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Unread 06-09-2011, 07:31 AM   #301 (permalink)
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Re-read YOUR last line above. It could easily be mis-interpreted to mean just go out and have sex soon. Which is TOTALLY irresponsible. Once again, stop being a disservice to everyone.
Somehow.... I think you going out and having responsible sex would actually be a service to YOU. Sex does work wonders...
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Unread 06-09-2011, 07:37 AM   #302 (permalink)
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This made me LOL.....

I assumed that by "next step", he meant marriage. But.. who knows?!

Thanks for being proud of me even if I shacked up with my partner on the very first night we met!
But the question on everyone's* mind still is... did you hook up with her on your first date?

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In the legal world, a contract between two people is in force until one dies.
In my statement of post #245, the relationship between two people having sexual activity with only each other ends with the death of one of the partners. The surviving partner is then released of the obligation of faithfulness and free, if wanted, to seek out a new partner.
Or until all signators agree that the contract is no longer in force. Of course, this is merely talking about marriages, and there's an entire branch of the law created specifically for handling breaches of marriage contracts (divorce law). So that aspect actually is a part of the legal world, and doesn't especially need any new advice. People are always gonna be people, after all.

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By doing so, irresponsible sex, and the consequences of irresponsible sex, is avoided. Now get your head out of the sand and quit being a disservice to everyone.
Ahahahahahaha...

*ahem*

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...

Seriously? The #1 largest consequence to "irresponsible sex" is "having babies". It costs the most (both to the parents and the public). And guess what? Getting married doesn't change that in any way! If I get my girlfriend pregnant and she has a child... that would be no different whatsoever than if I first went down to the courthouse and got a piece of paper saying that we're legally bound together. Because that paper isn't magic. It doesn't do anything. And it sure as hell doesn't magically give me money for raising a child properly.

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Re-read YOUR last line above. It could easily be mis-interpreted to mean just go out and have sex soon. Which is TOTALLY irresponsible. Once again, stop being a disservice to everyone.
How's that irresponsible? People who have more casual sex are less stressed and generally happier with life in general than those who don't.

But that's okay, don't let those cold, hard facts penetrate your warm fuzzy blanket of prudish misconceptions.

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EEEKS no. I would like to try my boyfriend out before marriage.

I have a question for you...in your perspective, does learning the character of the other person include kissing, fondling....oral sex (no intercourse)?
Oh, pleeeeease tell me s/he says yes. Please please please. (I doubt he will, but still). That would make everything else so much more amusing.

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*Okay, so maybe not anyone's. Whatever.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 07:42 AM   #303 (permalink)
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But the question on everyone's* mind still is... did you hook up with her on your first date?
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*Okay, so maybe not anyone's. Whatever.
The answer is...... nope. I'm actually a bit of a prude. I'm sure rolling7 would be proud of me.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 07:44 AM   #304 (permalink)
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EEEKS no. I would like to try my boyfriend out before marriage.

I have a question for you...in your perspective, does learning the character of the other person include kissing, fondling....oral sex (no intercourse)?
Could and can

but how about kindness......graciousness.....friendly.....tender ......liberal/conservative......religious/irreligious.....solvent....faithfulness....adventu rous..
And many more
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Unread 06-09-2011, 07:46 AM   #305 (permalink)
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The answer is...... nope. I'm actually a bit of a prude. I'm sure rolling7 would be proud of me.
Hah. Probably. As long as it was good once you got around to it, though, is what really matters.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 07:59 AM   #306 (permalink)
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Could and can

but how about kindness......graciousness.....friendly.....tender ......liberal/conservative......religious/irreligious.....solvent....faithfulness....adventu rous..
And many more
A few things:

About half of these can be gleaned from reviewing someone's profile on an online dating site or from their Facebook. Another half of the remaining ones can be determined from a very small handful of dates (assuming you don't suck at dating, that is).

Additionally, you've yet to give a good (valid) reason* as to why someone should abstain either while learning about a person, or after they've learned a decent amount (but not everything) about them.

