Hmph, Dating a Transexual? (Warning: You may find a strange truth about me) - Page 3

dreama · 07-09-2007, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Deafilmedia

well get a male bird... so these female birds can fight over him, hee hee.

Aleser may not want to have to constantly rehome baby birds. Besides most animal shelters are full because people have male and female animals together. I only keep female rats. I do have neutered bucks accassionally though.

Aleser · 07-09-2007, 06:43 PM

We -do- have male and female birds. That said, I own them and I made the choice to have both, so when there's baby birds around, they're our birds too.. I wouldn't ever give away my birds. If it got out of hand, I'd let the females and males out of their homes seperately, but never just turning them over to a shelter or selling them. That would feel like giving away a baby, it'd break my heart.

Deafilmedia · 07-09-2007, 08:50 PM

Are they Parrots?

What kind of birds are they?

Ostrich?

SxyPorkie · 07-09-2007, 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Aleser

While I personally think you're an idiot not worth replying to, I'm going to say this for the sake of it being an all to wide-held view.

Every surgery you get is messing with nature. Every time you pop some naproxen for a backache, you're messing with nature. If you go on antibiotics, you're messing with nature. For the 90,000+ people in the us on the UNOS list (united network for organ sharing), they're waiting for something as unnatural as it gets- switching organs with a dead person.

Did it ever cross your insanely small little mind that maybe that's exactly what they're doing, accepting themseleves after a usually long struggle with coming out to themselves and others? By what right do you judge them for that?

You know that whole "walk a mile in my shoes" thing? If you can't do it, don't judge.

....I agree with you... My friend just had sex change... now he is completely female...I supported her... she was born male trapped inside female... she knew since she was 5 yrs old....she went through the judge changing her birth certification and others.... she is happy now...

Oddball · 07-11-2007, 07:32 PM

And also Conservative signs... I got Saturn in Taurus,,, close mind, Sun in Capricorn, close mind, Mercury in Capricorn, close mind, Mercury rules thinking.... Capricorn rules conservative... SO I am thinking in a conservative way.

Freaky!

What is your moon and adscent (rising) sign, Deafilmedia?

SnAzZyStyLe2002 · 08-05-2007, 01:00 AM

Trannies are NEVER for me at all; I wouldn't want a fake guy (girl to guy).

Dixie · 08-25-2007, 04:23 PM

There is a transsexual couple that lives in Eureka Springs, AR. The guy changed to a female, and the wife changed to a male. Very weird.

RedheadGrrl · 08-25-2007, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Dixie

There is a transsexual couple that lives in Eureka Springs, AR. The guy changed to a female, and the wife changed to a male. Very weird.

Not really.. I have a friend who lives in CA. He and his wife are transexual/transgender. They knew they wanted to change it bec they werent comfy and unhappy when they were before. Now they are happy and love it.

Dixie · 08-25-2007, 06:52 PM

It may be more 'normal' out there in California, but here in AR, it is definitely not the norm. I think it also depends on where you are in the world because different regions and cultures tend to be more open about homosexuality than others.

MetroGuy03 · 08-27-2007, 07:47 PM

I have no issues with transgenders. I don't want to be discriminate against them. I prefer to date 100% man instead 50/50 gender just for my own perference.

I noticed that lesbians are more open minded to date them than gays do. I don't blame gays because I totally understand how they feels because I can related to that.

If my children wants to change their sex... I will make sure they understand the process and serious enough about it first... I will support them anyway. I want them to be happy.

PowerON · 08-27-2007, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by MetroGuy03

I have no issues with transgenders. I don't want to be discriminate against them. I prefer to date 100% man instead 50/50 gender just for my own perference. .

simple you prefer because natural male have elastic while transgenders aren't 100% function.

PePe LePew · 08-27-2007, 08:33 PM

Well umm I would probably *RUNS*, I just can't imagin' imagin' datin' a transexual, tryin' not to ummm ya know like

I've met one of the transexual and it too weird, how the person acts and talks and thinks, doesn't make accountable senses to me...

Whistlin' does anyone know where I can cross the other side of the road I can run to ? LOL Oops!!!

MetroGuy03 · 08-28-2007, 12:35 AM

Believe it or not, I met some transgenders and you can't tell if they're transgenders. Surgury technology improved dramatically lately. I am impressed because most "typical" transgenders are pretty obvious until few of them that i met recently... WOW! One thing scared me what if I meet someone cute and hit on him then find out that he is transgender... I don't know what I will do...

