Wanna get married?

Freaky Cat · 06-12-2006, 01:53 PM

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...uid=6&GT1=8233

i think its desperate act.. but then perfect for someone who want to rush and get married.

gnulinuxman · 06-12-2006, 01:56 PM

I would NEVER look for romance on the Internet. Friends, sure, but not romance. And especially not on any Micro$oft-owned site!

TweetyBird · 06-12-2006, 03:24 PM

true i agree with u.. thank for share with us

LakeTahoe · 06-12-2006, 04:11 PM

Hell no! I rather take time but I don't believe in marriage anyway!

gnulinuxman · 06-12-2006, 04:23 PM

WHAT?! You don't believe in MARRIAGE?!

Steel X · 06-12-2006, 05:03 PM

I dont believe in marriage either...it doesnt always work for anyone.

LakeTahoe · 06-12-2006, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Steel X

I dont believe in marriage either...it doesnt always work for anyone.

Right! Why pay so much money on wedding/repections then honeymoon etc Also wife have to change new DL, SSN card, etc...waste of time to me. And if marriage isn't work out, end up diorvoce and cost more money. Forget it!

Just be with GF/BF, BF/BF or GF/GF if relationship isn't work out, then is there any cost? Nope! Only if you both own house, sell it and split in hlaf.

LakeTahoe · 06-12-2006, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by gnulinuxman

WHAT?! You don't believe in MARRIAGE?!

Marriage is PIECE OF PAPER!!!!! You need to WORK harder to keep marriage alive.

gnulinuxman · 06-12-2006, 07:19 PM

Commitment isn't as likely to be there without marriage.

Freaky Cat · 06-12-2006, 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by LakeTahoe

Right! Why pay so much money on wedding/repections then honeymoon etc Also wife have to change new DL, SSN card, etc...waste of time to me. And if marriage isn't work out, end up diorvoce and cost more money. Forget it!

Just be with GF/BF, BF/BF or GF/GF if relationship isn't work out, then is there any cost? Nope! Only if you both own house, sell it and split in hlaf.

i like to point out that you dont have to change your DL, SS card, and etc. U dont have to change your last name?? You just report to them that you are married, thats it???

i agree it take alot of work to work the marriage.. its a serious commitment...

moonflower · 06-12-2006, 09:18 PM

i don't believe in marriage but MORE not believe in divorce

Fo'Shizzle · 06-12-2006, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Steel X

I dont believe in marriage either...it doesnt always work for anyone.

whoa whoa! Hold up guys! Don't rush in marriage just because you think you "love" her/him... That doesn't happen that way in my own words.. Two partners will know what real love and you will feel it in your heart... Meant to be together forever till the end... Everyone has someone~ It may not be now but the right person will come along... God has a plan for everyone....Marriage is something!

Fo'Shizzle · 06-12-2006, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by moonflower

i don't believe in marriage but MORE not believe in divorce

Maybe its because people rush into marriage and it's all a mistake... Some people do find the right person and spend the rest of life with this person when they are way to young.. It happens that way too but most people will have to take time till this right person comes along.... It takes time.... Some people are assholes and they aren't right for you... untill the right person comes along and you will fall in love with this person and will evenutally marry the person! Marriage is something!! It will come in your time!!

Fo'Shizzle · 06-12-2006, 10:37 PM

I believe in marriage... I truely do but it will all come in time.. Im not going to rush into it even tho if the first person asked me to marry that person which already happen to me when I was 18 years old... I laughed but not to be rude.. It was that he was 29 years old and I was 18.. I wanted to explore life before I settle in with a family.. Im not ready to be marry even tho Im 21.. I like to try to make the right choice... before I do something huge and hopefully I won't make a mistake... I will know it in my heart if this is the right person for me... I never really loved any of my ex boyfriends expect I was close to my recent ex-boyfriend bu I don't love him and Im not going to marry him... Its all about whats in your heart and you will eventually know it... God will let you know and has a plan for everyone...Im just taking my time and if a guy wants to talk to me then its all good but Im not going to make a ass out of myself to throw myself on this person ... I go with the flow.... and like I said it will all come in time..... Marriage is something~ I won't be suprise if the right person came along and you guys will be marry even tho you don't beleive it....

It takes time!

gnulinuxman · 06-12-2006, 10:41 PM

I believe in looooooong engagements--will be years before I get married.

Fo'Shizzle · 06-12-2006, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by gnulinuxman

I believe in looooooong engagements--will be years before I get married.

take your time....

gnulinuxman · 06-12-2006, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Cassbugs

take your time....

Yes, boss...

Seriously, i am going to.

Heath · 06-12-2006, 10:54 PM

While that woman did something very positive and very good with the internet. I still would meet the old fashioned way in the real world. I would date her for 2 to 3 maybe 4 years before I finally say okay and open the engagnement ring to her, whoever she may be. God has that special a somebody for everybody.

