why i feel that way?

Taurus · 05-05-2008, 01:17 AM

Ok, I hasnt move on from my ex for more than six months.. whenever I think of my ex.. I try so hard to cry but it doesnt work (I only cry once.. but it last 2 minutes.. then when I think of my cat and animals.. I cried.. because I miss my cat and animals so much. I cannot wait to go home soon to see my cat (i'm college student). but i miss my ex too and hasnt cry?
I think of my ex more than my cat.. but why is that happen to me? thanks

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***VamPyroX*** · 05-05-2008, 01:22 AM

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***VamPyroX*** · 05-05-2008, 01:23 AM

Well, if you don't cry... then that should tell you that your feelings for your ex were not as strong as you thought they were. It should also tell you that it's time to move on.

Not every person we've been with were destined to be ours for life. If one doesn't work out, then we shouldn't give up... just move on. There will always be someone else.

Cheri · 05-05-2008, 06:22 AM

Some people cry, Some people don't cry. I think it has to do with the emotional being of each individual. Maybe you just miss being around her that's maybe why you are thinking of her, but not in a way that you're still have feelings for her, because if you did, you'll be feeling incomplete sort of empty, and it'll make you cry.

Phillips · 05-05-2008, 06:40 AM

Umm I was broken up my ex that i do not want Continue date with him so i do not cry at all ?

Take easy smile
Peace

Pepsi · 05-05-2008, 07:34 AM

It loooks like you are trying to put yourself on a guilt trip

jiro123 · 05-06-2008, 06:23 PM

Don't worry, my friend... it'll pass. I don't remember but it was long time ago. I was very depressed for about.... 3 months? but hey - I'm happy now with somebody else. You'll find somebody. Just don't do anything that reminds you of your ex. Time to turn over new leaf!

moonflower · 05-06-2008, 06:36 PM

i was like that last year as now i am moving on as telling myself that my ex is not worth to be in my life anymore i am more happy and i have friends and my dog with me.

i hope you will be ok taurus

LovelyBlkGal · 05-06-2008, 10:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by moonflower

i was like that last year as now i am moving on as telling myself that my ex is not worth to be in my life anymore i am more happy and i have friends and my dog with me.

i hope you will be ok taurus

True i agree w/you

Hope everythings will ok and move on ur life

Taurus and i know it's not easy for you but still hang in there as long you can

Taurus · 05-07-2008, 01:23 AM

thanks for comment everyone..

Yea, I'll be fine.. but I'm sure I'll move on after one year..

jiro123 · 05-07-2008, 02:26 AM

after one year? that's kinda depressing.....

NorCal20 · 05-07-2008, 02:36 AM

"Cry is mercy on heart thus heart shalt recieve painful sing. Moon rise up and shine on face and wipe the tears, stars carry you to heavenly. A gentleman will pass you and greeting you, cry melt into heart to rise colorful to sing the beautiful love once again"

Taurus · 05-07-2008, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jiro123

after one year? that's kinda depressing.....

kinda.. if you are in relationship with someone who have bipolar.. You will understand how I feel..

jiro123 · 05-07-2008, 06:24 PM

CHEER UP!

GarnetTigerMom · 05-07-2008, 07:41 PM

One way to figure it out is to ask yourself what you would be thinking about and doing if you were not so upset about the breakup. Is it possible that it is easier for you to maintain the upset than to face whatever it is that you should be attending to? Could it be that you are anxious about going on to university, for example? Or maybe you are so afraid to open your heart to someone again that there is a part of you that would rather be stuck than chance it. But I think you don't have to wait a year to get over him. Take your time to something new for a change to start fresh. You might feel whole lot better. There always somebody new out there could be right for you. But I do wish you the very best.

shel90 · 05-07-2008, 08:25 PM

Maybe you are not ready to greive over your ex yet?

Mizzou · 05-07-2008, 08:31 PM

I have ex who has bi polar. it is differcult to handle him/her. I gave up on her for that kind excuses. I not need her anymore. Move on then you will find wonderful partner.

Taurus · 05-07-2008, 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GarnetTigerMom

One way to figure it out is to ask yourself what you would be thinking about and doing if you were not so upset about the breakup. Is it possible that it is easier for you to maintain the upset than to face whatever it is that you should be attending to? Could it be that you are anxious about going on to university, for example? Or maybe you are so afraid to open your heart to someone again that there is a part of you that would rather be stuck than chance it. But I think you don't have to wait a year to get over him. Take your time to something new for a change to start fresh. You might feel whole lot better. There always somebody new out there could be right for you. But I do wish you the very best.

yea.. part of me want to be stuck.. but honestly.. I'm happy with my life cuz everything is fine right now except three so far in my night dreams.. my ex was in my dreams.. I kept hear/read the word "bipolar" make me think of my ex.. I'm white but whenever i see hispanic which have similar face like my ex.. make me think of him.. and list go on..

sigh.. almost 7 months that i wont able to move on..

Taurus · 05-07-2008, 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shel90

Maybe you are not ready to greive over your ex yet?

I did grieve over my ex.. Last time was yesterday in the morning for two hours..

Taurus · 05-07-2008, 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mizzou

I have ex who has bi polar. it is differcult to handle him/her. I gave up on her for that kind excuses. I not need her anymore. Move on then you will find wonderful partner.

well honestly.. i love him if he have bipolar or not.. cuz disablities or mental illness dont stop me..

I can tell if that is bipolar or his way of talk/behaviors affect me..

Maria · 05-07-2008, 11:08 PM

Taurus, maybe your LOVE is too strong for you to handle ? Maybe, it's hard for you to let them go ? It's LOVE that you have the feelings for them. It's normal to cry when you can't handle. I know it's struggle feeling - hard to let it go and move on.