PuyoPiyo · 08-28-2007, 05:12 AM

Well I have been noticing alot of people tend to misunderstand the transsexual by the transversite. Understanding the difference of transsexual and transversite, the transsexual do the surgical produces and taking the hormones to change its own gender (that is why it is so hard to tell if that person is transsexual or not). Transversite do not change its own gender, but wear its opposed gender (that is why it is easier to tell if that person was a transversite as due to too much of make ups for MtF or fake mustaches or beard for FtM).

Here I go with the pictures, transsexuals can look really good.

Transsexual Women

Transsexual Women's Successes

Transsexual Men

Successful TransMen - Photos and links to webpages of transsexual (FtM) men

HappyBoi · 08-28-2007, 12:04 PM

Nope, I feel that if your a gay man, then you want to be with a MAN, if your willing to be with a tranny, then why get with a tranny?? But then again, it's not really my decision, to each & his own. =)

PuyoPiyo · 08-28-2007, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by HappyBoi

Nope, I feel that if your a gay man, then you want to be with a MAN, if your willing to be with a tranny, then why get with a tranny?? But then again, it's not really my decision, to each & his own. =)

Yeah it's just varies of people's decision

I don't mind to date a transsexual really because I don't look at whatever between people's legs, but at their own brain. Yeah I have to agree, the real men are at sexual function very good compare to transmen, but that is not really important to me, the important to me is the love, ya know

magican · 07-29-2009, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by javapride

I really don't see what's wrong with dating transsexual, hell i know some poeple who do that, and all i can see is thier being themselves as same situation for homosexuals and hetrosexual, all they can do is be themselves just be comfortable, IM dating someone noe no not a transsexual but given the mind's thought, I can tell u one thing,
IF and this is a HUGE big IF i was to date a transsexual ofc i would say go for it, as long as there's honesty involve from the onset of dating and not a * suprise* later on i can completely respect thier honest words and thier respect for who they choose to be thats all that matter it's not abt sex its not abt whos better in bed, its all abt faith honesty respect trust and comfortablity!

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Mizzou · 10-20-2009, 10:06 PM

Well. That label "shemale" is porn kind. All of us not like that label so should be very careful when you talk to person who is into transition.

I met online friends who are transgenders (male and female)

CJB · 10-20-2009, 11:52 PM

I would date a transsexual person if I fell in love with one. Their transsexuality wouldn't stop me for a second. It would be hard to define the relationship as straight or gay since I'm transgender myself.

dogmom · 10-21-2009, 08:27 AM

I happen to be bi and I would not refuse to proceed with someone just because they were trans person. People love who they love-

CJB · 10-21-2009, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Deafilmedia

No.

It isn't because I want kids or anything like that...

I said NO, because honestly... I think they belong to the mental institute.

I just don't believe that they were born with a wrong genitals....
They are messing with nature... and it isn't right....

They should accept for who they are...

And if they think about fooling me.... I'll find out anyway... I'll look in the bathroom and see any hormone medication they are taking everyday.
I'll look at their birth certificate or look in hospital file. Or old newspaper.

And they better show me some sperm cumming out their penis too... and real balls...

As for messing with nature, anyone who takes fertility pills is messing with nature. Anyone who takes birth control is messing with nature. Anyone who gets a CI is messing with nature. Anyone who wears modern day clothing, shaves, eats processed foods, uses a toilet, or even accepts medical care in an emergency situation is messing with nature.

Transsexuals that go through with a sex change are accepting who they are. They are accepting that they are psychologically one gender and physiologically another and in order to achieve harmony, the physiological gender has to be made to match the psychological one.

I'm not out to "fool" people, and I think I speak for many transfolk when I say this. Lots of times it's just a matter of not knowing who I can tell and who I can't. Lots of times I don't say it right away because I don't know how people will react and we only want to take that risk if it's someone important to me.

CJB · 10-21-2009, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Aleser

While I personally think you're an idiot not worth replying to, I'm going to say this for the sake of it being an all to wide-held view.

Every surgery you get is messing with nature. Every time you pop some naproxen for a backache, you're messing with nature. If you go on antibiotics, you're messing with nature. For the 90,000+ people in the us on the UNOS list (united network for organ sharing), they're waiting for something as unnatural as it gets- switching organs with a dead person.

Did it ever cross your insanely small little mind that maybe that's exactly what they're doing, accepting themseleves after a usually long struggle with coming out to themselves and others? By what right do you judge them for that?

You know that whole "walk a mile in my shoes" thing? If you can't do it, don't judge.

