do u ever have crush that u fell for online or in person?

wildzerica06 · 03-10-2003, 03:12 PM

hmm I had crushes on many guys now and then... but do u ever think havin a crush some1 will turn into a relationship or good friendship?

d · 03-10-2003, 03:28 PM

i dunno. having a crush online is possible but falling in love? nope.

OldNavyGirl · 03-10-2003, 08:27 PM

been there, done that with one of my ex bf. it did worked out but not anymore.

sure i do have some crushes online but doesn't mean i will fall in love right away until i meet in real life too

illustrator · 03-10-2003, 09:09 PM

yes and no

03-11-2003, 12:33 AM

nope - what for?

LeviathanC · 03-11-2003, 02:36 AM

depends on situation such as how distant, what their personality, etc etc

***VamPyroX*** · 03-11-2003, 09:50 AM

I did have a small crush... years ago. It was when I was new to the online AIM thing. That other person changed completely... and I learned my lesson. Now, I don't go for online relationships. I rather meet that person in real life before even considering a relationship.

Waz · 03-11-2003, 04:01 PM

Never had an online crush or fell in love, cannot trust it!

d · 03-11-2003, 06:34 PM

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Originally posted by VamPyroX
I did have a small crush... years ago. It was when I was new to the online AIM thing. That other person changed completely... and I learned my lesson. Now, I don't go for online relationships. I rather meet that person in real life before even considering a relationship.

you said it all! I got a crush on someone right now, but wont even consider a relationship or going out w him until i get to know him in real life.

OldNavyGirl · 03-11-2003, 09:42 PM

i got to agree with vampy.

sweetstrawberry · 03-12-2003, 01:27 AM

I really crush on someone from online but I rather wait until met real person to person then will been feeling fall in love or not because I learn my lesson about last summer. I'm actually stupid but it's my first time.

allisonjoy · 03-12-2003, 07:26 AM

my bf isnt exactly an online bf, i know him n bs, but its a long distance relationship.... we see each other at least once or twice or so a month

zkataqurlxx · 03-13-2003, 03:54 PM

online is kinda hard.. u cant see them EVERYDAII.... i mean.. if u see that person once a while or 2 a month or something or whateverrr.. that is cool.. but NEVER seen each otha and that kinda stupid.. no offense.... i mean.. u can always talk 2 the person ... blah.. i dont know what else 2 saii lol

KingDragon · 03-14-2003, 04:27 PM

Actually Many girl who are fall in love with me but I was not mean to do that. I believe my talk is so wonderful to other people only girl.. that is how girl is fall in love with me. *sigh* i need to stop.

GoKiGOki48rs · 03-19-2003, 01:25 AM

either both of it, only these would have to agreed to work things out ourselves, but i never been in love, only once... but ever since.. oh wellies...

deafgal01 · 03-19-2003, 09:59 AM

I think it takes time to fall in love (and is required to do such in person). I think sometimes a crush can lead to a new relationship/friendship with the person, but not always. I know I've had countless crushes in my lifetime, and not all of them became my friends or boyfriend or whatever. In fact, I got over these crushes because I realized it would not ever be real to be dating the person or knowing the person (famous actors for one...) Other crushes, however, have a chance of friendship/relationship involved depending on how the people involved react/interact.

BabyPhat21 · 03-19-2003, 07:34 PM

I like to flirt online also cuz the communication is easier but I rather have someone real life....even though I have a boyfriend, I used to go online and flirt......is that cheating??

blue_cutie · 03-20-2003, 10:39 PM

well.... i like my online pal a lot even he likes me too cuz he likes asian lady but we didnt like LD then later on, he found a new gf..........thats sad for me. even i knew him for 2 years already........... im jealous and sad................. thats too bad!!!!!!!!! oh well!!!!!!!!!!! thats life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

d · 03-21-2003, 10:54 AM

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Originally posted by BabyPhat21
I like to flirt online also cuz the communication is easier but I rather have someone real life....even though I have a boyfriend, I used to go online and flirt......is that cheating??

well i think its okay to flirt, but not to the point where u would be like, telling each other personal stuff and showing each other body parts, lol.

Strawberry · 03-27-2003, 01:46 AM

Ah, been there, done it.

