Longest Relationship with your BF/GF Post #1

illustrator · 03-06-2003, 02:26 PM

What's your longest relationship?
Was that good or bad?

illustrator · 03-06-2003, 02:28 PM

Mine was 1 yrs and 2 months.

First 9 months, it was wonderful until she got weird about herself. It wasn't like her.

I had to break her up, at least, I glad I don't make mistake by end marry her.

e · 03-06-2003, 02:36 PM

I had two longest relationships, they lasted about 4 months. My first ex whos hearing became addicted to drugs while we were dating, things gotten worse in the last month. He dumped me out of blue and for no reason. My last ex, hearing too, we weren't serious together but I think he dumped me for another girl.
My longest relationship with a deaf guy... Gee, I don't know... I think 3 months? But we never saw each other during 3 months long distance relationship lol. We agreed to stop dating cuz of that.

03-06-2003, 05:51 PM

My long is currently almost 3 years with my guy. But before him, the longest was with a hard of hearing for a year and half. The shorts will have to be like 2 days.

deafgal01 · 03-06-2003, 07:41 PM

Longest with a deaf guy was 4 years. As for longest with hearing guy, 4 months and still counting (hint: he's my current boyfriend).

***Alex*** · 03-06-2003, 10:53 PM

My longest relationship was 3 years and 5 months, and it was with a hearing girl. At first, things were great but in the end, we just realized we weren't meant for each other. My second longest relationship was 2 years and 10 months, and it was with a deaf girl. We just broke up not long ago, she just wasn't for me nor was I for her. Talk about wasted years. Heh.

Xoxostarss · 03-06-2003, 11:11 PM

my longest relationship was one year with a hearing guy. we broke up cuz it was not working due to lack of communication and we werent really happy being together.

Brian · 03-07-2003, 04:40 AM

My longest relationship would be over three years, with this deaf girl. I broke up with her, because I couldn't tolerate her being a chain-smoker and her addiction to illegal drugs. Communication was another reason our relationship didn't work out, she is a pure-ASL user.

**OldNavyGirl** · 03-07-2003, 08:01 AM

the last ex bf i was with him for over 2 years, of course we had our ups and downs. we broke it off by a LD relationship however he's still a jerk. ( NO OFFENSE) oh well life goes on.

allisonjoy · 03-07-2003, 06:08 PM

my longest would be a year and a few weeks (with a deaffie).... one mistake. but hey, everyone learns from them!!.. currently in a 4 months and counting relationship

whodatshroom · 03-08-2003, 09:55 PM

Mine was 3 yrs, and it was good at first then he cheated on me...I gave him other chance. And it started to get bad. THen after we broke up I discovered he cheated on me with alot of girls at RIT

d · 03-10-2003, 02:31 PM

the longest i have gone is 4 months. no biggie.

LeviathanC · 03-11-2003, 01:37 AM

1 month....i had to broke up with her for many personal reasons.

***VamPyroX*** · 03-11-2003, 08:53 AM

Sounds like a lot of you broke up in such a short time. If I ever broke up with my current girlfriend, I wouldn't get into a serious committed relationship again until after I get settled with a job, a car, and a house... with a steady income.

Waz · 03-11-2003, 03:00 PM

Ahem cant believe i cannot remember how excatly my longest relationship i think it would be 15-17 month with a deaf girl and she later immigrant to new zealand with her family to start a new life as i was totally heart broken, it was pretty funny coz i had sex with her one day before she moved, (before i found christianity of course)

( this thread make me look back!

daprilz · 03-12-2003, 11:05 PM

mine is longest is 6 years, 2 months and still counting!

03-12-2003, 11:08 PM

Congrats.. Keep it up.

Strawberry · 03-12-2003, 11:08 PM

longest- 7 months

daprilz · 03-12-2003, 11:09 PM

yea but we met in high school, u know HIGH SCHOOL sweetheart and i sometimes wish i should date with other boys before serious relationship, know what i mean ? but im happy to be with him, tho!

