you promised to love but......

meyag2 · 05-22-2008, 11:05 PM

what if your husband, wife or bf, gf or partner who lost a leg or lost a hand or become blind or whatever happens.

Or what if your baby born blind or handicapped or down syndrome. Are you going to stay or leaving for someone else?

People divorced or broke up is because of sex, money, etc, more.

A friend of mine told me a sad story, her friend's sister who got divorced because her ex-husband left her is because her son was born with down syndrome. (Her ex-husband is an a55hole). she has to raised her 4 kids and one DS on her own and worked two jobs. Of course, the father of her kids has to pay child support.

Jiro · 05-22-2008, 11:06 PM

answer's obvious for me. stay

Cheri · 05-22-2008, 11:11 PM

Stay of course

But, If he lost his *ahem err.. his south pole*, I'll have to think about it.

J/k

shel90 · 05-22-2008, 11:12 PM

stay..our son is developmentally delayed but it didnt impact our marriage.

Jiro · 05-22-2008, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

stay..our son is developmentally delayed but it didnt impact our marriage.

very great to hear that. I think that if people are judgmental and would leave the person due to defects... that person must not have lived a very happy life ever - that's what a superficial person gets.

moonflower · 05-22-2008, 11:17 PM

stay that i show my love

Matilda · 05-22-2008, 11:43 PM

I would stay with my hubby if he lost a limb or suffered ill-effects from a stroke because I love him and I'm certain he will do the same for me.

Pepsi · 05-23-2008, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Cheri

Stay of course

But, If he lost his *ahem err.. his south pole*, I'll have to think about it.

J/k

Cheri · 05-23-2008, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Pepsi

meyag2 · 05-23-2008, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Cheri

Gasp---> you badddddd (i know u didn't mean that)

sequoias · 05-23-2008, 01:36 AM

Of course, I will stay with my gf/wife if anything goes bad. That's what marriage is about, sickness, happiness, poor or rich.

dreamchaser · 05-23-2008, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by MeYag2CAL

what if your husband, wife or bf, gf or partner who lost a leg or lost a hand or become blind or whatever happens.

Or what if your baby born blind or handicapped or down syndrome. Are you going to stay or leaving for someone else?

People divorced or broke up is because of sex, money, etc, more.

A friend of mine told me a sad story, her friend's sister who got divorced because her ex-husband left her is because her son was born with down syndrome. (Her ex-husband is an a55hole). she has to raised her 4 kids and one DS on her own and worked two jobs. Of course, the father of her kids has to pay child support.

Has love become extinct on the planet Earth, and if so, why do people lie and say they love you if they don't?

GarnetTigerMom · 05-23-2008, 12:26 PM

If it were me, I stay. Unfortunely for my aunt who was married about 35 years ago have a daughter was born with down and austim and her husband left because she was not normal. Some men can't handle or face the situations is a crying shame. It prove to me he not a man enough to deal with the situation.

Freaky Cat · 05-23-2008, 12:55 PM

I would stay .. thats what marriage vows are about.. for good and BAD times which mean for ANY thing that happens.. thru thick and thin.. so obivously I would..

too bad my soon to be ex husband didnt understand me being sick with Meniere's Disease as I would get dizzy, vertigo attacks and light headed.. tinnitus and cant drive when im feeling lousy.. whatever..

rockdrummer · 05-23-2008, 12:59 PM

If you dont stay then you really don't know what love is.

Oceanblue7 · 05-23-2008, 01:05 PM

I would stay bec that's what marriage is all about sticking with your spouse through sickness and in health til death do us apart. I am staying

meyag2 · 05-23-2008, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by GarnetTigerMom

If it were me, I stay. Unfortunely for my aunt who was married about 35 years ago have a daughter was born with down and austim and her husband left because she was not normal. Some men can't handle or face the situations is a crying shame. It prove to me he not a man enough to deal with the situation.

Right he's not a man enough like a wimp. That's what she exactly told me. She felt hurt (Poor lady). She found a new man who loved her kids and one with DS even he loved her. She's very happy now and he's better than her ex-husband who was not man enough.

Peachy Lady · 05-23-2008, 05:22 PM

I would stay with my husband no matter if he becomes disabled or whatever. We honor the marriage vows. Only time I would leave is if he becomes abusive or commits adultry. I know he never will do that, so we will always be married for eternity

jillio · 05-23-2008, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

stay..our son is developmentally delayed but it didnt impact our marriage.

You have a wonderful husband and a good marraige. Its good to know hat there are still people out there who understand the concept of "unconditional" love.

jillio · 05-23-2008, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by rockdrummer

If you dont stay then you really don't know what love is.

Exactamundo!

lilylover72 · 05-23-2008, 07:07 PM

I met my man before get marry. I met his daugther who is little retared. I accpeted her and I wanted to marry my man. She lived with us before. It was good and bad experience with her.

