your parents think about you dating boyfriend and girlfriend? - Page 4

Jclarke · 05-08-2008, 07:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jolie_77

I'm sorry you're feeling hurt about this. I know you're trying to be hopeful but really, Reba was not insulting you. She was only offering some help. That's all to it, nothing more.

Jolie's right.

sara1981 · 05-08-2008, 07:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jolie_77

Sara,

Reba is not being nosy. She is not telling you what to do.

She is only trying to help you understand how dangerous this can be. You don't have to answer these questions or post it in here. You can ask yourself these questions and think about it.

You can agree to disagree. It is your choice but, Sara, maybe you can try and ask for some help to understand that we do mean well. We are not trying to tell you what to do. We only are trying to give you help to understand how this can be turned out.

im ask you, Jolie

i dont like on Reba's lists what she did i wanted kept my private lifes and i dont like to asked me where come from?

i wanted my respectives on the lists if i wont wanted as Reba's opinion its my choice!

Jclarke · 05-08-2008, 07:52 PM

Mate,

Reba is asking you to ask him yourself - we don't need to know what his answer is, you need to find out yourself. Nothing more.

***Jolie_77*** · 05-08-2008, 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sara1981

im ask you, Jolie

i dont like on Reba's lists what she did i wanted kept my private lifes and i dont like to asked me where come from?

i wanted my respectives on the lists if i wont wanted as Reba's opinion its my choice!

Yes, It is your choice to answer this or not to answer this. In overall, Reba's questions on the list is only to HELP you think this through. It was not meant for you to take it in an offensive manner.

You might think Reba was asking you and wanting you to answer it. That is not the case. The point is - Reba only gave you some IDEAS to help you out. She is not telling you what to do. She was giving you a helping hand.

If you want it to be private, then you should not be posting about it here. I hope you'll understand.

Pinky678 · 05-08-2008, 07:57 PM

Sara, Okay. Why you are bring up about negative? Reba don't mean to be nosy or insult you. She is trying to help you. You see everyone are worry about you put in danger if you meet James. I just tired of drama this thread. I wish You have a strong mind about not be with online relationship. Why not you find a right man at your hometown. What is the matter with local relationship instead of online long distance relationship? You don't need to be harsh at us. We tried to help you. I am feeling like to give it up help you because you don't listen to us.

PepsiLover, I told you to let her go. I just tired of drama you know. We tried to help her but she didn't listen to us. I don't know if she is your friend. That's fine. But I don't want to deal with drama and problem. Get it?

Jclarke · 05-08-2008, 08:00 PM

Someone needs to make a vlog in ASL in order to make her understand if she knows ASL

Pinky678 · 05-08-2008, 08:00 PM

That's so mean! I don't agree with you. If you don't like her. Just ignore her! That's so simple!

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Highlander

Insult or cut her head off by sword

Which one?

Pepsi · 05-08-2008, 08:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pinky678

Sara, Okay. Why you are bring up about negative? Reba don't mean to be nosy or insult you. She is trying to help you. You see everyone are worry about you put in danger if you meet James. I just tired of drama this thread. I wish You have a strong mind about not be with online relationship. Why not you find a right man at your hometown. What is the matter with local relationship instead of online long distance relationship? You don't need to be harsh at us. We tried to help you. I am feeling like to give it up help you because you don't listen to us.

PepsiLover, I told you to let her go. I just tired of drama you know. We tried to help her but she didn't listen to us. I don't know if she is your friend. That's fine. But I don't want to deal with drama and problem. Get it?

I do not know Sara,I will not let it go.There is many of us that do care about her.And if don't like drama then why don't you stay off this thread?

sara1981 · 05-08-2008, 08:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Reba

Sara,

Is James hearing or deaf?

Does he use any sign language?

Does he send you any real paper letters in the mail?

If he's hearing, does he speak on the phone to your mom?

Did he tell you exactly where he works, and what kind of job he does?

Did he tell you where and when he graduated school?

I'm not being nosy. You don't have to post his details. But at least ask yourself those questions. Ask yourself if answered you.

Reba

next time dont do that again for answer your question ok?

