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Old 07-09-2006, 02:21 AM   #91 (permalink)
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I have to agree that its very offensive and very sexist and women are HUMANS, not objects.
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Old 07-09-2006, 02:23 AM   #92 (permalink)
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We got feelings and we want respect also... We both be treated equal.... Its call love and repect.
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Old 07-09-2006, 07:09 PM   #93 (permalink)
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I have to agree that its very offensive and very sexist and women are HUMANS, not objects.
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Old 07-09-2006, 11:12 PM   #94 (permalink)
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It's rediciously offensive... Heath need to hush up his mouth.
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Old 07-10-2006, 02:04 AM   #95 (permalink)
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Hooray!!!! Thank you!!!! I agree what you say also
By the way, RoyalMajesty, I forgot to mention something very key to all of this: In years gone by (hundreds if not thousands of years or so), women have always been referred to as "chattel" (property). Now, for the word "chattel," if you take the "h" out and transpose the "e" and the "l" you get the word, "cattle." Hence, women had no rights AND were viewed and treated as property. Use your imagination as to how women were treated.
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Old 07-10-2006, 06:25 PM   #96 (permalink)
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By the way, RoyalMajesty, I forgot to mention something very key to all of this: In years gone by (hundreds if not thousands of years or so), women have always been referred to as "chattel" (property). Now, for the word "chattel," if you take the "h" out and transpose the "e" and the "l" you get the word, "cattle." Hence, women had no rights AND were viewed and treated as property. Use your imagination as to how women were treated.
Oh okay... I didn't know that....
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Old 07-10-2006, 09:54 PM   #97 (permalink)
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How about sending men/hubbies off to husband bootcamp so they learn how to treat women right and help out with house chores without whining!!
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Old 07-10-2006, 09:58 PM   #98 (permalink)
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How about sending men/hubbies off to husband bootcamp so they learn how to treat women right and help out with house chores without whining!!
Yeah, thats exactly what I joked with Heath about this while ago
just before he departed for the bootcamp until October LOL
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Old 07-11-2006, 06:37 PM   #99 (permalink)
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How about sending men/hubbies off to husband bootcamp so they learn how to treat women right and help out with house chores without whining!!
My mother taught me as a youth (before teen years) how to do laundry (colors are separate from whites and permanent press), how to cook (more than just macaroni and cheese and reheating stuff in microwave, of which we didn't have) and how to make food items such as bread . . . from scratch, how to sew (by hand, as the sewing machine wasn't working) and to iron clothes.

So, can I thread a needle? Does a bear poop in the woods?

I can even outcook, outbake and maybe even outsew Reba, coloravalanche, rachelleggert and DoofusMama. Yet, I'm still single.

Rumor has it that if us men could get pregnant, there'd only be one child per family . . . can't imagine why.
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Old 07-18-2006, 01:09 AM   #100 (permalink)
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God made the woman to be the helper to the man. I never said anything about controlling a woman or anything like that. I think you need to read this article which will open your eyes.

Feminist Says Child Rearing not Worthy of Time and Talents of Intelligent Humans

By Hilary White

NEW YORK, June 20, 2006 (LifeSiteNews.com) – Linda Hirshman, a feminist US writer on cultural issues, has told the world why she thinks staying at home with the children is an occupation “not worthy of the full time and talents of intelligent and educated human beings.” She complains at length that the feminist movement, while making some gains in public life through legal activism, has largely failed in the one area where it counts most: the family.

She upbraids women who stay at home for failing the feminist agenda, saying, “They do not require a great intellect, they are not honored and they do not involve risks and the rewards that risk brings.”

Writing in the November 2005 edition of the American Prospect, Hirshman admitted that the real intention of the feminist movement was not “equality”, but to destroy what she calls “the unreconstructed family” of a husband and wife rearing children. She writes that the goal was to see as many women as possible abandoning family life for high-level professions and politics.

Hirshman, a committed radical, was a member in the 1970s of the feminist lobby, the National Organization for Women (NOW), a donor to the pro-abortion political organization, EMILY’s List, and a professor of women’s studies.

But, she complains, the movement has “stalled”; while the “public world has changed…private lives have hardly budged.” Childrearing is still seen by both men and women to be the natural purview of women. She writes of her “shock” to discover that among those professional women whom she called the “logical heirs of feminism”, large numbers were leaving their careers to opt for childrearing.

“Marriage is essentially unchanged,” she laments. “The real glass ceiling is at home…Looking back, it seems obvious that the unreconstructed family was destined to re-emerge after the passage of feminism’s storm of social change.”

She writes, “this represents not a loss of present value but a loss of hope for the future -- a loss of hope that the role of women in society will continue to increase.”

Some of the women she interviewed confirmed her worst fears: they liked being mothers. One declined to be interviewed because she could not leave her activities with her daughters: “We’re all in here making fresh apple pie,” she said.

Another, an “an Ivy Leaguer with a master’s degree” described her at-home activities: “I take my [3-year-old] daughter to all the major museums. We go to little movement classes.”

The article ignited a blaze of online outrage from feminists and traditionalists alike. Bloggers and editorials in print and online editions of a number of magazines have run comments blasting Hirshman.

In an op-ed at the online edition of the political magazine, the Huffington Post, Ann Coulter wrote that Hirshman and those who think like her, are “expressing an intolerant world view that women who don't work are losers.”

“Hirshman isn't just expressing an opinion about what she thinks is best, she is saying that any woman who makes a choice different from what she espouses is unequivocally ‘wrong.’”

Coulter writes that feminism is losing its sway in public because it focuses on “problems that hardly exist…while spending precious little energy on issues that indisputably have a negative impact on women: pornography, sex trafficking.”

