Love is not important.

Men are too hard to be with.
I am not a lesbian or anything like that.
Why not be by myself?
I can raise my own child... after
I get a job.

It is too stupid to compete over
some stupid men...
And do whatever to keep him forever.

As if Love is not important.
Oh forget about it. I'll go to the sperm bank.

Yes, You can be by yourself I am a single mother rasing two children alone and times been tough but it got better.


But there been a time I missed being with a guy who I can cuddled with and have a candlelight dinner with. But, I don't have to get married to him or anything. Just have fun once a while, Everyone deserved that.

TTT said:

Men are too hard to be with.
I am not a lesbian or anything like that.
Why not be by myself?
I can raise my own child... after
I get a job.

It is too stupid to compete over
some stupid men...
And do whatever to keep him forever.

As if Love is not important.
Oh forget about it. I'll go to the sperm bank.

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Trust me ...being a single parent is a damn tough job. Think hard and long before you head down to a sperm bank.

Been there ....counting five years now.

but


my sister was broken hearted... her son's father didn't want her...
and she is stuck with a child, raising him by herself.

Damn if they do, damn if they don't...
I shouldn't depend on men...

I wish I could meet a guy right for me... very dependable...
I wish I wish I wish...... but not all guys are saints.

Men are like a box of chocalates, You never know what cha gonna get!!!!!

i alway believe in love... and i believe i would alway look for it for whole of my life.

it sounds like looking for love in all the wrong places -- been there, done that with the women -- now im taking a break and take a step back for the time being

TTT said:

my sister was broken hearted... her son's father didn't want her...
and she is stuck with a child, raising him by herself.

Damn if they do, damn if they don't...
I shouldn't depend on men...

I wish I could meet a guy right for me... very dependable...
I wish I wish I wish...... but not all guys are saints.

Men are like a box of chocalates, You never know what cha gonna get!!!!!

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Give men a break. There are many men who are dependable. Not all women are saints or dependable either so it goes both ways.

I always follow this quote....which is...Better to have loved and lost than never.

You say that men are like a box of chocolates. You are right. I intend to try every chocolate in the box until I find the right one. It is even fun to see what unfolds.

You say that men are like a box of chocolates. You are right. I intend to try every chocolate in the box until I find the right one. It is even fun to see what unfolds

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I ate one lemon chocolate before I went on a date and I didn't like the lemon so that is maybe why I didn't like the guy.

Cheri said:

I ate one lemon chocolate before I went on a date and I didn't like the lemon so that is maybe why I didn't like the guy.

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Thanks for the laugh! Needed it to start Monday off with!

hahaha Cheri, you're funni...

Meg is right, not all men are like that, just have to keep seeking and dating most of them to find the right one for you....

I see alot nice guys here in AD but some of them are already taken....I guess you could say it too late ...

Meg and Cheri are still seeking for the one, but they have alot of patient than I do LOL

Laci Peterson wasn't lucky.

Laci Peterson didn't get a chance to
eat the whole box of chocalate.

It is like she picked a chocalate with poison in it.

Or maybe she knew who Scott Peterson was, but didn't care,
ignore all the wrong sign.

Well hopefully I don't pick chocalates that have some nuts in them...
that would describe men who is heart is hard and cold.

I hope I don't pick chocalates that have cream or coconut in them...
then that would describe men who is gooey, slimy, and flaky.

