Non Health Related Off Topic Issues - Page 4

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by LuciaDisturbed

You sound like a 80 year old grandmother who shows her charm by pinching the cheeks of her grandchildren who are already too old for that kind of affection (such as a 14 year old grandson) and saying, "wow, you have gotten so big and so adorable!"

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Aghori

I don't give a shit about your personal issue.

Alldeaf.com isn't a place where people blah blah about personal issue, seek for healing that something we aren’t fully aware of physically or mentally health. Personal issue belong to home because neither internet nor we solve your issue anyway.

I can't help noticing some people don't know how to do the "discussion" to educate each other. Most of them tend to say you don't know our personal issue, because you never been there, so what! I don't give a SHIT! Period...

Remember Internet is just entertainment, nothing personal. Internet offers you unlimited options but always have to be careful. Hackers and demoralizers are waiting out there in Internet. Also don’t forget, Internet could make you lonely, having imaginative friends, having fantasy, withdrawing from society, and words that didn't exist in daily life. I come to Internet for entertainment where we enjoy talking about something positive, teasing, and exchange words which make the members feel welcome. If you come to Internet for healing or seek help then you come to wrong place.

Emotional vampire is what I seen in Alldeaf.com.

Where is your motivation? Where is your personal touch?

I see a thread… Hugs Thread, what happen to hug like real person, I can feel warm, soft, and arms around my neck, wow what a good feeling. But Hugs on Internet will not help at all.

I see a person crying, I cry. I see a person sad, I offer hug. I see a person frustating, I offer help. I see a person lonely, I offer companyship.

Unfortunately, Alldeaf only offer is… words, words didn’t express any emotions at all because words spoken from Internet are basically carry the codes that we don’t understand. You see why human feeling, touching are much stronger than languages. If I see a person speaking different language but same emotion as us, then we offer same thing.

Sometimes I seen a person typing angry message on his/her blog similar to angry letter because they use their blogs or letters to express out their angry and frustrating but they do come back anytime soon. Why? Of course we are humans.

since when was teasing another person something that makes them feel welcome?

aghori, if you haven't noticed, there are message boards designed to support others, so the internet is a place where we can receive and provide encouragement.

furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with ad'ers helping others. if you don't give a shit about the rest of us, that's your perogative, but don't come crying to me if you are ever in need of someone who will listen.

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by LuciaDisturbed

Yeah, and I typed STFU right back at you because you absolutely have NO idea what it is like to have PTSD or any other psychiatric issues.

i second that.

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Tousi

I also think that "room" could use a spiritual advisor as well.

Frisky Feline · 02-03-2009, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Aghori

I don't give a shit about your personal issue.

Alldeaf.com isn't a place where people blah blah about personal issue, seek for healing that something we aren’t fully aware of physically or mentally health. Personal issue belong to home because neither internet nor we solve your issue anyway.

I can't help noticing some people don't know how to do the "discussion" to educate each other. Most of them tend to say you don't know our personal issue, because you never been there, so what! I don't give a SHIT! Period...

Remember Internet is just entertainment, nothing personal. Internet offers you unlimited options but always have to be careful. Hackers and demoralizers are waiting out there in Internet. Also don’t forget, Internet could make you lonely, having imaginative friends, having fantasy, withdrawing from society, and words that didn't exist in daily life. I come to Internet for entertainment where we enjoy talking about something positive, teasing, and exchange words which make the members feel welcome. If you come to Internet for healing or seek help then you come to wrong place.

Emotional vampire is what I seen in Alldeaf.com.

Where is your motivation? Where is your personal touch?

I see a thread… Hugs Thread, what happen to hug like real person, I can feel warm, soft, and arms around my neck, wow what a good feeling. But Hugs on Internet will not help at all.

I see a person crying, I cry. I see a person sad, I offer hug. I see a person frustating, I offer help. I see a person lonely, I offer companyship.

Unfortunately, Alldeaf only offer is… words, words didn’t express any emotions at all because words spoken from Internet are basically carry the codes that we don’t understand. You see why human feeling, touching are much stronger than languages. If I see a person speaking different language but same emotion as us, then we offer same thing.

Sometimes I seen a person typing angry message on his/her blog similar to angry letter because they use their blogs or letters to express out their angry and frustrating but they do come back anytime soon. Why? Of course we are humans.

For me, aghori's -->

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I come to Internet for entertainment where we enjoy talking about something positive, teasing, and exchange words which make the members feel welcome.

I rather be having crazy wild fun on interent since it is ONLY interent. it is all ABOUT SHOW.

Mrs Bucket · 02-03-2009, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with ad'ers helping others. if you don't give a shit about the rest of us, that's your perogative, but don't come crying to me if you are ever in need of someone who will listen.