I know my emotions very well. Once I fall in love with a man, it's hard for me to get rid of the feelings. It takes a long time to get it over....but, I am strong now and if, a man ever hurts me too much over time, then I will not feel like this to him. I would leave him for good - dependin' on how much damage he've done to me emotionally and mentally.

05-05-2008, 01:17 AM	#1 (permalink)
Taurus Stubborn the Bull Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: On Earth Posts: 235	why i feel that way? Ok, I hasnt move on from my ex for more than six months.. whenever I think of my ex.. I try so hard to cry but it doesnt work (I only cry once.. but it last 2 minutes.. then when I think of my cat and animals.. I cried.. because I miss my cat and animals so much. I cannot wait to go home soon to see my cat (i'm college student). but i miss my ex too and hasnt cry? I think of my ex more than my cat.. but why is that happen to me? thanks * Sorry if this in wrong section but u can move it to right section.. I'm still newbie to this site.. thanks * __________________

05-05-2008, 01:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
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05-05-2008, 01:23 AM	#3 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 25,902	Well, if you don't cry... then that should tell you that your feelings for your ex were not as strong as you thought they were. It should also tell you that it's time to move on. Not every person we've been with were destined to be ours for life. If one doesn't work out, then we shouldn't give up... just move on. There will always be someone else. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

05-05-2008, 06:22 AM	#4 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: All I wanted was a white knight with a good heart, soft touch, fast horse, ride me off into the sunset Posts: 20,225	Some people cry, Some people don't cry. I think it has to do with the emotional being of each individual. Maybe you just miss being around her that's maybe why you are thinking of her, but not in a way that you're still have feelings for her, because if you did, you'll be feeling incomplete sort of empty, and it'll make you cry. __________________

05-05-2008, 06:40 AM	#5 (permalink)
Phillips Lets ride horses! Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Somewhere in Northeast Posts: 5,937 Blog Entries: 3	Umm I was broken up my ex that i do not want Continue date with him so i do not cry at all ? Take easy smile Peace __________________ *Enjoy life today, Yesterday has past and Tomorrow may never come.*

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05-05-2008, 07:34 AM	#6 (permalink)
Pepsi USA Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,003	It loooks like you are trying to put yourself on a guilt trip

05-06-2008, 06:23 PM	#7 (permalink)
jiro123 >:{ Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 1,958	Don't worry, my friend... it'll pass. I don't remember but it was long time ago. I was very depressed for about.... 3 months? but hey - I'm happy now with somebody else. You'll find somebody. Just don't do anything that reminds you of your ex. Time to turn over new leaf!

05-06-2008, 06:36 PM	#8 (permalink)
moonflower a Stargate Fan Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County Michigan Posts: 4,448	i was like that last year as now i am moving on as telling myself that my ex is not worth to be in my life anymore i am more happy and i have friends and my dog with me. i hope you will be ok taurus

05-07-2008, 01:23 AM	#10 (permalink)
Taurus Stubborn the Bull Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: On Earth Posts: 235	thanks for comment everyone.. Yea, I'll be fine.. but I'm sure I'll move on after one year.. __________________

05-07-2008, 02:26 AM	#11 (permalink)
jiro123 >:{ Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 1,958	after one year? that's kinda depressing.....

05-07-2008, 02:36 AM	#12 (permalink)
NorCal20 -superdorky :o) Join Date: May 2008 Location: Golden State Posts: 1,242	"Cry is mercy on heart thus heart shalt recieve painful sing. Moon rise up and shine on face and wipe the tears, stars carry you to heavenly. A gentleman will pass you and greeting you, cry melt into heart to rise colorful to sing the beautiful love once again"

05-07-2008, 06:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
jiro123 >:{ Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 1,958	CHEER UP!

05-07-2008, 07:41 PM	#15 (permalink)
GarnetTigerMom Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Virginia Posts: 4,583	One way to figure it out is to ask yourself what you would be thinking about and doing if you were not so upset about the breakup. Is it possible that it is easier for you to maintain the upset than to face whatever it is that you should be attending to? Could it be that you are anxious about going on to university, for example? Or maybe you are so afraid to open your heart to someone again that there is a part of you that would rather be stuck than chance it. But I think you don't have to wait a year to get over him. Take your time to something new for a change to start fresh. You might feel whole lot better. There always somebody new out there could be right for you. But I do wish you the very best. __________________ GarnetTigerMom "The rain may be falling hard outside, But your smile makes it all alright. I'm so glad that you're my friend. I know our friendship will never end." -- Robert Alan

05-07-2008, 08:25 PM	#16 (permalink)
shel90 Sun Whorshipper Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: A Desert Rat that has found herself in Maryland Posts: 12,638 Blog Entries: 1	Maybe you are not ready to greive over your ex yet? __________________ ~Shel~

05-07-2008, 08:31 PM	#17 (permalink)
Mizzou Where is my car ? Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,574	I have ex who has bi polar. it is differcult to handle him/her. I gave up on her for that kind excuses. I not need her anymore. Move on then you will find wonderful partner.

05-07-2008, 11:08 PM	#21 (permalink)
Maria Premium Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: ALASKA Posts: 7,704	Taurus, maybe your LOVE is too strong for you to handle ? Maybe, it's hard for you to let them go ? It's LOVE that you have the feelings for them. It's normal to cry when you can't handle. I know it's struggle feeling - hard to let it go and move on. I know my emotions very well. Once I fall in love with a man, it's hard for me to get rid of the feelings. It takes a long time to get it over....but, I am strong now and if, a man ever hurts me too much over time, then I will not feel like this to him. I would leave him for good - dependin' on how much damage he've done to me emotionally and mentally.

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