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Great post. I hate it when I hear a child has been told they can't do something simply because they are deaf. |
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My brother was only ever told "you can do anything but hear." Perhaps that's why his first degree was in English and he DID plan on becoming a writer. (I told him saying you want to work as a profressional writer full time is like saying "I want to be a rock star" and is very hard and he should work on writing part time and then once he breaks in see if he can do it full time. What he found out was that he didn't enjoy writing so much as the ideas he had to write about. Happens a lot--people want to "have written" without actually learning all there is about writing. As good a writer as he was/is, he wasn't professionally polished. I told him I'd teach him... but he ended up realizing it wasn't really for him. He ended up going into education instead, and I gotta say, it seems like his calling.I, for one, am happy to see another deaf teacher who will tell his students: "You can do anything but hear." |
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Yes writing on paper is a pain but with today's technology, many workplaces have emails so can use that. Of course it wud be easier to be a hearing and seeing person who has full use of their bodies but people in wheelchairs, blind or whatever do find ways around barriers and live their lives to the fullest potential. If people keep telling them they need to see, hear or walk, their lives would be better but to say that to people can cause unhappiness or depression. Instead, people should realize and accept that it is ok to be different. I don't pity people who r blind or in wheelchairs unless they pity themselves.
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Yes writing on paper is a pain but with today's technology, many workplaces have emails so can use that. Of course it wud be easier to be a hearing and seeing person who has full use of their bodies but people in wheelchairs, blind or whatever do find ways around barriers and live their lives to the fullest potential. If people keep telling them they need to see, hear or walk, their lives would be better but to say that to people can cause unhappiness or depression. Instead, people should realize and accept that it is ok to be different. I don't pity people who r blind or in wheelchairs unless they pity themselves.
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And I as well!!!! |
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Yea I know...I wish I knew better when I was a kid. Even when I graduated from high school, my VR counselor asked me what career I wanted to pursue and I said Interior designer and she said it wasn't an ideal career for a deaf person. Again, that crushed my self esteem. If I knew what I know now, I would have told all of those non-believers to kiss my deaf ass. LOL!
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It s all about business to make $$$$$$$$$$$ power, control and power over our deafness. Whats more hearing people refused to work with us from a start since they are still having an attitude toward Deaf people in this society. So what is so good about hearing device after all we dont hear everything? It is just not making any sense to me anymore. (I hope it works with italics and black bold on your comment that I want to point that out.) That's the problem in today's world that we are still struggled not to have a good English written or orally speaking to be perfect as they are expecting us to do for years without ASL and Signed English not SEE as BI BI languages. Thats how I see what's the point for us to have the enforcement for us to hear and speak for their hearing s sake after all they made too many mistakes for years and years. I feel why should I allowed them to conform or manipulate or force me to do this and that is not a great idea to have those dysfunctional issues in our deafness that they did created to make it look like it s US Deafies. It is very offensive to me and many Deaf children. So what s their excuse! That 's a big turn off in a big time on the adveristment board to be shown. ![]() I just cant believe people are tolerating this kind of attitude and abusive behaviors to be continued that is not a good change at all. Thats why I am very outspoken about this in a big time that bothers me for a long time. Guess what it s no different from Sexual abuse 's attitude as well as of hoping that you understand what I am trying to say. Peace!
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She said that interior designers will need to communicate with their clients so often and that it is all about making a name out of myself. It was almost 20 years ago when that happened...I wish I never listened but I had no self confidence at all and I believed that hearing people knew better than me on how the world worked. It was from years of getting my opinions or suggestions being thrown out and people telling me that I dont know enough cuz I am deaf. The only time people really respected me and my intelligence was during sports or my art teachers.
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Thanks for bring this up.
