Big Age Difference in relationship

crazyerica32 · 04-03-2003, 08:14 PM

Actually I'm just wonderin if anyone of u datin anyone probably older or younger than u does cause any problems for ur family or yourself?

Mod Edit: This thread was merged with another with the same topic.

Fly Free · 04-03-2003, 09:28 PM

nahh Purrs -- ive dated a womyn who is 9 years younger than me so no i dont see why age has to be a problem

crazyerica32 · 04-03-2003, 09:53 PM

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Originally posted by Fly Free
nahh Purrs -- ive dated a womyn who is 9 years younger than me so no i dont see why age has to be a problem

heh yeah I wanted to know what are other people's opinion on it and if my parents happen to see it they have to eat their own word on that idea

Fly Free · 04-03-2003, 09:58 PM

hahahah Purrs i uddy how u feel

crazyerica32 · 04-03-2003, 09:59 PM

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Originally posted by Fly Free
hahahah Purrs i uddy how u feel

heh

SeXi ChIcK21 · 04-03-2003, 10:15 PM

I wouldnt want to date anyone who is 10 years younger or older than me. I would like to date 1-3 years older than me. They know what to do in the relationship.

I love you boo.... Mwah!

BabyPhat21 · 04-03-2003, 10:33 PM

I rather date someone within 5 years ahead of me or below me. As long as they have a car, job, a place of their own to live, go to school, and is mature....then cool but if an immature person, there is a lot of people that are 29 and no job and still living with mommy or have a baby (TSK TSK) so it depends on the individual but I hate when I see a guy that is with a girl young enough to be his daughter.......

04-03-2003, 11:09 PM

My last ex was 5 years younger than me, and whoa... was he immature!
Babyphat, you are absolutely right... maturity is the key. I would rather to have someone who knows what he wants in life. I hate it when 17 year old girls send me IMs asking me if I have girlfriends and wanting to cyber sex with me.

I'm 27, so leave me alone, girls! Ha ha ha... Age really does not matter to me, as long as the person is mature and knows what he wants.

***VamPyroX*** · 04-04-2003, 02:02 AM

I don't think that age should be a problem, as long as they are reasonable and meaningful. 25 and 18 is fine. 50 and 18 is... ugh!

nozobo · 04-04-2003, 02:07 AM

I know a hearing person at age of 19 years old married a 40 years old lady.... I dunno why... they're still happy after their 5th year anniversary...

04-04-2003, 02:21 AM

Well.. I don't care if I dated a guy who is 5 years younger than me but not 6 years (high school age) but I don't want to date anyone who is over oh let's say 35..

vvti low rolla · 04-04-2003, 03:28 AM

when i was 18, i dated 28 yrs old. hell, she looks like 18
when i was 19, i dated 26 yrs old
when i was 18, i dated 14 yrs old

t e d d y · 04-04-2003, 06:59 PM

to me age doesn't make any difference. why would everybody cares about the age. my girlfriend's 18 and i'm 16-

Fly Free · 04-04-2003, 07:04 PM

i would care if the significant other is under 18 -- i was 32 when i dated my ex gf who was 23 and didnt have any problem in regards to her age as long as she was already over 18

MDCodeRedFreak · 04-04-2003, 07:08 PM

hehe - yeahhh ..... i'd rather date someone who's 4 to 7 years apart .... once again, no comment

***VamPyroX*** · 04-05-2003, 11:02 AM

I wouldn't even care if my girlfriend was 18! However, if I was old enough to be her father, that might be a different story.

GoKiGOki48rs · 04-05-2003, 12:56 PM

mmmm me a little bit but it doesnt matters to me..
only i need to find my comfortable thats the difference from regreting from the difference of ages..

allisonjoy · 04-05-2003, 08:25 PM

i always date younger guys

, i have NO idea why. it just happened that they r younger not on purpose. but, i would rather date someone near my age, not with such a huggee difference.

~Heather~ · 04-06-2003, 01:28 AM

Age doesnt matter to me...its just a number. Im 27 and my boyfriend is 36.

