‘I’m fat, and it’s my fault’—and other reactions to calling obesity a disease

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Hearing his doctor utter the "o" word pushed Steven Bryan to shed weight.

At 6 feet and 287 pounds, he was morbidly obese, his doctor warned him in November 2011. That news forced the 50-year-old Anaheim, Calif., resident to re-examine his habits. He made some changes, dropped below 250 and now hovers around 257. His body mass index, however, is 34.9, which, according to the medical establishment, still makes him obese.

“I'm fat, and it's my fault,” Bryan says.

It’s no surprise, then, that he criticizes last week’s decision by the American Medical Association to classify obesity as a disease. Some experts say the decision increases the chance that doctors and insurance companies could more effectively treat the 78 million adults and 12 million children in the United States with BMIs above 30.

Steven Bryan (Photo courtesy of Steven Bryan)

To Bryan, that wrongly fashions the medical establishment as a crutch—one with more meds and more billings for more doctor appointments.

He is one of several obese Americans who wrote this week on Yahoo News about their struggles with weight and their views on the AMA’s declaration. To see how they perceive their condition—described as “a disability,” “a disease,” “a choice,” “a wake-up call” or simply “a challenge”—we asked them the following questions: Does the AMA’s definition alter their outlook on obesity? Does calling it a disease help or hinder their personal weight battles? Is this a positive or negative step in battling the country’s bulge?

Bryan says the answer is clear. “The AMA's declaration is nothing more than a happy pill designed to make overweight people like myself shift the blame for our own bad habits,” he writes.

“I ate what I wanted when I wanted: cookies, ice cream, chips, and other comfort foods. I overindulged to fill emotional voids in my life. In many ways, I followed the guidelines of Miss Piggy, the Muppet who said, ‘Never eat anything you can’t lift.’”

The key, he says, was his “obnoxious and brutally honest” doctor, who encouraged him to trade in cookies for carrots.

He adds that his doctor had him recite what he ate the previous day and explained how his choices—for instance, “an innocent bowl of unsweetened cereal” for breakfast—boosted the chance he’d snack immediately when arriving at work.

He now eats in moderation. He notes the occasional chocolate-frosted doughnut is OK and, importantly, his choice.

“The AMA gets a big fat ‘F’ from me for their enabling declaration,” Bryan says. “If I want to change [my life], it's up to me. Over the last year, I made some lifestyle changes and have been keeping my weight under control, but I have more work to do.”

Can a ‘squishier’ physique possibly be contagious?

Alyce Wilson plugged her numbers into a BMI calculator and read the result: 32.6.

“Imagine my joy when I learned that,” she says in jest.

So, she rounded up her actual height by a half-inch, to 5 foot 5 inches. “Hey, I had to try,” she says.

Her BMI fell slightly—to 31.6. “Depending on which height I use, I'd have to lose 10 to 15 pounds just to be considered overweight.”

Wilson, a 42-year-old mom who lives in Philadelphia, is on the fence about the obesity designation. She writes somewhat tongue in cheek that her newfound obesity “disease” is a chronic condition that could kill her if left untreated.

The cause of her condition? Bad genes? Too many muffins? An out-of-whack thyroid? Nope.

“Much as I love him, I have my toddler to blame,” she says.

Before her pregnancy, Wilson dropped 70 pounds over five years and kept if off. “But I was not one of those pregnant women who look like a snake that swallowed a basketball,” she says. “I packed on 58 pounds and became an ancient fertility figure.”

Now, three years after the birth of her son, she’s halfway to losing her “baby fat,” as she calls it. “If only reading books aloud or changing diapers burned more calories.”

And when she plugged her numbers into the BMI calculator, she worried about what her “squishier” composition will entail.

“What will this new ‘disease’ designation mean? Will people avoid me, fearing my fat is contagious?” she asks. “It's also startling—and annoying—to learn I'm no longer considered healthy, especially when that isn't true. Two years ago, growing frustrated with the glacial pace of my postpartum weight loss, I consulted my physician. She ran a series of diagnostic tests that determined I was in the healthy range for everything she tested. Some obese people have associated health problems, but I'm not one of them.”