03-12-2003, 11:10 PM

THe longest about three years.

daprilz · 03-12-2003, 11:11 PM

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Originally posted by daprilz
yea but we met in high school, u know HIGH SCHOOL sweetheart and i sometimes wish i should date with other boys before serious relationship, know what i mean ? but im happy to be with him, tho!

i'm only 21 years old! ... i met him when i was 15 years old.

**OldNavyGirl** · 03-12-2003, 11:19 PM

heh oh well. a lil over 2 years...

Bythefrozenlake · 03-13-2003, 03:57 AM

1 year and 2 months. She was hearing.

MDCodeRedFreak · 03-13-2003, 01:30 PM

*mirthless chuckle* i haven't had any lovers .... been single in ALL my 20 years

**kevbo** · 03-13-2003, 01:53 PM

My longest relationship was 2 years and she was hearing.

KingDragon · 03-14-2003, 03:28 PM

My first love is 2 year and 3 month.. but not now anymore

Carebearx13x · 03-15-2003, 01:08 AM

Two years and 3 months and still counting with Chris.

03-20-2003, 07:43 PM

the longest was 18 months and we broke up due to communication issues... then I was with this guy for 7 months, and now we're just friends.

blue_cutie · 03-20-2003, 09:32 PM

hey.............. how can all of you accept LD even you both live far away????? how can you both trust each other not to cheat on each other or whatever???? is it hard or wat????

***VamPyroX*** · 03-21-2003, 05:27 PM

For me, I would have to say... 2 years and 11 months.

03-06-2003, 02:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
illustrator Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Benbrook Posts: 4,594	Longest Relationship with your BF/GF What's your longest relationship? Was that good or bad?

03-06-2003, 10:53 PM	#6 (permalink)
*Alex* Administrator Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Garfield, NJ Posts: 3,975 Blog Entries: 1	My longest relationship was 3 years and 5 months, and it was with a hearing girl. At first, things were great but in the end, we just realized we weren't meant for each other. My second longest relationship was 2 years and 10 months, and it was with a deaf girl. We just broke up not long ago, she just wasn't for me nor was I for her. Talk about wasted years. Heh. __________________ "Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can read." - Mark Twain "Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful." - Seneca the Younger "Be fearful when others are greedy. Be greedy when others are fearful." - Warren Buffett

03-11-2003, 08:53 AM	#14 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: 40.18, 58.41 Posts: 34,136	Sounds like a lot of you broke up in such a short time. If I ever broke up with my current girlfriend, I wouldn't get into a serious committed relationship again until after I get settled with a job, a car, and a house... with a steady income. __________________ Check out my city... C L I C K H E R E! (If you've already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

03-12-2003, 11:05 PM	#16 (permalink)
daprilz Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: nOwHeRe! Posts: 639	what is your longest relationship with your gf/byf ? mine is longest is 6 years, 2 months and still counting!

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03-06-2003, 02:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
illustrator Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Benbrook Posts: 4,594	Mine was 1 yrs and 2 months. First 9 months, it was wonderful until she got weird about herself. It wasn't like her. I had to break her up, at least, I glad I don't make mistake by end marry her.

03-06-2003, 02:36 PM	#3 (permalink)
e Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Neeewwwww Yawk! Posts: 1,138	I had two longest relationships, they lasted about 4 months. My first ex whos hearing became addicted to drugs while we were dating, things gotten worse in the last month. He dumped me out of blue and for no reason. My last ex, hearing too, we weren't serious together but I think he dumped me for another girl. My longest relationship with a deaf guy... Gee, I don't know... I think 3 months? But we never saw each other during 3 months long distance relationship lol. We agreed to stop dating cuz of that.

03-06-2003, 05:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	My long is currently almost 3 years with my guy. But before him, the longest was with a hard of hearing for a year and half. The shorts will have to be like 2 days.

03-06-2003, 07:41 PM	#5 (permalink)
deafgal01 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Lost in the woods of Indiana Posts: 203	Longest with a deaf guy was 4 years. As for longest with hearing guy, 4 months and still counting (hint: he's my current boyfriend).