***Alex*** · 04-06-2003, 03:08 AM

I agree with Heather. Age is nothing but a number. Don't get me wrong, I won't date a jailbait if you know what I mean. But I don't see anything wrong with my current girlfriend who is 6 years younger than me, nor the girl I dated who was 5 years older than me.

Teekie · 04-06-2003, 04:08 AM

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Originally posted by VamPyroX
I don't think that age should be a problem, as long as they are reasonable and meaningful. 25 and 18 is fine. 50 and 18 is... ugh!

What about 41 and 22?

**Lasza** · 04-06-2003, 05:11 AM

Who care about the numbers? I used heavy crush on 49 years old guy when I was 29 years old. Never forgot about that. But not consider him as "Sugar Daddy" I admire his talking and experience what he have been thru. Make me realize the age numbers are so what. As long as we are Legal Adult like 18+.

d · 04-06-2003, 06:52 AM

i used to date someone younger than me but it was a huge turn off in the end and i ended up dumping him. I'd rather date someone who is older than me, 2 to 5 years older.

***VamPyroX*** · 04-06-2003, 03:03 PM

What's the oldest or youngest person any of you ever dated?

***VamPyroX*** · 04-06-2003, 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Teekie
What about 41 and 22?

Hmm... depends on what goes on between them.

04-06-2003, 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by VamPyroX
What's the oldest or youngest person any of you ever dated?

Okay, the youngest would have to be 3 months younger than me, the oldest would have to be a bit more than 3 years.

Whambambam · 04-06-2003, 05:49 PM

Im 40 years old and my wife is 22 years old. Im having the best relationship ever. Love is great. Sex is great. Cant ask for anything more.

allisonjoy · 04-06-2003, 06:11 PM

thats cooL! im happy for you!

im 18, my b/f's 16. loves great, the sex's great, i cldnt ask for more either, HAHAHA

lilredridinhood · 04-06-2003, 06:13 PM

wow. when u were 18 she was born.

04-06-2003, 06:26 PM

oh well.

04-03-2003, 08:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
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04-03-2003, 09:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
Fly Free Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Roosted in the DC area! Posts: 9,101	nahh Purrs -- ive dated a womyn who is 9 years younger than me so no i dont see why age has to be a problem __________________ Enjoying life!

04-03-2003, 09:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
Fly Free Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Roosted in the DC area! Posts: 9,101	hahahah Purrs i uddy how u feel __________________ Enjoying life!

04-04-2003, 02:02 AM	#9 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: 40.18, 58.41 Posts: 34,193	I don't think that age should be a problem, as long as they are reasonable and meaningful. 25 and 18 is fine. 50 and 18 is... ugh! __________________ Check out my city... C L I C K H E R E! (If you've already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

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04-03-2003, 10:15 PM	#6 (permalink)
SeXi ChIcK21 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Boring Illinois Posts: 33	I wouldnt want to date anyone who is 10 years younger or older than me. I would like to date 1-3 years older than me. They know what to do in the relationship. I love you boo.... Mwah!

04-03-2003, 10:33 PM	#7 (permalink)
BabyPhat21 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CALI Posts: 3,107	I rather date someone within 5 years ahead of me or below me. As long as they have a car, job, a place of their own to live, go to school, and is mature....then cool but if an immature person, there is a lot of people that are 29 and no job and still living with mommy or have a baby (TSK TSK) so it depends on the individual but I hate when I see a guy that is with a girl young enough to be his daughter.......

04-03-2003, 11:09 PM	#8 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	My last ex was 5 years younger than me, and whoa... was he immature! Babyphat, you are absolutely right... maturity is the key. I would rather to have someone who knows what he wants in life. I hate it when 17 year old girls send me IMs asking me if I have girlfriends and wanting to cyber sex with me. I'm 27, so leave me alone, girls! Ha ha ha... Age really does not matter to me, as long as the person is mature and knows what he wants.

04-04-2003, 02:21 AM	#11 (permalink)
BostonIceFire Guest Posts: n/a	Well.. I don't care if I dated a guy who is 5 years younger than me but not 6 years (high school age) but I don't want to date anyone who is over oh let's say 35..