She does hope, however, that the AMA’s decision will expand coverage for weight-loss treatments and prevention and increase insurers’ leeway.

“I'm cautiously optimistic,” Wilson says.

Laura Cushing (Photo courtesy of Laura Cushing)

Looking forward to a healthy future—with assistance

Tagging obesity as a choice ignores its complexity, Laura Cushing says.

Cushing, 43, carries 324 pounds on her nearly 6-foot frame. She’s down from 390 three years ago. “While morbid obesity doesn't have a pleasant ring to it,” the West Berlin, N.J., resident writes, “it's certainly preferable to some of the names I've been called in reference to my body size.”

Compounding her frustration over losing weight are the myriad costs. See the doctor? That’s a co-pay. Meet with a nutritionist? Another co-pay. Blood tests and body exams set her back even more. Weight Watchers, at $65 for three months of online tools and $15 for in-person meetings, is too pricey. The $400 annual gym membership is out of her budget.

And because Cushing is unsure about the exact cause of her being overweight, losing the pounds hasn’t been easy.

“Is my obesity a ‘self-inflicted’ disease?” she asks. “I can pinpoint a number of factors: My father and his side of the family were all obese, meaning it is partially genetic. I have had limited access to healthy foods at times during my life that doubtlessly contributed. I suffered a crippling car accident that impeded my ability to be active for quite a while. And, yes, there's also just that I enjoy eating and haven't always made the best choices.”

She thus welcomes a change in how the country views obesity. “But other steps are needed,” she argues. “Education, individual action, and community support must be achieved as well. I am hoping that instead of pushing an agenda of diet drugs and surgeries, there will be more focus on treatments that include healthy eating and exercise.”

“It is a slow process,” she acknowledges.

‘I’m fat, and it’s my fault’—and other reactions to calling obesity a disease
 
I've never tried using one of those BMI calculator things but just tried a few from different sites online ... mine is 20.2 currently but 6 months ago it was 17.2
 
It's a misconception, it's only partially anyone's fault. The truth is the food industry makes addictive food so people will keep eating. Yet, people are not absolved from blame, there is information out there and some choose not to use it.

In truth: It's hard to lose weight, but once you understand it you can easily keep it off.


A difficult, but rewarding choice.
 
Yup get rid of all the junk that is engineered to make you crave it and high fructose corn syrup and problem solved. Oh wait, the corn lobby is as big as the oil lobby. No wonder there is ethanol in our gas, corn in everything we eat and they are converting thousands of acers of public land into corn fields.
 
I can see both views, that it could just make it an excuse, not a personal responsibility, but that it can also benefit the people trying to lose weight, getting them more access to things to reach their goals.

The excuse part of it worries me, as does this whole movement we've had lately that "curvy girls are better than skinny girls". Most of the people calling themselves curvy ain't curvy, okay J'lo is curvy, Roseanne Barr is fat. So if you look more like Barr....you ain't curvy. The whole double standard of it sticks in my craw too.....can you imagine the shitstorm that start if I made a group fit chicks are better than fat chicks? But that's what's happening, they're tearing down a whole group of people to make them feel better about themselves. That's not self confidence. If I see that picture of Marilyn Monroe one more time talking about how she was a plus size 16 and sexy Ill scream. She was not. They got that size 16 from a dress made for her in England, British sizes. It's like people live on a different planet, have seen pictures of her? Her movies? Was she a plus size? No, her measurements were 36-23-36, an extreme hour glass figure that most women couldn't even attain which makes it truly ironic that she's the standard...you'd have better luck starving yourself to a size 00 than looking like her without corsets and surgery. But the most tragic thing about it is , they trying to say....see, she was a big girl....I can go eat more donuts now.

