Aren’t you too picky about Women?

**Kalista** · 05-29-2003, 11:57 AM

Some guys are too picky to go out with attractive ladies. They sometime forgot what is inner their personalities. Outside of bodies will be not last long within twenty years. Why do the man look at attractive, perfect body as bikini in the bath suits, beautiful smile and hair/make-up? The attractive ladies will be not the same when they will become 50 to 60 years old.

There are high percent voluptuous ladies in this country of America. They do have nice personalities, a good job, own a nice car, a nice condo, good credit, intelligence, and honest, financial secure, good parent of children and sense of humor. Why can’t the men see inside their personalities instead of outside ?

I have seen high percent men; they desire to have a stand night with women. Then say good-bye to those ladies. Most ladies are more sensitive because they think that make love meant a lot to them as love but for the pleasure as sex. It is too painful for those ladies because the men take advantages of their bodies for sex NOT for a love.

Is it unrealistic of lady to expect to meet a nice man who is childless, has a good job and financially stable? Aren’t you dreaming to look for Mr. Right Guy? Some guy did not want to have more children because they have some children from previously marriage. Some women desire to have children from their men. They have to compromise and open honestly communication before they become too serious relationship last long.

However, many women fall in love with a man because they think he would be a good father of their children. Then the men will tell those women,” I could not handle those children.” The children will think that their mother’s men did not want them.

Women have always fallen in love with men more quickly than men fall in love with women. Then the guy never calls back and they are upset for about a day until they meet another guy. The biggest issue here is the emotional difference between men and women. Women don't really fall in love easier, they just think they do. So, what does that mean? Women have a major problem that men don't have.

Why do the men tend to keep things inside themselves. Women tend to pour out from their chest about their feelings.

Why women have more sensitive than men? Women are trying very hard how they look at their weight problem, hair style, make-up, skin, exercise, and buy new clothes, etc… They want to be a impressive to the men. Women spend a lot of money to make them look good for men.

Men have been lack of compliment, how beautiful their girlfriends or wives are. They are rarely compliment how they look, cook, clean or decorate the house, high performance appraisal awards at their jobs, etc... Men sometime have problem to expression how much they proud of their girlfriends or wives.

Why can’t the men light up themselves? Why they are too picky about women who are voluptuous or weight problems? What have the intelligence do with that ?

~ Sabrina

ChelEler · 05-29-2003, 12:04 PM

I have never had that problem myself, well, just the weigh-problem is the only one I have trouble with.

My man didn't look at me as how I look like. I wasn't even dressed up or anything like that when we met. I was just being myself and so was he when we met. He was a quiet one when I was the wild one. Heh. We just clicked and started courting from there. I have changed a lot since I got married.

I'm fatter and calmer now than before.

My man changed too. He's more talkative with me and few friends.

For other men and women, good luck! I don't know what to say except don't be too picky on the looks or anything like that, since it'll change over the years. Just use your common sense here in finding your partner!

Catmandu · 05-29-2003, 12:22 PM

I take that AmericanChopper is being a bad boy again?

**Kalista** · 05-29-2003, 12:24 PM

Quote:

I take that AmericanChopper is being a bad boy again?

It has nothing do with him. LOL It is about other women who are discouraged themselves for not able find a right guys.

DirtyOldMan · 05-29-2003, 12:33 PM

I am not that picky over ladies by their looks...

They sometimes are too shy when I became attracted to them.

I'm too humble to say about myself because they says that I'm so sexy and hunky...

I kind of am attracted to voluptuous ladies... Just because when skinny ladies wanna play hard with me, it's cool, but I hurt her in ways.

(If you know what I mean?)

eternity's just perfect for me!

**Kalista** · 05-29-2003, 08:34 PM

Quote:

I kind of am attracted to voluptuous ladies... Just because when skinny ladies wanna play hard with me, it's cool, but I hurt her in ways.

What make you fascinate in voluptuous ladies ? Give us more description.

javapride · 05-29-2003, 09:38 PM

women's personality is important to me, not the looks and the sexiness they can wear, just being urself is important as well

eternity · 05-29-2003, 11:19 PM

Hey Dom, come here n

AmericanChopper · 05-29-2003, 11:38 PM

DOm and Eternity,

In real life, you guys like each other?