* Valid reasons don't include "she might try to trick you into getting pregnant by claiming she's on the pill but isn't really" (because that's the kind of shit that maybe happens once or twice a year in the ghetto, but mostly just on TV) or "he might secretly have aids and won't tell you because he just wants to get laid" or any number of other fanciful scenarios. I'm talking about reasons that actually hold for two mutually consenting, responsible adults.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:02 AM   #307 (permalink)
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One good valid reason...........You can't unrung the bell
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:06 AM   #308 (permalink)
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StSapphire.......get your face out of facebook.
Ain't nothing on there real.

(and no I don't have a facebook, my space. twitter, etc. account....I keep it real)
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:09 AM   #309 (permalink)
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You seriously need to dug your head out of the sand by going back and re-reading my #245 post.
I quote YOU: One person with one person for life means never, ever have sex with anyone else no matter what happens until you die. Those are YOUR words, I did not say any such thing. So you need to quit trying to put words in my mouth.

In the legal world, a contract between two people is in force until one dies.
In my statement of post #245, the relationship between two people having sexual activity with only each other ends with the death of one of the partners. The surviving partner is then released of the obligation of faithfulness and free, if wanted, to seek out a new partner.

By doing so, irresponsible sex, and the consequences of irresponsible sex, is avoided. Now get your head out of the sand and quit being a disservice to everyone.
But, there are numerous cases of legal contract where when one dies, the contract falls to the heirs. So unless you are saying that when one partner dies, the other partner becomes the chattel of the heirs, your comparison is moot.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:10 AM   #310 (permalink)
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StSapphire.......get your face out of facebook.
Ain't nothing on there real.

(and no I don't have a facebook, my space. twitter, etc. account....I keep it real)
You keep it real? In what fictional world??
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:12 AM   #311 (permalink)
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Re-read YOUR last line above. It could easily be mis-interpreted to mean just go out and have sex soon. Which is TOTALLY irresponsible. Once again, stop being a disservice to everyone.
Yes, that is what I meant. Please, please go out and have sex soon. You will no doubt have to pay for it, but it will be money well spent. Do wonders for your thinking and your attitude.

Oh, and use a condom. Be responsible.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:14 AM   #312 (permalink)
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EEEKS no. I would like to try my boyfriend out before marriage.

I have a question for you...in your perspective, does learning the character of the other person include kissing, fondling....oral sex (no intercourse)?
No doubt! Who wants to get stuck in a lifetime committment to horrible sex?
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One good valid reason...........You can't unrung the bell
But we want to know if the person can ring the bell to start with before committing to a lifetime of no bell ringing.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:25 AM   #314 (permalink)
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One good valid reason...........You can't unrung the bell
What the **** does this even mean?

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StSapphire.......get your face out of facebook.
Ain't nothing on there real.

(and no I don't have a facebook, my space. twitter, etc. account....I keep it real)
I was talking about personal opinion stuff, for that. I.e: liberal/conservative, religious/not, friendliness, etc. It's prolly different for your generation, since I think the "early adopters" for the 40-50+ range have mostly tended to be peoples' parents and grandparents wanting to keep in touch with kids, rather than people wanting to get to know new people.

In other words, keep up with the times, Jethro!

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Yes, that is what I meant. Please, please go out and have sex soon. You will no doubt have to pay for it, but it will be money well spent. Do wonders for your thinking and your attitude.

Oh, and use a condom. Be responsible.
I doubt it. Sex-negative attitudes won't be cured with prostitution, because it'll merely enhance already prevalent attitudes that "women who have sex before marriage are all slutty whores" and similar attitudes. I'd imagine he'd merely end up feeling dirty afterwards.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:35 AM   #315 (permalink)
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What the **** does this even mean?



I was talking about personal opinion stuff, for that. I.e: liberal/conservative, religious/not, friendliness, etc. It's prolly different for your generation, since I think the "early adopters" for the 40-50+ range have mostly tended to be peoples' parents and grandparents wanting to keep in touch with kids, rather than people wanting to get to know new people.