CJB · 10-21-2009, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Deafilmedia

Everybody dislike who they are. I don't want to be a female... because of mentrual cycle... I accept whatever God gave me. I used to be a tomboy.

I'm sorry to say, but it's really not the same. Most women don't like their periods, but many FTM transsexuals become extremely depressed to the point of suicidal ideation over it.

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I played dolls when I was a child too... I would have love to play football and baseball... but I can't play sports outside because my eyes are too sensitive to the sun.

Nor can I cause I'm blind. There's more to gender than playing ball sports, though.

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we suppose reproduce. Imagine if white Americans stop reproducing... then USA will be taken over by Non White Americans.

How racist.

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I met one. And it is silly.

Oh wow, one! So now you know the whole entire community and you know why every single trans person decides to transition. Just like if you meet one Deaf person you know the whole Deaf community and exactly what every Deaf person hears and feels.

CJB · 10-21-2009, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Deafilmedia

]Well they shouldn't fool anybody and try to date. Just like that teenager tranny got killed by 2 men who found out she was a he.
They can do sexual reassignment surgery, but don't fool anyone to date you.

I'm married to a woman and she knows that I'm FTM. I told her the second I knew she was open to it.

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If I am not comfortable with being with a FtoM,,, then he needs to respect me and he needs to find somebody else who is open minded. And
if he can't find anybody to date with...
Then that is his problem....

That's fine if you're not interested in dating trans people. No one's forcing you to date trans people. The part I object to is your claiming in other posts that our issue isn't real or that it's not as bad as another medical condition. Transsexuality is very real to transsexual people and there's no point on comparing it to other medical conditions. It's apples and oranges.

CJB · 10-21-2009, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by PuyoPiyo

And as for your question.. It depends how that man view his panther as transsexual woman. If he look at the transsexual woman's soul, then he's straight. If he look at that transsexual woman's physical instead of soul, then he's gay because of modifying the male's body into female to safisty his desires.

And lots of couples that include transgender people just choose not to define the relationship as gay/straight. My wife and I just prefer to think of ourselves as her and me rather than "a lesbian relationship" or "a straight relationship." She sees me for the gender I feel and I see her for the gender she feels (she feels a bit androgynous herself but uses the female pronoun because she feels more female than male.)

CJB · 10-21-2009, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by dreama

Aleser may not want to have to constantly rehome baby birds. Besides most animal shelters are full because people have male and female animals together. I only keep female rats. I do have neutered bucks accassionally though.

My wife and I have two rats, one male and one female. They've never had sex. It's entirely possible that one or both of them are gay or asexual.

Just wanted to mention that to show that things like homosexuality do indeed occur in nature.

CJB · 10-21-2009, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by PePe LePew

Well umm I would probably *RUNS*, I just can't imagin' imagin' datin' a transexual, tryin' not to ummm ya know like

I've met one of the transexual and it too weird, how the person acts and talks and thinks, doesn't make accountable senses to me...

Whistlin' does anyone know where I can cross the other side of the road I can run to ? LOL Oops!!!

Sorry to hear trans folk freak you out so much. Maybe because trans people force you to question your sexuality?

Partygirl · Yesterday, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by heiei3232

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I'll give you a nice, shiny quarter if you'll go away.

anakin · Today, 04:14 AM

why not? if there's love, there's love. you only live once.

Jiro · Today, 06:15 AM

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Originally Posted by CJB

My wife and I have two rats, one male and one female. They've never had sex. It's entirely possible that one or both of them are gay or asexual.

Just wanted to mention that to show that things like homosexuality do indeed occur in nature.

or... maybe they don't find each other attractive because one is a tranny

07-09-2007, 06:43 PM	#62 (permalink)
Aleser Woosh. Yes, Woosh. Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 669	We -do- have male and female birds. That said, I own them and I made the choice to have both, so when there's baby birds around, they're our birds too.. I wouldn't ever give away my birds. If it got out of hand, I'd let the females and males out of their homes seperately, but never just turning them over to a shelter or selling them. That would feel like giving away a baby, it'd break my heart. __________________ "She thinks... she can make people do what she wants or needs, what is right, by the sheer force of her own talent, not by forcing them... she can teach them and persuade them... that they'll catch it from her. This is still faith in their rationality, in the omnipotence of reason. The mistake? Reason is not automatic. Those who deny it cannot be conquered by it. Do not count on them."

