everyone's gay/lesbian once in their lifetime

SkullChick · 01-13-2008, 07:47 PM

well i heard one person told me that she believe that everybody is gay/lesbian at least once in their lifetime. I wonder if thats true most of people said yes they've thought about it and sometimes experimented or whatever. even my bf he told me he did thought about it and almost expeiment but he realized hes not gay and since then hes straight, and for me i have no idea what i am lmao (half bi counts?

) so what you think??

P.S: well half bi mean like i like looking and think girls r gorgeous and i used to look at naked women never men for long time till 15 is when i realized it was 'wrong" when someone told me it's wrong so i stopped and started liking guys and i like girls for everything except having sex or oral with them only look at and kiss nothing more but for guys i like them all the way to sex so half bi? idk lol never experimented only accidently kissed my friend once thats it

Hwy99 · 01-13-2008, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by SkullChick

well i heard one person told me that she believe that everybody is gay/lesbian at least once in their lifetime. I wonder if thats true most of people said yes they've thought about it and sometimes experimented or whatever. even my bf he told me he did thought about it and almost expeiment but he realized hes not gay and since then hes straight, and for me i have no idea what i am lmao (half bi counts?

) so what you think??

Yupp I have heard some of GLBT books says that everyone's bi, not lifetime, but generally lifetime within who they are, the way they born. Everyone do have some of attract to the same sex, but that does not mean they was "gay" or "lesbian" or "bi" or "transgender", even straight guys or gals can play the gender too! Also there is some of cultural that when the same sex meet each other, they kiss on the sides of head each other, even though they aren't part of GLBT members. There is alot of people who hugs between same sex, those are how people attract or "affect" each other, it's just doesn't mean that they are GLBT, or probably they are. It's my opinion

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P.S: well half bi mean like i like looking and think girls r gorgeous and i used to look at naked women never men for long time till 15 is when i realized it was 'wrong" when someone told me it's wrong so i stopped and started liking guys and i like girls for everything except having sex or oral with them only look at and kiss nothing more but for guys i like them all the way to sex so half bi? idk lol never experimented only accidently kissed my friend once thats it

It sounds like you are bi-curiousity, which a person who are straight, but do have some of attract by same sex.

Mizzou · 01-14-2008, 05:27 PM

yeah, i agrees

Learnersa16 · 01-16-2008, 04:45 PM

Does it really matter in the bigger scheme of things. If you want to experiment, then do, as long as no one gets hurt.

Wokamuka · 01-16-2008, 11:45 PM

I've a friend who would be (I'm not kidding) be straight, lesbian, straight, lesbian, and, now, straight. I've brought the subject up with her, asking her why she never considered the possibility of being bisexual rather than focusing on being one or the other. She told me that she might be bisexual . . . but she doesn't care; she does what she feels. (Clearly, it wasn't a "once" for her!)

Sexuality will always be confused with the limited structure of "nature vs. nurture" debate. It's not often that people think that human sexuality is a living and evolving experience. The question is always, "You gay or straight?" Only until the past decade or so, has "bisexual" been a choice. Not once has anyone looked at me and said, "Human."

For many, sex is seen in two ways: activity vs. expression. You can express, with sex, your love/admiration/affection for another. You can have sex to explore/experiment, have fun, or have a release. Many will use a combination of both while some will freely explore the fullness of life (without social, political, religious, and inhuman restrictions).

Ultimately, it's all about what you feel inside that counts. You're human (and, dammit, God don't make no junk!). Celebrate your life, your humanity, and your soul.

In short, be yourself and don't be embarrassed to be yourself.

DeafCapricorn · 01-17-2008, 11:45 AM

My motto is... "there's no such thing as 100% straight... and if there is... then they're just denying it..."

My basis for that is... everyone questions their sexuality or explores once in their life, at least. So it's beyond me why people bash others for exploring their sexuality...

01-13-2008, 07:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
SkullChick Registered User Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Middle Of Nowhere, Delaware Posts: 940	everyone's gay/lesbian once in their lifetime well i heard one person told me that she believe that everybody is gay/lesbian at least once in their lifetime. I wonder if thats true most of people said yes they've thought about it and sometimes experimented or whatever. even my bf he told me he did thought about it and almost expeiment but he realized hes not gay and since then hes straight, and for me i have no idea what i am lmao (half bi counts? ) so what you think?? P.S: well half bi mean like i like looking and think girls r gorgeous and i used to look at naked women never men for long time till 15 is when i realized it was 'wrong" when someone told me it's wrong so i stopped and started liking guys and i like girls for everything except having sex or oral with them only look at and kiss nothing more but for guys i like them all the way to sex so half bi? idk lol never experimented only accidently kissed my friend once thats it __________________ [Left Ear] Implanted 1/15/08 with Nucleus Freedom! Activated 2/12/08 with Freedom BTE Link for my Cochlear Implant http://skullchick.blogspot.com Link for my Blog unrelated to cochlear Implant http://skullchickworld.blogspot.com

01-16-2008, 11:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
Wokamuka Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 1,881	I've a friend who would be (I'm not kidding) be straight, lesbian, straight, lesbian, and, now, straight. I've brought the subject up with her, asking her why she never considered the possibility of being bisexual rather than focusing on being one or the other. She told me that she might be bisexual . . . but she doesn't care; she does what she feels. (Clearly, it wasn't a "once" for her!) Sexuality will always be confused with the limited structure of "nature vs. nurture" debate. It's not often that people think that human sexuality is a living and evolving experience. The question is always, "You gay or straight?" Only until the past decade or so, has "bisexual" been a choice. Not once has anyone looked at me and said, "Human." For many, sex is seen in two ways: activity vs. expression. You can express, with sex, your love/admiration/affection for another. You can have sex to explore/experiment, have fun, or have a release. Many will use a combination of both while some will freely explore the fullness of life (without social, political, religious, and inhuman restrictions). Ultimately, it's all about what you feel inside that counts. You're human (and, dammit, God don't make no junk!). Celebrate your life, your humanity, and your soul. In short, be yourself and don't be embarrassed to be yourself. __________________

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01-14-2008, 05:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
Mizzou Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,687	yeah, i agrees

01-16-2008, 04:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
Learnersa16 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 3	Does it really matter in the bigger scheme of things. If you want to experiment, then do, as long as no one gets hurt.

01-17-2008, 11:45 AM	#6 (permalink)
DeafCapricorn Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 84	My motto is... "there's no such thing as 100% straight... and if there is... then they're just denying it..." My basis for that is... everyone questions their sexuality or explores once in their life, at least. So it's beyond me why people bash others for exploring their sexuality...