There are some people who stay with their parents their whole life... that's bad. There are some people who graduate from college and then move back in with their parents without even doing anything... that's bad.

I know someone who spent 8 years getting his AOS degree. After graduating, he lived off campus with roommates for a year... then moved back home with his mom. He refuses to get a job. (The only job he had was 2 days at McDonalds.) His mom pays for everything. He gets weekly allowances, which he always spends on beer (and weed).

Now, that's sad.

oh my!

mostly people who never have money of their own for fun than parents who hold for what need!!!!! but i always have my own money for fun than my mom and i got allowances from my mom because im still search for jobs that why.

sara1981 · 09-25-2008, 02:30 AM

im lives with my mom till i get married its traditional!

my brother moves out our house when he was 24 years old he wanted to be indepdent but he going school to become MECH

Pepsi · 09-25-2008, 12:27 PM

I moved out when I was 18,I went from one hell hole to another

Cheri · 09-25-2008, 12:39 PM

At the age of 18, I moved out and lived on my own ever since.

GalaxyAngel · 09-25-2008, 04:23 PM

I moved out when I was 16 yrs old and living on my own.... *Long story*

KarissaMann05 · 09-25-2008, 04:42 PM

I moved out last October for the first time... I don't care what you think.

You can laugh about it; I already told for many times, yet I was teased because of being 18 mean you should be independent 100% from parent and get out. If you don't move out sooner, that's mean you don't support yourself well and waste your life as if you are "stupid". Sighs.

Well, I'm not them! I was not ready to move out so I just went to find a new job 'til I got enough money so I could move out with some friends of mine. I meant, oh com'on, I had my moral reasons. 'Nuff said. I don't like it when people go and say "you have to move out as be adult, and go to college for four years as usual like many students do. If you just get a modified diploma, your suck. bah bah bah bah bah..."

So annoying...

CrzyMeg · 09-25-2008, 04:46 PM

I havent move out yet. So I want to but that would be later.

KarissaMann05 · 09-25-2008, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by CrzyMeg

I havent move out yet. So I want to but that would be later.

As much as you feel ready to go, then go for it. Don't listen to those jerks who think they are better than you.

Just take your time.

CrzyMeg · 09-25-2008, 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KarissaMann05

As much as you feel ready to go, then go for it. Don't listen to those jerks who think they are better than you.

Just take your time.

yeah, My cousin did ask me for roommate so I told no i am not ready to pay bills and stuffs.

Mizzou · 09-25-2008, 05:39 PM

Well, my first move out was 24 years old alone then move back with parents in a years later.

my second move out was 26 then come back again in a year.

third, 29 then come back in two more years later....

Now, this is my 4th and still live in house for 6 years now.... I love go back parents again! lol

JClarke · 09-25-2008, 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KarissaMann05

I moved out last October for the first time... I don't care what you think.

You can laugh about it; I already told for many times, yet I was teased because of being 18 mean you should be independent 100% from parent and get out. If you don't move out sooner, that's mean you don't support yourself well and waste your life as if you are "stupid". Sighs.

Well, I'm not them! I was not ready to move out so I just went to find a new job 'til I got enough money so I could move out with some friends of mine. I meant, oh com'on, I had my moral reasons. 'Nuff said. I don't like it when people go and say "you have to move out as be adult, and go to college for four years as usual like many students do. If you just get a modified diploma, your suck. bah bah bah bah bah..."

So annoying...

I moved out when I was 20, who cares how old you are when you move out? *shrug* but unfortunately, I moved back at the same age, due to the decisions I make.

KarissaMann05 · 09-25-2008, 08:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jacob

I moved out when I was 20, who cares how old you are when you move out? *shrug* but unfortunately, I moved back at the same age, due to the decisions I make.

Excatly.

Age do not matter, you can make a good desicion if you think it's right time.

KweenSasha · 09-26-2008, 10:38 AM

I moved out when I was 17.

PowerON · 09-26-2008, 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KarissaMann05

As much as you feel ready to go, then go for it. Don't listen to those jerks who think they are better than you.

Just take your time.

It would be either guy who hope to have private. Or to have gal who hope to have party 7/24

PowerON · 09-26-2008, 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KarissaMann05

Excatly.

Age do not matter, you can make a good desicion if you think it's right time.

