Long distance relationship

BabyPhat21 · 04-21-2003, 05:21 AM

what do you think of Long Distance (LD) relationships? have you been in one before, would you do it (again) and what was it like? I have done it a few times, i am okay with it cuz you know the saying - absence makes the heart fonder........and two you can do your own thing and be focused......you know less distractions and three there is more to talk about......... only bad thing you guys cant spontaneously go to clubs/parties or hang out with friends together........

vvti low rolla · 04-21-2003, 05:55 AM

u and me

wildzerica06 · 04-21-2003, 08:17 PM

okay hmm I don't believe in long distance relationship cuz sometimes guys lose hope and never really discuss about meetin halfway so screw that I prefer local

ChelEler · 04-21-2003, 09:13 PM

I prefer local relationship.

prostock19 · 04-22-2003, 12:39 AM

Try to stay local. Long distance is hard and costly. Few work. When they do though, when you see the other person, damn, you two can't be separated (right TEDDY and Ally??

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04-22-2003, 12:42 AM

Long Distance is hard yes but it can work if love is that strong.

***VamPyroX*** · 04-22-2003, 12:50 AM

I prefer local relationship too. I don't think I would want to have a long distance relationship.

eternity · 04-22-2003, 01:07 AM

Long distance relationship isn't last longer. no offense

04-22-2003, 01:16 AM

I don't like long distance relationships either I would rather try to keep it close than being so far away. If two people love each other so much then they can try to work it out, it's possible.

But I do not like the idea though..

javapride · 04-22-2003, 01:53 AM

I perfer it local unless they have a reason to be LD like job then we the partners can save money and move to thier state ONLY if the love is strong and has gone thru so many obstacles

Weirdo · 04-23-2003, 04:58 PM

I don't believe in LD relationships. They sucked.

illustrator · 04-23-2003, 05:40 PM

anyone would realize that some girl in your location isn't alway right for you. What if any lady or man in other city is actually the one ofr you?? Think about it...

DirtyOldMan · 04-23-2003, 06:06 PM

Aw, schucks! It sucks!!!

04-23-2003, 06:06 PM

Long distance relationship sucks because you cannot be together all the time. But if you really love the person and plan to be together in the end, then you will have to make efforts for it to work. If you cannot stand being separated, then its not for you.

allisonjoy · 04-23-2003, 11:02 PM

omg

yah matt, that's so true- when I see tim we hardly ever keep our hands off each other lol..

hmm well long distance relationships r hard but like every other relationships what r impt is- communication, trust n love. if it was meant to be then it will work n it will last.

Fly Free · 04-23-2003, 11:50 PM

granted yes i agree with most of u saying LD relationships generally doesnt work -- but it CAN work if both parties are loyal to eachother and be open to eachother -- i just think thats basically the thing that keeps the relationship going despite the common knowledge that ppl will get jealous, bicker and bsbssbbsbsbsbsbsbsbs abt 1 or the other partner or even BOTH -- if both partners are strong enuf to withstand that abuse from other ppl then itll work and have success -- at least thats IMO

BabyPhat21 · 04-25-2003, 05:51 AM

I guess I am the only one that likes Long Distance relationships??

04-25-2003, 06:30 AM

No, you're not the only one. Most of my past relationships were LD.

BabyPhat21 · 04-25-2003, 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by kuifje75
No, you're not the only one. Most of my past relationships were LD.

THANK YOU!!! I like my independence, I dont like a clingy guy so I am cool that I cant see them everyday

Irish Devil Dog · 04-25-2003, 07:53 AM

Well, myself have been experienced in LD relationships, I would say if there is trust and faith and knowing the person pretty well.. It'll works out for LD relationship. I believe in LD in SOME ways tho.

Irish Devil Dog · 04-25-2003, 07:57 AM

Geez sorry about this images.. Forgive me I am clumsy :-x

Castleman · 04-25-2003, 09:59 AM

Long distance relationships

Fly Free · 04-25-2003, 01:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BabyPhat21
THANK YOU!!! I like my independence, I dont like a clingy guy so I am cool that I cant see them everyday

im the same way i just cannot stand clingy women

and i LOVEEEEEE my independence

GoKiGOki48rs · 04-25-2003, 03:21 PM

mmm-mmm

of course... Local relationship is the bestest thing that ever happen in their lives

"as if" love will last long as u want to last it longer...

04-26-2003, 04:01 AM

if you are in a LD relationship with this special someone, you'd make it work, worth your time and love! Most of my friends here tell me LD is a better option than local.

