Reasons to date a Deaf person - Page 2

21 · 05-06-2008, 09:28 AM

I rather to be with hearing women. They surely know how to have sex.

mountaingirl · 05-06-2008, 10:52 AM

I am hearing woman, in love with a deaf man and I think it's great. I don't have to turn on the water when I pee. When he goes to the bathroom he comes out and we laugh because he didn't realize everything I could hear. And what's great is alot of times, we don't even have to talk because our understanding goes way beyond words, or communication. He has exposed me to a new culture that I LOVE, and has opened my eyes and given me a passion for a world other than mine. It hasn't been easy, but when two people connect, they connect. Every relationship has difficulties communicating and understanding. I think the connection you two have as individuals is more important than how you communicate. At first he always wanted a deaf girl but then he even saw it can go beyond words or signing. Oh, yeah and in public we can sign and make fun of people and they have no idea. Plus they look at us like it's something strange and I think it's great. Everyone needs their eyes opened. Oh, and it's more peaceful for me with a deaf guy, it's more quite and I like that. Plus I'm noisy so we work well together. And me being Loud (wink) is great because he can hear me and I can get right in his ears and don't have to worry about hurting them (wink again). It's great, and when I laugh hard (because I do) I don't have to worry about hurting his ears. Plus, I like things that are different and like I said, dating him has been wonderful for us both and eye opening for us both. Plus, no one wants to be discrimnated against for whatever it is- religion, hearing or not, color, sex, etc. . . So I think it's important we all keep our eyes open because we could miss out on something even greater than what we think.

Gemma · 05-06-2008, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by 21

I rather to be with hearing women. They surely know how to have sex.

Quite the contrary I have had many hearing men telling me that we deaf women rock in bed

AlleyCat · 05-06-2008, 04:23 PM

I am deaf and my boyfriend is hearing. But, he has learned so much sign language it is unbelievable in the short time we've been together. And I've been teaching him about deaf culture and he has picked up on feelings I have towards hearing people who are unkind to us deafies, and he understands. And because of how much sign he has learned we can have complete conversations in sign and I just love that, being able to express myself in my natural form.

~♥~Pinky~♥~ · 05-06-2008, 11:54 PM

I'm deaf and my fiance is hearing. He didn't know that I was deaf when I met him. He was so impressed because his nephew goes to be deaf. He wanted to learn sign language to communicate with me and his nephew. He do have problem with his stuttering sometime. He don't care if I am deaf. The important is personality and love. He is happy with me. I am happy with him too. He can hear anything. I can't hear the water running in sink. I prefer to be with hearing than deaf men!

Liza · 05-17-2008, 10:11 AM

Quite frankly, I think some of you missed the point of this thread. I believe the thread creator wanted this to be a humorous thread about the cute advantages of dating deaf people, nothing too heavy like personal stories or personal preferences/opinions on a soapbox. Phfft! Hang it!

Let's keep it simple and keep a sense of humor.

Liza · 05-17-2008, 10:18 AM

You can get away with listening to crazy music all you want because your date won't give a shit.

shel90 · 05-17-2008, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by 21

I rather to be with hearing women. They surely know how to have sex.

Guess my husband is staying wtih me not because of our great sex life according to your logic, I must be lousy with sex since I am deaf.

NEWIDME · 05-19-2008, 03:41 PM

Well, it's not humorous but to date a deaf person means you WILL get eye contact.

deafbajagal · 05-19-2008, 09:27 PM

I'm not sure why but I found this threat just a little bit insulting to deaf people...kind of making fun of them. I'm sure that's not the OP's intent, though. Just my opinion.

shel90 · 05-19-2008, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by deafbajagal

I'm not sure why but I found this threat just a little bit insulting to deaf people...kind of making fun of them. I'm sure that's not the OP's intent, though. Just my opinion.

What threat??? Did I miss something?

KarissaMann05 · 05-19-2008, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Soonersseth

deaf girls never say no lol

I respectfully disagreed.

I tend to say "no" to them, the most of time. I was only dated once, and after that, I still say "no" to their requests for having a relationship. ^_^

deafbajagal · 05-20-2008, 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by shel90

What threat??? Did I miss something?

I meant thread, not threat. Typo error. Just find it a little insulting...like when someone is saying you can do things because that person can't hear it anyways. If you would not do it to a hearing person, then you should not do it to a deaf person as well.

Not a biggie. Just my thoughts, lol.

Missus_Philos0phyK · 05-20-2008, 07:54 PM

The best way to date a deaf person some moments can be meaningful in many many good or bad ways just to enjoy the silence!

xvxcalvin · 06-08-2008, 04:41 AM

ATTENTION: A REALLY HOT GIRL(HEARING) WITH DEEP MALE VOICE DATED A GUY (DEAF)
GET MY POINT? That could be a reason why girls date a guy. lmao kinda wrong though.