Only when someone is able to prepare to live on their own, then yes. But I felt, if someone is so late age, I felt it's like take advantage and spent nothing but spend fun out of SSI or afraid. Blah.

Sharky99 · 09-26-2008, 12:49 PM

I orginally moved out a month after my 20th birthday to live with my 3rd brother and his wife (they were bf and gf at the time) as roommates while I went to work with 3rd brother.. a year later was laid off and moved back to the farm to live with my parents till their passings... now I am on my own here on the farm and am awaiting word for a job I applied to and if I get that job, I am on the way to the little city for good and leaving the farm behind....

yagazn · 09-26-2008, 01:24 PM

I moved out when I was 21. At first, I was alone and scared after few days later, I started to like it because It's my own private and peace. And of course, I bought my date to my place you know

Dixie · 09-27-2008, 11:28 PM

Reba is a Terp for the deaf I believe.

I was 18, my dad and I had a falling out, packed my schitt and left in about an hour, lol.

shezzbeav · 10-01-2008, 05:29 AM

I moved out of my mum's place one month shy of turning 18, back in 2003.
I've been living on my own ever since then.

Bebonang · 10-01-2008, 10:06 PM

I moved out of my mother's nest when I was 21 years old. I had already had a job working and an apartment sharing with a roommate. I love the independence. Later in the years after I was married and had a baby and then divorce. I brought my baby back to my mother's house for a year and then got our own place to live in apartment. Then later my mother had problem with her mind slipping away and I had to stay with her to help her out (my son was already a teenager at the time). Then I decide to move to Canada to find my roots where all my ancestors live in Ontario and Quebec. Then my sister had to take over to take care of our mother. Our mother stayed with my sister in sister's house for 7 years before she moved into the nursing home.

horselover61 · 10-03-2008, 07:48 PM

I moved out when I was 26 yrs old and during my second marriage my son and I moved into my mom for about 3 months. That was a hell of time I had with my mom's house. I ended up having a bad case of asthma. Since then I have been on my own and now owning my house is a great and pride.

My late uncle never moved out of his mom's house and been born in that house til he died. He does have a very good job and doesnt do anything stupid at all. He help out alot around the house.

Hear Again · 10-03-2008, 08:15 PM

I moved out when I was 18 to live with my boyfriend at the time. Our relationship went sour after 6 months, so I moved again. Made yet another move because my landlord raised the rent (which I could no longer afford) after 4 years. I've been here for 15 years and have no plans to move again until I graduate with my Bachelor's degree (only 3 more courses to go!). I'm planning to relocate to a much warmer climate because I've grown so tired of the cold, long winters we have here.

shel90 · 10-03-2008, 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KarissaMann05

I moved out last October for the first time... I don't care what you think.

You can laugh about it; I already told for many times, yet I was teased because of being 18 mean you should be independent 100% from parent and get out. If you don't move out sooner, that's mean you don't support yourself well and waste your life as if you are "stupid". Sighs.

Well, I'm not them! I was not ready to move out so I just went to find a new job 'til I got enough money so I could move out with some friends of mine. I meant, oh com'on, I had my moral reasons. 'Nuff said. I don't like it when people go and say "you have to move out as be adult, and go to college for four years as usual like many students do. If you just get a modified diploma, your suck. bah bah bah bah bah..."

So annoying...

I didnt move out right away when I turned 18 cuz I was going to college and wasnt ready to live on my own yet. You arent the only one ..who says one must move out at 18?

KarissaMann05 · 10-03-2008, 08:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shel90

I didnt move out right away when I turned 18 cuz I was going to college and wasnt ready to live on my own yet. You arent the only one ..who says one must move out at 18?

Excatly. *nods* I don't want to be rush and get a screwed-up life.

Handsome_Smiley · 10-03-2008, 09:50 PM

I moved out 9 days after I turned 19. I haven't moved back since. Due to the fact I joined the army 9 days after I turned 19. My wife on the other hand, is a different story.

09-24-2008, 02:15 PM	#31 (permalink)
WhisperHorse Lexi's Mommy Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Michigan Posts: 7,695	I moved out when I was 19 years old to living with my ex boyfriend then returned back to my parents due to him being not good boyfriend towards to me, then I moved out again when I was 21 years old but now, I moved back with my parents since I need their support me with my daughter. __________________ Proud Mommy of my Alexanderia Gayle Born on May 21, 2008 8 lbs 1.4 oz and 21 1/2 inches She's the love of my life. Weight; lose 13 lbs since June 23, 2009 Haven't drink any kind of soda(like pepsi, coke, dr pepper, anyyyy) since July 12, 2009!

