The hardest breakup I've ever experienced

shezzbeav · 03-14-2003, 08:08 AM

I recently broke up with my partner,which was very hard to do, but I felt that it was for the best to so that I could concentrate more on my senior studies and there are more reasons.
What's worse - he was a total bastard in reaction!!
I'd like for you all to read my online diary...

http://www.my-diary.org/read/?read=69889

You can contact me on:
ICQ - 345054144
MSN - crankykitten@hotmail.com

Sherrie.

***VamPyroX*** · 03-14-2003, 12:20 PM

Sorry to hear that. I'm sure your life will eventually improve.

kevbo · 03-14-2003, 03:43 PM

Once you cheat is very hard to get back on track.

JinxBoy · 03-14-2003, 05:15 PM

you did the right thing..gotta focus on school first! You'll be fine.. i would to do the same thing.. If my gf don't improve our needs..ha.

03-20-2003, 07:06 PM

sorry to heat , I am sure you will be fine and focus yourself in university to get sccessfully yourself!!!

***VamPyroX*** · 03-21-2003, 06:13 PM

I've never had a serious break-up or anything... so I can't really give any statement on this issue.

wildzerica06 · 03-27-2003, 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sherrie
[b]I recently broke up with my partner,which was very hard to do, but I felt that it was for the best to so that I could concentrate more on my senior studies and there are more reasons.
What's worse - he was a total bastard in reaction!!
I'd like for you all to read my online diary...

well, if i were u.. I never wud share with anyone about my situation

cuz it can get worse but if he found out about this website. Good luck sherrie

sweetstrawberry · 03-28-2003, 12:36 PM

I'm sorry heard that but I'm sure you will be alright.

***VamPyroX*** · 03-28-2003, 06:30 PM

If I ever did break up, the hardest one would have to be with my current girlfriend. We've been together for a very long time.

allisonjoy · 03-28-2003, 10:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by VamPyroX
If I ever did break up, the hardest one would have to be with my current girlfriend. We've been together for a very long time.

how long?

***VamPyroX*** · 03-29-2003, 12:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by allisonjoy
how long?

It will be 3 years in a few days.

BabyPhat21 · 03-31-2003, 10:28 PM

forget you know who................ live life how you want it and it is better to acheive all your goals and be happy....... I am divorced so if you wanna talk just PM me.....

***Alex*** · 04-01-2003, 06:02 AM

Sorry about the break up, Sherrie, but it was for your own good. Consider it a good deed. I don't think you sound selfish for putting yourself up front first, and focus on your education. If your boyfriend truly loved you, he would've understand and let you go. Education comes first.

My hardest break up was with a hearing girl named Rachelle. We were together for 3 years and 5 months, so I know what it's like going through the pain and all.

allisonjoy · 04-01-2003, 10:14 AM

The hardest breakup i've gone through was with my ex of one year, it also ended in not such a pretty picture-- but it was for the best. I am currently in a greaaattt relationship and I wouldn't know how I would be able to handle it if it ever ends. My boyfriend means EVERYTHING to me.

Slver1FineDude · 04-02-2003, 08:59 AM

You will be okay, you're young ya know and take your time find a good guy. Me either, take my time looking for right one.

shadoemann · 05-21-2004, 12:27 PM

You absolutely did the right thing. Your dreams and goals are more important than some loser.

RosesNY · 05-21-2004, 12:49 PM

sorry to hear that you will be fine

05-21-2004, 12:59 PM

I am sorry to hear about your breakup.. It will be okay.. You will get over with it and move on with your life and studies and focus on what make you happy... Hang in there, it will be okay...

Malfoyish · 05-21-2004, 01:44 PM

I think that when people break up, it is always for the best for both of them in the long run. This way both parties can move on and find someone that is "the right one."

I'm sorry though, Sherrie. It does stink to lose someone you have devoted so much time to. I hope you're feeling better. There are many, many more fish in the sea.

05-21-2004, 01:59 PM

Sherri, I read what you posted in your online diary. You stated that you are 17 years old and your ex is 20 years old but already has a child.

