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Questions No Man Wants to Hear

Five questions no man wants to hear in the first three months (whether he is crazy about you or not!).

Where do we stand?
The Reason: It makes you look desperate. Men love a challenge and despite what they say, think, or how they act, they don’t want you to define the relationship. Let him take the lead now or he never will.

Do you ever think about your ex-girlfriend?
The Reason: This shows a man that you are not secure with yourself. Even on those days that your zit is huge, your clothes are too snug, and your hair is filled with frizz; you must act like a “Bond Girl.” It is the difference between making a man fall in like or in love.

Do you want to have kids?
The Reason: Again, it’s about control. The man wants to take the lead. Let him coo-coo over the baby in the grocery store. You will have plenty of time to let him know that you have already named your three future children. Take the first three months to let him say the D-word (Daddy) first.

Am I fat?
The Reason: If he didn’t like they way you looked, he would not have dated you: bottom line! Don’t point out your flaws to him or give him a reason to find any imperfections. To him you are timeless and flawless; make sure you stay that way.

Does your mother like me? (even worse, can I meet your parents?)
The Reason: His mother is the other woman in his life. Let him decide when it is the right time for you to meet her. He may want to make sure she is ready to meet you. You are the woman who may take her little boy away from her. This is a big step; let him take it at his pace.

SOURCE: Questions No Man Wants to Hear : DivineCaroline

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pek1

I think asking "Am I fat?" is a little much. But, I agree with the answer. It works for the guy, too, by the way. How many women can support the weight of Mr. Fat Boy while having sex, or at least attempting to have sex? Guys, if you want your little lady to be a size 6, then you'd better be in just as good of shape as she is.

For the women . . . keenly observe how he treats his mother (especially on the first meeting) because this is how you will be treated, not only by him, but your kids, too.

Think about ex-gf should not be in conversation. The other conversations, especially with regard to kids, he'd better be on top of this . . . and I don't mean physically on top, either! Talking about wanting kids on first date is kosher and should be discussed no later than the second date.

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sequoias

Don't be surprised to hear this....there are some thin men who LIKE to be squashed by a super sized BBW woman.

pek1

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Maria

Care to tell me what BBW stands for ?

pek1

I don't even know, but it was prefaced with the words, "super sized." I think that should answer what BBW stands for.

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BBW- Big Beautiful Women..

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Maria

Ah alright !

PuyoPiyo

Umm maybe it was just me that I am gay or single, but I find those questions too easy for me to answer. If that was me, I would answer this:

Before I am going to answer this, I will ask which we will stand for?

I would just say no because I am with that girl right now, there is no need for me to look at the past, the past is past and it will never change.

I would just say "Some, maybe in the future".

I would say, "Well if you think I thought you were ugly, then why am I here with you right now?" I am sure the woman will know the answer, love.

I would jus say "yes", if she want to see my parents, why hassle? In the note, my brother was too stressful about introduce his girlfriend to the family because we always arguing about the policties, religion, etc, also my family is quite of drama together, and his girlfriend finally came to us for our "Working-Free Monday Party" and his girlfriend was happy and staying with my brother since.

My opinion, the woman is very curious about her boyfriend's family and there is nothing to be scare of. Visit them, then it's done, no big deal.

Or maybe it's other men, maybe other men need help how to deal with their girlfriends or wifes, or maybe their girlfriends or wifes are pressuring on him to make him feel qulity which cause the drama, I have been seeing the drama like that alot and it is totally unnecessary drama to me, it's just the women that need to make sure that her boyfriend or husband do love her.

Liebling:-)))

I can understand that no men like to hear those questions... Those 5 questions are sooooo pathetic.... I would feel dumb if I ask those questions like that to men...

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Maria

Well, some men are not very honest about themselves - IMO. Some men are full of bull.

highlands

same for some women. I experienced this and it gave my heart such a big pain

VamPyroX

Yes, but the problem is... what's the correct answer to that question? There isn't.

Scenario #1
Girl: "Am I fat?"
Boy: "No."
Girl: "Don't lie, you're just trying to make me feel better. I can't believe you would like like that!"

Scenario #2
Girl: "Am I fat?"
Boy: "Yes."
Girl: "How dare you! Can't you even be considerate of my feelings?"

Scenario #3
Girl: "Am I fat?"
Boy: "No comment."
Girl: "Oh, so you probably think I am fat... but won't say anything. Eh?"Don't lie, you're just trying to make me feel better. I can't believe you would like like that!"

Scenario #4
Girl: "Am I fat?"
Boy: "No comment."
Girl: "Aw, come on... say something. Be honest."
... go back to scenarios #1, #2, or #3

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sequoias

here's my scernio:

girl: am I fat?
guy: you are beautiful no matter what and why am I there with you? there is no reason to insult yourself and make yourself low.
girl:awww that is so sweet, I should not insult myself, there is no point to it. *hugs*

VamPyroX

Refer to #4.

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BearBeauty

well, women like to know this stuff. Guys may think it's trival, but sometimes women need to hear that you care about them.

Meeting the mother can be interesting. Trust me, I know.

Maria

You don't mind datin' Big Beautiful Women ?

Silentwolfdog

Those conversations remind me of a quote, "Praise your wife, even if it frightens her at first."

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pek1

Depends how big, Maria.

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Maria

Supposely, if you happen fall in love with BBW - I mean, just right personality that suit you... will you help her losin' weight ? It also means BOTH of you need to help each other workin' on it.

Maria

Which one of these lists you don't want to hear ?

nozobo

(got this in email and sound good one for this)

Now here are the rules from the male side.
These are our rules!
Please note, these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE!

1. Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports it's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want. LET US BE CLEAR ON THIS ONE:
Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! JUST SAY IT!

1. "Yes" and "No" are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every questions.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. IN FACT, all comments become null and void after 7 days.

1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us!

1. If something we said can be interpreated two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done, NOT BOTH. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commericals.

1. Christoper Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

1. All men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be stratched. We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really!

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball or golf.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

1. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight; But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.

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shel90

OOOPS, I have pulled some of these tricks on my hubby expecting him to respond to the way I want him to and when he didnt, we get into an argument. I will keep those suggestions in mind. LOL!

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shel90

I love that one!!! It is so true and it has happened to me when I asked the fat question.

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jillio

Yep, we ask the question, and then when we get an honest answer, we get pissed! LOL!

GarnetTigerMom

Well,, Speak of men don't like to hear those questions,, what about the women? Some of us women don't want to hear guys asking us how many boyfriends you had? How many men you had sex with? Are you open mind? Am I sexy? geez! Some men needs to understand we women don't want to answers goofy questions and personal questions.

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pek1

If she asked for help, yes. Othewise, my mouth is shut. However, if she is eating twice or three times as much as I do at one meal, then there's a problem that needs to be addressed.

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Oceanblue7

I learned this from my pastor this week, what women need to know about men? Number one was REAL men love REAL women.

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Jolie77

Indeed, It's like we want the honesty but when they give us the truth, we don't like it but Hey, sometime the truth bites whether we like it or not.

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shel90

Am I fat?

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