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Unread 11-25-2007, 02:14 AM   #31 (permalink)
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WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOUR PARTNER WONíT INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS?

A woman been dating a man for nine months who wonít introduce her to his family and friends. She know he has children from a former marriage, and she havenít even met them. Most of the time, they spend alone at her apartment or his condo, and when they do go out, itís always at the last minute. He claims that he is a private person, and that he doesnít want to bring other people into our relationship, but something doesnít feel right to her. What does this mean? So what would you advice her on this? Let hear some of your opinions.
I'd say there are about 3 different possibilities.

1) He is a cheater and he's hiding her (very likely).
2) He is embarrassed by her somehow (maybe deafness).
3) He is embarrassed by his own family and doesn't want her to meet them because they are losers.

Number 3 isn't very likely, but it's possible. Sometimes someone figures out that their family is full of losers and abusers, so they disown them and completely stay away from them. However, it is more likely Number 1 or Number 2, and she should leave.

Something is definitely fishy.
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Unread 11-25-2007, 10:57 AM   #32 (permalink)
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Garnetigermom did say that the boyfriend wont introduce his girlfriend to his kids and friends. That is what makes it kinda suspicous.

Oh I missed that, Thanks for pointing that out, and what I'm trying to say in my first post is to find out the truth first before making assumptions, like what my sister did...
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Unread 11-25-2007, 10:59 AM   #33 (permalink)
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I'd say there are about 3 different possibilities.

1) He is a cheater and he's hiding her (very likely).
2) He is embarrassed by her somehow (maybe deafness).
3) He is embarrassed by his own family and doesn't want her to meet them because they are losers.

Number 3 isn't very likely, but it's possible. Sometimes someone figures out that their family is full of losers and abusers, so they disown them and completely stay away from them. However, it is more likely Number 1 or Number 2, and she should leave.

Something is definitely fishy.
yep you got all that possiblities I agree with you. It also could be means he not ready to show her or meet his folks unless he have problems with his parents issues too.
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Unread 11-29-2007, 11:57 PM   #34 (permalink)
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WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOUR PARTNER WON’T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS?

A woman been dating a man for nine months who won’t introduce her to his family and friends. She know he has children from a former marriage, and she haven’t even met them. Most of the time, they spend alone at her apartment or his condo, and when they do go out, it’s always at the last minute. He claims that he is a private person, and that he doesn’t want to bring other people into our relationship, but something doesn’t feel right to her. What does this mean? So what would you advice her on this? Let hear some of your opinions.
LOL! My middle brother married a woman who didn't meet his family. They were at a family doing on her side and supposedly, the woman's sister asked her sister what kind of woman would marry a man and not meet his family.

I met her because our oldest brother introduced me, but only because I raised such a stink to him (he had already met her months ago) that he had to. My middle brother still acts like the coward that he is, as he left the building and waited for his wife in their truck.

By the way, my middle brother was already divorced from his first wife and was at our oldest brother's surprise 25th wedding anniversary party. He also had a brahaha with his son for an incident that he had his father arrested for and was trying to extend the olive branch to his dad.
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Unread 11-30-2007, 06:09 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Could be a lot of reasons he's hiding the relationship but the most common reason could be he's married or player. Doesn't sound right at all , he ought to be proud of his gf and show her off. This is pretty strange that he would keep her a secret.
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Unread 11-30-2007, 06:27 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Could be a lot of reasons he's hiding the relationship but the most common reason could be he's married or player. Doesn't sound right at all , he ought to be proud of his gf and show her off. This is pretty strange that he would keep her a secret.
or he probably just using her to get what he wants, it sound to me too many guys I known in my life and other people's life dated players. Some people never grow up.
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