Aghori has always been like this and I can appreciate it. He doesn't care about fantasy. He separates fantasy from reality.

Internet is fantasy. Real life is reality.

He has a wife and that's me.

We support each other and we have family and friends that helps and listen to each other.

This is where we draw the line at fantasy and reality.

**Liebling:-)))** · 02-03-2009, 07:53 AM

I see nothing wrong that Mrs Bucket express her view alone on this thread since the thread creator asked us for our feedback or discuss openly with respect.

I do not see anything that Mrs Bucket quote to judge direct you but express her own POV she see what she beleive in?

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrs Bucket

Aghori has always been like this and I can appreciate it. He doesn't care about fantasy. He separates fantasy from reality.

Internet is fantasy. Real life is reality.

He has a wife and that's me.

We support each other and we have family and friends that helps and listen to each other.

This is where we draw the line at fantasy and reality.

you just don't get it, mrs bucket, do you?

supporting others here on ad is real.

in fact, i peruse a bipolar and schizophrenia board in which i've made many close friends who truly do understand what i am going through. tell me, how is that not reality?

your reality and my reality are completely different. you do not have a mental illness. i do.

until which time you have mental illness, please do not tell the rest of us what is real and what isn't.

i'm happy for you and aghori about the fact that you have family and friends to talk to, but some of us aren't that fortunate. some of us only have the company of internet friends because we are estranged from our families, have been abused by them or have other issues that explain why we don't have the support of family or friends.

one more thing. please don't tell me about reality vs. fantasy. i live two realities called bipolar and ptsd every day of my life, thank you very much. i don't need someone like you telling me the difference between what is real and what isn't.

**Liebling:-)))** · 02-03-2009, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with ad'ers helping others. if you don't give a shit about the rest of us, that's your perogative, but don't come crying to me if you are ever in need of someone who will listen.

Yes, we see no problem to help each other if you want to rant/vent or any problem to ask us for our feedback, support or whatever then create your own thread instead of post middle of debate threads to make

over health issues which it doesn't relate to the title of threads. That's what we are trying to tell you...

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Frisky Feline

I rather be having crazy wild fun on interent since it is ONLY interent. it is all ABOUT SHOW.

if you'd like to have "crazy, wild fun" on the internet, perhaps you shouldn't read sensitive threads. if i'm expected not to read threads that trigger my rapid cycling, then you should be expected not to read threads that may be upsetting in nature.

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:02 AM

liebling,

who said that what i just wrote was off-topic?

it isn't off-topic. aghori said he didn't give a shit about the rest of us who suffer from mental illness and i addressed his comment saying that the internet can be a place where we offer support and encouragement to others. what i find ironic is how someone can tell another person that their post is off-topic just because they don't agree with what was said.

Frisky Feline · 02-03-2009, 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

if you'd like to have "crazy, wild fun" on the internet, perhaps you shouldn't read sensitive threads. if i'm expected not to read threads that trigger my rapid cycling, then you should be expected not to read threads that may be upsetting in nature.

well it is not in my control that alot of threads have combined fun and serious that i can't avoid reading it until i know its serious post then i skip that post and look at other posts. i do leave it alone and dont make any posts according to any poster's and respect for whoever post it. i focus on someone's else's posts that i would reply or make comments. it s not in my control of reading the combined with fun and serious posts in those threads.

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Frisky Feline

well it is not in my control that alot of threads have combined fun and serious that i can't avoid reading it until i know its serious post then i skip that post and look at other posts. i do leave it alone and dont make any posts according to any poster's and respect for whoever post it. i focus on someone's else's posts that i would reply or make comments. it s not in my control of reading the combined with fun and serious posts in those threads.

it is in your control if you add ad'ers to your ignore list who write posts that are too sensitive for you to handle.

Mrs Bucket · 02-03-2009, 08:09 AM

Hear Again, you have a problem with receiving criticism/feedback yet you have no problem hurling insults to others.

This is where I am trying to tell you that you need to take it easy .. BIGTIME with your emotional and psychological issues here in this forum.

Stop telling us we don't understand you! Of course I don't and I don't think I want to know you because the bipolar part of you always rips out at me.

Do you think that is easy to get to know a person? I take personal responsibility and I do not divulge other information about myself that I know is emotionally damaging. I keep them to myself and only share to family and close friends.

This is called personal responsibility. Maybe this is the wrong site for you to frequent?

Frisky Feline · 02-03-2009, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

it is in your control if you add ad'ers to your ignore list who write posts that are too sensitive for you to handle.

if you say its in my control that i can provoke anyone's if they make serious posts which i dont do that! i see someone makes serious posts then i skip the posts and look at other posts. did you know every threads are ALMOSt all of mental health issues that i can't avoid reading it. If i knew the "mental health thread" i would not come to read it. If it's the "I confess to thread" I can read it but i see there are several mentioned in mental health as well. thats why i said it is not in my control.

