Freaky Cat

Any of you have any fetishes.. like guys like wearing womens clothings, hosiery, or whatever...

does that make him transgender or transvite? or just a fetish? or is he a crossdresser?? one plm is he doesnt wear wig, make ups, etc. just like the soft womens intimate clothings...

any feedbacks would be greatly appreciated!

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JamieLynn

Years ago I had a male co-worker wearing pink shirts. Occasionally we threw jokes up at him but never in a mean way. We just teased him every once in a while once we knew he loved to wear pink shirts. Though everybody knew they were MEN's shirts and not for women...

That's the only reference I can give... don't have any other experience in that field though... Pink shirts are also pretty IN for men... Personally I'm not all too crazy about it... if the guy likes it... why not (as long as it's not coming from the women's store)

Jamie

Freaky Cat

Cross-dressing - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

i found more information.

A transvestic fetishist is a person (typically a heterosexual male) who cross-dresses as part of a sexual fetish.

That made sense to me! finally found it! yay!

Thanks anyway.. but still would love to hear more feedbacks...

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rockin'robin

My nephew was a cross dresser, but hid it from my sister....She later found out! He had a trunk full of women's clothes and lingerie...including hers and mine....And he was married with a child.....

He got a divorse a few years later, and he became bi-sexual. So, I do wonder if this type of fetish is bi-sexualism?

Also, a friend of mine married her long time sweetheart. They did not live together until marriage. She came home one night from work, left sick and caught him with her lingerie on.....Oh Well!....That was the end of the marriage!

BradB08

I read that most cross-dressers are NOT gay.

They just happen to be men who like dressing up with women.

No idea why it's being discussed in this forum.

PuyoPiyo

Well it depends on how they feel comfortable with, that has nothing to do with the sexual orientation. The transgender are just people who like to wear something that are at oppose gender. One of my best friend who are straight guy, he told me his shirt that he was wearing was stolen from his sister, but that does not mean he was gay or whatever. He only like the shirt, that's all.

Sometimes transgender people prefer to be fully at oppose gender, some just prefer some of the oppose gender.

Daredevel7

I like to wear guys' shirts (their graphic tees are just way cooler than womens!) Does that make me gay? Pfft no.

LakeTahoe

I know few guys like to wear pink shirt...my husband refused to wear one! LOL!

I do like to wear men shirt cuz it is more comfortable than ladies' (ladies is more tight). Nothing is wrong to wear men shirt!

Everyone are different and have their own preferences with clothing.

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rockin'robin

Some people will only wear the opposite gender's clothes. Such as a lesbian, wearing only men's clothes, shoes, etc. As for men, wearing women's lingerie, panties, bras, etc.

I wear my son's T-shirts sometimes, (if I like it)...and I'm straight. But if I wore men's clothes all the time, I believe I would be considered gay.

My nephew, who wore both men and women's clothes is bi-sexual...and after his divorse, he lives with a female who is also bi-sexual. Their choice.

Foot fetishes are also common. Being obsessed with feet. S&M, especially among men, is common too.

It was pointed out to me not long ago, that I wore the color "Black" a lot! Mainly black pants. That's "considered" gothic, I believe, altho', I'm not gothic! I wear them because they match just about every other color.

I do believe that most men have a "soft side", but feel they aren't supposed to show it! (Such as crying.)....

But dressing up in women's clothes, etc., is a bit too much for me. Unless is a joke or a party....But then again, to each his own!

Adella

lol, wow, that was it, no question. I guess she didn't want to find out later that he was bi-sexual. So does he still wear lingerie, same sex, married, Just curious! I bet that had to be a momment. smiling

Adella

I however, don't see the big deal of a man wearing a pink shirt, I think it brings out the fem in men, which I believe I woman needs to feel at times. It"s one of society morals, if you wear pink you gay man..crazy, so now men have a complex about colors they wear, due to sociey. What a shame!!
I also think a man that thinks as society, is not real confident about his man hood. Just my opinion.

Freaky Cat

i love to wear mens clothes.... but im not a butch nor a lesbian. I just like them as they are very comfortable. lot of womens clothes are too lacey and fritters etc. ugh! not my style! lol.. i like plain and simple clothes.

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rockin'robin

Pink, coral, lime green...looks great on men who are tanned!! See a lot of that at the Beach....I don't consider it "gay", I would if he wore a pink bra under his pink shirt!

magican

well some are half ways like as some divore some not stay in married some wife approved it some does it really hard to understand over children some children understand about transsexual could be by from shcool eduidtion some kid GET

SnAzZyStyLe2002

I have 4 or 5 pink shirts myself.

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deafdude1

That's why I never want to marry and don't believe in marriage. I consider that fetish harmless and tame compared to many other fetishes ive seen guys have. All I would do is make him buy her new lingerie and he can keep whatever lingerie he was wearing.

The double standards say that women can dress like men and be seen as tomboys but if men dress like women, they are seen as gay, sick, perverted and worse.

I have no sexual fetishes. However I may have fetishes for cuddling and romance as well as for numbers I see, think and want numbers to explain everything.

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Passionate4ASL

I don't see a big deal about the pink shirts, it's kinda become common. Lingerie is rather worring. I think the whole thing, hair, nails, shoes...that is a whole nother level!


Don't the ones that crave cuddling and romance normally want marriage?

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magican

[COLOR="Blue"]i am trangender fetish wears pvc,high heels tigh boots,high heels shoes,sexy pvc bodice with laces,make-up and etc.it feel so good to wear it it makes me feel horny and sexy i got a boyfriend i make him wears mine heee:

SondheimGeek

I've worn a pink shirt, no big deal.

I like underwear and jockstraps on a guy.

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rockdrummer

IM just kidding!! I usually connect them to my scrotum but I though that would be to offensive to post here.

MoonDrifter

shocking isn't it?

well I like licking chocolate and whipped cream.

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deafdyke

So why is it OK for women to wear guys' clothes? I live in guys clothes

deafdude1

95% of women crave chocolate and all normal women would take chocolate anyday over sex.

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shel90

Men who wear pink turn me on. I dont know why.

I dont see anything wrong with it.

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shel90

I would take sex over chocolate anytime!!!! I guess I am in the 5%

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deafskeptic

When I have fantasties about being with another guy, I don't dream about getting spanked but when he does it to me, it really turns me on. Go figure that one out!

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deafdude1

Would it help if your boyfriend dressed head to toe in pink, including pink sneakers and hair dyed pink and he offered you pink chocolate?

What other things turn you on? What about romance?

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melissa

I like many things I don't feel comfortable discussing here!

I used to borrow my ex's shirt, I like some 'male' clothes, like fitted blazers etc. I can find what I like in a woman's version which accounts for my chest so I don't buy men's clothing per se.

I think, a man who enjoys wearing stockings is just that- nothing said about sexuality or anything else. I consider myself 'A woman who enjoys (insert something 'naughty' here)' but it doesn't mean I automatically label myself as a 'something'. I like what I like, and that's all there is to it. Maybe it's related to being bi- I used to think, I like women so I must be gay, but I like men so I must be straight, does not compute, arrgghh! Then I thought, I'm just me and I like what I like.

So, in reply, I don't think a man liking to wear women's underwear/hosiery is therefore a transvestite or transgender person; he could be, but one does not equal the other, at face value it's just a man liking to wear women's underwear.

AliciaM

my girlfriend wears guys clothing but is not trans she just looks better and feels more comfortable in guys clothing...suits her way more ..she looks pretty hot in a tie

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