proposals , marriages - Page 2

shel90 · 05-12-2008, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by IslandBreeze07

Oh yeaaaaaaaaaaaa! So right of Shel to point that out~that includes boats, motorcycles, cars and you name it. Make sure one of the couple buys it and share it. NOT together until marriage.

Yea...I know of a few people who bought houses together and have broken up but are stuck with the house due to not being able to afford to live on their own or unable to sell the house. My hubby and his ex fiancee went thru a few court appearances cuz of the car they bought together. It was so ridiculous because it took them over a year to resolve the car issue. Relationships whether married or not are complicated!

Anyways...remember that proposal at the basketball game in front of all the fans where the woman just ran out on the guy? Now, that was BAD!

Freaky Cat · 05-12-2008, 08:56 PM

yeah thats bad and i felt bad for the guy..

horselover61 · 05-13-2008, 07:49 AM

The first one was at the jewerly store. That sucks!!!

The second one was at the Elks Lodge during Friday Nite Fish Fry. Just my mom was witness. No romance at all. That sucks!!!

I dont think I want to get marry again.

C.C.Sinned · 05-13-2008, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by highlands

how did you feel at the moment of proposal ?

It felt great. best thing I ever did in my life.

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Originally Posted by highlands

Where as it ? how did you do it ?

This is how I proposed

paperclip · 05-13-2008, 10:13 AM

Not engaged, nor anywhere close to that moment in my life. Proposal? On a stack of haybales in the middle of the summer. I always thought it would be pretty to have a wedding in a vineyard.

On a side note: I think I am scared of the emotional pain of marriage if it didn't work out, that I'd just rather not. I figure I finish college, go to graduate school, join the Peace Corps (do the Peace Corps take HOH?), adopt a child and live near where I grew up. But I say that now...maybe I'll meet someone, but I still feel like my level-headedness does not do good things for relationships. A two days ago, my friends and I heard some screams in the late at night and we went out to investigate and guy was raping a girl. My friends (all male) took care of the solution. Cops were called. Some men, I'm just simply scared of.

Rainshower77 · 05-13-2008, 10:47 AM

being proposed three times in my lifetime (two who loved me but I broke off the relationship.. the third is my husband).. I was excited everytime, and said yes

The two I was with, the first one cheated on me sort of..I found out before he actually cheated.. he was on his way to meet someone. The second kept delaying marriage.. and I knew our relationship isn't just meant to be. Delaying marriage is a sign that this person is just not serious about marrying you, or afraid of marrying you and there is no trust in the relationship. I think it had alot to do with my hearing. I think my ex was afraid of actually being committed to someone who is deaf. But I didn't like it when he kept making empty promises "oh, let's just wait til we have enough money" or "We will get marry within six months" etc. but never got down to be serious about it. Then my ex gets mad that I am pushing marriage... well duh, he propose to me, I thought he was serious.

When you propose to someone... you have to really mean it too.. You have to be willing to marry within the next day ...NEVER PROPOSE TO SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS WITH.

Freaky Cat · 05-13-2008, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Rainshower77

being proposed three times in my lifetime (two who loved me but I broke off the relationship.. the third is my husband).. I was excited everytime, and said yes

The two I was with, the first one cheated on me sort of..I found out before he actually cheated.. he was on his way to meet someone. The second kept delaying marriage.. and I knew our relationship isn't just meant to be. Delaying marriage is a sign that this person is just not serious about marrying you, or afraid of marrying you and there is no trust in the relationship. I think it had alot to do with my hearing. I think my ex was afraid of actually being committed to someone who is deaf. But I didn't like it when he kept making empty promises "oh, let's just wait til we have enough money" or "We will get marry within six months" etc. but never got down to be serious about it. Then my ex gets mad that I am pushing marriage... well duh, he propose to me, I thought he was serious.

When you propose to someone... you have to really mean it too.. You have to be willing to marry within the next day ...NEVER PROPOSE TO SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS WITH.