**Liebling:-)))** · 02-03-2009, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

if you'd like to have "crazy, wild fun" on the internet, perhaps you shouldn't read sensitive threads. if i'm expected not to read threads that trigger my rapid cycling, then you should be expected not to read threads that may be upsetting in nature.

Example:

Frisky Feline create a thread with a title "post dirty jokes"... It's up to ADers to post any dirty pictures to her thread... one of ADers come to rant/vent her/his health issues to her thread to end

then fighting and upset each other... no jokes thread after that...

Mrs Bucket create a thread about crafts... ADer rant/vent her/his health issues to her thread to end

- no more craft pictures after vent/rant to her thread...

Something relate to the title of thread, then you can vent/rant your health issues - share experience, etc or create your thread.

I hope you get what I am trying to explain you?

Frisky Feline & Mrs Bucket, please accept my apology for use your name as an example here.

**Liebling:-)))** · 02-03-2009, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

liebling,

who said that what i just wrote was off-topic?

it isn't off-topic. aghori said he didn't give a shit about the rest of us who suffer from mental illness and i addressed his comment saying that the internet can be a place where we offer support and encouragement to others. what i find ironic is how someone can tell another person that their post is off-topic just because they don't agree with what was said.

NO, I am not saying that you wrote

here but try to explain you.

aghori's post relate the title of creator's thread to express what he see... You know that ADers don't have to make post to each thread... It's up to ADer who want to make post to give other ADer support, feedback, etc. We would give you feedback, support etc when we know how to help you... but post the middle of debate threads to make

which is not relate to the title of threads, that's what the thread creator tried to tell us...

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:16 AM

liebling,

if i wish to respond to every post in this thread, that is my perogative.

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:17 AM

liebling,

i've been on forums long enough to know what being on topic and off-topic mean.

Mrs Bucket · 02-03-2009, 08:18 AM

Frisky Feline and Liebling - thank you so much beautiful ladies

You both echoed exactly what we've been trying to say.

It's as if this site is "One Flew over the cuckoo's nest!" and I don't even want to know who Nurse Ratched is!

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Frisky Feline

if you say its in my control that i can provoke anyone's if they make serious posts which i dont do that! i see someone makes serious posts then i skip the posts and look at other posts. did you know every threads are ALMOSt all of mental health issues that i can't avoid reading it. If i knew the "mental health thread" i would not come to read it. If it's the "I confess to thread" I can read it but i see there are several mentioned in mental health as well. thats why i said it is not in my control.

it is in your control. that's what the ignore list is for.

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrs Bucket

It's as if this site is "One Flew over the cuckoo's nest!" and I don't even want to know who Nurse Ratched is!

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:21 AM

funny how mrs bucket doesn't mind making jokes about those of us who wish to discuss mental health topics. nice.

Frisky Feline · 02-03-2009, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

it is in your control. that's what the ignore list is for.

i rather be skipping to read the serious posts than putting the ignore list. I don't have problem becaue i dont intent to provoke or talk back to anyone's serious posts. I see someone posts so serious then i leave them alone. I find my own way to seeking another posts. thats what i am doing since.

i am not kind of person who provokes anyone's posts that related with mental health or sensitive issues! in fact, i know this interent is just a fastasty like aghori and mrs bucket mentioned it.

Frisky Feline · 02-03-2009, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrs Bucket

Frisky Feline and Liebling - thank you so much beautiful ladies

thank you too.

**Jiro** · 02-03-2009, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

liebling,

who said that what i just wrote was off-topic?

it isn't off-topic. aghori said he didn't give a shit about the rest of us who suffer from mental illness and i addressed his comment saying that the internet can be a place where we offer support and encouragement to others. what i find ironic is how someone can tell another person that their post is off-topic just because they don't agree with what was said.

yes I do agree that Internet does offer a solace to people but not all sites are for all and this AD is not for all either because it's not a "Pysch Ward" site. There are bunch of other sites specifically for that. The trend in AD changes every few months - few months ago... it was deaf-blind topic. Now it's mental health topic (to be specifically... PTSD/Abuse/Bipolar). But its sole purpose remains the same - a congregation for deaf people for general thing especially "deaf rant" and debates.

In short - I believe Mrs. Bucket & Aghori are saying - either STFU or grow a thick skin because this AD is not a "Pysch Ward" site. We cannot tip-toe on everything otherwise.... that would be pretty damn boring, si? There are other "Pysch Ward" related forums specifically for your special needs so go there! This site is NOT RECOMMENDED for serious mental-related users because you are expected to get mocked, trashed, triggered, etc. AD is for only one special needs - DEAF! and then bunch of general stuff just to spice it up.

