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Blood/plasma donation discrimination!!!
Ok, something I notice when they ask questions for blood donations, they ONLY ask if a man has had sex with a man. It doesn't apply to women! They say it is a higher increse for AIDS, but not! Men, women, gay,straight, bi, whatever... all have the chance to get it! Not just gay men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is discrimination and annoy me!!!! Does this bother other people?
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It has to do with anal sex.
When a man has anal sex with another man, he's having direct skin contact through it. With women (lesbians), they could have anal sex... but that would be done with the use of strap-on. That doesn't involve direct skin contact. That's their reasoning.
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There is only one layer of skin between rectum and the bloodstream, so it does somewhat help eliminate if you have a higher risk of being exposed to HIV. Though based on the statistics in Florida, HIV is still highly present in the MSM population compared to the hetero. That they do not also ask this question to women is biased. I am actually quite upset that I did not notice this when I went to donate.
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The laws are outdated and discriminatory. Gay or bi men who practice safer sex are NOT at any increased risk of HIV. You can try to argue the whole fragile rectum idea, but, last I checked women who engage in anal sex aren't humiliate by being asked their sex practices and then being disallowed to donate.
I personally know a large handful of men who've had / have sex with men who donate blood, plasma, platelets, marrow, so on. If you know that you're HIV negative, LIE if asked about who you have sex with. The person whose life you save will not care who you get into bed with.
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Yes, I agree. I tried to donate blood but they said I couldn't, first because I am deafblind then because I used to take drugs for epilepsy. I might try again soon and see what excuse they give this time.
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That is so infuriating! You would think they would try to be the least picky possible since they are so in demand! I guess not. |
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Oi... At least the Canadian Forces were kind enough to turn me down because of tainted blood sample, not because of my sight or hearing loss. I just had to try to see what they would say if I try to join the military. I think I rather take the "tainted blood due to epilepsy drugs" over "sorry, we can't accept your donation because you're (non-blood related reasons)."
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At least epilepsy drugs sounds like a valid medical reason. Although I wonder how often they come up with "reasons" when the real reason is because they see you as unfit because of deafness or deafblindness or whatever else.
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Whoops, misunderstood. That sounds like a BS reason. I just don't understand why the Red Cross begs and pleads for more donors and then when people stand in line they find the stupidest reasons to turn people down. They screen the blood for diseases anyway. It's not like the blood is going directly to the patient in need.
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They don't in third-world countries. I am serious. Look at their policy for distributing blood in Africa and Asia. All tainted blood that don't meet the guideline in Europe, developed Asian countries or U.S. go to third-world. It's right there in their mandate too...
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First they objected about my deafblindness and possible communication problems. Then they objected because of my epilesy as I used to be on Tegretol but I'm off it now. Aparantly you have to wait several years in case you have problems with your epilepsy. I do but it's only petit mal epilepsy so even if I have seizure, it's no big deal.
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That is so wrong.I still stand by my point in a way though because exempting gay men and deafblind people and so on makes no sense at all. Gay men are no longer the leading demographic carrying HIV and there's no reason deafblindness should keep someone from donating. |
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I don't remember seeing any question related to anal sex with men on those forms.
I've given blood before and I remember the question being something like "Have you had anal sex?" I don't remember anything like "Have you had anal sex with another man?"
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You know what REALLY irrirtates me? It's not gay men as a group that's at high risk of having HIV. It's the subpopulation that is extremely promesticus.
I'm sure that the population of straight guys who frequent prositutes and bathhouses is equally at risk for HIV. |
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I have gay friends who have donated blood. I guess it happened where you were.
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I've seen people who waited in line for hours only to be turned down for several of the bullshit reasons listed on the website. Visiting certain countries, having had anal sex, whatever else. Reasons that aren't even based in medical fact.
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Hell, in Canada, we got a case against them that caused Newfoundland to boycott all blood from the Red Cross a few years ago. Sources are valid (I checked them out years ago): Quote:
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The only way it will update is if we get these conservative extremeists out of the government, then something can be done because there won't be people wanting to crucify gays for being gay. Until that day comes, there will be stupid laws about it.
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So I guess we have to wait for the FDA to update their guidelines. |
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