“If [feminists] spent a fraction of the time on these issues that they spend trying to get women to get their men to vacuum the living room, the world would be a better place.”

http://www.lifesite.net/ldn/2006/jun/06062007.html
will you shut hell up about your bible shit.

that is very offensive and women are not maids to the male gender. the only good men out there the ones who treat woman like humans.. which you obviously don't .. and by the way if you haven't noticed we're human.

asshole...
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Old 07-18-2006, 01:16 AM   #101 (permalink)
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whoa.. i notice some of you were so angry.. its just a joke. its not for real. i think its far out..im not taking it so serious or take it too personally. keep your mind open. im sure heath didnt mean that we, women, should do this! he just thought its funny.. same as us women thought its funny for men to do exactly as we want our men to behave. same difference.. relax
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Old 07-21-2006, 02:19 AM   #102 (permalink)
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hmmmmmmm I think I need to send my wife (FelixKat930) there LoL opps I'm in trouble when she sees this reply ahahaha



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Every woman should attend wife school. Only then should men propose.

This one made me smile and there is very good advice in there too.

http://www.killsometime.com/Video/video.asp?ID=307
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Old 07-21-2006, 02:52 AM   #103 (permalink)
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LMAO!! Oh yeah I'm definitley in T-R-O-U-B-L-E-E-E-E!!!!



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Heath.. the video is really offensive . First of all.. I am PROCHOICE AND A Femist (so)? I am a stay at home mother.. I take care of my kids and I clean the dishes etc and cook dinner. But when my husband comes home from work.. He helps with the dinner.. dishes and play with the kids and watch movies. Right now, I applied for college and my husband is supporting me on it. He and I want better future for our kids and better careers in life!


I ain't maid either.. my husband is a neat freak too.. SO.. I agree with CassBugs!
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Old 07-21-2006, 03:58 AM   #104 (permalink)
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nice going jeremy you just put yourself in the doghouse

sarah show him your wrath of bitchyness

just joking
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Old 07-21-2006, 03:59 AM   #105 (permalink)
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hmmmmmmm I think I need to send my wife (FelixKat930) there LoL opps I'm in trouble when she sees this reply ahahaha
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Old 10-05-2006, 01:42 PM   #106 (permalink)
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Pek1 is right. Before WW1, women were treated like property, no voting rights, no say in what goes on, weren't allowed to own property, and basically treated like maids in their homes..

Today's women have more power than ever before.

The video is funny, but you can't apply it today, because most women do not agree with it. Personally, I think men and women need to work together in the home and out of the home. Doesn't matter if it's 1 income or 2 incomes, as long as everyone is happy in their lives. Really, all anybody can do is find something that makes them happy.

Health, Thank you for posting a funny video.
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Old 10-05-2006, 03:50 PM   #107 (permalink)
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Old 10-05-2006, 09:26 PM   #108 (permalink)
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Old 10-17-2006, 06:38 PM   #109 (permalink)
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Feminists are morons IMHO

To think that anything other then personality type determines the dynamics of a relationship is illogical. I am a strong (PT) man living with a weak (PT) women. She stays home and keeps everything clean and makes dinner. And I go out and work all day so we can afford to live nicely.

She complains every once in awhile, and I say: Do you want to get a job? no. She wants me to pay for everything and take care of finances (I helped her get a credit card and she ran it into the ground). We are married now, and as soon as we have saved enough money saved we are going to have a nice wedding and a honey-moon (yum tastey) in Japan.

Previous to this I was in a relationship where the women was far stronger (PT) than I was. It didn't work out because of the constraints of time and space, but I was also happy in that relationship.

I've given up power before and I don't understand how being objectified can hurt people so much? It didn't hurt me... I knew I was valued for who I was.

Political Correctness (sic) needs to get thrown out the window here. Bigotry needs to be destroyed anywhere it exists, and it exists in femanism. There is no person more bigoted than a lesbian black handicaped woman. Who blames society for her problems.

To get to the topic of this thread. Heath has his beliefs. And he has a right to have those beliefs. Just as feminists have a right to believe that a women caring for children is wrong.

Focus on the self, and the rest will come.

I'll end my rant here.
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Old 10-17-2006, 08:02 PM   #110 (permalink)
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most women don't want to be objectified. they want to be treated as equals. Nobody wants to be treated like a china doll, and some men do treat women like that.

Women want men to see all their capabilities and strengths, not their weaknesses.
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Old 10-21-2006, 10:25 PM   #111 (permalink)
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Iam gonna join Sillycat for some

Health...BESTTTT of LUCK finding a woman who will kiss your ass.

To the rest of you...Love your comments about how women shouldnt kiss men's asses.

I believe I should be treated like the

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Old 10-22-2006, 11:49 AM   #112 (permalink)
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i finished husband school but never got married yet.
i fuck her brains out until she has at least 5 oragams, then spoon for a half hour, then invite her to the shower before going back to bed to sleep.
i let her have the run of the house, no problem!

because the GARAGE IS MINE!! no stinking car! just motorcycles ! toolboxs! frigde with REAL food! steaks and crabs! beer and jack! and a door that only locks from the inside for football on the 40inch plasma!
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Old 10-22-2006, 11:50 AM   #113 (permalink)
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hey shel90..is that a philly logo or mssd ? are you going to watch the game today?
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Old 10-22-2006, 12:12 PM   #114 (permalink)
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hey shel90..is that a philly logo or mssd ? are you going to watch the game today?

Philly Eagles Fan here!

I wish I can watch the game but I have $&*(@$@ flag football prax @ 4...grrrr
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