MDCodeRedFreak · 03-27-2003, 02:13 AM

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Originally posted by Strawberry
Ah, been there, done it.

yeahh - me too ... :-X at erica

wildzerica06 · 03-27-2003, 07:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by d
well i think its okay to flirt, but not to the point where u would be like, telling each other personal stuff and showing each other body parts, lol.

D-

haha unless she takes it to another level on the computer with stupid webcam

but go figures.. but one thing at least I think no one have common sense of waitin u know? life is TOO short anyways

DeafDot · 03-27-2003, 11:49 PM

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Originally posted by Waz
Never had an online crush or fell in love, cannot trust it!

Good. Online meetings and Real-Life meetings are totally different. I speak from a personal experience that went sour.

03-28-2003, 07:27 AM

I prefer face-to-face too. I can't have crush or anything if I have never met a person, even if I chat online for long time. The ppl I chat with, however, they do seem to have crush or whatever, and I am like, cool it. How can you just have friendly talk or chats without "leading them on" to think that there is something more than just great chats? Ugh...

BlackDragon · 03-28-2003, 11:13 PM

It's not a good idea to fall in love with someone you've only met on the Internet.. meeting someone in person and then chatting with them online is different, though..
But I have not had good experiences either way.. so I. give. up. I'm gonna go hide til love finds me, which I don't think it will.

oh well. Life is like that.

***VamPyroX*** · 03-29-2003, 12:36 PM

If there was a gal I was interested with online, I'd keep my distance until I actually meet her in person. Then, I'd probably go further.

At first, I was new and took everything seriously. Now, after 8 years of experience, I know what to watch out for.

d · 03-30-2003, 05:17 PM

Yea, I just learned my lesson, Im not gonna date anyone I meet online until I know more abt that person. This guy I met online, he turned out to be a jackass

wildzerica06 · 03-31-2003, 04:04 PM

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Originally posted by d
Yea, I just learned my lesson, Im not gonna date anyone I meet online until I know more abt that person. This guy I met online, he turned out to be a jackass

yeah better to know him first online longer if he can't wait for u just BLOCK him

heh.. trust me it'll work when u block him he'll get the hint and disappear

***Alex*** · 04-01-2003, 06:05 AM

Been there, done that. It's like a fantasy online, but when reality strikes, it's totally the opposite.

BabyPhat21 · 04-01-2003, 03:46 PM

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Originally posted by Yr SoUL Is MINE
I have had experienced. We were very interesting in each other, i like her very much. Until then I met her , seems that everything's fine. It was fine for several months, somehow we got in a fight online that I heard she has an affair with someone at Gally or whatsoever, I tri to tell her to meet me in person and make it clear with me. But it didn't happen and it doesn't went well. Somehow we stopped contact.

I do not have to learn my lesson, it's set in my heart to whoever...from real world and online

well, it helps if you meet them first but, some people are able to express themselves better online.......there are cheaters everywhere, whether local relationship or long distance, online, real life, married, single, etc............. It is about finding the right person, sometimes you end up with sardines but you keep on fishing and you will get a salmon or whatever is considered a best fish....... as for me, the lucky guy will get the Cat fish.....

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wildzerica06 -Erica- Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: california Posts: 4,340 Blog Entries: 2	do u ever have crush that u fell for online or in person? hmm I had crushes on many guys now and then... but do u ever think havin a crush some1 will turn into a relationship or good friendship?

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*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 31,473	I did have a small crush... years ago. It was when I was new to the online AIM thing. That other person changed completely... and I learned my lesson. Now, I don't go for online relationships. I rather meet that person in real life before even considering a relationship. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

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BlackDragon Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 4	eeehh.. It's not a good idea to fall in love with someone you've only met on the Internet.. meeting someone in person and then chatting with them online is different, though.. But I have not had good experiences either way.. so I. give. up. I'm gonna go hide til love finds me, which I don't think it will. oh well. Life is like that.

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*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 31,473	If there was a gal I was interested with online, I'd keep my distance until I actually meet her in person. Then, I'd probably go further. At first, I was new and took everything seriously. Now, after 8 years of experience, I know what to watch out for. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

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03-10-2003, 03:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
d Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 494	i dunno. having a crush online is possible but falling in love? nope.

