Question for the guys (and girls, if you want)...

DeafCapricorn · 01-17-2008, 11:38 AM

I've had some seriously bad "attempts" at relationships... partially my fault.

I tend to, whenever there's a guy i like, if all he wants is sex... in the past I normally just gave it to him...

I am overweight... but I'm confident in my body even though I wouldn't mind losing some weight to prevent future health problems...

So would you ever consider dating a "fat" guy or girl? Why or why not?

I'm just one of those people who have so much love to offer and maybe I just haven't found the right person... but why is it, from my eyes, so much harder to find love as a "voluptuous, bootylicious, and scrumptiously plump" person?

Hwy99 · 01-17-2008, 03:47 PM

Depends on his/her personality

DeafCapricorn · 01-17-2008, 04:07 PM

I guess so...

It just gets more aggravating... I guess that's more love that's their loss... LOL

lumbingmi · 01-17-2008, 04:54 PM

I would rather to go for fat woman than gay man

DeafCapricorn · 01-17-2008, 04:59 PM

LOL!

Well to each his own...

Byrdie714 · 01-17-2008, 05:59 PM

There are guys that do go after big gay boys.

They are affectionately known as "chubby-chasers".

DeafCapricorn · 01-17-2008, 06:10 PM

Oh Gods...

I just personally think it shouldn't matter...

I just carry more junk in the trunk than anything lol...

Mizzou · 01-17-2008, 08:07 PM

Look at me.. I am skinny and my gf is FAT (excuse me my language). We show our loves and I likes her personal. She is lost some weight and I been support her.

iacobus · 11-07-2010, 09:10 AM

I think that there is always some level of physical attraction as well as personality. My ex was average build when we first met and then put on a lot of weight...we still loved each other, it was just something he worried about...I used to be really heavy too but have lost a lot...my avatar is me...anyways, my friend is technically obese and he is always upset that I won't date him now that my ex and I have been apart for so long. I keep saying, "dude! It's not your weight, we just don't connect..."

Best of luck to you bud,

iacobus

iSign · 11-07-2010, 02:54 PM

Wirelessly posted

I love voluptious women. Curvy or chubby, however they just have an awesome round figure with more to love. Damn they're hot lol

chubby men is alright for me as well. I rather be filled by the meat than starve with the bone.

Graewoof · 11-07-2010, 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DeafCapricorn

I've had some seriously bad "attempts" at relationships... partially my fault.

I tend to, whenever there's a guy i like, if all he wants is sex... in the past I normally just gave it to him...

I am overweight... but I'm confident in my body even though I wouldn't mind losing some weight to prevent future health problems...

So would you ever consider dating a "fat" guy or girl? Why or why not?

I'm just one of those people who have so much love to offer and maybe I just haven't found the right person... but why is it, from my eyes, so much harder to find love as a "voluptuous, bootylicious, and scrumptiously plump" person?

I for one, like bigger men, especially "Bears." I found that if I "give in" to sex request early in a relationship, the odds of it continuing are small. I have met men at a bar and had a good relationship with them, the key is the bar is NOT the only place to meet if You want success. Meet them away from their friends, get a bite to eat, see a movie, and (I know this sounds corny) feed the ducks. If a fellow isn't willing to do this with You, he is not worth Your time.

I'm sorry I strayed there a little bit. Trust me, plenty of men like bigger guys.

Sexycaitlyn · 11-22-2010, 08:27 AM

Look at me I don't like gay but it so gross I don't want see it anymore Ewwwwwwww I really want see hottie deaf boys and girl I always watch new deaf people some of my family was lezbian and gay too also my stepsister use any drugs that why I m upset

SimonJ · 11-22-2010, 08:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hwy99

Depends on his/her personality

I agree, a person can gain/lose weight but they will always be the same inside.

proud2bhoh · 11-23-2010, 12:53 PM

Originally Posted by DeafCapricorn View Post
I've had some seriously bad "attempts" at relationships... partially my fault.

I tend to, whenever there's a guy i like, if all he wants is sex... in the past I normally just gave it to him...

I am overweight... but I'm confident in my body even though I wouldn't mind losing some weight to prevent future health problems...

So would you ever consider dating a "fat" girl? Why or why not?

I'm just one of those people who have so much love to offer and maybe I just haven't found the right person... but why is it, from my eyes, so much harder to find love as a "voluptuous, bootylicious, and scrumptiously plump" person?