James is hearing

yes he sign languages because he have deaf friend

im not sure James graduates from but he have private school as board school when he was little boy i will ask him on e-mail messages.

he never send me mail as paper but usually on e-mail messages all the times everyday.

im not sure he talk me but dont think so!

he work at factory as send parts for worlds he really busyman and also he workalcholic he told me on e-mail messages what he saying words "work alcholic"

Pinky678 · 05-08-2008, 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pepsi Lover

I do not know Sara,I will not let it go.There is many of us that do care about her.And if don't like drama then why don't you stay off this thread?

Whatever.. Okay

Pacman · 05-09-2008, 08:43 AM

Now, it's 3rd thread that she has created it about online dating.

Just let her to be at risk, if she's victim of crime in near future then it would be VERY big time for her, even she will probably get up and listen to ADers.

Sara, If you are too nervous to answer Reba's post, she's just ask question, it doesn't hurt you and if you don't want everyone to see then just PM her to answer the questions.

Reba · 05-09-2008, 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sara1981

i dont wanted Reba's opinion! but i wanted my private lifes and makes me hurt my feels on Reba's opinion and i cant believe Reba's lists!

I'm sorry, I don't want you tell me the answers. I just suggest that you think about the questions for yourself. I don't want you to post the answers.

I think that you do want some suggestions because you post threads that ask for help.

I'm sorry if I offended you.

Pinky678 · 05-09-2008, 12:49 PM

That what I told her. That's good idea to use PM instead of created online dating.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pacman

Now, it's 3rd thread that she has created it about online dating.

Just let her to be at risk, if she's victim of crime in near future then it would be VERY big time for her, even she will probably get up and listen to ADers.

Sara, If you are too nervous to answer Reba's post, she's just ask question, it doesn't hurt you and if you don't want everyone to see then just PM her to answer the questions.

***VamPyroX*** · 05-09-2008, 01:18 PM

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05-08-2008, 07:52 PM	#93 (permalink)
Jclarke take it or leave it Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Canberra, Australia Posts: 5,122 Blog Entries: 2	Mate, Reba is asking you to ask him yourself - we don't need to know what his answer is, you need to find out yourself. Nothing more. __________________ Be glad of life, becuase it gives you the chance to love and work and to play and to look up at the stars - Henry Van Dyke

05-08-2008, 07:57 PM	#95 (permalink)
Pinky678 Pretty in Pink Bride! Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Middle of nowhere in Great Lakes Posts: 650	Sara, Okay. Why you are bring up about negative? Reba don't mean to be nosy or insult you. She is trying to help you. You see everyone are worry about you put in danger if you meet James. I just tired of drama this thread. I wish You have a strong mind about not be with online relationship. Why not you find a right man at your hometown. What is the matter with local relationship instead of online long distance relationship? You don't need to be harsh at us. We tried to help you. I am feeling like to give it up help you because you don't listen to us. PepsiLover, I told you to let her go. I just tired of drama you know. We tried to help her but she didn't listen to us. I don't know if she is your friend. That's fine. But I don't want to deal with drama and problem. Get it? __________________ "Your lips are moving but all I hear is blah, blah, blah!" "You can talk but I probably won't listen"

05-08-2008, 08:00 PM	#96 (permalink)
Jclarke take it or leave it Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Canberra, Australia Posts: 5,122 Blog Entries: 2	Someone needs to make a vlog in ASL in order to make her understand if she knows ASL __________________ Be glad of life, becuase it gives you the chance to love and work and to play and to look up at the stars - Henry Van Dyke

05-09-2008, 08:43 AM	#101 (permalink)
Pacman mAc OwNs Pc Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 11,338	Now, it's 3rd thread that she has created it about online dating. Just let her to be at risk, if she's victim of crime in near future then it would be VERY big time for her, even she will probably get up and listen to ADers. Sara, If you are too nervous to answer Reba's post, she's just ask question, it doesn't hurt you and if you don't want everyone to see then just PM her to answer the questions. __________________ Mac rulez

05-09-2008, 01:18 PM	#104 (permalink)
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