DirtyOldMan · 05-30-2003, 12:29 AM

We would have met long time ago... Yeah, we do like each other... Maybe more than that.

eternity · 05-30-2003, 12:46 AM

AmericanChopper, oh certain we do like each other. Noone can replace his place.

crazyerica32 · 05-30-2003, 01:57 AM

obviously guys are insecure when it comes to findin the right girl so they rather hot women who are attractive too bad they didn't check to see if girl have the brains and able to say no but I think men have the way to control women's brains when it comes to sex

Catmandu · 05-30-2003, 08:00 AM

Funny you should say that coz when my husband first met me he was drooling over me big time and not look into my inner soul, but it took him several months to realize who I really am, not what I really am. He fell for me for outter and inner beauty - thank God! A lot of the guys always go for my looks and forget my inner soul, but luckily my husband checked both.

Anyway, I fell for him for his inner beauty and he became handsome as he grew older then I became very drawn to him.

We were both overweight one time and we stayed together though we lost 117 pounds together (me 67 and hubby 50) for health reason. We went through a lot such as trust and appearance issues, but now it's fine and our relationship is very secured.

DOMbaby and Eternity

so fabulust!

AmericanChopper · 05-30-2003, 09:11 AM

eternity and DOM,

No wondering about you guys. cOoL!

**Kalista** · 05-30-2003, 09:16 AM

Katzie

Wow how did you lose 67 lbs ?

prostock19 · 05-30-2003, 10:05 AM

I have to lose weight, but I have liked chubby girls before. What I look for in a girl is common activities, and someone who is not lazy. I want someone I love spending time with. I also want someone who can associate with my friends. Am I being unreasonably picky? I think I am being picky, but that is my choice.

SilenceGold · 05-30-2003, 10:53 AM

I'm already used to fat people...look at my mom!

Actually I've dated several imperfect women just because they had better personality than most of those knockout blondies who wanted to ride with me just because I had a cool truck in High School.

Oh well, I don't know how I ended up with an attractive wife.

**Kalista** · 05-30-2003, 11:03 AM

Hey Silence Gold

Quote:

Oh well, I don't know how I ended up with an attractive wife.

Do not ever think about it... Stay with her everlast until you DIE !

~ Sabrina

SilenceGold · 05-30-2003, 11:37 AM

Hell right..I ain't leaving her.

In one movie, someone said, "An indian told me that if I had an attractive wife....I should sleep with one eye shut."

I do that. :p

RosesNY · 05-30-2003, 03:28 PM

yea, My brother picky about woman. who must have good look. I told him that it won;t work out if think about woman for a look. he realiz i am right . I hope he can find a good woman with a good heart

deafclimber · 05-30-2003, 03:52 PM

since i got divorced, it was getting harder for me being rusty to date those gals - hearing and deaf.

yea, i think i am picky on gals, but mostly i look for ms. right with inner beauty and athletic.

Catmandu · 05-31-2003, 06:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sabrina
Katzie

Wow how did you lose 67 lbs ?

Lay off sodas! Use a lot less butter. Replace white bread to wheat bread. Eat a little less than what you normally eat. You can have some junk food ONCE a week so you won't get severe cravings later. WALK 3 to 4 times a week! Everyday is great.

Another thing is I'm on thyroid hormone therapy pills for my thyroid disorder. Plus I had a sub-total thyroidectomy and the pill is needed for life. It helps to regulate my hormones, iodine, metabolism and more.

Took me 5 years to lose 67 pounds and I kept it off. Trick is lose slowly and you'll keep your weight off permanently. If you lose too fast you'll more likely to gain weight and more than your old weight. No fun! Just be patient with yourself and you'll lose it over time.

Remember everyone is different, but you can try this method and see if it works for ya.

SilenceGold · 06-01-2003, 05:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Katzie
Lay off sodas! Use a lot less butter. Replace white bread to wheat bread. Eat a little less than what you normally eat. You can have some junk food ONCE a week so you won't get severe cravings later. WALK 3 to 4 times a week! Everyday is great.

