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Old 10-14-2006, 06:05 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Cool Well I wish....

Even though I think Love sucks... but

It would be nice to have a man who don't worry too much...

I want a man to go out and do what he suppose to do...
Get a real good job... or maybe be a doctor or a lawyer...

So that we can have a big big house... and share a car together...

I can just cook him dinner and give him a big massage... and a big
kiss....

And have many many kids with him..... let nature do it course...

And not let that interfere with our sex life, worrying about how many kids
we produce...

Well I can have my uterus removed after having 5 kids with him...

And we can just have romantic sex every night, no problem.

Then everything will be okay... we be happy and stuff... forever....

I don't know what I am talking about?

I don't know why marriage life isn't simple to you folks out there...
Why people divorce? And why people cheated?

I just don't understand...
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Old 10-14-2006, 06:14 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I don't think that we know what to expect from life. This is the critical point ! To Love or not ? depends each individual. there is no a simple answer.
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Old 10-14-2006, 06:21 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I think we all want that...

I believe this Devil temptation, jealousy, insecure about ourselves, and
everything else is the problem that cause marriage.
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Old 10-14-2006, 06:31 PM   #4 (permalink)
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we all want to be happy ! but meaning of 'happiness' is different for each person..

Some feel happy if they have a good life love .
Some feel happy if they have a good career.
Some feel happy if they have much money.
Some feel happy if they have a exciting sex partner..
For some, life is on religion.
Some consider 'loneliness' happiness!
..............

What do you want from life ? Get this first and then think about love .
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Old 10-14-2006, 06:48 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Yeah when I was with Jay, I saw him kissing my best friend in the car's rear view mirror.... I dumped him.

And then I was with Byron, I saw him in a car with another woman....

Then I was with Jeff, he kept yelling at me for no reason....
And I was like, dang, why he kept treating me like this...

And then I was with Bobby, he stole my money... hit me 3 times.

And then there was with Eric, I was like HELL NO, I don't want to deal
with men ever again... Please men go away... I don't want to be HURT
over and over and over and over again....

I am so tired of my heart broken like this... I don't deserve this...
I know I am a good woman... and a very nice generous person...
Men won't give me a chance...

I would love to take care of them... and cook for them and give them
massage and be a good housewife to them if men stop being so
evil toward me for no reason....

I don't understand.
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Old 10-14-2006, 06:54 PM   #6 (permalink)
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What should I say ?

They didn't know about true love . They were only interested in physical attraction. They thought they found out a 'more beautiful one' and then they betrayed.

They wouldn't have your soul mate if you had been married to any of them !

At least, you was able to see the truth before marriage.

Never stop seeking the right one !
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Old 10-14-2006, 06:58 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Halle Berry, Christie Brinkley, they are beautiful...
even Tina Turner is...

Men treated them terrible.

okay... fine I keep looking.
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Old 10-14-2006, 07:04 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Yes they are beautiful but some men do not want long time relationships if their goal is sex or physical attraction , I suppose. They are like birds flying from one branch to another.

sure ,keep looking.. it may take years but it's worth of it
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Old 10-14-2006, 07:04 PM   #9 (permalink)
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i m an man and never do any of those stuff because i was raised to respect woman competely but i m already taken and i love her with all my heart and so much more i m even going to move 1300 miles just for her that s how much i love her my heart is for her and her heart is for me i m an gentle guy i m the kind of a guy who gives and never takes if my girlfriend (soon tobe wife) offer me something and insist i take it then i will be willing to take it only because i love my girlfriend i really really are in so much love with my girlfriend in hammond its near new orleans and i m living in wisconsin right now but i ll move down there for her i ll be moving down there in 20 days so not all men are bad i m one living proof that men arent bad
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i m looking for an long term relationshi0 that leads to marriage that s what i found in my gf i m 23 years old wanna know how many women i had sex with? one just one i m not interested in sex i m very interested in love of course my gf have urges need to be satisfy i m more than willing to do that but my main goal for her is love
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Old 10-14-2006, 07:06 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Of course, not all men are bad, buddy.. I was speaking of those who betrayed!

I'm glad you found out your soulmate I wish that for myself,too
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you will someday i m very sure
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Old 10-14-2006, 10:12 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Nah,,, I change my mind, I don't need men...

plus I am a bad person
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Old 10-14-2006, 10:29 PM   #14 (permalink)
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why you think u are a bad person, the empress??

sure there is no such thing as perfect relationship.. it take two to tango...

maybe its just illusion??? i sometimes wonder....

they said its better to get in the realtionship 100 percent all YOU.. relationship or the man doesnt make you whole.. but Yourself..

i sometimes think im a bad person why else i am alone.. im too picky.. lmao.. go figures.. always get in wrong relationhip with wrong guy.. i guess im naive.. lol..
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Old 10-14-2006, 10:58 PM   #15 (permalink)
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okay... I'll try again with guys.
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Old 10-15-2006, 12:33 PM   #16 (permalink)
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thats the spirit, the empress.. Good luck! just remmy go slow and dont rush! take time to get to know each other first..
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Old 10-15-2006, 12:46 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Nah...remember Empress all men gave u a headache. You are happy sitting at home with your mother so why need a man?

Maybe you can kiss a shark and find your true love there.

*just kidding *
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Old 10-16-2006, 06:51 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Yeah when I was with Jay, I saw him kissing my best friend in the car's rear view mirror.... I dumped him.

And then I was with Byron, I saw him in a car with another woman....

Then I was with Jeff, he kept yelling at me for no reason....
And I was like, dang, why he kept treating me like this...

And then I was with Bobby, he stole my money... hit me 3 times.

And then there was with Eric, I was like HELL NO, I don't want to deal
with men ever again... Please men go away... I don't want to be HURT
over and over and over and over again....

I am so tired of my heart broken like this... I don't deserve this...
I know I am a good woman... and a very nice generous person...
Men won't give me a chance...

I would love to take care of them... and cook for them and give them
massage and be a good housewife to them if men stop being so
evil toward me for no reason....

I don't understand.


Well, U got wrong guys ! ! keep fishing and find a good guy out there..

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Old 10-17-2006, 03:23 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Well, U got wrong guys ! ! keep fishing and find a good guy out there..

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I agree. there are always good persons in this world. Let's keep seeking
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Old 10-18-2006, 02:57 PM   #20 (permalink)
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how long will one keep searching for mr. right? too long! lol..
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Old 10-18-2006, 03:00 PM   #21 (permalink)
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As Long as it takes, smiley, As long as it takes. Cuz you never know.
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Old 10-18-2006, 03:06 PM   #22 (permalink)
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how long will one keep searching for mr. right? too long! lol..
All my life !
I will never give up searching the true love
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Old 10-18-2006, 03:26 PM   #23 (permalink)
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you would?? wow.. sigh.. mind me of one of the funny pictures.. like this..



THE PERFECT MAN







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How can I go search for love when I am sitting at home most of the time?

I don't like night club and I really don't like going out.

Okay, I'll wait for my prince while I sit on my comfy chair and
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Old 10-18-2006, 03:31 PM   #25 (permalink)
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LOL, no thank you, they all look GAY...
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Old 10-18-2006, 03:59 PM   #26 (permalink)
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I had to laught at your post, SmileyGin

I am not, of course , looking for Mr right ! I want Ms Right



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I had to laught at your post, SmileyGin