Who is single here? - Page 9

highlands · 08-23-2007, 03:40 AM

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Originally Posted by DeafSCUBA98

my terms for the word "single" means isn't with someone.. maybe you think different..

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Originally Posted by Canuckian_Chick

I'm lost with this .... you either single or attached... ack

I now see what you mean.. Yep,Deafscuba,I think different .. you mean someone who has no relationship with anyone and not thinking of engaging or marriage. I get it,thanx

In our culture, someone is single until the wedding is done ! ( someone who is engaged is still considered single )

Okay, I am not single

I can be said to be attracted to a girl and am thinking of getting married soon.

Dark-Half · 08-23-2007, 03:42 AM

I once caught a trout. I had to let her go though.

highlands · 08-23-2007, 03:44 AM

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Originally Posted by lumbingmi

I wish I cld agree with you but sadly there ain't enough for deaf guys.

I agree

it is difficult to find 'the fish' in the sea for a deaf/hoh.. communication barrier is very difficult for relationships.

diehardbiker · 08-23-2007, 03:49 AM

On tax form for year 2006 I filed as Single. So, this means I considered to society as single.

Buffalo · 08-23-2007, 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by MetroGuy03

Totally understandable. I was in your shoe before. Sex changes everything. Some people views that sex is no big deal. In my opinion, sex is big deal and risky. Sex could make big difference for the relationship for better or worse.

Nice to hear a guy saying this.

I am single and unattached for a long time.

Kalista · 08-23-2007, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by sequoias

hey, glad ya asked me the question, I'm pretty much looking for a new woman but taking my time and get to know someone. I haven't really found anyone, yet. I do like someone but she already dating other guy so I can't do much, lol. I'm free and looking, once again.

Try go to LoveAndSeek.com - The Christian Singles Network

PlateCafe · 08-23-2007, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Dark-Half

I once caught a trout. I had to let her go though.

I once caught a barracuda!!! I had to let him go quickly, Whew!

sequoias · 08-23-2007, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Kalista

Try go to LoveAndSeek.com - The Christian Singles Network

Sorry, I'm not interested in online dating websites. Also, I'm non-religous, too.

diehardbiker · 08-23-2007, 04:04 PM

Very smart decision!

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Originally Posted by sequoias

Sorry, I'm not interested in online dating websites. Also, I'm non-religous, too.

ZiNg31 · 08-23-2007, 05:42 PM

I am taken for 2 years. Before being taken I was single for 8 years.

Freaky Cat · 08-23-2007, 10:54 PM

i am legally separated and divorce is in process..so it wont be long before i will be officially "divorced" but Im gonna take my sweet time! No rush!

lumbingmi · 08-23-2007, 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by sequoias

Sorry, I'm not interested in online dating websites. Also, I'm non-religous, too.

They should be used as last resort. But from my experience, catholic girls are very nasty and hot! As much goes for nuns, too.

Texan Guy · 08-23-2007, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by lumbingmi

They should be used as last resort. But from my experience, catholic girls are very nasty and hot! As much goes for nuns, too.

Amen to that.

sequoias · 08-24-2007, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by lumbingmi

They should be used as last resort. But from my experience, catholic girls are very nasty and hot! As much goes for nuns, too.

*scoffs*

PlateCafe · 08-24-2007, 01:33 AM

"In order to live life fully, you should do one thing every day that scares you."

Ask anyone for a date.

Peachy Lady · 08-24-2007, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Freaky Cat

i am legally separated and divorce is in process..so it wont be long before i will be officially "divorced" but Im gonna take my sweet time! No rush!

Did you get married a year ago? I'm sorry it didn't work out.

Freaky Cat · 08-24-2007, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Peachy Lady

Did you get married a year ago? I'm sorry it didn't work out.

no i got married last Jan.. and his mom ran me out of the house.. telling me that it is HER house, not my hubby's and for me to get rid all of the pets. she made it sound like it is not my house all along? I had Mac with me for MANY years before i was with my hubby.. I wont give him away and my cats too? fuck it.. my hubby didnt defend me or stand up for me so i said BYE BYE and moved out! so here i am.. sigh!

MetroGuy03 · 08-24-2007, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Freaky Cat

no i got married last Jan.. and his mom ran me out of the house.. telling me that it is HER house, not my hubby's and for me to get rid all of the pets. she made it sound like it is not my house all along? I had Mac with me for MANY years before i was with my hubby.. I wont give him away and my cats too? fuck it.. my hubby didnt defend me or stand up for me so i said BYE BYE and moved out! so here i am.. sigh!

OMG! Are you serious!?!?

Have you met your soon to be ex-husband mom before you two got married?

Your soon to be ex-husband should know that you won't give up on your pets before you two got married. That sounds like you two had miscommunciation issues. I'm sorry to hear that.