Look like he didn't know how to do this properly? Doesn't know when you propose to someone mean you are very serious and want to spend the rest of your life with. He was wrong about that. I am sorry you had to go thru that.

Celticty · 05-16-2008, 12:46 PM

When I asked my wife to marry me it was cute not quite romantic.

Put the ring on her cat's collar and said there was something wrong with it. Problem was that the cat was long haired and we couldn't find it for a while. Finally I found it and said... See here is the problem and she looked and started to cry and hid her face. Of course she said yes because we are married. So it wasn't really romantic but it was sweet. She loved it.

Freaky Cat · 05-16-2008, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Celticty

When I asked my wife to marry me it was cute not quite romantic.

Put the ring on her cat's collar and said there was something wrong with it. Problem was that the cat was long haired and we couldn't find it for a while. Finally I found it and said... See here is the problem and she looked and started to cry and hid her face. Of course she said yes because we are married. So it wasn't really romantic but it was sweet. She loved it.

sweet story!

Sexy Babe · 05-19-2008, 07:26 AM

That is really sweet. I still think it is cute idea though

05-12-2008, 08:56 PM	#32 (permalink)
Freaky Cat Space - it's like heaven! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,038	yeah thats bad and i felt bad for the guy.. __________________ "SpongeBob, that's my Krabby Patty! Give it back, you porous freak! I command you! My patty! Nooo! I'll settle for some fries." - Plankton. Freaky Cat's Blog

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05-13-2008, 10:13 AM	#35 (permalink)
paperclip Registered User Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: I'm either studying in Seattle, working rural New York or farming in Pennsylvania Posts: 60	Not engaged, nor anywhere close to that moment in my life. Proposal? On a stack of haybales in the middle of the summer. I always thought it would be pretty to have a wedding in a vineyard. On a side note: I think I am scared of the emotional pain of marriage if it didn't work out, that I'd just rather not. I figure I finish college, go to graduate school, join the Peace Corps (do the Peace Corps take HOH?), adopt a child and live near where I grew up. But I say that now...maybe I'll meet someone, but I still feel like my level-headedness does not do good things for relationships. A two days ago, my friends and I heard some screams in the late at night and we went out to investigate and guy was raping a girl. My friends (all male) took care of the solution. Cops were called. Some men, I'm just simply scared of.

05-13-2008, 10:47 AM	#36 (permalink)
Rainshower77 Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 91	being proposed three times in my lifetime (two who loved me but I broke off the relationship.. the third is my husband).. I was excited everytime, and said yes The two I was with, the first one cheated on me sort of..I found out before he actually cheated.. he was on his way to meet someone. The second kept delaying marriage.. and I knew our relationship isn't just meant to be. Delaying marriage is a sign that this person is just not serious about marrying you, or afraid of marrying you and there is no trust in the relationship. I think it had alot to do with my hearing. I think my ex was afraid of actually being committed to someone who is deaf. But I didn't like it when he kept making empty promises "oh, let's just wait til we have enough money" or "We will get marry within six months" etc. but never got down to be serious about it. Then my ex gets mad that I am pushing marriage... well duh, he propose to me, I thought he was serious. When you propose to someone... you have to really mean it too.. You have to be willing to marry within the next day ...NEVER PROPOSE TO SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS WITH.

05-16-2008, 12:46 PM	#38 (permalink)
Celticty ASL Student/Future Interp Join Date: May 2008 Location: Kent, Washington Posts: 140	When I asked my wife to marry me it was cute not quite romantic. Put the ring on her cat's collar and said there was something wrong with it. Problem was that the cat was long haired and we couldn't find it for a while. Finally I found it and said... See here is the problem and she looked and started to cry and hid her face. Of course she said yes because we are married. So it wasn't really romantic but it was sweet. She loved it.

05-19-2008, 07:26 AM	#40 (permalink)
Sexy Babe Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Mountain Home, Ark Posts: 55	That is really sweet. I still think it is cute idea though