08-05-2007, 01:00 AM	#66 (permalink)
SnAzZyStyLe2002 IchBinSchwulUndGlücklich. Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 477	Trannies are NEVER for me at all; I wouldn't want a fake guy (girl to guy). __________________ ~Snazzy Style 2002

08-25-2007, 04:23 PM	#67 (permalink)
Dixie Biggest Wimp of AllDeaf Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 5,942	There is a transsexual couple that lives in Eureka Springs, AR. The guy changed to a female, and the wife changed to a male. Very weird. __________________ Visit my Deaf Blog Signature banner created by me, please do not steal!

08-25-2007, 06:52 PM	#69 (permalink)
Dixie Biggest Wimp of AllDeaf Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 5,942	It may be more 'normal' out there in California, but here in AR, it is definitely not the norm. I think it also depends on where you are in the world because different regions and cultures tend to be more open about homosexuality than others. __________________ Visit my Deaf Blog Signature banner created by me, please do not steal!

08-27-2007, 08:33 PM	#72 (permalink)
PePe LePew Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 708	About Dating a Transexual? Well umm I would probably RUNS, I just can't imagin' imagin' datin' a transexual, tryin' not to ummm ya know like I've met one of the transexual and it too weird, how the person acts and talks and thinks, doesn't make accountable senses to me... Whistlin' does anyone know where I can cross the other side of the road I can run to ? LOL Oops!!!

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07-09-2007, 08:50 PM	#63 (permalink)
Deafilmedia Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1,579	Are they Parrots? What kind of birds are they? Ostrich?

07-11-2007, 07:32 PM	#65 (permalink)
Oddball Wacky Oddball Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: I live in my own world. Posts: 3,407	And also Conservative signs... I got Saturn in Taurus,,, close mind, Sun in Capricorn, close mind, Mercury in Capricorn, close mind, Mercury rules thinking.... Capricorn rules conservative... SO I am thinking in a conservative way. Freaky! What is your moon and adscent (rising) sign, Deafilmedia?

08-27-2007, 07:47 PM	#70 (permalink)
MetroGuy03 Registered User Join Date: May 2007 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 844	I have no issues with transgenders. I don't want to be discriminate against them. I prefer to date 100% man instead 50/50 gender just for my own perference. I noticed that lesbians are more open minded to date them than gays do. I don't blame gays because I totally understand how they feels because I can related to that. If my children wants to change their sex... I will make sure they understand the process and serious enough about it first... I will support them anyway. I want them to be happy.

08-28-2007, 12:35 AM	#73 (permalink)
MetroGuy03 Registered User Join Date: May 2007 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 844	Believe it or not, I met some transgenders and you can't tell if they're transgenders. Surgury technology improved dramatically lately. I am impressed because most "typical" transgenders are pretty obvious until few of them that i met recently... WOW! One thing scared me what if I meet someone cute and hit on him then find out that he is transgender... I don't know what I will do...

08-28-2007, 05:12 AM	#74 (permalink)
PuyoPiyo (Image taken 2005) Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Fourth Plain Village WA Posts: 6,114	Transsexuals are NOT Transvittes. Well I have been noticing alot of people tend to misunderstand the transsexual by the transversite. Understanding the difference of transsexual and transversite, the transsexual do the surgical produces and taking the hormones to change its own gender (that is why it is so hard to tell if that person is transsexual or not). Transversite do not change its own gender, but wear its opposed gender (that is why it is easier to tell if that person was a transversite as due to too much of make ups for MtF or fake mustaches or beard for FtM). Here I go with the pictures, transsexuals can look really good. Transsexual Women Transsexual Women's Successes Transsexual Men Successful TransMen - Photos and links to webpages of transsexual (FtM) men

08-28-2007, 12:04 PM	#75 (permalink)
HappyBoi Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 46	Nope, I feel that if your a gay man, then you want to be with a MAN, if your willing to be with a tranny, then why get with a tranny?? But then again, it's not really my decision, to each & his own. =)

10-20-2009, 10:06 PM	#78 (permalink)
Mizzou Now you know.... Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,620	Well. That label "shemale" is porn kind. All of us not like that label so should be very careful when you talk to person who is into transition. I met online friends who are transgenders (male and female)

10-20-2009, 11:52 PM	#79 (permalink)
CJB deafblind writer Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: U.S. Posts: 1,425	I would date a transsexual person if I fell in love with one. Their transsexuality wouldn't stop me for a second. It would be hard to define the relationship as straight or gay since I'm transgender myself.

10-21-2009, 08:27 AM	#80 (permalink)
dogmom Registered User Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 1,469	I happen to be bi and I would not refuse to proceed with someone just because they were trans person. People love who they love-

Today, 04:14 AM	#89 (permalink)
anakin i don't think so Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: . Posts: 188	why not? if there's love, there's love. you only live once.

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