Another thing is I'm on thyroid hormone therapy pills for my thyroid disorder. Plus I had a sub-total thyroidectomy and the pill is needed for life. It helps to regulate my hormones, iodine, metabolism and more.

Took me 5 years to lose 67 pounds and I kept it off. Trick is lose slowly and you'll keep your weight off permanently. If you lose too fast you'll more likely to gain weight and more than your old weight. No fun! Just be patient with yourself and you'll lose it over time. Remember everyone is different, but you can try this method and see if it works for ya.

I see that you have achieved after all those hard work for 5 years. Congratulations!

Catmandu · 06-01-2003, 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SilenceGold
I see that you have achieved after all those hard work for 5 years. Congratulations!

Thanks!

The hard work has paid off, but now being pregnant I've packed on 10 pounds... Bet some of you are jumping up and down and go nyah nyah nyah! hehehe That's okay and at least I'm making you feel better!

**Kalista** · 06-02-2003, 12:53 PM

yeah, I notice my weight loss has been very slow since two years. Every time I went to annual check up with doctor. My weight keeps going down. I lost about 17 lbs so far. I need to lose 60 lbs more left.

My problem is addicting to chocolate when I have pre-period. Grrrrrrr !

Catmandu · 06-03-2003, 08:22 AM

Sabrina - congratulations on losing 17 pounds and ya know that 17 pounds is awfully a lot so you should be proud of yourself! Don't give up chocolate! However amount you eat chocolate just cut down and try eating some fruits like an apple or a pear. I hope you like large salads? Put a hard boiled egg and or can of fresh white tuna on top of salad. Great for protiens and it's very filling. Your appetitite will get smaller over time. Just be patient with yourself. Again, way to go Sabrina!!

illustrator · 06-03-2003, 09:13 AM

Yes, I am picky about women went to bathroom and take more make-up on her face. I keep tell her, she look fine. Enough with chemical on your face! Wear once a day would be good for your face.

LeviathanC · 06-03-2003, 10:16 AM

Yes, I have good reason to being very picky about women than their outer looks but their personalities, who they are, etc. I am only focus on their personalities, their goals that they are planning for their future, who they are truly. I noticed that lots of women are very picky on the men also. Both of the males and females are very picky on each other. So, no one is perfect.

I becomes more picky since my last two dates tell lots of lies about who they are truly, questions that I asked them, etc. I don't like to being lied by women and perfer with honesty becuz of no tolerance toward people who simply lied me. Enough of my babbling words.

Anyways, no matter what both of males and females do, they are always picky on each other for both of good and stupid reasons.

PowerON · 03-07-2011, 02:09 PM

As I know that I used to picky with women over something which I didn't understand. Until someone bitching to me and it got me to realize and accept on certainly from women which men don't understand.

**SneakerNet** · 03-08-2011, 10:48 AM

Here's my quote:

"Beauty is not what she appear, beauty is what in her heart"

05-29-2003, 11:57 AM	#1 (permalink)
Kalista Premium Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 8,142	Aren’t you too picky about Women? Some guys are too picky to go out with attractive ladies. They sometime forgot what is inner their personalities. Outside of bodies will be not last long within twenty years. Why do the man look at attractive, perfect body as bikini in the bath suits, beautiful smile and hair/make-up? The attractive ladies will be not the same when they will become 50 to 60 years old. There are high percent voluptuous ladies in this country of America. They do have nice personalities, a good job, own a nice car, a nice condo, good credit, intelligence, and honest, financial secure, good parent of children and sense of humor. Why can’t the men see inside their personalities instead of outside ? I have seen high percent men; they desire to have a stand night with women. Then say good-bye to those ladies. Most ladies are more sensitive because they think that make love meant a lot to them as love but for the pleasure as sex. It is too painful for those ladies because the men take advantages of their bodies for sex NOT for a love. Is it unrealistic of lady to expect to meet a nice man who is childless, has a good job and financially stable? Aren’t you dreaming to look for Mr. Right Guy? Some guy did not want to have more children because they have some children from previously marriage. Some women desire to have children from their men. They have to compromise and open honestly communication before they become too serious relationship last long. However, many women fall in love with a man because they think he would be a good father of their children. Then the men will tell those women,” I could not handle those children.” The children will think that their mother’s men did not want them. Women have always fallen in love with men more quickly than men fall in love with women. Then the guy never calls back and they are upset for about a day until they meet another guy. The biggest issue here is the emotional difference between men and women. Women don't really fall in love easier, they just think they do. So, what does that mean? Women have a major problem that men don't have. Why do the men tend to keep things inside themselves. Women tend to pour out from their chest about their feelings. Why women have more sensitive than men? Women are trying very hard how they look at their weight problem, hair style, make-up, skin, exercise, and buy new clothes, etc… They want to be a impressive to the men. Women spend a lot of money to make them look good for men. Men have been lack of compliment, how beautiful their girlfriends or wives are. They are rarely compliment how they look, cook, clean or decorate the house, high performance appraisal awards at their jobs, etc... Men sometime have problem to expression how much they proud of their girlfriends or wives. Why can’t the men light up themselves? Why they are too picky about women who are voluptuous or weight problems? What have the intelligence do with that ? ~ Sabrina Last edited by Sabrina; 05-29-2003 at 12:07 PM.