09-24-2008, 03:44 PM	#32 (permalink)
ArkieGal Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: retired from AllDeaf. Posts: 1,950	I moved out of my Mother's house when I was 28 years old because I got married and moved in with my husband. __________________

09-25-2008, 12:23 AM	#35 (permalink)
Sunshinelady I am in area SF Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: California Posts: 2,007	When i was 16 yrs old and moved out of my mom"s home. It was my wild time and live in Berlin "nightlife" memory __________________ The laughter is the best medicine.

09-25-2008, 02:30 AM	#37 (permalink)
sara1981 Pandy the Beagle Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: North Little Rock,Ar Posts: 4,727	im lives with my mom till i get married its traditional! my brother moves out our house when he was 24 years old he wanted to be indepdent but he going school to become MECH __________________ WWE Dave Batista

09-25-2008, 12:39 PM	#39 (permalink)
Cheri Prayers for my dad. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 22,546	At the age of 18, I moved out and lived on my own ever since. __________________ God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow and sun without rain, But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

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09-24-2008, 03:47 PM	#33 (permalink)
Kelpies Registered User Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: England Posts: 43	I moved out of my parents when I was 11 years old, went to boarding school. Does it count?

09-24-2008, 04:17 PM	#34 (permalink)
mandy mandy Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Cape Town South Africa Posts: 36	My parents very old fashioned, they thought it only okay to leave parent home if getting married! I wanted to get own place at nineteen (was studying, working, paying for own studies etc) but mother thought it would look bad for her if I left home and not married - like maybe I was unhappy at home, or maybe I was on drugs or sleeping around or something. But truth was... I WAS unhappy at home, mother wanted me to still behave like I was 8-year old, couldn't accept she didn't rule every piece of my life. We had lots of fights, sometimes she right ( me use house like hotel) sometimes she wrong(me have curfew at 11pm but work only finish at 11pm, still have cash-up lock-up etc so she lock me out of house, me sleep in car and big fight in morning loys of times). I move out age 20, had to move back in age 22 for 6 months (I started business, it failed) but then started new buisiness and move out for good. that was 20 years ago!

09-25-2008, 12:27 PM	#38 (permalink)
Pepsi Premium Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA Posts: 5,144	I moved out when I was 18,I went from one hell hole to another

09-25-2008, 04:23 PM	#40 (permalink)
GalaxyAngel That's me! Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Alberta,Canada Posts: 13,626	I moved out when I was 16 yrs old and living on my own.... Long story __________________ Parent's proud our children.

09-25-2008, 04:42 PM	#41 (permalink)
KarissaMann05 The Deaf Cougar Join Date: May 2007 Location: Salem, Oregon Posts: 4,365 Blog Entries: 13	I moved out last October for the first time... I don't care what you think. You can laugh about it; I already told for many times, yet I was teased because of being 18 mean you should be independent 100% from parent and get out. If you don't move out sooner, that's mean you don't support yourself well and waste your life as if you are "stupid". Sighs. Well, I'm not them! I was not ready to move out so I just went to find a new job 'til I got enough money so I could move out with some friends of mine. I meant, oh com'on, I had my moral reasons. 'Nuff said. I don't like it when people go and say "you have to move out as be adult, and go to college for four years as usual like many students do. If you just get a modified diploma, your suck. bah bah bah bah bah..." So annoying... __________________ "POLITICAL CORRECTNESS is defined by the people who complain the loudest." - M.B.

09-25-2008, 04:46 PM	#42 (permalink)
CrzyMeg Look Beyond Galaxy Join Date: May 2008 Location: Pensacola Florida or coming back to Pensacola Posts: 5,926 Blog Entries: 1	I havent move out yet. So I want to but that would be later. __________________ I have returned

09-25-2008, 05:39 PM	#45 (permalink)
Mizzou Now you know.... Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,620	Well, my first move out was 24 years old alone then move back with parents in a years later. my second move out was 26 then come back again in a year. third, 29 then come back in two more years later.... Now, this is my 4th and still live in house for 6 years now.... I love go back parents again! lol

09-26-2008, 10:38 AM	#48 (permalink)
KweenSasha Registered User Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: The Bahamas Posts: 298	I moved out when I was 17. __________________ `~Confusion Is The Name Of The Game, A Misconception, A Vast Deception, Something's Got To Change~` Never Say Die, Never I Will Fail... I'm Not Looking For a Place Ashore...I'M GONNA WIN!! Never I Will Give Up...Never I Will Give In...I'M GONNA WIN...