That's just not a healthy view , and we have enough problems with that in America. I hear all the time that I'm "too skinny". My BMI is 19.3 well within normal weight. I'm just smaller than whoever is calling me skinny. I personally prefer lean, or fit, but whatever. I'm not bony, I'm all muscle and little fat. But when I talk about working out I hear "why are you working out? You don't need to lose weight". For the love of Christ!!! That is exactly what the problem is. That attitude, that you should work out to lose weight. No you shoul work out to be healthy! And them you wouldn't get overweight. People that are fit and in good good shape aren't that way just because if their genes....they work at it.

Can you tell this annoys me to no end? Lol
 
I'm also on my iPhone with the little tiny keys so just ignore all the Is where Is should be because I don't feel like fixing em all

Ugh see I did it again lol ignore the I's where O's should be hahaha
 
I'm not sure what to think about that new "illness" designation....the cynical side of me thinks that there is a power play or something else going on with Big Pharma and the Medical Establishment...somebody is making money or getting favors off that designation....it's not anything related to do with actual health.

In terms of causation, I think obesity is a combination of factors.
 
Kids need to be outside all day playing instead of sitting inside stuck on their iPads, computers, and video games.
 
maybe the enabler who buys and do everything for the fat person got lot to answer for....
i saw this programme fattests teenager in the world (american boy)that kid should been put in the care system years ago or his mother given strick contact so many like that...parent /spouse may aswel give them strong poisen they go to their death quicker and less pain
 
Yesterday at the store a mom asked her son what he wanted to eat later. He said get me a soda and some dounuts. And she did!
 
there ya go you be paying tax soon for kid to stuff himself, his stomach bye pass diabetid2 gangeren his breathing machines adapted house etc etc.hospital bed if insurence no pay and i shall still read on here people not gettinh HA or CI generally having shit time no fault of their own in america
 
I am on this stupid protein diet to try to shed these pounds. I work out a lot but I discovered that I eat too much carbs so I changed my way of eating. It is so hard! Protein-only foods are boring. lol
 
Ambrosia has a fine point, obesity is a disease - period! Want to to be healthy? Throw out the fads, here are the basics:

1) Account for any medical conditions or syndromes before you make your own wrong diagnosis. This group is rare, so on to #2.

2) Proper Diet and Exercise = Fit and healthy. No other pill, fad diet, witches brew or what have you can replace that.

3) Food is not the same, they are all different. Learn the types of each nutrient and how the body utilizes it. For instance, a donut WILL NOTsatisfy the complex carb and fiber requirement to balance the chemistry inside. This results in an insulin spike that causes you to crash, metabolism decreases, excess simple carbs ends up being stored as fat.

4) Exercise at an increased intensity, determine your maximum heart rate, exercise at a 60% level or higher and KEEP IT THERE in timed intervals. Add resistance (or weights) to maintain muscle mass.

5) Yes, you can have cheat day, serving is STILL in moderation, use these days sparingly.

6) What about pre-existing conditions? See #1.
 
Kids need to be outside all day playing instead of sitting inside stuck on their iPads, computers, and video games.

absolutely, and if you look back in photos of the yesteryears, you'd see more kids as skinny BUT healty skinny, like normal, unlike todays' skinny is sicky skinng or fat with slightly better skin because of the heap of shit had to be eaten to get this 'little more nutriments' its way off balance now, yep Corn syrup and all, one fo the idea behind the use of these, is that it blocks certain parts of the brain where it supposed to tell you ' you're full', so it progams you to keep eating...
its deliberate...
 
absolutely, and if you look back in photos of the yesteryears, you'd see more kids as skinny BUT healty skinny, like normal, unlike todays' skinny is sicky skinng or fat with slightly better skin because of the heap of shit had to be eaten to get this 'little more nutriments' its way off balance now, yep Corn syrup and all, one fo the idea behind the use of these, is that it blocks certain parts of the brain where it supposed to tell you ' you're full', so it progams you to keep eating...
its deliberate...

Yea..it sucks
 
Labelling "obseity" a disease raises the question: how to deal with it?
 
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