Despite your being younger, you sound much older and mature than this ex. He is selfish to hold you back from accomplishing your academic/career goals. He should realize that you are young and want to establish a foundation for you as a person.

I am proud of you for not letting a selfish man to hold you back. I know you had moments of giving up your goals for him but how would you feel in 5 or 10 years? What if he dumps you in 2 years and you have nothing to fall back on?

I know you feel strongly for him but remind yourself daily that you are a courageous woman who deserve better than that ..you deserve a man who will support you in everything, not treat you badly if you dont give in to his whims.

Stay strong!

RustyLastCall05 · 05-21-2004, 04:53 PM

I was dating girl online from WI. We went through couple of hard times. Then in April 2003, I was vacationing in South Carolina, I receive e-mail from that girl who said that somebody is breaking up us. I was like

We managed to stay together for other 2 months before we decided it's time to let relationship go. After that, she never was really nice to me. Then I realized she lied to me about her connection to NASCAR.

It was harder decision I had to made to leave that girl. We went back together twice but things fucked up.

Miss-Delectable · 05-21-2004, 10:06 PM

Whoa, not a nice fellow! I belive you did the right thing in distancing away from him, and looking to school. Stay strong. Be yourself and believe in what is right for you!

GeorgiaDeaf · 05-22-2004, 12:09 AM

As long as you are still young, you still have plenty of time to find a true love in your life time.

keep your chin up.

The hardest thing for me to be without my husband in my life.. wow. i already been there and never want to do that again w/ my hubby. whew!

Angel · 05-22-2004, 01:09 PM

aw I'm sorry to hear that...Some relationships never meant to be....I believe sometimes in life we may meet the wrong people and later find out she/he isn't the ' one ' for us....Be greatful that it didn't go any farther as ' marriage '...You are still young and have a whole life ahead of you, you will find the ' one ' you've been looking for!

03-14-2003, 08:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
shezzbeav ...just a bloody beaver Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 1,199	The hardest breakup I've ever experienced I recently broke up with my partner,which was very hard to do, but I felt that it was for the best to so that I could concentrate more on my senior studies and there are more reasons. What's worse - he was a total bastard in reaction!! I'd like for you all to read my online diary... http://www.my-diary.org/read/?read=69889 You can contact me on: ICQ - 345054144 MSN - crankykitten@hotmail.com Sherrie.

03-14-2003, 12:20 PM	#2 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 27,844	Sorry to hear that. I'm sure your life will eventually improve. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

03-21-2003, 06:13 PM	#6 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 27,844	I've never had a serious break-up or anything... so I can't really give any statement on this issue. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

03-28-2003, 06:30 PM	#9 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 27,844	If I ever did break up, the hardest one would have to be with my current girlfriend. We've been together for a very long time. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

04-01-2003, 06:02 AM	#13 (permalink)
*Alex* Administrator Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,327 Blog Entries: 1	Sorry about the break up, Sherrie, but it was for your own good. Consider it a good deed. I don't think you sound selfish for putting yourself up front first, and focus on your education. If your boyfriend truly loved you, he would've understand and let you go. Education comes first. My hardest break up was with a hearing girl named Rachelle. We were together for 3 years and 5 months, so I know what it's like going through the pain and all. __________________ "Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can read." - Mark Twain

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03-14-2003, 03:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
kevbo I own you. Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 1,509	Once you cheat is very hard to get back on track.

03-14-2003, 05:15 PM	#4 (permalink)
JinxBoy Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 15	you did the right thing..gotta focus on school first! You'll be fine.. i would to do the same thing.. If my gf don't improve our needs..ha.

03-20-2003, 07:06 PM	#5 (permalink)
GoldenLeaf74 Guest Posts: n/a	sorry to heat , I am sure you will be fine and focus yourself in university to get sccessfully yourself!!!

03-28-2003, 12:36 PM	#8 (permalink)
sweetstrawberry Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 410	I'm sorry heard that but I'm sure you will be alright.