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Now I am getting older and burned out from all that oppression/second class citizen discrimination for years. No one knows what I went through that people have no right to disrespect toward me. So it s quite very hard for me to get full recovery however I am doing the best I can give many positive reinforcement on many issues as I did it for a long long time. No one appreciate or respect for who I am and my rights to be who I am or my own true thoughts and feelings through my Deaf eyes. I dont really see there is a good change that they are still wanting to use ORAL METHOD RULES as always that is a must to hear, oral speaking and no sign language in Deaf child 's lives for their sakes because they dont have a good feeling about or respect a Deaf baby from a start. It s still Hearing domination that runs your life and wont allow you for who you are that is totally wrongdoing by AUDISM people in this world. That is a very prejudicial in hearing world only. Thats what it tiggers me why should I kiss their AUDISM 's ass after all they dont have any respect for any of us from a start. Come on, wake up and stop this crapola to conform those Deaf children into a Hearing child. Sighs! Why should we are bargining with them all along that I could not understand this anymore? After all we have our human rights for who we are from a start. Also, we Deafies have the rights to live in this diverse world as well as we are being punished for being deaf and have the plight of Deaf people for years and years. These are A BIG MIXED FEELINGS and MESSAGES to these Deaf children that they taught them to be mixed it all up in their Deaf's mind, body , and true inner soul. Thats total degradation of our natural abilities and adaptation that is all to it. I feel that it s none of their business that we are being deaf for a reason. I felt that Medical is the one who causes more damages toward Deaf children's natural sound as usual that is not necessary from a start. At first place, we Deafies do not need to have the Medical Attention all the time if people dont mind. Deafness is not illness or disease at all. Think about it harder before you can say it to me now. Thats the only reason is that Hearing Domination s rules that runs your Deaf lives. Oh please! Dont tell me I must to do this and that for them not for me. That is dysfunctional behaviour they have. Even though hearing devices are junky thing that damaged everyone s ears that what it tiggers me that Medical professionals/Doctors have the right to damage our Deaf ears that we already are being deaf from a start. It doesnt make any sense to me anymore. That is how too many deafies are ending up with the dysfunctional life in hearing world that is their intention to do with us in this world anyhow. This is not diversity yet. Peace! ![]() ************ "Pure and Simple Natural Honest in Total Communication of love bonds between Deaf and Hearing people in this diverse world." Quote Fact of Sweetmind's Beliefs in Natural Method. It tells you that is two ways of street for Hearing and d/Deaf people.
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There is a distinct difference between what a HA can provide and what a CI can provide in terms of auditory perception. The HA can't overcome the innate distortion already "built in" the auditory processes. The CI can provide a much truer picture for the auditory processes but with one constraint against it...it can't provide as much information as regular hearing. As for this saying they are "artificial" forms of stimulus is plain malarky. A HA simply amplifies for the auditory system what it is incapable of doing for itself. So, where is the artifical aspect of it? More volume? Therefore, it brings a person up to a level of "useful" hearing but due to the distortion factors the percentage of "usefulness" varies greatly from individual to individual. On the other hand, a CI does direct stimulus on the cochlear nerve in the same way as the cochlear hairs do. Thus there is in general more consistency that a CI can provide. The difference is the number of discrete points being stimulated. Nothing artificial there either but just less information. If they came up with a CI that could stimulate approximately some 30,000 cochlear hairs, then one really get totally bogged down in a philosophical exercise "Is it live or is it memorex?". Here you would have no way to back up your statement that it is artificial one wit. Getting back to the cognitive process bit, it is more than just simply an issue of missing information that is involved. The brain is a superb fourier analysis machine with the ability to overcome some of this. No two people in the world process cognitively the same way regardless of any "built in" limitation or not (sensory or mental). Hate to say this but nobody has a perfect brain nor does anybody have all five senses as perfect either. Get any two normal hearing people together and they learn differently and the same of any to totally deaf people. It is not related to the sensory "per se" but much more related to the mental facilities that utilize the sensory input. This explains more persuasively of why there is such variances in outcomes of any given individual. The best of all outcomes for every individual educationally is tailor made individualized learning environment. Obviously, this will never happen as the cost is enormous and everything we do today would have to be overhauled in ways that boggles the mind. So, we stick to the greatest good the greatest number.
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