Not to offend anyone but. I am deaf so i gotta watch out for it. =D

sara1981 · 06-09-2008, 02:15 AM

im also deaf and i have hearing boyfriend but he can sign some not lots!

Liebling:-))) · 06-09-2008, 02:41 AM

Funny thread here... I agree most of your posts. I do not need to add anything to my post because you already said which is good enough.

I like most of Islandgal's posts...

Liebling:-))) · 06-09-2008, 02:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Soonersseth

deaf girls never say no lol

Disagree

Liebling:-))) · 06-09-2008, 02:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 21

I rather to be with hearing women. They surely know how to have sex.

It could be that something wrong with you why deaf women can't have sex with you...

jasin · 07-12-2008, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by horselover61

Dating with deaf or HoH in the noisy place and you can sign all you want and not to worry misunderstood where as the hearing ppl having problem understand since the noise interferring the conversation.

I did that the other night on a date with a deaf girl

, we was talking during the movie and no one even knew

orione1even · 07-17-2008, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Loliepop

"because if you don't know asl you won't know when we are pissed at you and yelling at you"

Oh that is SO TRUE!!! Took my hubby FOREVER to figure out I was signing stubborn, "bite me" etc...
-Beth

Silentwolfdog · 07-17-2008, 04:13 PM

Well you can sing in a shower for all you want regardless of whether if you are tone-deaf or not to start with.

One time at a dorm (at school for the deaf), I was talking to myself using voice. (Was bored so I acted out of a story or something. ^^; ) I wasn't unaware that in shower stall beside mine that there was a hoh student taking a shower as well. When I saw her trying to get my attention through a curtain, I peeked out of my stall and she asked me if I was singing. I was so embarrassed and realized that I was talking to myself at that time.
It's a funny moment for me.

Babyface · 08-01-2008, 01:32 AM

dateing a deaf girl would be great since theyll never say "stop yelling at me!" if im signing hahahaha

mebedeaf · 08-10-2008, 04:44 PM

I have a lot of reasons to date a deaf person but for now, I will just list only one reason... I can burp freely anytime I want at home with my future, to-be husband. And no, I'm not fat, overweight, or anything. Even I drink water, I still burp. I think it's mostly me doing that kind of stuff. It's fun, I guess? o_O;

Maria · 08-11-2008, 05:07 PM

Being deaf is the sweetest than being hearing, don't you guys think ?

Celticty · 08-11-2008, 06:43 PM

If you are getting tired of arguing you can just close your eyes.

Celticty · 08-11-2008, 06:44 PM

my ASL teacher told me that one.

***VamPyroX*** · 08-11-2008, 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mebedeaf

I have a lot of reasons to date a deaf person but for now, I will just list only one reason... I can burp freely anytime I want at home with my future, to-be husband. And no, I'm not fat, overweight, or anything. Even I drink water, I still burp. I think it's mostly me doing that kind of stuff. It's fun, I guess? o_O;

That's an interesting excuse...

But... be careful.

Sometimes, you get so used to burping in front of him that you might end up burping in public while on a date with him cuz you forgot you're in a public place.

05-06-2008, 04:23 PM	#34 (permalink)
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05-06-2008, 11:54 PM	#35 (permalink)
~♥~Pinky~♥~ Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,679	I'm deaf and my fiance is hearing. He didn't know that I was deaf when I met him. He was so impressed because his nephew goes to be deaf. He wanted to learn sign language to communicate with me and his nephew. He do have problem with his stuttering sometime. He don't care if I am deaf. The important is personality and love. He is happy with me. I am happy with him too. He can hear anything. I can't hear the water running in sink. I prefer to be with hearing than deaf men! __________________

05-20-2008, 07:54 PM	#44 (permalink)
Missus_Philos0phyK strongwise, only funnier Join Date: May 2005 Location: Funnyville in Tejas Posts: 642 Blog Entries: 1	The best way to date a deaf person some moments can be meaningful in many many good or bad ways just to enjoy the silence! __________________ just love responsibly. -PEACE-

06-09-2008, 02:15 AM	#46 (permalink)
sara1981 Batista's fans Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: North Little Rock,Ar Posts: 3,282	im also deaf and i have hearing boyfriend but he can sign some not lots! __________________