05-29-2003, 12:04 PM	#2 (permalink)
ChelEler Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5,565	I have never had that problem myself, well, just the weigh-problem is the only one I have trouble with. My man didn't look at me as how I look like. I wasn't even dressed up or anything like that when we met. I was just being myself and so was he when we met. He was a quiet one when I was the wild one. Heh. We just clicked and started courting from there. I have changed a lot since I got married. I'm fatter and calmer now than before. My man changed too. He's more talkative with me and few friends. For other men and women, good luck! I don't know what to say except don't be too picky on the looks or anything like that, since it'll change over the years. Just use your common sense here in finding your partner! __________________ ~RAWR~ -ChelEler- =^.~=

05-30-2003, 08:00 AM	#13 (permalink)
Catmandu Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,711	Funny you should say that coz when my husband first met me he was drooling over me big time and not look into my inner soul, but it took him several months to realize who I really am, not what I really am. He fell for me for outter and inner beauty - thank God! A lot of the guys always go for my looks and forget my inner soul, but luckily my husband checked both. Anyway, I fell for him for his inner beauty and he became handsome as he grew older then I became very drawn to him. We were both overweight one time and we stayed together though we lost 117 pounds together (me 67 and hubby 50) for health reason. We went through a lot such as trust and appearance issues, but now it's fine and our relationship is very secured. DOMbaby and Eternity so fabulust! Last edited by Katzie; 05-30-2003 at 08:02 AM.

05-30-2003, 10:05 AM	#16 (permalink)
prostock19 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Tiverton, RI Posts: 3,312	I have to lose weight, but I have liked chubby girls before. What I look for in a girl is common activities, and someone who is not lazy. I want someone I love spending time with. I also want someone who can associate with my friends. Am I being unreasonably picky? I think I am being picky, but that is my choice. __________________

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05-29-2003, 12:22 PM	#3 (permalink)
Catmandu Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,711	I take that AmericanChopper is being a bad boy again?

05-29-2003, 12:33 PM	#5 (permalink)
DirtyOldMan Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Tulip town Posts: 618	I am not that picky over ladies by their looks... They sometimes are too shy when I became attracted to them. I'm too humble to say about myself because they says that I'm so sexy and hunky... I kind of am attracted to voluptuous ladies... Just because when skinny ladies wanna play hard with me, it's cool, but I hurt her in ways. (If you know what I mean?) eternity's just perfect for me!

05-29-2003, 09:38 PM	#7 (permalink)
javapride Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: hawaii Posts: 6,511	women's personality is important to me, not the looks and the sexiness they can wear, just being urself is important as well

05-29-2003, 11:19 PM	#8 (permalink)
eternity Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,755	Hey Dom, come here n

05-29-2003, 11:38 PM	#9 (permalink)
AmericanChopper Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: It comes from other Galaxy Posts: 264	DOm and Eternity, In real life, you guys like each other?

05-30-2003, 12:29 AM	#10 (permalink)
DirtyOldMan Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Tulip town Posts: 618	We would have met long time ago... Yeah, we do like each other... Maybe more than that.

