LOVE?! help me please - Page 2

Jessica.+* · 10-06-2006, 12:28 PM

Quote:

From : Adam brown
Sent : October 6, 2006 11:19:39 AM
To : Jessica
Subject : LIES

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lol i hated u? i could never hate u...i just dont c y u would make me believe u were sum1 else this whole time and how u could lie so much.
and dont be sad u suck if ur sad

kay now im seriously confused.

Jessica.+* · 10-06-2006, 12:31 PM

Quote:

>From: "Adam brown" >
To: Jessica
>Date: Fri, 06 Oct 2006 12:27:42 -0400
>
>hmm did u actually take that chiks pics or r u just trying to test
>me if i love u for u?

uhm i think hes devastated

10-06-2006, 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jessica.+*

uhm i think hes devastated

Jessica,

You have to let this guy go through a thousand of emotions before he can talk sense. Imagine yourself in his shoes - how would you feel if Adam actually was the one who sent you a photo that wasnt of him? I m sure that you would feel betrayed, confused, angry, hurt, and so on.

Give him space. Give him permission to rant & rave. You know what you did was wrong so you have to let him express his emotions.

Dont overanalyze his words - he will change emotions from anger to confusion to devastation - anger - confusion - devastation ....that is normal.

Just remain patient and stop worrying whether he hates you. You will be fine.

Jessica.+* · 10-06-2006, 12:52 PM

i know. i have to give him time. but truth is if he did what i did i wouldnt really care to tell u the truth i love him for the person he is. looks don't really matter to me at all! which is weird for a teen yes.. i know. but w/e.
I know i have to give him time. I'm pretty sure he's ok..i iunno im as confused as he is lol :s

EDGE · 10-06-2006, 03:40 PM

talk to your parents, if they're succesful marriage.

Jessica.+* · 10-07-2006, 01:52 PM

Quote:

talk to your parents, if they're succesful marriage.

My parents don't have a successful marriage. no one in my family does lol
all ended up in divorce. I wanna be the first one to be with ONE guy i will spend my life with. altho i'm young and i have alot of growing up to do i know what i want and who i want. and Right now I KNOW i want adam. I made a mistake but love is about putting that person infront of urself for always. having that feeling for them forever. about accepting the person for who they are and the mistakes they made. Love is no matter what.
i just hope he forgives me soon cause i can't stand not having him .. it kills me

BearBeauty · 10-07-2006, 09:26 PM

Jessica..

Loving yourself is important.. You can't put others first unless you love yourself first. I had to put myself first after my divorce in order to find my boyfriend and true love now. You need to give him space. I understand impatience, but it can push people away.

If you don't want to push him away, let him vent about what happened, he'll forgive you and you will have to build the trust that was lost, but Love is waiting, Love is taking your time and following your heart. But not to the point it becomes stalking.

Love can be amazing beyond anything in the world, but it takes time and patience to get that. It's not going to happen tomorrow.

BearBeauty.

Jessica.+* · 10-07-2006, 09:33 PM

I'm trying my bestest!! i don't think im pushing him away..
he comes to me talking to me on msn and e-mails and stuff.
love is very confusing!! but i love it

Jessica.+* · 10-08-2006, 01:22 PM

Quote:

From :Adam brown
To :Jessica Gran

put urself down much? yoooooo there's no1but u and will always be like that
of cource i want to talk to u I FUCKIN LOVE U LIKE FUCKIN CRAZY goodfight # 1 girl forever LOL

I don't know what he's doing probably going thru all those emotions as you guys said! but this one made me feel alot better!

Jessica.+* · 10-09-2006, 05:59 PM

lol u guys aren't talking mucch.

Reba · 10-09-2006, 11:09 PM

It's too bad you can't find a guy without such a potty mouth. Ugh!

You should require more respect from a guy.

Jessica.+* · 10-10-2006, 08:39 PM

Quote:

It's too bad you can't find a guy without such a potty mouth. Ugh!

You should require more respect from a guy.

he's not being disrespectful lol
i love him he's not being mean
he was just saying he effing loves
me .. lol

10-11-2006, 12:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jessica.+*

he's not being disrespectful lol
i love him he's not being mean
he was just saying he effing loves
me .. lol

Jessica - the only reason I keep coming back to answer your questions is beacuse my daughters will be 14 soon and will be like in your shoes one day but I truly hope that my daughters will KNOW that a guy who truly loves her will not resort to using potty mouth.

I do hope it works out for you and Adam but I think you are starting it off wrong by posting his email address for the entire world to see and what his answers to you.

Respect privacy and dont settle for less!!!!!!!!!!!!!

10-06-2006, 12:52 PM	#34 (permalink)
Jessica.+* yo! ahaha Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 56	i know. i have to give him time. but truth is if he did what i did i wouldnt really care to tell u the truth i love him for the person he is. looks don't really matter to me at all! which is weird for a teen yes.. i know. but w/e. I know i have to give him time. I'm pretty sure he's ok..i iunno im as confused as he is lol :s __________________ JESSICA.<33 (L)

10-07-2006, 09:33 PM	#38 (permalink)
Jessica.+* yo! ahaha Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 56	I'm trying my bestest!! i don't think im pushing him away.. he comes to me talking to me on msn and e-mails and stuff. love is very confusing!! but i love it __________________ JESSICA.<33 (L)

10-09-2006, 05:59 PM	#40 (permalink)
Jessica.+* yo! ahaha Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 56	lol u guys aren't talking mucch. __________________ JESSICA.<33 (L)

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10-06-2006, 03:40 PM	#35 (permalink)
EDGE Registered User Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,010	talk to your parents, if they're succesful marriage.

10-07-2006, 09:26 PM	#37 (permalink)
BearBeauty Registered User Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 818	Jessica.. Loving yourself is important.. You can't put others first unless you love yourself first. I had to put myself first after my divorce in order to find my boyfriend and true love now. You need to give him space. I understand impatience, but it can push people away. If you don't want to push him away, let him vent about what happened, he'll forgive you and you will have to build the trust that was lost, but Love is waiting, Love is taking your time and following your heart. But not to the point it becomes stalking. Love can be amazing beyond anything in the world, but it takes time and patience to get that. It's not going to happen tomorrow. BearBeauty.

10-09-2006, 11:09 PM	#41 (permalink)
Reba Premium Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 17,242	It's too bad you can't find a guy without such a potty mouth. Ugh! You should require more respect from a guy.