I hope I pick a chocalate that has fudge inside, that is my favorite,
because that would be a man who is soft and warm on the inside,
very yummy, very understanding, very sexy and charming.

why do you have to keep blaming men? even though I'm a man too...?

you only hate men because of what happened in your relationship with your boyfriend/husband...and you dont really hate every man in the world...you actually hate the man who left you or something like that..so use your head wisely. :roll:

hell, some men hate women too and it doesn't mean we are gay either...sometimes we feel that women only care about themselves and always want attention and wants money all the time or whatever like that...but I know not all women are like that anyway...that's only when you are in a relationship like one...

and of course love is important..what's the hell is the matter with you? you make it sound like you don't even love your kids either. You have to find someone to love, but you can still love your friends and families, so I agree you don't always need someone to be there for you and take care of you or whatever like that but I dont think there's any need to be sexist and blame men because not all of them are like that anyway...hell, my grandfather was a great man ever lived, and even my uncle was the possibly one of the best uncles I could ask for...never argued, nor hit anyone or betrayed anyone before to his friends or families...he's just plain mature and honest.

so, it just takes time to find the right person so...whining about men isn't going to help...just stop it and move on with your future with your kids and your job or whatever like that.

Sorry

I didn't have a bad relationship with a man.
I didn't really have a relationship with a man.
I never had a boyfriend, and I never had a husband.

The first guy, it was just a crush, he was just my friend...
and I asked him to have sex with me, because I was 20 years old
and a virgin. But he was a virgin himself. He didn't know what
he was doing. He was cool, he was no problem.

Then I asked the second guy, I was 25 years old, and
he fucked me too hard... I don't know if that was sex or what?
Because he had cerebral Palsey, I didn't think he knows what
he is doing. He was just a pain in the ass. He already had a girlfriend.
Really, it was really a week. I didn't want to be with that guy....
I mean I wanna to concentrate on getting my degree.
The sex didn't really satisfy me, and I did something bad on purpose to keep
him away... but at the same time I really wanted him, but I wanted to
make sure he doesn't ever take me back. But dang, my love was stronger than my good judgement.
I don't want to be blinded like that. My mom married my good looking dad,
and she was beat up badly by him... she knew he was evil... but
she kept taking him back. And I don't want to be like my mom. You know
how women who are physically abuse by their husband or boyfriend, and they take them back.
He didn't hit me or anything, but he was verbally abusing me. And I don't
want that. So I did a very very very bad thing to him.... I wanted to make sure he doesn't take me back. Because I know I would foolishly be with that guy... I didn't know that my love was sooo strong.... it is hard to control, and I was obsessed with him, and I tried so hard to control myself. I
cried and cried and cried. Now I am over him....
It was a tough decision to make... and a wise decision.
It was like putting a cake in front of Oprah, and she has to struggle
not to eat that... if she eat it, she will gain weight, if she doesn't eat
it, she will lose weight.
So Jeff was like a cake... I gotta get rid of him.

Then I asked a 3rd guy, he is my last, I was 30 years old, and his penis is deformed.... He couldn't get it in my pussy. Cause his penis was curvy,, and
the bone or whatever it was inside the penis was like a straw, (you know the one you drink out of the cup).
He was just a friend, he asked me to be his girlfriend, but I didn't want to.
I kept sending him signal, that I am not interesting in him.
He was ugly and bald head... and he was insecure about himself....
He wouldn't leave me alone... and plus he had drug problem, always
wanted me to give him money. He hit me a couple of time, because
I was angry with him for stealing my money.

So basically I didn't have a boyfriend and I am never married.
I don't have kids.

Really I had a simple life. And I am a spoiled brat and like living
with my mom. That is why I said that Love is not important...
I am happy.

I never made love. I am not a lesbian, I just don't have any interest of touching someone or be intimate with...

When I was at CSUN, I met Eric, I was not interesting in him.
I like my life the way it is...
Marriage is a joke. And I don't want to put up with men. I guess I
won't ever get married... or have kids.

No men ever buy me any roses, no men ever french kiss me, no men
ever take me out to a nice resturant with nice fancy dishes and foods, and
me dressing up in gown with makeup on. No men ever say he loves me.
No men ever romance with me. I never had valentine day or new year romance. I didn't have any experience like that....
I guess I am virgin of that and I don't care.
No men ever used me... if they tried, I'll see to that they don't.

And I didn't even eat one of the chocalates in the box, I'll pass.