03-10-2003, 08:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
OldNavyGirl Premium Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere in Illinois Posts: 3,671	been there, done that with one of my ex bf. it did worked out but not anymore. sure i do have some crushes online but doesn't mean i will fall in love right away until i meet in real life too

03-10-2003, 09:09 PM	#4 (permalink)
illustrator Love in Jesus Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Benbrook Posts: 4,594	yes and no

03-11-2003, 12:33 AM	#5 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	nope - what for?

03-11-2003, 02:36 AM	#6 (permalink)
LeviathanC Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,312	depends on situation such as how distant, what their personality, etc etc

03-11-2003, 04:01 PM	#8 (permalink)
Waz Ex Super ***erator Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Birmingham, West Midland Posts: 685	Never had an online crush or fell in love, cannot trust it!

03-11-2003, 09:42 PM	#10 (permalink)
OldNavyGirl Premium Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere in Illinois Posts: 3,671	i got to agree with vampy.

03-12-2003, 01:27 AM	#11 (permalink)
sweetstrawberry Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 410	I really crush on someone from online but I rather wait until met real person to person then will been feeling fall in love or not because I learn my lesson about last summer. I'm actually stupid but it's my first time.

03-12-2003, 07:26 AM	#12 (permalink)
allisonjoy t e d d y s GIRL Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: rhodey isle Posts: 1,124	my bf isnt exactly an online bf, i know him n bs, but its a long distance relationship.... we see each other at least once or twice or so a month

03-13-2003, 03:54 PM	#13 (permalink)
zkataqurlxx Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Rhode island Posts: 12	online is kinda hard.. u cant see them EVERYDAII.... i mean.. if u see that person once a while or 2 a month or something or whateverrr.. that is cool.. but NEVER seen each otha and that kinda stupid.. no offense.... i mean.. u can always talk 2 the person ... blah.. i dont know what else 2 saii lol

03-14-2003, 04:27 PM	#14 (permalink)
KingDragon Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 507	Actually Many girl who are fall in love with me but I was not mean to do that. I believe my talk is so wonderful to other people only girl.. that is how girl is fall in love with me. sigh i need to stop.

03-19-2003, 01:25 AM	#15 (permalink)
GoKiGOki48rs MamaLicIoUS Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: SOuTh D3RRtY KoAsT Posts: 1,556	either both of it, only these would have to agreed to work things out ourselves, but i never been in love, only once... but ever since.. oh wellies...

03-19-2003, 09:59 AM	#16 (permalink)
deafgal01 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Lost in the woods of Indiana Posts: 203	I think it takes time to fall in love (and is required to do such in person). I think sometimes a crush can lead to a new relationship/friendship with the person, but not always. I know I've had countless crushes in my lifetime, and not all of them became my friends or boyfriend or whatever. In fact, I got over these crushes because I realized it would not ever be real to be dating the person or knowing the person (famous actors for one...) Other crushes, however, have a chance of friendship/relationship involved depending on how the people involved react/interact.

03-19-2003, 07:34 PM	#17 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Sex Univ. Head Mistress Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,107	I like to flirt online also cuz the communication is easier but I rather have someone real life....even though I have a boyfriend, I used to go online and flirt......is that cheating??

03-20-2003, 10:39 PM	#18 (permalink)
blue_cutie Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Philippines Posts: 22	well.... i like my online pal a lot even he likes me too cuz he likes asian lady but we didnt like LD then later on, he found a new gf..........thats sad for me. even i knew him for 2 years already........... im jealous and sad................. thats too bad!!!!!!!!! oh well!!!!!!!!!!! thats life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

03-27-2003, 01:46 AM	#20 (permalink)
Strawberry ~Nixie~ Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Ol'ugly plains where Tornadoes like to lick! Posts: 823	Ah, been there, done it.

03-28-2003, 07:27 AM	#24 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	I prefer face-to-face too. I can't have crush or anything if I have never met a person, even if I chat online for long time. The ppl I chat with, however, they do seem to have crush or whatever, and I am like, cool it. How can you just have friendly talk or chats without "leading them on" to think that there is something more than just great chats? Ugh...

03-30-2003, 05:17 PM	#27 (permalink)
d Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 494	Yea, I just learned my lesson, Im not gonna date anyone I meet online until I know more abt that person. This guy I met online, he turned out to be a jackass

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