MsGiglz · 04-26-2003, 11:27 AM

I have been divorced twice, the guys in MN aren't my type and immatures.. Somehow I met my man, our relationship used to be LD, he was from WVA and I am in MN... we worked out where our lives lead to.. we discussed and He decided to moved in, and I helped him to find job and supported him being apart from his hometown/family.. we worked out good but I know it wasnt easy.. it does cost costly.. ie: visit his family, trips, friends etc. the important to keep communication open, trust, love also supporting. Before, I had few ex LD, didnt work out..

(have faith) hehe

Lasza · 04-26-2003, 08:45 PM

Notice about my past relationships were most LD than local. Survived with them thru. Yes, thru bad and good times. In my opinion, local and LD are similiar but only difference is mileage.
Not mind to have LD relationship cuz I do cherish my independence time. As long as LD lovers keep contact with me by e-mails and different ways.

BabyPhat21 · 04-27-2003, 03:02 AM

good to hear both pro and cons about local and Long distance...

BearBeauty · 09-15-2006, 08:41 AM

My current relationship, I've been seeing since Sept 2005. It's been LD almost the whole relationship. At first it was cuz he was in NC and I was in Maine.. then I moved to NC to be with him. Now it's LD again.. he's overseas for the army and I'm in NC. We make it work by trying to talk at least every day. We are honest with each other and if we have problems, we talk about them. our whole relationship has been discussion and solve problems. But we've never had an argument because we discuss everything in detail. IF one of us going through a bad time, the other is always there to listen or offer advice.

TweetyBird · 09-15-2006, 09:35 AM

some are lucky and some are not work out.. it depend on.. good thing my bf live in ala so we found each other hehe.. now he live with me since and i helped him found job.. he love job already, workt here 1 month now.. hehe..

04-21-2003, 05:21 AM	#1 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Sex Univ. Head Mistress Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,108	Long distance relationship what do you think of Long Distance (LD) relationships? have you been in one before, would you do it (again) and what was it like? I have done it a few times, i am okay with it cuz you know the saying - absence makes the heart fonder........and two you can do your own thing and be focused......you know less distractions and three there is more to talk about......... only bad thing you guys cant spontaneously go to clubs/parties or hang out with friends together........

04-21-2003, 09:13 PM	#4 (permalink)
ChelEler Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5,555	I prefer local relationship. __________________ -ChelEler- =^.~=

04-22-2003, 12:39 AM	#5 (permalink)
prostock19 BAH HUMBUG!!! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Formerly RI, Now Albany, NY Area Posts: 3,308	Try to stay local. Long distance is hard and costly. Few work. When they do though, when you see the other person, damn, you two can't be separated (right TEDDY and Ally?? ) __________________

04-22-2003, 12:50 AM	#7 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Hell Posts: 27,844	I prefer local relationship too. I don't think I would want to have a long distance relationship. __________________ Check out my city... CLICK HERE! (If you already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

04-25-2003, 07:53 AM	#20 (permalink)
Irish Devil Dog ~Taken by my mystery hun~ Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 1,464	Well, myself have been experienced in LD relationships, I would say if there is trust and faith and knowing the person pretty well.. It'll works out for LD relationship. I believe in LD in SOME ways tho. Last edited by Irish Devil Dog; 04-25-2003 at 08:07 AM.

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04-21-2003, 05:55 AM	#2 (permalink)
vvti low rolla my bitches Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,026	u and me

04-21-2003, 08:17 PM	#3 (permalink)
wildzerica06 -Erica- Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: california Posts: 4,160 Blog Entries: 2	okay hmm I don't believe in long distance relationship cuz sometimes guys lose hope and never really discuss about meetin halfway so screw that I prefer local

04-22-2003, 12:42 AM	#6 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	Long Distance is hard yes but it can work if love is that strong.

04-22-2003, 01:07 AM	#8 (permalink)
eternity :naughty: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,611	Long distance relationship isn't last longer. no offense

04-22-2003, 01:16 AM	#9 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	I don't like long distance relationships either I would rather try to keep it close than being so far away. If two people love each other so much then they can try to work it out, it's possible. But I do not like the idea though..

04-22-2003, 01:53 AM	#10 (permalink)
javapride Java's Big Island Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: hawaii Posts: 6,509	I perfer it local unless they have a reason to be LD like job then we the partners can save money and move to thier state ONLY if the love is strong and has gone thru so many obstacles

04-23-2003, 04:58 PM	#11 (permalink)
Weirdo LaLa Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 485	I don't believe in LD relationships. They sucked.

04-23-2003, 05:40 PM	#12 (permalink)
illustrator Love in Jesus Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Benbrook Posts: 4,594	anyone would realize that some girl in your location isn't alway right for you. What if any lady or man in other city is actually the one ofr you?? Think about it...