WhisperHorse · 06-12-2006, 11:03 PM

That would be crazy if someone is rush in marriage... I rather to being with my boyfriend for more than a year when he's ready to asking me to marry him then being engaged with him for maybe 1 to 2 years or so, depends on money if we can afford the marriage then we can go ahead... But, I don't believe in divorce... Divorce is for very good reason like, abuse or cheating on all the time or something like that. Not for aguring or something like that...

moonflower · 06-12-2006, 11:15 PM

right sweetheart

guys are jerks when it comes to relationships
i was rushed into engagement to marriage after one month after we met i told him NO twice he didn't take the no seriously GRR
but my ex man disappeared on me while i am preparing our wedding so i called the wedding off so i never heard from him again

LALALA whoo woo

that the reason why i hate marriage wasting my time parparing my wedding FOR!!!!!!

Steel X · 06-13-2006, 03:13 AM

..and women are jerks in relationships too.

sara1981 · 06-13-2006, 04:07 AM

im tell you that dating online is jerks! and i got break-up with my ex-boyfriend current and im now dating with my new boyfriend his name is John Anderson but i told my mom i wanted to dating with that man!

so im been dating with my 3rd ex-boyfriend who lived in MS and he and me been argue on the e-mail and chat online but he and me to plans to break-up on the relationship and dont talk him anymore.

after im date with my 3rd boyfriend so my mom got idea from called deafs but i told my mom i wont wanted that shit from deafs! and i got unregister from deafs its my decision to chose whatever what i wanted right for me to chose man than my mom's advices!

my mom says dont care what i wanted it to date older man because he is 38 years old but im 25 years old that fair but i told my mom that fair she did dating my dad longtime ago and my dad is older than my mom! they later my step-dad older than my mom i wanted older man like my dad and my step-dad i wanted it i wont wanted my mom's help! i wanted handle myself!

EDGE · 06-13-2006, 01:06 PM

I believe in marriage, always careful with girl.

starrygaze · 07-16-2006, 12:42 PM

I learn lessons alot...

gnulinuxman · 07-16-2006, 12:50 PM

Making online friends can be very fun, but I refuse to date on-line.

moonflower · 07-16-2006, 01:38 PM

me too GLM

Freaky Cat · 08-04-2006, 11:10 PM

its ok to be scared.. but u have to be careful.. thats all.. just take your time and go slow....

just dont rush.. thats all

lilylover72 · 08-05-2006, 11:40 AM

My husband was divorced and I was also. We met each other and we were just friend in few days. Then we become sweetheart. We didnt want get marry again because of divorce issue. We agreed that we can live together and see if we can handle or not. We got so good along together and had no problem. My husband was ready to ask me to marry him. We got married then our 1 year were so bad because of my job and our personal problem. I worked at night and he worked at day time. our marriage turned so hard for us. I had to quit then our marriage turn smooth. Now we are married for 10 years but we are together for 12 years. We love being married! Bad and Good time in our marriage but we never let our love get hurt.

We didnt rush to get married but our first year anniversary turned so bad. huh? but we were stuck together no matter what if bad time. Our love are very strong.

06-12-2006, 01:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
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gnulinuxman Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Wisconsin, USA Posts: 1,740	I would NEVER look for romance on the Internet. Friends, sure, but not romance. And especially not on any Micro$oft-owned site! __________________ --Danny

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06-12-2006, 05:03 PM	#6 (permalink)
Steel X Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: North Carolina Posts: 10,964	I dont believe in marriage either...it doesnt always work for anyone. __________________

06-12-2006, 07:19 PM	#9 (permalink)
gnulinuxman Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Wisconsin, USA Posts: 1,740	Commitment isn't as likely to be there without marriage. __________________ --Danny

06-12-2006, 09:18 PM	#11 (permalink)
moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,874	i don't believe in marriage but MORE not believe in divorce __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08

06-12-2006, 10:37 PM	#14 (permalink)
Fo'Shizzle Love is Blind Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Why you want to know! Posts: 2,124	I believe in marriage... I truely do but it will all come in time.. Im not going to rush into it even tho if the first person asked me to marry that person which already happen to me when I was 18 years old... I laughed but not to be rude.. It was that he was 29 years old and I was 18.. I wanted to explore life before I settle in with a family.. Im not ready to be marry even tho Im 21.. I like to try to make the right choice... before I do something huge and hopefully I won't make a mistake... I will know it in my heart if this is the right person for me... I never really loved any of my ex boyfriends expect I was close to my recent ex-boyfriend bu I don't love him and Im not going to marry him... Its all about whats in your heart and you will eventually know it... God will let you know and has a plan for everyone...Im just taking my time and if a guy wants to talk to me then its all good but Im not going to make a ass out of myself to throw myself on this person ... I go with the flow.... and like I said it will all come in time..... Marriage is something~ I won't be suprise if the right person came along and you guys will be marry even tho you don't beleive it.... It takes time! __________________

06-12-2006, 10:41 PM	#15 (permalink)
gnulinuxman Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Wisconsin, USA Posts: 1,740	I believe in looooooong engagements--will be years before I get married. __________________ --Danny

06-12-2006, 10:54 PM	#18 (permalink)
Heath Banned Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 7,959	While that woman did something very positive and very good with the internet. I still would meet the old fashioned way in the real world. I would date her for 2 to 3 maybe 4 years before I finally say okay and open the engagnement ring to her, whoever she may be. God has that special a somebody for everybody.

