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Old 05-08-2008, 10:06 AM   #61 (permalink)
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Am I only one that notice that sara1981 is not understanding you guys look at her replies to other "nice story" she seem to think you were talking about yourself or something idk.

ASL MODE for her to understand!

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they are telling you online dating is very risk, danger, many bad can happen to you. Easy fool you, many are very smart wow can easy fool you and many other people thought real but nope found out real not nice and pervert!

Important webcam you need webcam if he ask see private part say no and dump him, best know if he real nice use webcam see his real personality, many man different in email and real person for personality so real important see webcam.

James can buy cheap webcam like in usa there's 15-20 dollars, I don't know how much in euros for 20 dollar but real cheap he can buy easy in many store.
Real important need broke vow for no webcam because you need see his real personality first, very important! Must see in webcam FIRST!
PLEASE!
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Old 05-08-2008, 10:12 AM   #62 (permalink)
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Am I only one that notice that sara1981 is not understanding you guys look at her replies to other "nice story" she seem to think you were talking about yourself or something idk.

ASL MODE for her to understand!

Sara1981-
they are telling you online dating is very risk, danger, many bad can happen to you. Easy fool you, many are very smart wow can easy fool you and many other people thought real but nope found out real not nice and pervert!

Important webcam you need webcam if he ask see private part say no and dump him, best know if he real nice use webcam see his real personality, many man different in email and real person for personality so real important see webcam.

James can buy cheap webcam like in usa there's 15-20 dollars, I don't know how much in euros for 20 dollar but real cheap he can buy easy in many store.
Real important need broke vow for no webcam because you need see his real personality first, very important! Must see in webcam FIRST!
PLEASE!

Skullchick, We tried tell Sara about that. She don't want listen to us. Sigh
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Old 05-08-2008, 10:30 AM   #63 (permalink)
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Sara,

Is James hearing or deaf?

Does he use any sign language?

Does he send you any real paper letters in the mail?

If he's hearing, does he speak on the phone to your mom?

Did he tell you exactly where he works, and what kind of job he does?

Did he tell you where and when he graduated school?

I'm not being nosy. You don't have to post his details. But at least ask yourself those questions. Ask yourself if answered you.

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Good one for Sara to think about, Reba.

Sara, why don't you get your mother to read this thread?
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Old 05-08-2008, 01:35 PM   #65 (permalink)
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Hello everyone. We tried to help Sara. But she didn't listen to us. (sighing) I wish She have a strong mind about the local distance relationship instead of online relationship. She is same my age. If Sara won't listen to us. Just let her go! She will learn a lesson. She have to figure it out herself. Don't pressure on her. I am tired of drama this thread over online relationship. Just give it up our help her. Because she didn't listen to us. Let her go.
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Old 05-08-2008, 01:41 PM   #66 (permalink)
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I agree with you. We tried to help her. She didn't listen to us. I told everyone to let her go. Let her learning herself. I just tired of hear about her online relationship. Let her go! I had experience with online relationship when I was teen. I made mistake myself. I learned my lesson. I rather be with my fiance from our hometown.

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Am I only one that notice that sara1981 is not understanding you guys look at her replies to other "nice story" she seem to think you were talking about yourself or something idk.

ASL MODE for her to understand!

Sara1981-
they are telling you online dating is very risk, danger, many bad can happen to you. Easy fool you, many are very smart wow can easy fool you and many other people thought real but nope found out real not nice and pervert!

Important webcam you need webcam if he ask see private part say no and dump him, best know if he real nice use webcam see his real personality, many man different in email and real person for personality so real important see webcam.

James can buy cheap webcam like in usa there's 15-20 dollars, I don't know how much in euros for 20 dollar but real cheap he can buy easy in many store.
Real important need broke vow for no webcam because you need see his real personality first, very important! Must see in webcam FIRST!
PLEASE!
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Old 05-08-2008, 01:46 PM   #67 (permalink)
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All I can say Sara is a hard headed, nothing more. There isn't much we can do about it because she refuses to listen with many things.
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Old 05-08-2008, 01:48 PM   #68 (permalink)
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All she is going to do is yell at us and will not listen.
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All she is going to do is yell at us and will not listen.
That's ok for her to yell at us. She need to wake up! That's all her problem not us. Let her go! Just leave her alone!

She started to make a new thread in first place.
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Folks..seeing where this is leading to, let's take easy on her, okay?
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Old 05-08-2008, 02:25 PM   #71 (permalink)
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Psst.... Story happen to me! Met a guy online.. turn out it was a SHE! and she was in mental institution! So, it wasn't worth for me to keep meeting online people even an email. I am thankful I met my husband in person thru my sister
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Yeah. No one will listen to advice if it is insulting.
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Old 05-08-2008, 03:41 PM   #73 (permalink)
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nonsense. She still not listen to advice IF it is friendly.
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Old 05-08-2008, 04:44 PM   #74 (permalink)
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Just vows to dont show your private parts.

Webcam cost $10-$100 vs airplane cost $1,200-$2k for round.

ESL and ASL are not same. How hell can you commication with him in sign?

If he is not falsed then you are FALSE OR STUPID.
it's BSL (Britain Sign Language) not ESL as her "boyfriend" live England. Maybe he is hearing? I dunno.
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Old 05-08-2008, 05:18 PM   #75 (permalink)
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Want me to translate this into BSL, no?
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Want me to translate this into BSL, no?
no, translate me in MSL (Mexico Sign language), if you can.
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I ain't no international translator, but can you?
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nonsense. She still not listen to advice IF it is friendly.
Don't insult her please??? I told you to leave her alone. Just let her go! Don't pressure on her ok? By the way I don't know her well anyways.
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unfortunately no. but thank for reply
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Ok you guys and girls --

I know all of you meant well to try to help Sara for the best and to help her guide through this to be aware of a possible scam. I'm with you guys and gals on this one but --- Let's try not be too hard on Sara, okay?

She may not be able to understand our meanings but it doesn't mean that we all should be harsh on her. All we can do is try to give a gentle, nurturing and kind advices for Sara (somehow) in a way for her to understand, hopefully.

If not for this, At least try to get down to her "level" in order for her to understand.
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That's ok for her to yell at us. She need to wake up! That's all her problem not us. Let her go! Just leave her alone!

She started to make a new thread in first place.
Where in the hell do you get off telling me what to do? Most of us try to help her.
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Sara,

Is James hearing or deaf?

Does he use any sign language?

Does he send you any real paper letters in the mail?

If he's hearing, does he speak on the phone to your mom?

Did he tell you exactly where he works, and what kind of job he does?

Did he tell you where and when he graduated school?

I'm not being nosy. You don't have to post his details. But at least ask yourself those questions. Ask yourself if answered you.

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stop ask me and but its really BIG NOSY! but none of your busniess

you cant tell me on my personal lifes about me! between my relationship of James

i would disagree on lists what you talking about
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You underesimated Reba's opinion.
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Don't insult her please??? I told you to leave her alone. Just let her go! Don't pressure on her ok? By the way I don't know her well anyways.
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stop ask me and but its really BIG NOSY! but none of your busniess

you cant tell me on my personal lifes about me! between my relationship of James

i would disagree on lists what you talking about

Then Sara why do you keep making these threads?
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You underesimated Reba's opinion.
i dont wanted Reba's opinion! but i wanted my private lifes and makes me hurt my feels on Reba's opinion and i cant believe Reba's lists!
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