Missus_Philos0phyK

I completely 2nd that.

I know some of us that cannot stand ourselves by blaming our mistakes so we just throw it on somebody else. even thru it shld be go around back on us; like karma cookies always says, "what goes around, comes around."

in my experience from where I lost my virginity on 1 night stand, I do regret it but I never had to put a blame on him bec it was MINE mistake & I choose to do that to myself. til then I have learned to handle it a lot better.

& yes, shel90, ur right people shld have appointed their own mistakes to themselves.

althrough, they just don't like hearing that they are wrong. might as well, they wld have to start over.

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SuziMaria

First date sex = lush and infatuation!

Gamer12

for you, maybe. for some people, it doesn't.


missus - exactly.

sillycat

My girl kitty is lonely and is looking for a cute tomcat to prowl with....

I wonder if animals do fall in love?? Or just plain old lust to procreate??

I know this is off topic but ever wonder if animals fall in love like us humans do? Ummm

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sara1981

mostly people who been dating for more than decades and like have sex before got married that happened and their busniess!

i never been have sex with any boys but i have boyfriend already! so i would love to have sex with my boyfriend im really wanted that my busniess!

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Gemma

I have had sex on first dates but then again I have not had sex on first dates. I think that when I had sex on first date, it is when I knew that the guy wont materalize into a long term relationship or something more substantial...


I do not need judgements or overanalysis of my sex life..I know how to take care of myself. Sometimes I like to go out on first dates only to have a wild night because that means there is no emotions involved or strings attached.

But if I really like this guy so much, I will take my time...as I want to get to know him deeper than just on a physical side before plunging into something much more than the first date.

I hate it when women are called sluts if they sleep on first dates yet tell men whooo hoo for being studs...Talk about double standards, tsk tsk tsk

shel90

U and me both! That was my rule too when I was single and playing around.

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Kai Onca

can I have the data please, I'm not reading an article that states what some scientist have said

did the data take in consideration of the frequency of different sex partners and the sex act itself?

Missus_Philos0phyK

look upon the first page & 2nd page in this thread.. or google the title - "sex on first dates"

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Cane Corso

Ok.. If we started to let men having sex with us, who are going to take care of our kids? Think about it.

In mother nature, it takes a lot of time to raise and nurse a healthy child so females only can have one baby at a time.


Handsome men evolved thanks to picky females - 12 May 2004 - New Scientist

Sociobiology

"Sexual selection is one form of natural selection
sexual selection is natural selection that favors traits that increase success in mating

two kinds of sexual selection:
intrasexual selection: selection that occurs due to differences in success at mating that result from interactions between members of the same sex
the most common form is male-male competition

such as males fighting each other for access to females
the outcome of the interaction of the males determines which male mates; the female is not involved in the decision

example: intrasexual selection might lead to large canines becoming common among males, because the males with the largest canines can drive other males away, so they get more access to females, so they leave more offspring
intersexual selection: selection that occurs due to differences in success at mating that result from interactions between members of opposite sexes
the most common form is female choice

such as females picking the most desirable male to mate with, based on some visible trait

example: intersexual selection among peacocks might lead to large tails becoming common among males, because the female peacocks prefer to mate with males with large tails, so the large-tailed males mate more often, so they leave more offspring."

"other kinds of natural selection caused by predators, changing food supplies, etc. act more or less equally on males and females but sexual selection acts primarily on the one sex that is competing for the other

that is, it mostly affects males

recall that female mammals can have only a limited number of offspring, but males have almost no limit females can generally only conceive when they aren't pregnant or lactating, and even then only during a limited portion of their cycle males can mate any time

so there are generally plenty of males around to mate with when a female needs to
but the males have to compete for access to those limited chances to father offspring
so selection will favor any feature of the males that increases their success at mating"

Sexual selection in primates

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SnAzZyStyLe2002

Bleh - I won't have a relationship ..... never been in one and don't plan on getting it anytime soon. After many failed attempts at balancing of getting a date and haviing so many classes, I doubt that I'd be getting a date. I'd just become a bitter, grumpy, sarcastic old man who works all the time.

Yes, I have had sex, but it's just a "wham-bam-thank you" type. No such thing as "I'd like to get to know you more," and I said this in a bitter way.

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Missus_Philos0phyK

[mimick in sarcastic dialogue:] okay, why don't you just scribble it down on ur notebooks, we don't need to listen in your cranky life with "boo-hoo" relationships. its not about you or ur little down in the below belt. as if you get my drift.

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PuyoPiyo

Why are you bragging on him? He just want to express his opinion.

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SnAzZyStyLe2002

Why don't you shut the fuck up, you little skanky-ass ho'ing bitch? Obviously you don't know diddly squat what's like in my shoes. It sounds like you had that *many* relationships. Congratulations on that, idiot.

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shel90

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PowerON

at least, use condom and bang gal in bed. You will be fine in future. *shurg*

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Cheri

too.

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shel90

Now that's what I call bashing of the person!!

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Liebling:-)))

Exactly...

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Missus_Philos0phyK

boy, u gotta to find some lousy informations to throw on me... nice going dude.

but that's not me, unless you're speaking of ur exes, we never dated before..

also, for that statement, it goes back in your mouth since you "might" have know everything about women or so.

just get urself a wife then you will be happy enuff for not saying all that B.S.

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Lasza

This thread's so interesting.

I admitted that I have sex on a first date for a several times, opps.

I remmied we did it and stay together for 2 years but broke off due to long distance. We remain to be best friend. We think it was so hilarious for having sex on very first date.

Cane Corso

Me too. I don't think it sounds very respectful because to curse someone off is not right.

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PePe LePew

I've been out with the man first time and had sex and never saw him again, first date sex does not lasted a long term relationship, it's all BS!!!

Actually a man want to see if you do it on first date and he will know you do it to others too and doesn't want you, he has a good reasons....Women like us should have self-respects not to have sex at all so the man wouldn't leave you, Good man looks for woman who have self-respect not to have sex at all and then he'll know you are not a slut or easy to open your legs open on first date.

This is how a guy tested on a woman to see if she has self-respects or not:

BeWare: If you give in to Sex, the man walks and you'll never see him again.

Don't make yourself looks cheap!!!

shel90

My first hubby and I had sex on our 2nd date..we lasted 11 years

My 2nd hubby and I had an one night stand b4 we started dating and we r happily married.

If women r cheap for opening their legs on the first date then men r cheap too. LOL!

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wildzerica06

and it depends on right chemistry and communication if things go well on first date I'm saying IF just in case.. he or she was lousy in bed.. then it will never last after first date.. so don't blame yourself pepe... u probably found wrong guy who u thought will be yours after first date