03-31-2003, 10:28 PM	#12 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Sex Univ. Head Mistress Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,108	forget you know who................ live life how you want it and it is better to acheive all your goals and be happy....... I am divorced so if you wanna talk just PM me.....

04-01-2003, 10:14 AM	#14 (permalink)
allisonjoy t e d d y s GIRL Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: rhodey isle Posts: 1,124	The hardest breakup i've gone through was with my ex of one year, it also ended in not such a pretty picture-- but it was for the best. I am currently in a greaaattt relationship and I wouldn't know how I would be able to handle it if it ever ends. My boyfriend means EVERYTHING to me.

04-02-2003, 08:59 AM	#15 (permalink)
Slver1FineDude Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Virginia Posts: 279	You will be okay, you're young ya know and take your time find a good guy. Me either, take my time looking for right one. __________________

05-21-2004, 12:27 PM	#16 (permalink)
shadoemann Registered User Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 5	break-up You absolutely did the right thing. Your dreams and goals are more important than some loser.

05-21-2004, 12:49 PM	#17 (permalink)
RosesNY Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 973	sorry to hear that you will be fine

05-21-2004, 12:59 PM	#18 (permalink)
CrazyMomma Guest Posts: n/a	I am sorry to hear about your breakup.. It will be okay.. You will get over with it and move on with your life and studies and focus on what make you happy... Hang in there, it will be okay...

05-21-2004, 01:44 PM	#19 (permalink)
Malfoyish Keepin' it real... Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: New York Posts: 2,656	I think that when people break up, it is always for the best for both of them in the long run. This way both parties can move on and find someone that is "the right one." I'm sorry though, Sherrie. It does stink to lose someone you have devoted so much time to. I hope you're feeling better. There are many, many more fish in the sea.

05-21-2004, 01:59 PM	#20 (permalink)
Gemtun Guest Posts: n/a	Sherri, I read what you posted in your online diary. You stated that you are 17 years old and your ex is 20 years old but already has a child. Despite your being younger, you sound much older and mature than this ex. He is selfish to hold you back from accomplishing your academic/career goals. He should realize that you are young and want to establish a foundation for you as a person. I am proud of you for not letting a selfish man to hold you back. I know you had moments of giving up your goals for him but how would you feel in 5 or 10 years? What if he dumps you in 2 years and you have nothing to fall back on? I know you feel strongly for him but remind yourself daily that you are a courageous woman who deserve better than that ..you deserve a man who will support you in everything, not treat you badly if you dont give in to his whims. Stay strong!

05-21-2004, 04:53 PM	#21 (permalink)
RustyLastCall05 Rusty Wallace Fan Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: New England Posts: 189	Hardest break-up I had went through I was dating girl online from WI. We went through couple of hard times. Then in April 2003, I was vacationing in South Carolina, I receive e-mail from that girl who said that somebody is breaking up us. I was like We managed to stay together for other 2 months before we decided it's time to let relationship go. After that, she never was really nice to me. Then I realized she lied to me about her connection to NASCAR. It was harder decision I had to made to leave that girl. We went back together twice but things fucked up.

05-21-2004, 10:06 PM	#22 (permalink)
Miss-Delectable Capt Tony Nelson, Jeannie Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: No.1 Shopping Capital in Australia Posts: 8,855 Blog Entries: 3	Whoa, not a nice fellow! I belive you did the right thing in distancing away from him, and looking to school. Stay strong. Be yourself and believe in what is right for you! __________________

05-22-2004, 12:09 AM	#23 (permalink)
GeorgiaDeaf :) Decaf Coffee :) Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: in the "South" Posts: 141	As long as you are still young, you still have plenty of time to find a true love in your life time. keep your chin up. The hardest thing for me to be without my husband in my life.. wow. i already been there and never want to do that again w/ my hubby. whew!

05-22-2004, 01:09 PM	#24 (permalink)
Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 19,088	aw I'm sorry to hear that...Some relationships never meant to be....I believe sometimes in life we may meet the wrong people and later find out she/he isn't the ' one ' for us....Be greatful that it didn't go any farther as ' marriage '...You are still young and have a whole life ahead of you, you will find the ' one ' you've been looking for!

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