04-04-2003, 03:28 AM	#12 (permalink)
vvti low rolla Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,026	when i was 18, i dated 28 yrs old. hell, she looks like 18 when i was 19, i dated 26 yrs old when i was 18, i dated 14 yrs old

04-04-2003, 06:59 PM	#13 (permalink)
t e d d y Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: new york :-Þ Posts: 931	to me age doesn't make any difference. why would everybody cares about the age. my girlfriend's 18 and i'm 16-

04-04-2003, 07:04 PM	#14 (permalink)
Fly Free Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Roosted in the DC area! Posts: 9,101	i would care if the significant other is under 18 -- i was 32 when i dated my ex gf who was 23 and didnt have any problem in regards to her age as long as she was already over 18 __________________ Enjoying life!

04-04-2003, 07:08 PM	#15 (permalink)
MDCodeRedFreak Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: In a place where Code Red flows Posts: 1,642	hehe - yeahhh ..... i'd rather date someone who's 4 to 7 years apart .... once again, no comment __________________ ~The Code Red Freak

04-05-2003, 11:02 AM	#16 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: 40.18, 58.41 Posts: 34,193	I wouldn't even care if my girlfriend was 18! However, if I was old enough to be her father, that might be a different story. __________________ Check out my city... C L I C K H E R E! (If you've already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

04-05-2003, 12:56 PM	#17 (permalink)
GoKiGOki48rs Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: SOuTh D3RRtY KoAsT Posts: 1,556	mmmm me a little bit but it doesnt matters to me.. only i need to find my comfortable thats the difference from regreting from the difference of ages..

04-05-2003, 08:25 PM	#18 (permalink)
allisonjoy Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: rhodey isle Posts: 1,124	i always date younger guys , i have NO idea why. it just happened that they r younger not on purpose. but, i would rather date someone near my age, not with such a huggee difference.

04-06-2003, 01:28 AM	#19 (permalink)
~Heather~ Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Midwest, USA Posts: 1,328	Age doesnt matter to me...its just a number. Im 27 and my boyfriend is 36.

04-06-2003, 03:08 AM	#20 (permalink)
*Alex* Administrator Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Garfield, NJ Posts: 3,982 Blog Entries: 1	I agree with Heather. Age is nothing but a number. Don't get me wrong, I won't date a jailbait if you know what I mean. But I don't see anything wrong with my current girlfriend who is 6 years younger than me, nor the girl I dated who was 5 years older than me. __________________ "Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can read." - Mark Twain "Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful." - Seneca the Younger "Be fearful when others are greedy. Be greedy when others are fearful." - Warren Buffett

04-06-2003, 05:11 AM	#22 (permalink)
Lasza Premium Lurker Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Mile High State Posts: 2,509	Who care about the numbers? I used heavy crush on 49 years old guy when I was 29 years old. Never forgot about that. But not consider him as "Sugar Daddy" I admire his talking and experience what he have been thru. Make me realize the age numbers are so what. As long as we are Legal Adult like 18+.

04-06-2003, 06:52 AM	#23 (permalink)
d Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 494	i used to date someone younger than me but it was a huge turn off in the end and i ended up dumping him. I'd rather date someone who is older than me, 2 to 5 years older.

04-06-2003, 03:03 PM	#24 (permalink)
*VamPyroX* bloody phreak from hell Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: 40.18, 58.41 Posts: 34,193	What's the oldest or youngest person any of you ever dated? __________________ Check out my city... C L I C K H E R E! (If you've already visited yesterday, visit again today!)

04-06-2003, 05:49 PM	#27 (permalink)
Whambambam Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Northeast Philly Posts: 52	Big Age Difference in relationship Im 40 years old and my wife is 22 years old. Im having the best relationship ever. Love is great. Sex is great. Cant ask for anything more.

04-06-2003, 06:11 PM	#28 (permalink)
allisonjoy Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: rhodey isle Posts: 1,124	thats cooL! im happy for you! im 18, my b/f's 16. loves great, the sex's great, i cldnt ask for more either, HAHAHA

04-06-2003, 06:13 PM	#29 (permalink)
lilredridinhood Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Ht0wn, TX!:-D Posts: 616	wow. when u were 18 she was born.

04-06-2003, 06:26 PM	#30 (permalink)
SyrOrange Guest Posts: n/a	oh well.

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