03-06-2003, 11:11 PM	#7 (permalink)
Xoxostarss Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: California Posts: 450	my longest relationship was one year with a hearing guy. we broke up cuz it was not working due to lack of communication and we werent really happy being together.

03-07-2003, 04:40 AM	#8 (permalink)
Brian Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 4,750	My longest relationship would be over three years, with this deaf girl. I broke up with her, because I couldn't tolerate her being a chain-smoker and her addiction to illegal drugs. Communication was another reason our relationship didn't work out, she is a pure-ASL user.

03-07-2003, 08:01 AM	#9 (permalink)
OldNavyGirl Premium Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere in Illinois Posts: 3,753	the last ex bf i was with him for over 2 years, of course we had our ups and downs. we broke it off by a LD relationship however he's still a jerk. ( NO OFFENSE) oh well life goes on.

03-07-2003, 06:08 PM	#10 (permalink)
allisonjoy Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: rhodey isle Posts: 1,124	my longest would be a year and a few weeks (with a deaffie).... one mistake. but hey, everyone learns from them!!.. currently in a 4 months and counting relationship

03-08-2003, 09:55 PM	#11 (permalink)
whodatshroom Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 750	Mine was 3 yrs, and it was good at first then he cheated on me...I gave him other chance. And it started to get bad. THen after we broke up I discovered he cheated on me with alot of girls at RIT

03-10-2003, 02:31 PM	#12 (permalink)
d Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 494	the longest i have gone is 4 months. no biggie.

03-11-2003, 01:37 AM	#13 (permalink)
LeviathanC Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,312	1 month....i had to broke up with her for many personal reasons.

03-11-2003, 03:00 PM	#15 (permalink)
Waz Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Birmingham, West Midland Posts: 685	Ahem cant believe i cannot remember how excatly my longest relationship i think it would be 15-17 month with a deaf girl and she later immigrant to new zealand with her family to start a new life as i was totally heart broken, it was pretty funny coz i had sex with her one day before she moved, (before i found christianity of course) ( this thread make me look back!

03-12-2003, 11:08 PM	#17 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	Congrats.. Keep it up.

03-12-2003, 11:08 PM	#18 (permalink)
Strawberry Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Ol'ugly plains where Tornadoes like to lick! Posts: 823	longest- 7 months

03-12-2003, 11:09 PM	#19 (permalink)
daprilz Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: nOwHeRe! Posts: 639	yea but we met in high school, u know HIGH SCHOOL sweetheart and i sometimes wish i should date with other boys before serious relationship, know what i mean ? but im happy to be with him, tho!

03-12-2003, 11:10 PM	#20 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	THe longest about three years.

03-12-2003, 11:19 PM	#22 (permalink)
OldNavyGirl Premium Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere in Illinois Posts: 3,753	heh oh well. a lil over 2 years...

03-13-2003, 03:57 AM	#23 (permalink)
Bythefrozenlake Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 99	1 year and 2 months. She was hearing.

03-13-2003, 01:53 PM	#25 (permalink)
kevbo Premium Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: New Jersey Posts: 1,592	My longest relationship was 2 years and she was hearing.

03-14-2003, 03:28 PM	#26 (permalink)
KingDragon Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Texas Posts: 516	My first love is 2 year and 3 month.. but not now anymore

03-15-2003, 01:08 AM	#27 (permalink)
Carebearx13x Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: down the shore...:) Posts: 313	Two years and 3 months and still counting with Chris.

03-20-2003, 07:43 PM	#28 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	the longest was 18 months and we broke up due to communication issues... then I was with this guy for 7 months, and now we're just friends.

03-20-2003, 09:32 PM	#29 (permalink)
blue_cutie Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Philippines Posts: 22	hello everyone!!!!!!!!! hey.............. how can all of you accept LD even you both live far away????? how can you both trust each other not to cheat on each other or whatever???? is it hard or wat????

03-21-2003, 05:27 PM	#30 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: 40.18, 58.41 Posts: 34,136	For me, I would have to say... 2 years and 11 months. __________________ Check out my city... C L I C K H E R E! (If you've already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

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