KEEP IT COOL and don't forget to purchase Jiro's Special Edition Sunglasses for $19.95!

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

yes I do agree that Internet does offer a solace to people but not all sites are for all and this AD is not for all either because it's not a "Pysch Ward" site. There are bunch of other sites specifically for that. The trend in AD changes every few months - few months ago... it was deaf-blind topic. Now it's mental health topic (to be specifically... PTSD/Abuse/Bipolar). But its sole purpose remains the same - a congregation for deaf people for general thing especially "deaf rant" and debates.

In short - I believe Mrs. Bucket & Aghori are saying - either STFU or grow a thick skin because this AD is not a "Pysch Ward" site. We cannot tip-toe on everything otherwise.... that would be pretty damn boring, si? There are other "Pysch Ward" related forums specifically for your special needs so go there! This site is NOT RECOMMENDED for mental-related goers because you are expected to get mocked, trashed, triggered, etc. AD is for only one special needs - DEAF! and then bunch of general stuff just to spice it up.

KEEP IT COOL and don't forget to purchase Jiro's Special Edition Sunglasses for $19.95!

i'm sorry, but i thought deaf people were affected by mental illness, no?

since that is the case, what's the problem with people offering support? telling us not to discuss mental illness is an unfair form of censorship.

Hear Again · 02-03-2009, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Frisky Feline

i rather be skipping to read the serious posts than putting the ignore list. I don't have problem becaue i dont intent to provoke or talk back to anyone's serious posts. I see someone posts so serious then i leave them alone. I find my own way to seeking another posts. thats what i am doing since.

i am not kind of person who provokes anyone's posts that related with mental health or sensitive issues! in fact, i know this interent is just a fastasty like aghori and mrs bucket mentioned it.

the internet is not fantasy. while it is true that you can't believe everything you read on the internet, that doesn't mean someone can't receive support and encouragment from others who understand what they are going through. i've made many friends here on ad who know what it is like to have mental illness and to me, that is real.

Mrs Bucket · 02-03-2009, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

funny how mrs bucket doesn't mind making jokes about those of us who wish to discuss mental health topics. nice.

We're both DeafBlind but don't be literally blind and mute to Jiro's sage wisdom and don't you dare say it's censorship because we are not equipped to handle other emotionally imbalanced members.

Frisky Feline · 02-03-2009, 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Hear Again

the internet is not fantasy.

remember it is in your word. that is your belief.

i consider this interent is fantasy in my own words. you see thats where we both have different opinions. so this interent is fantasy.

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02-03-2009, 08:02 AM	#101 (permalink)
Hear Again Registered User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 20,122 Blog Entries: 6	liebling, who said that what i just wrote was off-topic? it isn't off-topic. aghori said he didn't give a shit about the rest of us who suffer from mental illness and i addressed his comment saying that the internet can be a place where we offer support and encouragement to others. what i find ironic is how someone can tell another person that their post is off-topic just because they don't agree with what was said.

02-03-2009, 08:09 AM	#104 (permalink)
Mrs Bucket Registered User Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 3,941	Hear Again, you have a problem with receiving criticism/feedback yet you have no problem hurling insults to others. This is where I am trying to tell you that you need to take it easy .. BIGTIME with your emotional and psychological issues here in this forum. Stop telling us we don't understand you! Of course I don't and I don't think I want to know you because the bipolar part of you always rips out at me. Do you think that is easy to get to know a person? I take personal responsibility and I do not divulge other information about myself that I know is emotionally damaging. I keep them to myself and only share to family and close friends. This is called personal responsibility. Maybe this is the wrong site for you to frequent?

02-03-2009, 08:16 AM	#108 (permalink)
Hear Again Registered User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 20,122 Blog Entries: 6	liebling, if i wish to respond to every post in this thread, that is my perogative.

02-03-2009, 08:17 AM	#109 (permalink)
Hear Again Registered User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 20,122 Blog Entries: 6	liebling, i've been on forums long enough to know what being on topic and off-topic mean.

02-03-2009, 08:18 AM	#110 (permalink)
Mrs Bucket Registered User Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 3,941	Frisky Feline and Liebling - thank you so much beautiful ladies You both echoed exactly what we've been trying to say. It's as if this site is "One Flew over the cuckoo's nest!" and I don't even want to know who Nurse Ratched is!

02-03-2009, 08:21 AM	#113 (permalink)
Hear Again Registered User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 20,122 Blog Entries: 6	funny how mrs bucket doesn't mind making jokes about those of us who wish to discuss mental health topics. nice.