06-12-2006, 11:03 PM	#19 (permalink)
WhisperHorse Lexi's Mommy Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Michigan Posts: 7,298	That would be crazy if someone is rush in marriage... I rather to being with my boyfriend for more than a year when he's ready to asking me to marry him then being engaged with him for maybe 1 to 2 years or so, depends on money if we can afford the marriage then we can go ahead... But, I don't believe in divorce... Divorce is for very good reason like, abuse or cheating on all the time or something like that. Not for aguring or something like that... __________________ Proud Mommy of my Alexanderia Gayle Born on May 21, 2008 8 lbs 1.4 oz and 21 1/2 inches She's the love of my life. "Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love."

06-12-2006, 11:15 PM	#20 (permalink)
moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,874	right sweetheart guys are jerks when it comes to relationships i was rushed into engagement to marriage after one month after we met i told him NO twice he didn't take the no seriously GRR but my ex man disappeared on me while i am preparing our wedding so i called the wedding off so i never heard from him again LALALA whoo woo that the reason why i hate marriage wasting my time parparing my wedding FOR!!!!!! __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08 Last edited by moonflower; 06-12-2006 at 11:17 PM. Reason: forgot to add

06-13-2006, 03:13 AM	#21 (permalink)
Steel X Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: North Carolina Posts: 10,964	..and women are jerks in relationships too. __________________

06-13-2006, 04:07 AM	#22 (permalink)
sara1981 Batista's fans Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: North Little Rock,Ar Posts: 3,282	im tell you that dating online is jerks! and i got break-up with my ex-boyfriend current and im now dating with my new boyfriend his name is John Anderson but i told my mom i wanted to dating with that man! so im been dating with my 3rd ex-boyfriend who lived in MS and he and me been argue on the e-mail and chat online but he and me to plans to break-up on the relationship and dont talk him anymore. after im date with my 3rd boyfriend so my mom got idea from called deafs but i told my mom i wont wanted that shit from deafs! and i got unregister from deafs its my decision to chose whatever what i wanted right for me to chose man than my mom's advices! my mom says dont care what i wanted it to date older man because he is 38 years old but im 25 years old that fair but i told my mom that fair she did dating my dad longtime ago and my dad is older than my mom! they later my step-dad older than my mom i wanted older man like my dad and my step-dad i wanted it i wont wanted my mom's help! i wanted handle myself! __________________

06-13-2006, 01:06 PM	#23 (permalink)
EDGE Registered User Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,010	I believe in marriage, always careful with girl.

07-16-2006, 12:42 PM	#24 (permalink)
starrygaze Sundog Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Shinar (Sumer) Posts: 2,320	I learn lessons alot... __________________

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gnulinuxman Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Wisconsin, USA Posts: 1,740	Making online friends can be very fun, but I refuse to date on-line. __________________ --Danny

07-16-2006, 01:38 PM	#26 (permalink)
moonflower will be very busy soon Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 4,874	me too GLM __________________ my little niece born 11/1/08

08-04-2006, 11:10 PM	#27 (permalink)
Freaky Cat My cat Oreo :) Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,182	its ok to be scared.. but u have to be careful.. thats all.. just take your time and go slow.... just dont rush.. thats all __________________ When you miss me just look up to the night sky and remember, I'm like a star; sometimes you can't see me, but I'm always there! Freaky Cat's Blog

08-05-2006, 11:40 AM	#28 (permalink)
lilylover72 I love purple! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: USA Posts: 2,871	My husband was divorced and I was also. We met each other and we were just friend in few days. Then we become sweetheart. We didnt want get marry again because of divorce issue. We agreed that we can live together and see if we can handle or not. We got so good along together and had no problem. My husband was ready to ask me to marry him. We got married then our 1 year were so bad because of my job and our personal problem. I worked at night and he worked at day time. our marriage turned so hard for us. I had to quit then our marriage turn smooth. Now we are married for 10 years but we are together for 12 years. We love being married! Bad and Good time in our marriage but we never let our love get hurt. We didnt rush to get married but our first year anniversary turned so bad. huh? but we were stuck together no matter what if bad time. Our love are very strong.