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09-15-2006, 09:45 AM
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My cat Oreo :)
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yes it take time and patience to have a long distance relationship. sometimes it can make your loved ones more deeply in love and especially spaces. sometimes it can lead to problems. it is always good for a couple. but not always. grr..
Respect, Communication, Trust, Honesty, Understanding and more are most important part of the relationship. It take two to tango and work. Yes alot of works to keep relationship healthy and happy!
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09-15-2006, 10:25 AM
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I've been in two, first didn't work out and the second has had MANY struggles and problems to overcome :-/ I don't really suggest them, when you like someone you want to be NEAR them!
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09-15-2006, 10:43 AM
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If we re living in the past, yes i agree with you that LD sucks. However, with better technology especially with VP and webcam - you can talk to your gf/bf face to face. I think the reason why LD sucks because you can't see him/her but with VP, you can see him/her everyday.
Of course, LD takes more work than local realtionship. But LD can work if one person commits to other person and one willing to move to be with him/her. IMO LD is only good if you re just in boy/girlfriend phase but in marriage? no way. I believe LD realtionship should eventually lead to marriage. IF not, then you re better off having local realtionship and fool around 
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09-15-2006, 11:07 AM
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09-15-2006, 11:24 AM
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My cat Oreo :)
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09-15-2006, 02:41 PM
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Sometimes good things comes out of this like someone you've been waiting for all your life...True love aren't hard to find only if you don't give up and keep trying 
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09-15-2006, 05:43 PM
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GO UTAH JAZZ!!
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My long distance romance turned into 4 1/2 yrs of wonderful marriage so far
 ........I believe in some things being meant to be by way of God's plan though. I never would do long distance relationships before.
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09-15-2006, 09:14 PM
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GO PATRIOTS!
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: New England
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If we make some cloned person then should be no problem on LDR...I would take real person to come here with me and leave cloned person over there.
 Common word - sucks on LDR I heard and talked and read ADer's posts about LDR last spring time: http://www.alldeaf.com/marriage-dati...-been-ldr.html Good luck on anyone who having LDR.
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09-16-2006, 12:45 AM
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I've been alone 2 months now.. And I love my boyfriend more every day even though I won't touch him or hold him for 10 more months. there are nights I'm sad because I miss him holding me. But I always remember that this separation will make us love each other more when it's over. |
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09-16-2006, 03:45 PM
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My bf of almost 5 years just moved back home. We were LD for 3 years. I moved away to go to school, then moved back then he moved away from his family because they were driving him nutz. He finally moved home
If the two people in the relationship are commited to one another it will work. There must be trust and loyalty, it can work, you just have to work at it. Communication is the key |
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09-20-2006, 10:18 PM
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My cat Oreo :)
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yeah alot of people are different.. it take two to tango to keep the relationship going and communication is the key, of coursE! IF both really love each other.. Love will overcome and they will still be together no matter what the consquences is. both have to work on it to keep it alive and happy!
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09-21-2006, 12:56 AM
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My love and I
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I don't mind a LD relationship if, a man keeps in contact with me by emails or IM -- just to show me if, he is still interestin' in me and how much he stays faithful to me in case, if we meet each other in person one day. Just never know.
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09-21-2006, 10:59 AM
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09-25-2006, 09:14 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: state of fast horses, fast ladies and hillbilly drunkards
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sometimes LD relationship is suckin bec when ya meet the man or woman and get know them in a while , eg: visiting etc then when start live together with kids or something like that some people wld show true colors.. maybe be terrible, or upsetting etc so there is always remains to be unseen..
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09-25-2006, 09:24 AM
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My 3 darling princesses
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Interesting cons/pros thread here...
Look the example about Prince Charles and Camilla... They have been with for over 30 years and married... Guess what, their marriage goes on rock after 18 months marriage... They want divorce...  My hubby & I saw each other 13 times and married... we have been married for over 21 years now...
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09-25-2006, 01:07 PM
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theyre getting a divorce?!??!?! didnt know that
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09-25-2006, 03:02 PM
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i have been in like 3 long distance relationships before. my last long distance relationship was the worst. i will never do long distance again. never. the guy was just melodramatic. and we just kept breaking up and getting back together. it was too much stress for me. i will never do a long distance relationship again. never.
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09-25-2006, 06:26 PM
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I completely agree with this. There were times when my bf and I didnt talk for a week. I didnt know what he was doing, who he was doing it with... I trusted him, and he trusted me in return. With any relationship though, LD or NOT, trust and communication are very important. |
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09-25-2006, 09:24 PM
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My cat Oreo :)
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whoa i didnt know that prince charles and camilla are getting divorced??? thats new to me!
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09-26-2006, 12:51 AM
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Batista's fans
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im known my boyfriend because he lives in Wiggins,MS and im visit him for first time last years and my plans going there again this December before christmas or new year day im hope so.
im been dating with him for months till i got break-up with him and i cant think about my boyfriend they later about almost 2 months and i type to him on dating websites and i told him i got jobs and lots of more but i will trying get relationship back when im see him again this December im would pray for that!
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09-26-2006, 02:12 AM
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My 3 darling princesses
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Divorce ground: Camilla is too lazy Camilla spent alot of money on nonsense things Camilla smoke again Camilla said that her love for Charles is gone due his control and judgement...  They living their own way now... Perhaps I should not take it serious until official then....
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09-26-2006, 03:53 AM
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My love and I
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Do you have any " back up " statement for it ? Any link for me to read ?
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09-30-2006, 02:15 AM
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The worst part about LD relationships,... is when you can't help that they have to be so far from you. It can suck. these days I'm doing the LD thing again cuz of army... and I hate it.. But we talk every day which helps.
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