09-26-2008, 12:49 PM	#51 (permalink)
Sharky99 aka NorthStar Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central Canada Posts: 4,164	I orginally moved out a month after my 20th birthday to live with my 3rd brother and his wife (they were bf and gf at the time) as roommates while I went to work with 3rd brother.. a year later was laid off and moved back to the farm to live with my parents till their passings... now I am on my own here on the farm and am awaiting word for a job I applied to and if I get that job, I am on the way to the little city for good and leaving the farm behind....

09-26-2008, 01:24 PM	#52 (permalink)
yagazn taking a break from AD Join Date: May 2008 Location: Yag in Neverland Posts: 2,493	What about me? Okay.... I moved out when I was 21. At first, I was alone and scared after few days later, I started to like it because It's my own private and peace. And of course, I bought my date to my place you know __________________ Mummy: I'm watching you because you spend too time on AD...Nah, It's a joke

09-27-2008, 11:28 PM	#53 (permalink)
Dixie Biggest Wimp of AllDeaf Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 5,941	Reba is a Terp for the deaf I believe. I was 18, my dad and I had a falling out, packed my schitt and left in about an hour, lol. __________________ Visit my Deaf Blog Signature banner created by me, please do not steal!

10-01-2008, 05:29 AM	#54 (permalink)
shezzbeav ...just a bloody beaver Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 1,221	I moved out of my mum's place one month shy of turning 18, back in 2003. I've been living on my own ever since then.

10-01-2008, 10:06 PM	#55 (permalink)
Bebonang "Deaf Cree Militant" Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Manitoulin Island on Lake Huron in Canada Posts: 2,842	I moved out of my mother's nest when I was 21 years old. I had already had a job working and an apartment sharing with a roommate. I love the independence. Later in the years after I was married and had a baby and then divorce. I brought my baby back to my mother's house for a year and then got our own place to live in apartment. Then later my mother had problem with her mind slipping away and I had to stay with her to help her out (my son was already a teenager at the time). Then I decide to move to Canada to find my roots where all my ancestors live in Ontario and Quebec. Then my sister had to take over to take care of our mother. Our mother stayed with my sister in sister's house for 7 years before she moved into the nursing home.

10-03-2008, 07:48 PM	#56 (permalink)
horselover61 Neigh!!! Neigh!!! Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 5,531 Blog Entries: 2	I moved out when I was 26 yrs old and during my second marriage my son and I moved into my mom for about 3 months. That was a hell of time I had with my mom's house. I ended up having a bad case of asthma. Since then I have been on my own and now owning my house is a great and pride. My late uncle never moved out of his mom's house and been born in that house til he died. He does have a very good job and doesnt do anything stupid at all. He help out alot around the house. __________________ Check out my city!! http://furbyland.myminicity.com/

10-03-2008, 08:15 PM	#57 (permalink)
Hear Again Each day is a gift. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 20,067 Blog Entries: 6	I moved out when I was 18 to live with my boyfriend at the time. Our relationship went sour after 6 months, so I moved again. Made yet another move because my landlord raised the rent (which I could no longer afford) after 4 years. I've been here for 15 years and have no plans to move again until I graduate with my Bachelor's degree (only 3 more courses to go!). I'm planning to relocate to a much warmer climate because I've grown so tired of the cold, long winters we have here. __________________ Left ear - Nucleus 24 Contour Advance with Freedom BTE (Implanted: 12/22/04 \| Activated: 1/18/05) Right ear - Nucleus Freedom (Implanted: 2/1/06 \| Activated: 3/1/06) Deafblind/Postlingual

10-03-2008, 09:50 PM	#60 (permalink)
Handsome_Smiley Deaf by marriage Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Area 1, Korea Posts: 980	I moved out 9 days after I turned 19. I haven't moved back since. Due to the fact I joined the army 9 days after I turned 19. My wife on the other hand, is a different story. __________________ My Mini City \|Move into the city \| Open up a business \| Help with the roads \|My Mini City

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