shel90

My hubby eats three times as much I do. Do I need to address it with him?

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Maria

Thanks for bein' open-ness. I think some men need to hear from women. Some women like to " talk " about issues what Vampy have stated in his first original post. Men sometimes need to open up and have a good " talk ", too.

I know there's some men out there who don't want to hear about " common " questions, but that needs to be addressed in a candid way. It's all about life, ya know ?

pek1

What's his metabolism like? Can he eat and burn it or will he be big enough to require a tow truck to haul his casket when he dies when the time comes? Same goes for the woman. I've seen a woman that the skin on her ankles was dragging on the outside of her shoes and nearly dragging on the floor because she was just way bigger than a whale. That, shel, is an eating disorder and she'd better get to a doctor and get that taken care of. I just cannot fathom the pain, not to mention the embarrassment of looking like that and the fact that when a person is so huge, the only clothing they can wear is sweat pants and the like. Yikes!!

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BearBeauty

Some people do have hidden issues which cause them to eat a lot, like depression, boredom, whatever. You can't necessarily judge a book by it's cover, or a person by their weight. And they will go to their doctor and discuss it, but sometimes it takes the courage to say "I want to change for myself" in order for a woman to actually go out and change. Doctors can tell you what to do, but they can't force you to do it.

So you can tell a person who is overweight to go see a doctor, but it's really up to the person whenther they want to lose the weight and make a change. They have to want to do it for themselves. So, before you judge the outside, try getting to know the inside.

morbid-mongoose

Gentlemen, the correct answer is, "I think you're beautiful no matter what size you are." And then give her a hug.

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GarnetTigerMom

I couldn't agree with you more Jo! Two thumbs up pal! ha

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i like this thinking!

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morbid-mongoose

Yeah, if only I could find a guy like that. *sigh*

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pek1

Being only 16, dear, you have a lifetime still ahead of you. Why do you want to be tied down now? Figuratively, not literally.

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morbid-mongoose

Yeah, I know. It's just the area I live in. All of the guys here are very rude. It's depressing.

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wildzerica06

figures... I never experienced a real relationship at all blah but now after I looked at this thread I'm not gonna pressure a guy to meet my parents again til I'm 100% ready to introduce him to my family better be in serious relationship first of all

Kaitin

1. How tall are you?
2. Do you think I'm going bald?
3. I know some women don't like back hair, but I think it is a sign of masculinity. What do you think?
4. Can you look at my toenail/sore/unmentionable body part? It looks kinda green/oozy/moldy.
5. Am I your first serious boyfriend?
6. Was that the best ever for you?
7. [Exiting your bathroom] Um...do you have a plunger?
8. Do you have any money? I'm not going to get paid for another week and just need a few bucks....
9. [After meeting the folks] Did you parents love me? Parents always love me.
10. You aren't seeing someone else right now, are you?
11. I got a B/C on that last exam. How did you do?
12. You can't smell anything here from the bathroom, can you?

RustyLastCall05

I second that!

cherry

I think BBW means big beautiful women. Am I right?

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pek1

Remember, mentally and emotionally, you're ahead of most of the guys. Give them a year or two, then watch your shoes go up in the air. If you've got it, flaunt it. Know what I mean? Dress like a lady and be very nice, including a million dollar smile, see what the guys do.

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Deafilmedia

Where do we stand?
Because women get BORED, they want to get married and have kids and stuff.


Do you ever think about your ex-girlfriend?
Because we want to know if we women are better than your ex girlfriend.
We love competition. Tell us, "You cook better than my ex girlfriend."
Then we will go "Yay, Woo Hoo, I won your heart".

Do you want to have kids?
Because if you say yes... we can have one NOW. Why wait?
If you say NO, then BYE, You're wasting our time.

Am I fat?
Because we are tired of watching our figuress, trying to lose weight
and tired of doing diet and exercise. If you say, "No, I love you
just the way you are." Then we will just stuff our mouth with food
and let our body GO.

Does your mother like me? (even worse, can I meet your parents?)
Because we want to know them before we say, "I do" If they
turned out to be eeky, we will RUN.

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