In other words, keep up with the times, Jethro!



I doubt it. Sex-negative attitudes won't be cured with prostitution, because it'll merely enhance already prevalent attitudes that "women who have sex before marriage are all slutty whores" and similar attitudes. I'd imagine he'd merely end up feeling dirty afterwards.
At least it would be a change from lily white and puritanical.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:42 AM   #316 (permalink)
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Could and can

but how about kindness......graciousness.....friendly.....tender ......liberal/conservative......religious/irreligious.....solvent....faithfulness....adventu rous..
And many more
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

:69: this is adventurous enough for me!
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Unread 06-09-2011, 09:48 AM   #317 (permalink)
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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

:69: this is adventurous enough for me!
Bah. That's not all that adventurous. This is:


(Side note - that was one of my first 10 dates with my girlfriend.)


Or if you're going with the other form of "adventurous" then there's always :3some:
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Unread 06-09-2011, 10:23 AM   #318 (permalink)
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Yes, that is what I meant. Please, please go out and have sex soon. You will no doubt have to pay for it, but it will be money well spent. Do wonders for your thinking and your attitude.

Oh, and use a condom. Be responsible.
So now you are telling people....."Go out and break the LAW"

You are seriously a disservice here and it is up to the MOD. to get you off.
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Unread 06-09-2011, 10:54 AM   #319 (permalink)
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So now you are telling people....."Go out and break the LAW"

You are seriously a disservice here and it is up to the MOD. to get you off.
Prostitution isn't illegal everywhere, mate.

And I figured it was either up to jillio or a partner of her choosing to get her off.
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This is AMERICA....where are you, Denmark?
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This is AMERICA....where are you, Denmark?
Go to Vegas, then. It's legal there. Or does Nevada not count as AMERICA?
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So now you are telling people....."Go out and break the LAW"

You are seriously a disservice here and it is up to the MOD. to get you off.
You could never get me off! I doubt seriously you can even get yourself off.
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Go to Vegas, then. It's legal there. Or does Nevada not count as AMERICA?
Shows how real stupid you are. Prostitution IS ILLEGAL in Vegas I don't think jillo can help you get out of this one.............and don't even try her trick to deflect.
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Shows how real stupid you are. Prostitution IS ILLEGAL in Vegas I don't think jillo can help you get out of this one.............and don't even try her trick to deflect.
LOL... oops... you made a mistake......

Not even gonna bother giving a link. It's too easy.

Did you even google it?
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You could never get me off! I doubt seriously you can even get yourself off.
It is me or you. The SUPER MOD has 12 hours to decide and tell us all ADers just where alldeaf is allow to go. Otherwise, a can of woop-ass and a can of worm are going to be opened.
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Shows how real stupid you are. Prostitution IS ILLEGAL in Vegas I don't think jillo can help you get out of this one.............and don't even try her trick to deflect.
I guess you've never been to Vegas?
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Shows how real stupid you are. Prostitution IS ILLEGAL in Vegas I don't think jillo can help you get out of this one.............and don't even try her trick to deflect.
Might wanna check your sources on that, pal.

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It is me or you. The SUPER MOD has 12 hours to decide and tell us all ADers just where alldeaf is allow to go. Otherwise, a can of woop-ass and a can of worm are going to be opened.
What rules exactly do you think she broke? Talking about sex? How diiiiirty.
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rolling7 - there was a documentary on PBS about those "ranches" in Nevadas - basically brothels. Prostitution IS legal in Nevada.
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Might wanna check your sources on that, pal.



What rules exactly do you think she broke? Talking about sex? How diiiiirty.
See next post about source

We'll find out about the rule from SUPER MOD. Is it ok to use alldeaf to encourage a member to commit a crime? The clock is ticking.
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rolling7 - there was a documentary on PBS about those "ranches" in Nevadas - basically brothels. Prostitution IS legal in Nevada.
You are another one of those who can't read....how many are there on here???

Re-read the post......StSapphire said VEGAS..........NOT Nevada
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