04-23-2003, 06:06 PM	#13 (permalink)
DirtyOldMan is as dirty as ever! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Tulip town Posts: 618	Aw, schucks! It sucks!!!

04-23-2003, 06:06 PM	#14 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	Long distance relationship sucks because you cannot be together all the time. But if you really love the person and plan to be together in the end, then you will have to make efforts for it to work. If you cannot stand being separated, then its not for you.

04-23-2003, 11:02 PM	#15 (permalink)
allisonjoy t e d d y s GIRL Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: rhodey isle Posts: 1,124	omg yah matt, that's so true- when I see tim we hardly ever keep our hands off each other lol.. hmm well long distance relationships r hard but like every other relationships what r impt is- communication, trust n love. if it was meant to be then it will work n it will last.

04-23-2003, 11:50 PM	#16 (permalink)
Fly Free Just me Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Wherever i want to be LOL Posts: 9,101	granted yes i agree with most of u saying LD relationships generally doesnt work -- but it CAN work if both parties are loyal to eachother and be open to eachother -- i just think thats basically the thing that keeps the relationship going despite the common knowledge that ppl will get jealous, bicker and bsbssbbsbsbsbsbsbsbs abt 1 or the other partner or even BOTH -- if both partners are strong enuf to withstand that abuse from other ppl then itll work and have success -- at least thats IMO

04-25-2003, 05:51 AM	#17 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Sex Univ. Head Mistress Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,108	I guess I am the only one that likes Long Distance relationships??

04-25-2003, 06:30 AM	#18 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	No, you're not the only one. Most of my past relationships were LD.

04-25-2003, 07:57 AM	#21 (permalink)
Irish Devil Dog ~Taken by my mystery hun~ Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 1,464	Geez sorry about this images.. Forgive me I am clumsy :-x

04-25-2003, 09:59 AM	#22 (permalink)
Castleman Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 346	Long distance relationships

04-25-2003, 03:21 PM	#24 (permalink)
GoKiGOki48rs MamaLicIoUS Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: SOuTh D3RRtY KoAsT Posts: 1,556	mmm-mmm of course... Local relationship is the bestest thing that ever happen in their lives "as if" love will last long as u want to last it longer...

04-26-2003, 04:01 AM	#25 (permalink)
Deaf258 Guest Posts: n/a	if you are in a LD relationship with this special someone, you'd make it work, worth your time and love! Most of my friends here tell me LD is a better option than local.

04-26-2003, 11:27 AM	#26 (permalink)
MsGiglz Finally we are Mr & Mrs.. Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: WVa Posts: 4,254	I have been divorced twice, the guys in MN aren't my type and immatures.. Somehow I met my man, our relationship used to be LD, he was from WVA and I am in MN... we worked out where our lives lead to.. we discussed and He decided to moved in, and I helped him to find job and supported him being apart from his hometown/family.. we worked out good but I know it wasnt easy.. it does cost costly.. ie: visit his family, trips, friends etc. the important to keep communication open, trust, love also supporting. Before, I had few ex LD, didnt work out.. (have faith) hehe __________________

04-26-2003, 08:45 PM	#27 (permalink)
Lasza Premium Lurker Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Mile High State Posts: 2,509	Notice about my past relationships were most LD than local. Survived with them thru. Yes, thru bad and good times. In my opinion, local and LD are similiar but only difference is mileage. Not mind to have LD relationship cuz I do cherish my independence time. As long as LD lovers keep contact with me by e-mails and different ways. Last edited by Lasza; 05-21-2003 at 05:53 PM.

04-27-2003, 03:02 AM	#28 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Sex Univ. Head Mistress Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,108	good to hear both pro and cons about local and Long distance...

09-15-2006, 08:41 AM	#29 (permalink)
BearBeauty Registered User Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 818	My current relationship, I've been seeing since Sept 2005. It's been LD almost the whole relationship. At first it was cuz he was in NC and I was in Maine.. then I moved to NC to be with him. Now it's LD again.. he's overseas for the army and I'm in NC. We make it work by trying to talk at least every day. We are honest with each other and if we have problems, we talk about them. our whole relationship has been discussion and solve problems. But we've never had an argument because we discuss everything in detail. IF one of us going through a bad time, the other is always there to listen or offer advice.

09-15-2006, 09:35 AM	#30 (permalink)
TweetyBird ~ Fall ~ Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 21,406	some are lucky and some are not work out.. it depend on.. good thing my bf live in ala so we found each other hehe.. now he live with me since and i helped him found job.. he love job already, workt here 1 month now.. hehe.. __________________ CHECK MY ALBUM PICTURES!!!!

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