05-30-2003, 12:46 AM	#11 (permalink)
eternity Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,755	AmericanChopper, oh certain we do like each other. Noone can replace his place.

05-30-2003, 01:57 AM	#12 (permalink)
crazyerica32 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: san jose, CA Posts: 4,765 Blog Entries: 5	obviously guys are insecure when it comes to findin the right girl so they rather hot women who are attractive too bad they didn't check to see if girl have the brains and able to say no but I think men have the way to control women's brains when it comes to sex

05-30-2003, 09:11 AM	#14 (permalink)
AmericanChopper Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: It comes from other Galaxy Posts: 264	eternity and DOM, No wondering about you guys. cOoL!

05-30-2003, 09:16 AM	#15 (permalink)
Kalista Premium Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 8,142	Katzie Wow how did you lose 67 lbs ?

05-30-2003, 10:53 AM	#17 (permalink)
SilenceGold Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 3,508	I'm already used to fat people...look at my mom! Actually I've dated several imperfect women just because they had better personality than most of those knockout blondies who wanted to ride with me just because I had a cool truck in High School. Oh well, I don't know how I ended up with an attractive wife.

05-30-2003, 11:37 AM	#19 (permalink)
SilenceGold Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 3,508	Hell right..I ain't leaving her. In one movie, someone said, "An indian told me that if I had an attractive wife....I should sleep with one eye shut." I do that. :p

05-30-2003, 03:28 PM	#20 (permalink)
RosesNY Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 975	yea, My brother picky about woman. who must have good look. I told him that it won;t work out if think about woman for a look. he realiz i am right . I hope he can find a good woman with a good heart

06-02-2003, 12:53 PM	#25 (permalink)
Kalista Premium Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 8,142	yeah, I notice my weight loss has been very slow since two years. Every time I went to annual check up with doctor. My weight keeps going down. I lost about 17 lbs so far. I need to lose 60 lbs more left. My problem is addicting to chocolate when I have pre-period. Grrrrrrr !

06-03-2003, 08:22 AM	#26 (permalink)
Catmandu Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 4,711	Sabrina - congratulations on losing 17 pounds and ya know that 17 pounds is awfully a lot so you should be proud of yourself! Don't give up chocolate! However amount you eat chocolate just cut down and try eating some fruits like an apple or a pear. I hope you like large salads? Put a hard boiled egg and or can of fresh white tuna on top of salad. Great for protiens and it's very filling. Your appetitite will get smaller over time. Just be patient with yourself. Again, way to go Sabrina!!

06-03-2003, 09:13 AM	#27 (permalink)
illustrator Registered User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Benbrook Posts: 4,594	Yes, I am picky about women went to bathroom and take more make-up on her face. I keep tell her, she look fine. Enough with chemical on your face! Wear once a day would be good for your face.

06-03-2003, 10:16 AM	#28 (permalink)
LeviathanC Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,312	Yes, I have good reason to being very picky about women than their outer looks but their personalities, who they are, etc. I am only focus on their personalities, their goals that they are planning for their future, who they are truly. I noticed that lots of women are very picky on the men also. Both of the males and females are very picky on each other. So, no one is perfect. I becomes more picky since my last two dates tell lots of lies about who they are truly, questions that I asked them, etc. I don't like to being lied by women and perfer with honesty becuz of no tolerance toward people who simply lied me. Enough of my babbling words. Anyways, no matter what both of males and females do, they are always picky on each other for both of good and stupid reasons.

03-07-2011, 02:09 PM	#29 (permalink)
PowerON Registered User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: 37.5, 126.9 Posts: 10,385 Blog Entries: 5	As I know that I used to picky with women over something which I didn't understand. Until someone bitching to me and it got me to realize and accept on certainly from women which men don't understand. __________________ • [Illustrator.Blog-alloon.com] • Don't shoot me! I'm only blogger!

03-08-2011, 10:48 AM	#30 (permalink)
SneakerNet My IQ: 12 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: 26°53'41.95" N 41°40'50.62" W Posts: 1,969	Here's my quote: "Beauty is not what she appear, beauty is what in her heart"

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