Sexy Babe · 05-23-2008, 07:59 PM

I took my Vows seriously the day I married to a Wonderful Hard Worker man. I love my husband for who he is and for his love, honestly, respect and all. I don't care if he lost his arm, leg, blind, deaf, or anything that happen to him.. I will always stay married to him and love him til death do us a part.

The look, or how big he is or the outside of him is not what I count. But what he have inside of him is what I count and that matters the most.

meyag2 · 05-23-2008, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by lilylover72

I met my man before get marry. I met his daugther who is little retared. I accpeted her and I wanted to marry my man. She lived with us before. It was good and bad experience with her.

meyag2 · 05-23-2008, 10:13 PM

05-22-2008, 11:05 PM	#1 (permalink)
meyag2 *********** Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,744	you promised to love but...... what if your husband, wife or bf, gf or partner who lost a leg or lost a hand or become blind or whatever happens. Or what if your baby born blind or handicapped or down syndrome. Are you going to stay or leaving for someone else? People divorced or broke up is because of sex, money, etc, more. A friend of mine told me a sad story, her friend's sister who got divorced because her ex-husband left her is because her son was born with down syndrome. (Her ex-husband is an a55hole). she has to raised her 4 kids and one DS on her own and worked two jobs. Of course, the father of her kids has to pay child support.

05-22-2008, 11:11 PM	#3 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 21,024	Stay of course But, If he lost his ahem err.. his south pole, I'll have to think about it. J/k __________________

05-22-2008, 11:12 PM	#4 (permalink)
shel90 Sun Whorshipper Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: A Desert Rat that has found herself in Maryland Posts: 16,119 Blog Entries: 1	stay..our son is developmentally delayed but it didnt impact our marriage. __________________ ~Shel~ "A child educated only at school is an uneducated child." -George Santayana

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moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,874	stay that i show my love __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08

05-23-2008, 01:36 AM	#11 (permalink)
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05-22-2008, 11:06 PM	#2 (permalink)
Jiro YOU DOMESTIC DISSENT! Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 7,358	answer's obvious for me. stay

05-22-2008, 11:43 PM	#7 (permalink)
Matilda Boxing Kangaroo "Jack" Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 2,176	I would stay with my hubby if he lost a limb or suffered ill-effects from a stroke because I love him and I'm certain he will do the same for me.

05-23-2008, 12:26 PM	#13 (permalink)
GarnetTigerMom Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Virginia Posts: 4,862	If it were me, I stay. Unfortunely for my aunt who was married about 35 years ago have a daughter was born with down and austim and her husband left because she was not normal. Some men can't handle or face the situations is a crying shame. It prove to me he not a man enough to deal with the situation. __________________ GarnetTigerMom "The rain may be falling hard outside, But your smile makes it all alright. I'm so glad that you're my friend. I know our friendship will never end." -- Robert Alan

05-23-2008, 12:55 PM	#14 (permalink)
Freaky Cat My cat Oreo :) Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,182	I would stay .. thats what marriage vows are about.. for good and BAD times which mean for ANY thing that happens.. thru thick and thin.. so obivously I would.. too bad my soon to be ex husband didnt understand me being sick with Meniere's Disease as I would get dizzy, vertigo attacks and light headed.. tinnitus and cant drive when im feeling lousy.. whatever..

05-23-2008, 12:59 PM	#15 (permalink)
rockdrummer Always 1 beat off Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Chicago area Posts: 3,008	If you dont stay then you really don't know what love is.

05-23-2008, 01:05 PM	#16 (permalink)
Oceanblue7 Patriots Rock! Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Gillette Stadium Posts: 4,418 Blog Entries: 8	I would stay bec that's what marriage is all about sticking with your spouse through sickness and in health til death do us apart. I am staying __________________ Ps.103:12 He washes our sins away into the ocean

05-23-2008, 05:22 PM	#18 (permalink)
Peachy Lady Not from Georgia. Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 2,112	I would stay with my husband no matter if he becomes disabled or whatever. We honor the marriage vows. Only time I would leave is if he becomes abusive or commits adultry. I know he never will do that, so we will always be married for eternity __________________

05-23-2008, 07:07 PM	#21 (permalink)
lilylover72 I love purple! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: USA Posts: 2,871	I met my man before get marry. I met his daugther who is little retared. I accpeted her and I wanted to marry my man. She lived with us before. It was good and bad experience with her.

05-23-2008, 07:59 PM	#22 (permalink)
Sexy Babe Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Mountain Home, Ark Posts: 55	I took my Vows seriously the day I married to a Wonderful Hard Worker man. I love my husband for who he is and for his love, honestly, respect and all. I don't care if he lost his arm, leg, blind, deaf, or anything that happen to him.. I will always stay married to him and love him til death do us a part. The look, or how big he is or the outside of him is not what I count. But what he have inside of him is what I count and that matters the most.

05-23-2008, 10:13 PM	#24 (permalink)
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