PlateCafe · 08-24-2007, 03:25 PM

You and husband should have your own place and be ready to start your lives together.

Freaky Cat · 08-24-2007, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by MetroGuy03

OMG! Are you serious!?!?

Have you met your soon to be ex-husband mom before you two got married?

Your soon to be ex-husband should know that you won't give up on your pets before you two got married. That sounds like you two had miscommunciation issues. I'm sorry to hear that.

yes im serious.. grrr.. no i didnt meet her after we eloped.. she was always out of town or out of state.. so didnt meet her till after we eloped then we finally met each other.

no it was not miscommunication. he KNEW that i love animals and i have been around them all of my life since i was a baby as I grew up on a farm. i showed him all of the pictures of pets that i had when i was baby to now. so yes we did talked about it as he said that his mom made him give his dog away. so he said he will BE there for me if his mom said something about the pets but in the end he didnt..he broke my promise. so i said BYE BYE..

Dixie · 08-24-2007, 08:26 PM

Well now Im officially single again - but not looking for a date until I get over my medical problems.

Freaky Cat · 08-24-2007, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by PlateCafe

You and husband should have your own place and be ready to start your lives together.

my ex said that he had the place to himself for 12 yrs hes been paying for it long time till he got laid off few years ago so his mom took over the payments.. so he thought it was his house till we checked the deed and hsi moms name is on the first line and his name came on second line... and he said still hve to do wat mom said.. fuck that.. i cant give them away period they r my furkids...

maybe it was his name on first.. and his mom had them changed so i cant get the house?? but i dont care for the house as i dont want to live in city.. i prefer to live in country and i have my land in my name so not need the house.. ha!

EsthersCrown · 08-25-2007, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by lumbingmi

I would like to know who here is single and how long have you been single?

I have been single for 1 month now.

Single for almost 3 years now, pure, untouched and loving it, and living for God waiting for Gods' timing. it's okey to do that, he knows what is best for you.
EsthersCrown

PlateCafe · 08-25-2007, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Freaky Cat

my ex said that he had the place to himself for 12 yrs hes been paying for it long time till he got laid off few years ago so his mom took over the payments.. so he thought it was his house till we checked the deed and hsi moms name is on the first line and his name came on second line... and he said still hve to do wat mom said.. fuck that.. i cant give them away period they r my furkids...

maybe it was his name on first.. and his mom had them changed so i cant get the house?? but i dont care for the house as i dont want to live in city.. i prefer to live in country and i have my land in my name so not need the house.. ha!

And he doesn't want to live in country with you?

Freaky Cat · 08-25-2007, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by PlateCafe

And he doesn't want to live in country with you?

no he doesnt want to... he said too far to his work..so his loss and beside he said he doesnt love me as he cant control me .. he even bawled cuz he think he failed to control me.. by cutting phone off and cut ties with my friends and my family? only think of himself insted of me and my son? it doesnt work that way, you know? gosh.. that man doesnt have any common sense at all.. sigh!

PlateCafe · 08-25-2007, 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Freaky Cat

no he doesnt want to... he said too far to his work..so his loss and beside he said he doesnt love me as he cant control me .. he even bawled cuz he think he failed to control me.. by cutting phone off and cut ties with my friends and my family? only think of himself insted of me and my son? it doesnt work that way, you know? gosh.. that man doesnt have any common sense at all.. sigh!

Right, he doesn't have any common sense at all.

Oddball · 08-25-2007, 09:30 AM

Dump him. His mom takes control everything. Be glad that your name is on the land deed. He can't do anything about it. It is his loss.

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08-23-2007, 03:42 AM	#242 (permalink)
Dark-Half Amor fati Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Idaho. Posts: 852	I once caught a trout. I had to let her go though.

08-23-2007, 05:42 PM	#250 (permalink)
ZiNg31 Go Ryan Newman! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Somewhere in USA Posts: 1,185	I am taken for 2 years. Before being taken I was single for 8 years.

08-23-2007, 10:54 PM	#251 (permalink)
Freaky Cat My cat Oreo :) Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,182	i am legally separated and divorce is in process..so it wont be long before i will be officially "divorced" but Im gonna take my sweet time! No rush!

08-24-2007, 01:33 AM	#255 (permalink)
PlateCafe Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 180	"In order to live life fully, you should do one thing every day that scares you." Ask anyone for a date.

08-24-2007, 03:25 PM	#259 (permalink)
PlateCafe Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 180	You and husband should have your own place and be ready to start your lives together.

08-25-2007, 09:30 AM	#267 (permalink)
Oddball Wacky Oddball Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Cleveland native now lives in New Jersey. Posts: 3,173	Dump him. His mom takes control everything. Be glad that your name is on the land deed. He can't do anything about it. It is his loss.

08-25-2007, 11:28 AM	#268 (permalink)
Freaky Cat My cat Oreo :)