06-09-2008, 02:41 AM	#47 (permalink)
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05-06-2008, 10:52 AM	#32 (permalink)
mountaingirl Mountaingirl Join Date: May 2008 Location: Montana Posts: 2	I am hearing woman, in love with a deaf man and I think it's great. I don't have to turn on the water when I pee. When he goes to the bathroom he comes out and we laugh because he didn't realize everything I could hear. And what's great is alot of times, we don't even have to talk because our understanding goes way beyond words, or communication. He has exposed me to a new culture that I LOVE, and has opened my eyes and given me a passion for a world other than mine. It hasn't been easy, but when two people connect, they connect. Every relationship has difficulties communicating and understanding. I think the connection you two have as individuals is more important than how you communicate. At first he always wanted a deaf girl but then he even saw it can go beyond words or signing. Oh, yeah and in public we can sign and make fun of people and they have no idea. Plus they look at us like it's something strange and I think it's great. Everyone needs their eyes opened. Oh, and it's more peaceful for me with a deaf guy, it's more quite and I like that. Plus I'm noisy so we work well together. And me being Loud (wink) is great because he can hear me and I can get right in his ears and don't have to worry about hurting them (wink again). It's great, and when I laugh hard (because I do) I don't have to worry about hurting his ears. Plus, I like things that are different and like I said, dating him has been wonderful for us both and eye opening for us both. Plus, no one wants to be discrimnated against for whatever it is- religion, hearing or not, color, sex, etc. . . So I think it's important we all keep our eyes open because we could miss out on something even greater than what we think.

05-17-2008, 10:11 AM	#36 (permalink)
Liza Cranial protocologist Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: St Augustine, FL Posts: 4,161 Blog Entries: 2	Quite frankly, I think some of you missed the point of this thread. I believe the thread creator wanted this to be a humorous thread about the cute advantages of dating deaf people, nothing too heavy like personal stories or personal preferences/opinions on a soapbox. Phfft! Hang it! Let's keep it simple and keep a sense of humor.

05-17-2008, 10:18 AM	#37 (permalink)
Liza Cranial protocologist Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: St Augustine, FL Posts: 4,161 Blog Entries: 2	You can get away with listening to crazy music all you want because your date won't give a shit.

05-19-2008, 03:41 PM	#39 (permalink)
NEWIDME Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Location: Detroit Posts: 447	Well, it's not humorous but to date a deaf person means you WILL get eye contact.

05-19-2008, 09:27 PM	#40 (permalink)
deafbajagal Jasmine's Tiger "Lilly" Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 2,107	I'm not sure why but I found this threat just a little bit insulting to deaf people...kind of making fun of them. I'm sure that's not the OP's intent, though. Just my opinion.

06-08-2008, 04:41 AM	#45 (permalink)
xvxcalvin Registered User Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 13	ATTENTION: A REALLY HOT GIRL(HEARING) WITH DEEP MALE VOICE DATED A GUY (DEAF) GET MY POINT? That could be a reason why girls date a guy. lmao kinda wrong though. Not to offend anyone but. I am deaf so i gotta watch out for it. =D

07-17-2008, 04:13 PM	#52 (permalink)
Silentwolfdog a toku fangirl Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Earth Posts: 702	Well you can sing in a shower for all you want regardless of whether if you are tone-deaf or not to start with. One time at a dorm (at school for the deaf), I was talking to myself using voice. (Was bored so I acted out of a story or something. ^^; ) I wasn't unaware that in shower stall beside mine that there was a hoh student taking a shower as well. When I saw her trying to get my attention through a curtain, I peeked out of my stall and she asked me if I was singing. I was so embarrassed and realized that I was talking to myself at that time. It's a funny moment for me. __________________ If you are using red or blue font, there's a good chance that I am not reading your posts due to it being blended into background! I have loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night. ~Sarah William Check my art at http://silentwolfdog.deviantart.com Last edited by Silentwolfdog; 07-18-2008 at 12:47 AM.

08-01-2008, 01:32 AM	#53 (permalink)
Babyface Psychotic Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Mesquite, TX Posts: 311	dateing a deaf girl would be great since theyll never say "stop yelling at me!" if im signing hahahaha __________________ whatcha thinking about? how I could kill you and get away with it (forgot where I heard that)

08-10-2008, 04:44 PM	#54 (permalink)
mebedeaf Registered User Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 107	I have a lot of reasons to date a deaf person but for now, I will just list only one reason... I can burp freely anytime I want at home with my future, to-be husband. And no, I'm not fat, overweight, or anything. Even I drink water, I still burp. I think it's mostly me doing that kind of stuff. It's fun, I guess? o_O;

08-11-2008, 05:07 PM	#55 (permalink)
Maria My love and I Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 8,725	Being deaf is the sweetest than being hearing, don't you guys think ?

08-11-2008, 06:43 PM	#56 (permalink)
Celticty ASL Student/Future Interp Join Date: May 2008 Location: Kent, Washington Posts: 528	If you are getting tired of arguing you can just close your eyes.

08-11-2008, 06:44 PM	#57 (permalink)
Celticty ASL Student/Future Interp Join Date: May 2008 Location: Kent, Washington Posts: 528	my ASL teacher told me that one.