TTT said:

I didn't have a bad relationship with a man.
I didn't really have a relationship with a man.
I never had a boyfriend, and I never had a husband.

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You never will have a deep, warm relationship with a man if you keep going after them in such a shallow way. What can you expect from a man if you just throw your body at him? You don't get respect or love that way. Why should a guy take you out to nice places and bring you roses if you just say, "Hey, let's have sex"?

Do you realize that you can go out with guys and just have a good time as friends, without sex? Guys can be interesting. Some of them actually have good personalities, sharp minds, interesting hobbies, enjoy sports, etc. You can go to parks, the beach, sports games, museums, etc. You don't have to go to someone's bed to have a good time.

And I don't want to be like my mom. You know
how women who are physically abuse by their husband or boyfriend, and they take them back.

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You don't need to be like your mom. But you do need to be more careful about how you pick your men, and how you take care of yourself. You will not find a good man if you don't behave like a good woman.

When guys are bad, stay away from them, period! Don't let them hit you, yell at you, steal from you, etc. Don't worry about hurting their feelings if they are bad to you. Call the police if you need help.

I am happy.

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Are you really? Your words don't sound happy.

No men ever buy me any roses, no men ever french kiss me, no men
ever take me out to a nice resturant with nice fancy dishes and foods, and
me dressing up in gown with makeup on. No men ever say he loves me.
No men ever romance with me. I never had valentine day or new year romance. I didn't have any experience like that....

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I am not trying to sound mean or cruel to you. But you will never find a nice man who will treat you well if behave trashy. If you want a man to respect you, you must respect yourself first. Throwing yourself at men is not respecting yourself, and it is dangerous.

I am scare.

I just didn't like the smoochy huggy part. It gives me chill.
I was a tomboy...
I just want SEX, I want to FUCK FUCK FUCK.
Just like if family member asked me to go to the party...
I wanted to skip the greetings... and lets EAT... yummy.
I don't wanna talk talk talk and hug hug hug....
I like to skip the boring part, and go for the fun part.

I just don't have patient for that. I like to tell it like it is.
I just wanna go at it...

I think men are worser than women, they are the one who
want a deep deep love relationship.

I did that, I went out with a guy who was 19 and I was 31, he was way to young, and we were friends, no sex. Me and him went out together...
I did want to fuck him, but damn, we didn't have any privacy.

Damn... who invented this romance love shit!!!! I'm calling this number...
1 800 male escort!!!! I'm gonna order me a nice hunk beautiful man and a large pizza. LOL!!!!

My mom said no... she doesn't want me to date men.
Yes she is protecting me, cause men hurt her, and she doesn't
want me to be hurt. My sister too sleep around with men and
do not want to get marry.

I know it is a fornication and it is bad and a sin.

That is why I wanted female friends to tell me or advise me
on how to do it. I have never live with my dad. And
I don't know how a marriage work....
I don't know anything about men and love....

Maybe female friends could set me up or something....
set me up with a guy and set me up with a date or something.
Give me some makeup tips and tell me what I need to do, tell
me what I need to say, or something.

It would be wonderful to have this experience...
a man treats me like a queen...
give me love and love, I know I would love that...
But I don't believe that... I only see that on t.v. such as
the dating game or soap opera.
I don't think that is real to me...
I would love to try it, but if love is so great, why many
people divorce and stuff???

Well, Reba, want to wade into this again?
Let me get some popcorn first.

Beowulf said:

Well, Reba, want to wade into this again?
Let me get some popcorn first.

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I think she passed on Reba maybe she needs your advice? Looks like to me TTT needs a male advice badly.. so care to offer? hon?

Okay, I'll bite.
Men are dogs.
Woof woof.


I'm in the doghouse now, huh?

oh really?

Then I did the right thing...

I didn't miss a thing. Whew.

Beowulf said:

Okay, I'll bite.
Men are dogs.
Woof woof.


I'm in the doghouse now, huh?

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ROFLMAO!! Some advice huh? much a bad doggie!