Well check this out, I've luvin big girlz my whole life. I've been wit 1 skinny minny and as good as she looked, her personality made her UGLY. To me, most BBW's are more leanent and lovin and try harder at a companionship and put their heart into it thatz what getz me. I've been luvin BBWS for soo long that it's my yahoo screen name.
luvinbiggirlz@yahoo.com (holla)

wha1978 · 11-26-2010, 03:17 PM

I don't think it should matter what size you are. Most people change in size over the years. Some people gain weight and some loose. I have dated men who are larger than me and I've dated men smaller than me. And I perfer a man who is a little bigger.

01-17-2008, 11:38 AM	#1 (permalink)
DeafCapricorn Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 84	Question for the guys (and girls, if you want)... I've had some seriously bad "attempts" at relationships... partially my fault. I tend to, whenever there's a guy i like, if all he wants is sex... in the past I normally just gave it to him... I am overweight... but I'm confident in my body even though I wouldn't mind losing some weight to prevent future health problems... So would you ever consider dating a "fat" guy or girl? Why or why not? I'm just one of those people who have so much love to offer and maybe I just haven't found the right person... but why is it, from my eyes, so much harder to find love as a "voluptuous, bootylicious, and scrumptiously plump" person?

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01-17-2008, 03:47 PM	#2 (permalink)
Hwy99 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: A town in middle of the rolling hills Posts: 6,141	Depends on his/her personality

01-17-2008, 04:07 PM	#3 (permalink)
DeafCapricorn Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 84	I guess so... It just gets more aggravating... I guess that's more love that's their loss... LOL

01-17-2008, 04:54 PM	#4 (permalink)
lumbingmi Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 4,460	I would rather to go for fat woman than gay man

01-17-2008, 04:59 PM	#5 (permalink)
DeafCapricorn Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 84	LOL! Well to each his own...

01-17-2008, 05:59 PM	#6 (permalink)
Byrdie714 Banned Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 8,941	There are guys that do go after big gay boys. They are affectionately known as "chubby-chasers".

01-17-2008, 06:10 PM	#7 (permalink)
DeafCapricorn Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 84	Oh Gods... I just personally think it shouldn't matter... I just carry more junk in the trunk than anything lol...

01-17-2008, 08:07 PM	#8 (permalink)
Mizzou Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,687	Look at me.. I am skinny and my gf is FAT (excuse me my language). We show our loves and I likes her personal. She is lost some weight and I been support her.

11-07-2010, 09:10 AM	#9 (permalink)
iacobus Registered User Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Jacksonville, NC Posts: 59	I think that there is always some level of physical attraction as well as personality. My ex was average build when we first met and then put on a lot of weight...we still loved each other, it was just something he worried about...I used to be really heavy too but have lost a lot...my avatar is me...anyways, my friend is technically obese and he is always upset that I won't date him now that my ex and I have been apart for so long. I keep saying, "dude! It's not your weight, we just don't connect..." Best of luck to you bud, iacobus

11-07-2010, 02:54 PM	#10 (permalink)
iSign Registered User Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 617 Blog Entries: 16	Wirelessly posted I love voluptious women. Curvy or chubby, however they just have an awesome round figure with more to love. Damn they're hot lol chubby men is alright for me as well. I rather be filled by the meat than starve with the bone.

11-22-2010, 08:27 AM	#12 (permalink)
Sexycaitlyn Registered User Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 3	Look at me I don't like gay but it so gross I don't want see it anymore Ewwwwwwww I really want see hottie deaf boys and girl I always watch new deaf people some of my family was lezbian and gay too also my stepsister use any drugs that why I m upset

11-23-2010, 12:53 PM	#14 (permalink)
proud2bhoh Registered User Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 2	Originally Posted by DeafCapricorn View Post I've had some seriously bad "attempts" at relationships... partially my fault. I tend to, whenever there's a guy i like, if all he wants is sex... in the past I normally just gave it to him... I am overweight... but I'm confident in my body even though I wouldn't mind losing some weight to prevent future health problems... So would you ever consider dating a "fat" girl? Why or why not? I'm just one of those people who have so much love to offer and maybe I just haven't found the right person... but why is it, from my eyes, so much harder to find love as a "voluptuous, bootylicious, and scrumptiously plump" person? Well check this out, I've luvin big girlz my whole life. I've been wit 1 skinny minny and as good as she looked, her personality made her UGLY. To me, most BBW's are more leanent and lovin and try harder at a companionship and put their heart into it thatz what getz me. I've been luvin BBWS for soo long that it's my yahoo screen name. luvinbiggirlz@yahoo.com (holla)

11-26-2010, 03:17 PM	#15 (permalink)
wha1978 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 8	I don't think it should matter what size you are. Most people change in size over the years. Some people gain weight and some loose. I have dated men who are larger than me and I've dated men smaller than me. And I perfer a man who is a little bigger.